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Hathor5:
We don't have the husband's side so I was relating to her side of the story talking about how women forget themselves too many times.
I wasn't implying that husbands don't and it doesn't mean that I condemn the husband in the story.

As usual, the only sacrifices a man will point out are monetary ones and act as if that is his blood being shed for his family. And men are still surprised that their wives are remembered more than they are in their old age.

When will men realize that money isn't everything and that selling his watch to send his daughter to school is his responsibility and not a blood sharing sacrifice?

Without the money, what does the man bring to his family?

jidxin:
chai... Is it hard for you to comprehend... He's talking about rich parent here... English hard ooo

Kindly join him in deifying normal actions of people because they are perceived to be rich. What is new about supporting ones child? Is it because he's a billionaire or what?

This is how someone was saying they would want to be Otdeloas son, rather than be poor, or something to that effect. Really.

Niece:
I have never seen a rich black man who supports his children the way this man does.

Even poor parents do, so what are you saying?

Go to a hospital.

What advice do you think people online will give you? Some of them are catching snakes on the forest floor— do you want that kind of person giving you medical advice on a faceless forum?

Is this a competition with India?

Even people that don't know where the airport is will give you advice.

eki2000:
like are you OK? Like recently been think properly?

Of course I'm okay.

Are you okay? Like recently been thinking properly?? ? ?

Bahamas95:
I always warn my girlfriend to be very careful how she relates with these pastors. I am not the religious type.


Women are more gullible than men, that's why they always fall victims to these thieves on suit......Go to these miracle centers na women full there pass. They respect their pastors more than their husbands.

Women aren't more gullible. Pastoring is simply more of a male occupation, and men are always looking for illicit sex and how to control. Same thing in universities, offices and any other place there are more men than women. These ones use the Bible and constant preaching against women to achieve that.

If more pastors were women, we would see just how gullible men would become. There would be more messages against men and preaching on submission to their wives and their female pastors. The Bible would have a new meaning.

pocohantas:
Naija guys do not believe they have issues. They think women are always desperate for marriage, such that they can’t understand why a woman would leave them. The only way to console themselves is to say “make money”. This works because majority are broke. When they have money and you leave, it turns to “you can’t satisfy women”.

He could have severe mouth odour, body odour, poor stroke game, low drive, poor sense of responsibility…etc. but rather than fix those issues, they blame something else.

LMAO @last paragraph. They are all looking for wife material while they are carpenters with nails and hammers ready to cut 'n' sew. And they never think the problem is themselves. It just can't be. The infallibility of " it's-a-man's-world " at work.

It could also be that they aren't virgins and can't pair bond with any woman again. Or maybe they turned down other women because they were broke then, but these women are made now and are using them for last knacks and are moving on to teach them a lesson. Or maybe some Yahoo boys have used them. Or they have become stands. One can't tell.

Wish OP best of luck.

Missyajoke:
People rejecting you may sometimes be God communicating to you to wait and be patient. Mike Bamiloye Then said he asked a lots of ladies out they all rejected him with one excuse or another or it may simply means you have a spiritual problem or there's a mark on you. You see sometimes we should thank God for the ones we miss and wait for the one we will meet. Some people are called destiny stoppers, if you marry them your life will be stagnant and you will never move forward and as a result you will be stagnant for life if you marry them. Some People are Glory emptiers once they marry you like this everything that has been sweet will turn sour, we've seen rich men becoming poor by marrying such and a whole lot more. Sometimes God may be using that to communicate a wait for you.


My humble and honest opinion though, call me a religious freak I don't care

What if the man is the one who is all the things you listed? Who says it has to be a woman?

There are a lot of cursed and possessed men, but it is easier to point at women. Who knows what his past life was like?

It's not only women who cry at Shiloh. Nigerians are superstitious.

