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This is much, much better and quite interesting.

osazsky:
When i see the whole scenario in ukrain i begin to imagine if this is the almighty russia we read on paper.. russia fighter jets bombing its own russia militery camp in ukrain...i saw russian soldiers less than 16 yrs of age been captured...how ukrain kept hold of thier major city repelling russia army then the retake of captured city by ukrain..then the ghost ukrain pilot that was bringing all russia fighter jet down..i knew all was not well..apart from nuclear bomb and phosphorous gas which most coutry has too i dont think russia has a militery..i fell that these men dont have any expeeience when it comes to war..wat they feel is militery are actually civilians..u sent 150k civillians they didn't succedd they where killed and captured..u send another 60k civilians they met the same fate..now u want to send 300k this month..putin pls add ur daughter and wives i take god beg u...America sent only 25k seals to afghan and they turned it to a desert within one year...i feel for Putin. small Ukraine just exposed a whole Russia in this militery exersise according to afonja slaves its not a war

@bolded: small NATO.

Later they will say they fought all the wars. This is where caveofadullam will be seen, warring with his horn to build the universe.

hope4nigeria:
so she and baby should go and die because she make mistake. You are worse than bokoharam

Are they dying? They're living with her lover. You're the one implying he's a book Haram lover by saying that living with him is a death sentence.

Sometimes people need to learn their lessons. Life isn't all about actions with no consequences. That's why when people commit crimes they are sent to jail.

Sweetvie:
learn to read btwn lines.
I was talking about their first encounter okay!
Or you think if it was only a mere meeting n nothing is involved it will lead to this?
One thing d lady should know in the first place is that they will never get married to each other coz she is Muslim and hausa so y getting involved after their first encounter?
And m not condemning neither suggesting anything okay. She have to be point blank in the first place and stop everything with the guy.. chatting or calls. You think if there is nothing romantically going on the guy will send her gifts and others? Which lead to her ignoring him and her death. No special love associated with skin colour u said? Lol nland says different thing

Read the post I quoted. Then the one you're quoting now.

Then re-read what you just typed. Maybe you will be able to tell us the correlation that doesn't exist.

You realized she actually called things off with him, but now you need to blame her for doing so "point blank". There's really nothing you will read that you won't twist into the usual victim blaming. There's no pleasing your brigade.

If you don't blame her for being murdered, you won't have anything to type. Let's join you to pity the murderer because he has a fragile heart like the other billions of loving black and non-black people alive—not!

kolarov93:
U no fit understand my brother

It looks so delicious. What is it called?

Merch:
I can’t even take you serious if you are not a virgin..no virgin, no marriage

Are you a virgin?

Or do you think a virgin wants to marry a non virgin?

bigtt76:
Sad but the absence of something led her into the current situation ...that something is home love. That also led you to disown her instead of standing by her. Same lack of love is making you give conditions to take care of your own blood ....she has only you. The guy can disappear abandoning them and it comes back to you. Show more love dear

Sometimes it isn't love they lack, but it is loads of sex they want unrepentantly.

Depending on her attitude, he will know better what to do with her. He's clearly going to take care of her. It's the added responsibility of another man's child that he doesn't want.

She will learn her lessons.

Survivor2020:
I will not waste any money to get a nanny.
I have other children and I cannot just focus on her.
The money I will be wasting on a nanny should be spend on her siblings

You're a hard parent, but not an evil one. Take your daughter to see a doctor. And if she is in love with the baby daddy, she can enjoy living with him.

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=116893838]Your decision is not only bad but wicked. Where were you when such a ferociously poor guy was shacking your daughter?
I can imagine what your daughter is going through in the hand of a family that lacks the financial wherewithal to take care of basic medicare. I can conveniently refer to you as wicked for releasing your daughter to that kind of family. Are you sure she is feeding well? She made a mistake right, but you made an even greater one by throwing her out to be devoured by that verocious thing you called her boyfriend. Someone who can't afford basic medicare! E wicked Sir. Go and get the girl and her little daughter out of that dungeon before that poor boyfriend impregnate her again. I don't think you understand the psychology of such ferociously poor guys, they live and swim in poverty, do nothing about their live and hope a miracle will happen one day and they'll eventually get out of their miseries. Deliver your daughter and her little girl now![/quote]What he did is okay. She needs to taste the life she wanted, lest she becomes like a user on the forum who wanted to kill her elder sister, who was footing her bills with a hooligan, because of teenage ghetto sex.

