₦airaland Forum

edunaragold:
Like the guy Bard head ,most girls this days are choosy ,but can only pretend, they alone knows when to defect once u proposed

cayorday89:
With what you just said about him, I guess he is interested in having chaste girls for him to at least have one to get married to rather than have all rotten. But he should do better, both gender should be carried along.

cayorday89:
God bless you for this, I still maintain that instead of picking out some girls and be telling them some things, why not do same to both gender together and tell them the pros and cons of engaging in pre-marital sex.


My question is, is God no longer interested in men, boys or guys anymore? Instead of this, why not address everyone both male and female and tell them this and why they must not engage in premarital sex, the pros and cons, what they stand to lose in doing such and what they stand to gain when they don't. But you single out the girls like that automatically stops their cravings for the opposite sex.

adeakin:
Even women wont go for a virgin like the op. Not fine and broke too. Women should keep deceiving themselves.see akanni below

Bobmarie:
Your whole life obviously revolves around sex. You’re thinking of sexing children that have not been born when you reach 50, that’s your final life goal.

‘Only the strongest survive’ What a strong, powerful statement to waste of on the topic of sex. You do realize some people don’t even like sex? Majority of you men cannot even please a woman, sex is not a big deal to women. Most women can’t wait to stop having sex with your lame asses. Women mostly endure men, that’s why most of you have to pay for the nonsense you’re doing.


What a waste of a man talking about sex like it’s MONEY. Do you know women are endless and also dangerous? I know say sometimes e dey do you like say you SUPPOSE shag all of us. Your third leg wants to taste us all. But we plenty like mad, you CANT SEX US all. The way you are going you will kill yourself before long.

What a clueless, directionless man.

moscobabs:
Indeed Buhari hates Igbo

dominique:
The photos don't look coordinated at all. Some look like they were taken by professional photographer, others look like they were taken with phone's camera. The organizers should have least given them a theme for their photoshoots so they'd at least look like contestants of the same pageant

Is that blue teeth I'm seeing on Petra Oluoma? Why Oluchi Venesa come carry face like stone, is that the best photo she coule produce? Majority of the photos are epic fail

NoToPile:
You still remembers strungups story? It was Dec last year I think. That dude was a terrible person and the romance section Boys kept insulting the woman, pages upon pages of insult the woman couldn't bear it anymore and spoke up.

The man now came to tell the truth I am certain after some pressure from home,} the redpillers and the romance section Boys couldn't even swallow their pride and admit they were wrong. One particular so-called anti women red pillar that was jumping up and down couldn't admit the truth even when the owner of the story has said its not so.

How a man will allow boys to insult his wife online when he knows he's telling a wrong story baffles me, maybe it helped his ego feel intact to see unknown people bashing a woman that is even standing by you. I still cringe remembering that thread.

Anything to bash a woman ni sha. Even when a woman is the one feeding the man the woman will still be at fault. I really hope their marriage remained same because that woman would have been very hurt.

In Nigeria and Nairaland the odds are always against a woman.

djon78:
Actually it is you that allow yourself to be bothered by many opinions that flow on social media.

Watch what people do, not what they say.
Many people that come online to claim many things might never had done those things

I jugde things more by the happenings in real life, not claims on social media

Like some men will come online and claim Alpha males, while in real life e get one small girl wey hold there mumu button

The way of a man and a woman are very mysterious, even the Bible claimed so; the way of a young man with a maiden

It's very mysterious

TMKsouth:
LMAO! I'm stealing this one. Stacking in my ammunition.

FlipModeSquade:
What's this one rambling about?

Hassanmaye:
I can't believe a woman this thing honestly, I can't, why can't she buy a baby, people now sell babies everywhere, she can adopt one they are everywhere

Hassanmaye:
How Does this relates to redpill explain

Nyanabo:
Forgive me, I actually made a mistake of responding to you the first time. What point to do actually want to score ?

Ok you are right and I'm wrong simple are you happy ?

toren:
@bolded, you're absolutely on point. Even the attractive ones choose less attractive women to marry cos they're insecure and can't manage all the attention a beautiful wife could possibly get.

Then the unattractive ones can sell their soul to get a beautiful woman to marry cos that's their greatest achievement, to be able to wife a hot woman inspite of their unattractiveness will def feel like heaven!

Farfalla:
Clearly. Massive obsession I tell you.

TMKsouth:
Yeah, 96% recovery rate

Vaccination rate stands at 24% despite dumping AstraZeneca and having long delays waiting for J&J and Pfizer. Now there's an oversupply of vaccines in SA - we asked pharmaceuticals to halt exporting for a while.

Noticed Nigeria only sitting on 1,7% vaccination rate. If this new SA variant indeed is the most transmissible and worst yet much of Africa will be in big trouble with these dismal vaccination rates.

Klass99:
Mwah

I saw the thread/topic earlier and thought to myself another ignoramus on the lose again, with a nonsense and stupidity thread, just waka pass. And I did until Farfalla shared your post with me, which is the only one I have read so far, liked and quoted.

Susily:
Seems you didn't read the story. It's a woman killing her fellow woman and conducting a traumatic caeserian operation on her to remove the fetus from the dead mother's uterus

I don't know what misogyny and redpill cult has to do with a woman committing such a heinous act against her fellow woman

abdullahi45:
The reality is that SARS-CoV-2 is a highly mutating RNA virus. It only becomes a problem if a mutation confers better fitness to the virus, such as high transmissibilty, severity of infection or mortality.