Had it been it was a post about a guy whose 3 friends said that the girl he was going out with had been used and will destroy his life, everyone would've told him to dump her. Now, look at his narration and how people see the girls as the problem and not him. Now it's about girls who listen to pastors. SMH.

Maybe Yahoo boys also use men. Who knows?

What preaching do you have for the darkness of redpillers? Or is that the light? It is not a rebellion?

Everyday there's preaching about women, meanwhile it seems men don't need preaching. What they need is love and care in the bar and in the arms of strange women. There are more women than men in churches, does that not tell you something?

The world is tired/bored with the constant attacks on women. You see, nobody believes it anymore. How can you only wage Christianity on women? It casts doubt on your whole gospel.

Preaching to the choir still.

Why is the man exposing his chest in transparent clothing? Can we begin a sermon on how the morals in our society have fallen apart? This is all but showing his nipples. The elders need to do something about this.

All the ladies are decently dressed, why are men always exposing their bodies?

lereinter:
Is that not scabies?

When I was young boil nearly finish my kneel and elbow

Na God help me Ty

What is kneel? Is it a type of wart?

Armchair pharmacists and doctors giving prescriptions for something they have not seen and have not tested.

Why don't people just go to see specialists rather than these posts in which even rat catchers in the forest will begin giving absurd diagnoses and prescriptions on?

rottennaija:
I take and break. 1000mg/day. Long covid is really annoying. Watch the video below from Dr. Berg, it's been helpful to me.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_adWYnBnSo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_adWYnBnSo

Thanks for these.

officialmario:
That is what I don't know, or maybe for her transport fare.

It could be her bride price.

Or a figure that he knows is significant between the two of them.

Even thought it was £10k. He knows he spent almost that amount getting from the airport to the nearest hotel. Strange world.

rottennaija:
Anosmia is lack of Zn. You need Zn. I still take Zn 50mg daily with vit c 1000

Currently take 300- 500mg vitamin C daily. Even took Zn for a week recently, but dropped it since it seemed to make things worse.

@1000mg how is it affecting your kidneys?

Long COVID is annoying.

flyinnizam:
My brother trap caught the bigger one while the smaller one was waiting for it to break free, my brother met both of them and killed them both.

In what state? Where do you people find these beautiful creatures? Even their hooves look beautiful.

DamnnNiggarr:
Picture they say saves a thousand words!

Today, after our postgraduate lectures in UNIZIK, I and my friend decided to trek from the institution's school of post graduate studies to Bakasi square for a lunch, on getting there, we ordered what to be served to us and to my greatest surprise, the man brought the food with no meat, I called his attention but he insisted that there's meat in the food. So this made me to look closely and I observed a tiny meat in the food I was shocked and short of words at the same time.

Now, this gave rise to several questions running through my mind, is this how bad the country has become?

Something urgent needs to be done before things get out of hand completely.

Are those your fingers?

Lexusgs430:
Haba....... No chidinma's available........

Does ataga ring a bell?

Lexusgs430:
Who would be conducting this rub ..........

Your wife

rottennaija:
this video might be of interest to you


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEJDjfj7oi8&t=775s
Is (Micro)clotting Causing Long Covid? | The Role of HELP Apheresis as Treatment

A long video, but I will give it a watch.

Thanks for this.

PS: Any other resources on dealing with extended COVID symptoms like anosmia and changes in odor and taste perception?

Lexusgs430:
Did you marry a slave.........

When it suits you, the Bible passage to oppress is used.......

Hope you read the other part of the same bible, citing companionship and helper, to each other.....


So blacks that gets divorced/claiming rights in Nigeria, are what ?...

Happy Wife....... Happy Life....... Treat her well, she would not be a Devil...... Be a douche bag, she returns the favour.........