If he didn't let her live with him, the person who got her pregnant would have no responsibility except to sneak into his house to have sex with his daughter and pretend to be a man ready to take care of his child. Also, his daughter would never understand the privilege of avoiding teenage pregnancy.

The OP is on the right track. Life isn't all about making mistakes and getting a pat on the back. Tough love is good, too.

ShaqFu:
I'm sure your father, brothers, uncles and male relatives are also full BS. It's a welcome knowledge. Cheers to that.

Nigerian, being the key word.

At least you're not denying your title, Nigerian man. Or your bigotry. All that justification of murder, to what end?

Amarabae:
It got to be Okro soup!
I love it
My kids love it .
My king loves it.

Of which kingdom?

kolarov93:
Any lady wey serve me this with Amala don win my heart more that 1000 times

What is that delicious looking soup?

kingthreat:
Pray not to meet toxic partners.

Simple.

Moneyyman:
An idiot killed an innocent girl but people are looking for reasons that "instigated him"

Nawao!

May evil not reach us. She could have been anyone's sister; how would they react?


May the law take its full course.

Any day there's news on the death of a lady, expect to see pages of hypocritical justification and reasoning with murder. The forum is full of murderers, so it's not surprising. It doesn't occur to them that that could be their relative in the article. All that matters is how to trash talk females.

"I don't support / though it shouldn't be..." Then paragraphs of exactly why she should be murdered.

What they need is a conscience. And to leave the gutters.

ShaqFu:
You just hit the nail on the head. Though nothing justifies the Chinese man taking her life. Still, if the girl had followed her beliefs, she will still be alive today and enjoying herself, instead she allowed hypocrisy, double standard and long throat to lead her to her early grave.

This is indeed something many Nigerian women do. They abandon their religious beliefs when they see a man with money willing to date them.

Let the law run its course. Though I still believe the man should be given the chance to air his view is to why he killed her. Social media gave Chidinma the Unitag student the chance to air her opinion on why she murdered Mr Atega. Till now we don't know the outcome of the case.

Right. Nothing justifies the bold sentence.

Yet, the rest of your post is paragraphs of justification.

Nigerian men are full of BS.

Sweetvie:
The story is not clear
He bang the door and enter to stabbed the girl? When the mother is there also?

If you know you can't marry him tell him from the start point blank and stop any meeting or chat with him... Their own love is not like Nigeria love. Girls should be careful

Your second paragraph is needless.

She stopped meeting him, and that is why he came to stab her to death. So what are you suggesting/condemning? And please, there's no special love associated with skin color.

SmartyPants:
Instead of you to read and see that the family debunked the claims of collecting those things, with tangible proofs, you are here ranting.

He was shadow, so he knows more than her brother and everyone else.

Bahamas95:
Nawa o, Nigerian girls can follow anything that has money......Just imagine the ugly looking Chinko that young girl is dating.

As if there aren't enough ugly looking Nigerian men that are being dated.

Kizzygentle:
Actually... I need to learn this.. Please I am in my mid 30s and is it possible to learn and earn from it decently? Were do I start from as a total beginner? Can I also learn from YouTube and how long will it take me if I am very serious about it?

Age isn't a barrier. In fact, the older you are, the better

ModCaller:
And people are actually falling for this. Basic social engineering.

A sucker is born every minute.

ModCaller:
Why would anyone reveal their allergies online on a faceless forum? Someone can easily build a profile on you with all there careless information

Isn't that the point of these threads?

bepositive11:
Are you a man? If yes, your statement is weak.