Such mutations can also be further stimulated by antiviral utility, climatic conditions, and aggressive number of cases.

djon78:
Not just that
You will see a man married to a very beautiful woman but still cheating with a very ugly woman
Infact I have seen cases where the ugly woman completely snatches the man from his wife

The fact is that it's not just beauty that ties a man down because beauty is vain, meaning it doesn't last

And from experience, (many men can attest to this) not so beautiful women tastes better sexually on the long run, so a man will prefer choosing to marry a woman that he knows years down the line, he will still not get tired of having good sex with his wife. In order to avoid cheating in marriage

While those beautiful ones maximum one month the man don tire

I have seen countless cases where ugly house maid snatch the husband of a beautiful woman and people will be asking how manage it happened

djon78:
Marriage is a very good thing, an average human being shows interest in it

It's not about Nigeria's or nairalanders

All those rich Hollywood celebrities that Married many times, you think they were not obsessed with it

Average human being likes marriage, even those that have failed before in it

edunaragold:
u are somehow right dear but,what about a case were by the man jaa been so patience for 4yrs with the relationship and the lady was on a bench warmer ,immediately the guy was ready ,I mean what dose it take for that lady to say yes I will marry u ,after the guy have spent 4 good yrs chasing this lady with all humblness but the lady still decline.

uptownemmygee:
That means my grandmother get hope be that

Nyanabo:
That saying goes beyond how you comprehend it. Moreover I don't think it's futile, I have seen it work in various homes.

Aethiops:
it is not assumption but natural, a beautiful woman is like a man planting an apple tree in the village square, everyone wants a bite of the fruit, but not the tree ence gets lots of admirers, Thieves, so the owner has to do diligently to protect his property same applies to a beautiful woman

Nyanabo:
Most women have set their standards so high majority of the men in Nigeria can't reach it.

It why when menopause starts knocking, they run to church, and accept any tom, dick and Harry that comes their way.

Thereby leading most of them to be unhappy in their homes, either unsatisfactory sexual life in the other room, anger issues from the man or the lady herself (because originally the man is not up to standard).

There is a saying you can model the man/woman of you dream with patience.

szczescie:
I am a man but I agree with your comment 110%

O.p must not have what it takes to step up to such women so he is trying to find fault with then and rubbish them.

That's the way I see it. They can't have such women so they condemn them to console themselves.

I mean the way we can see fine girls and know this girl fine is the same way girls can see us and know this boy is fine, I want my children to look like that or be as tall as that, it is allowed.

Thank you for this admission. People act as if it is wrong for any woman to have a preference. We all have preferences. Men have preferences, women have them too. We can't invalidate them.

I am a man and I am fine small and I hol' small money with good degree and also a hard-working fellow, but even as a man I have standard in women, I will want to follow or go after. I don't just approach any and every female.

Why are you so sincere? We have standards! Everyone! But the problem is that most of these men who come online with odd opinions don't seem to understand that concept except when it is their standards, and feel entitled to be accepted.

It's not because I'm too proud or full of myself or a bad person or I hate the girls I don't want to go after, it's simply personal any girl I'm following to me has to be a little over average in looks (I need to be attracted to her segzshually, I've actually seen many women my John Thomas cannot stand for even if they are un-clad) and in character too and most importantly must be someone that does not nag or complain at every little thing. I'm not too interested in tall or short or tribe or level of religiousity. So just looks, character and finance (I don't need a rich woman just someone who is not wasteful with money) that's all.



I have had girls who where my spec but I ran away from because I know that even though I have cash if I follow this girl this money will not take us anywhere and nothing will impress her, also she complains alot so I ran away from her.

So if I can do that I believe girls too should be able to choose or be as picky as they like but like guys they should not complain when no guy meets their standard.

Exactly this.

If nobody meets your standard maybe it's time to move elsewhere or adjust the scale.

Sometimes, geography has a lot to do with it. Certain traits we want cannot be found in certain races or areas, and that is fine. Sometimes we can adjust and sometimes we have to take the step out. I don't see why people like the OP feel that it is a must that what you see must be what you should get.

Also I have been dumped or rejected by about 2 or 3 girls because, I was too young or not boyfriend material or similar reasons that to me are funny but I respect those girls and their decision. 2 of them are still single till now but I will NEVER hold it against them because it is their lives and their decision to make not mine and true true even though I had small cash and could take care of them at the time I was young and they never believed me when I said I don't have a girlfriend they also never believed that a good looking young guy with money will be faithful and will be wilłimg to settle down anytime soon so ALL 3 of them rejected me for this reasons.

The way men mock women for not marrying them because they are still single is so childish you begin to wonder if that character isn't why they were dumped. It's almost as if once a woman doesn't agree to a relationship with them, then she must be doomed to be single. Some of these women don't even know that the man for them could be chilling anywhere else on the planet wondering when she will turn up. Too much entitlement. And too much bitterness.

They too have money they are doing well for themselves so money is not an issue and they are looking good too, I still have 2 out of 3 of them on Whatsapp we still talk once in a while. No hard feelings that's how it should be in my opinion.

Thanks for your contribution—giving a balanced view. Why aren't more posters like you?

VULCAN:
One woman killed another and stole her baby.

But someone says it is men's fault.

Insanity is creeping closer to some people.

It's just a matter of time and someone will be roaming.

By then they will no longer be on Nairaland.