You deserve a belly rub.

ednut1:
For every bad news there are more than 1000 married people enjoying their marriages abroad. Both men and women do all sort of rubbish abroad.
1. No house maid abroad, yet you allow your wife to work and do all chores alone. Some even demand for fresh food. Wont she divorce you after

2. Some men have been beating the wife from Nigeria, the day you slap her here she called police. Is it not justified

3. You cheat without shame, she con do you strong thing. Is she not justified

4. Some bring women abroad and tell her to use your account as salary account. Then you give her a fraction of her own salary o.

The law favours women too because for centuries men have had the advantage. The system corrupts them too, they hear things, see things at work places and lawyers working on commission bases plenty. A woman is entitled to your house after divorce especially if kids are involved, na you go leave. Child support and alimony too dey. Who no like free benefits

Abeg i don tire for man and woman matter hahaha

For once, someone is being truthful on this topic.

Saintmary:
If you see anyone supporting the original poster, they are trying to say they would have done the same thing if they were in the same position.

It's sad to admit, but we have a lot of unapprehended rapists in our society, and since women are being shamed into silence, they are recruiting more rapists everyday to the extent that we are having a society that condones violence against her own daughters.

It's depressing unless we females rise up to say enough is enough. No one will fight our battles for us.

Some of the people who trivialize, excuse and are in support of rape will one day have to fight against their own proclivities when it is their daughters on the line.

That being said, generational misogyny and entitlement are the root cause of rape and violence against women. When that is dealt with there will be a reduction in these kinds of things.

oluwafeolami:
Trying to force her for sex was totally wrong, but we all are ignoring the fact that the lady in question might have started cheating on d guy with another guy that satisfies her which may in turn lead to her now found behavior. Because she’s working she should padlock her kpekus abi? Then she should not disturb d guy for anything not even the accommodation too.

Two lovers are staying together and they are not married yet, three weeks without sex and it’s not as if she’s on her period or she’s sick, guys make we talk true, if na we also we go vex just that my guy shouldn’t have been forceful. He could have waited till day break and tell her is mind. She even agreed to leave after 2 weeks which meant she has already made up her mind to leave d guy so her plot is working fine. Bro u just lost ur lover, move on and don’t be a simp. You will be fine, although forcing her was totally wrong. Good morning

If she was cheating on him, that is more important than him violently raping her? Cheating on him is comparable to him raping her?

Read what you typed again. Read it aloud.

Saintmary:
All she has to do is to go to the right places.

She should not go to the police first.

NGOs, activist lawyers can help her, rape is actually a serious offence and I love the way it's handled in Lagos State.

The first right place would always seem to be the police station, and with the types of men in Nigeria that is not going to do her any good.

Seems Lagos is the only state with sense, then. We don't know if the violent rapist lives in Lagos.

cococandy:
Very disgusting thread.

The fact that he felt okay to come discuss this here says more than enough.

He was expecting sympathy, which he is getting from other rapists. Hear people saying that he sounds remorseful. Will "remorse" unrape the lady? Or will marriage do that? Surely if it were their daughter they would be so quick to forgive and forget while she lives in trauma?

These are the demented reasonings from men in Nigeria that promote rape.

The idiot that confessed to rape has deactivated.

peterdrock001:
Baba, there's no where having sex with a GIRLFRIEND is a legal right. You aren't supposed to be here complaining over that. It's possible that she was consenting to it before because she doesn't have options. You should be happy for her that she now has a job, it means you can start making solid plans for the future. Life is not all about sex. Cool down apologize to her and start planning for a future with her if you think she's the person you can be with for the rest of your life

Do you think an apology will make violent rape okay? It will suddenly erase rape? It appears you people don't understand what rape is.

If she murders him tomorrow you people will say all women are wicked.

Saintmary:
It is not an attempted rape, it's rape.
He should be arrested. Too bad the girl is in love with an animal.

Do you think anyone would believe her if she reported it?

They will ask her if he's been spending money on her. According to men, that is enough entitlement criteria to rape any female.

Few years from now she will meet one of the morons who parade this forum, and he will say that she went back to her ex who she agreed to have sex with, then felt guilty then said he raped her.