Allow them to have some consolation.

Women—that eeeeeeevil gender—are scheming tirelessly to bring men down and tear their homes apart. Men are innocent lambs hanging on their teats for the ride.

Beremx:
The story is about an irresponsible father who has refused to take care of his kids. How does that has to do with the wife’s needs?

Welcome to Nairaland!

Man + bad = woman to blame
Man + deadbeatery = woman to blame
Man + failure = woman to blame
Man + debauchery = woman to blame
Woman + bad = woman to blame
Children + bad = woman to blame
World + problems= woman to blame
i + j = woman to blame

Misogyny is the nectar of stupidity.

Lol. Hitlers ghost save these boys.

phemy36:
@Quatar can you see this again. This gender are evil. I pray I don't meet your kind of person in my entire life. I pity your generation and a man that will marry you. God forbid bad thing

Anyone who questions the authenticity of Nigerian men must be from the "evil gender". If only you could use the same judgement on your saintly gender and see how ridiculously myopic what you're saying is.

You are funny, though. What do you know about my generation and marriage? Why would I meet the likes of you? What for? You're repellent.

Save that pity for your generation and the woman that you will marry. Devil embrace such a thing.

phemy36:
Can you see what am trying to tell you @Quatar. The man will lie to the children while the woman is the only person that can say the truth to their children. I pity those who still trust this gender. They are so unreasonably I swear

Why should anyone believe that because the man left, if the children come to ask him why that he will say the truth to them? Are men the custodians of every relationship truth?

That's a Nigerian lie, that children of deadbeats should look for their fathers.

If you believe the mothers are lying, then better believe the fathers are lying too.

Anything outside of that is delusional.

lawrenzooo:
Op mentioned infidelity we don't even know whether it's the father that cheated or the mom....

Women can be funny it happened to a friend of mine who was 34 in 2016... According to him his dad and mom separated since he was 5 and none of them knew the reason not until my friend went to get his father's blessings for his wedding that we got to know the man wasn't his father....

Lol.

Another possibility to save face in a society where single mothers are reviled.

Rozross:
I so much love men that drags kids with their wife during separation, that action alone is enough to know a responsible man. But who told women to be carrying kids along during divorce? Some women like wahala and burden sha, shishi I no go carry if I still love the man deep down, except for the one that’s still a toddler. I have my strong reasons for saying this .

Most men do it to spite their exes. It's not as if they love their children so much or know how to take care of them.

The more a man wants to take away the children as his sole property during a separation, like Nigerian men always do, the more evil he is. He just wants to take them away to another woman (like his old mother or sisters), as he will never be truly interested in caring for them by himself.

folks4luv:
With all you typed up there, you still don't know humans and life yet. I hope one day, you will learn

Really, the number of children (boys) who post on this forum is terrible. Most of them are U30/40. And as such, their posts are horrifically myopic.

ibechris:
It doesn't change anything at all.

Most single Women are like that.

Go and look for your dad and find out from him why he abandoned u guys first hand and then,take your decision after wards.

I doubt if that was the whole truth.

What if he begins lying about what happened to get back at her mother and paint himself a saint? Why should what he has to say be the truth?

All this "go and look for your father" is the prime excuse and reasoning of deadbeats and their refusal to be responsible for their children.. Because they believe—according to pointless African tradition—that they are so important the child must come back to hear their side of the story, be it entirely falsehood or whatever they eventually decide to tell.

Later on, single women are like this and like that.

As if there's always a saintly man who walked out. She said there was battery and adultery involved in their separation. Hopefully the deadbeat will be able to turn that around and bleat like a little lamb when she finds him.

excellence44:
She has no right to do that but I must advice that you be diplomatic in dealing with her. Play along with her till such a time when you can stand on your own. As for your brother, allow him to go along with the name change because when the time comes, a man Will always be a man.

She has no right, according to you, yet these are her minor children who she has sacrificed the almighty money for. If her father wanted to be in her life and answering his name, he would've done so.

This place and its double standards that don't even have proper grounding.