₦airaland Forum

samuel051:
nobody holy pass, forget tosr preaching here na dem worst pass, yahoo boys full their family but they never report any of them to efcc,they go come online dey form e-preaching..

Some of the people preaching, they haven't been forced into such situations and they probably have never had such opportunities.

Do evil, grace will find you. Do good, grace may not find you. Do whatever gives you happiness.

uptownemmygee:
So you mean say that lady up there nah 27 years old

You aren't the only one surprised.

Szilard:
You sef follow laff

What do you want me to do? It's funny. [left][/left]

People have lizard brains. But it doesn't detract from the message.

Szilard:
You didn't even read the post.

What's even funnier is that some people are also liking the(your) post too

Lmao

LMAO

samuel051:
who truth help for this life,if buhari dey truthful e for no smell asorock, even dat illegal immigrant for Spain wey see money and truthfully go return am to Spanish police,wetin be he fate,mavrodi of mmm cash out massively with lies, even Facebook wey u post for marketplace go tell u say make u share ur post to other groups only to kill ur account, even client go whine u with lies to avoid sending u money.. oga dey for truth o,na dat one u go use feed ur children for this yeye country wey 1kg of gas go soon turn 1k.. maybe na family house u dey stay so u no dey pay rent or feed anybody or pay school fees.. Nigeria never do u strong thing,abi na police own we won talk or na bank??

If you tell them they will deny it: God loves and graces evil doers more than the ones who do good.

Live life without inhibitions. Holiness is myth. Religious pontificating.

Datboredberry:
Lol... These evil doers were blessed with grace to change... But honestly, Jesus wasn't a hypocrite... Unlike his followers now who are so judgemental...

But I don't believe God would bless you to scam others... He would not strike you dead or give up on you... He might even befriend you... But with the intention that you change... That you learn to love...

Like the parable of the lost sheep... God searches for you to brink you back to the flock...

God graces evil doers.

It's just the way of the world. Why not change them with fire and brimstone? Yet punish the so called Christians brutally?

This is why evil doers are blessed. Because that is the way it really is.

PeaceJoyLove:
If she later cheats, the same you will come here and start cursing her. Why arent you stable? Leave girls alone. It is not by force to get married. Upon all the marriages and explosive population in Nigeria, what have we got to show for it? Why is it marriage and sex everytime? Leave her alone. If she doesnt like you, she doesnt. Na she talk say you bala? I know many girls who are drawn to intelligence more than the look. Same goes to men too. And some dont even want to date blacks but whites. Leave such alone. What's your problem? And if any chooses to remain single, is it your choice? Guy, mind you business. "Busy body"...

Lol.

This is the thing.

Once a lady turns them down, it is thread after thread on women this and women that.

It doesn't even cross their minds that the ladies don't have a destiny with a Nigerian man. Or that they lack good characters them selves.

CUMIN:
Nairaland is obsessed with marriage/relationship matters.

The men are obsessed.

They always, always, have to remind us that they are married and their ex isn't. As if they committed a crime by not marrying them.

Men are obsessed with marriage as a status.

JavaScript90:
Op are you sure? Contrary to the op opinion. I think those beautiful girls are just looking for who is man enough. So many of them usually don't have much suitors as you think since most guys are intimidated by their beauty and assumes they are already taken.
Another aspect is money. Most beautiful girls believe their beauty should get them a quality man that can provide very well for them.

Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

hothire:
Thank you for this summation. This land is full of little children with 0 life experience. To them the world is just Black and White, and nothing else. Tueh!!

The way most of them opine is so myopic. It seems the world only revolves around what they think is going on.

Most of their comments come from a place of bitterness. Maybe a beautiful woman turned him down, and because she did, she suddenly has issues. Nevermind if he has big red flags all over him.

bluefilm:
Where is the misogyny therein if the crime is a woman on woman crime?

I guess, you didn't even bother to read before rushing to run your mouth off... or maybe, you don't even know the meaning of misogyny?

Either way, you are just ridiculous.

Lol

Itzlinda:
So I'm supposed to compete to get your love so I can pay your bills?

Keep up the bad characters and wonder why beautiful women prefer to stay single. Who cares if you pay her bills? Does that exclude you from being a good person?

The way some of you reason.

Datboredberry:
They didn't get support to further commit more crimes!

They changed! Okay?

I don't believe in this God ish... But I've read the bible...

If you have, you will notice that only the scoundrels, thieves and prostitutes have "grace". Even Jesus dined with the tax collectors. There's a clear preference for evil doers.

All the saints were unimportant.

solsticey2k3:
Some beautiful women don't have good character/attitude.

Men nowadays want peace of mind when it comes to choosing life partners.

It seems men don't need good characters, only women do. Likewise only men need peace of mind, but they are the bringers of disaster to relationships.

No wonder beautiful women keep turning down men with bad characters, and later they turn around and say it is the woman who doesn't have a good character.

A lot of men are their own problem and have never worked on themselves, yet are looking for a woman who is perfect to hide their imperfections and terrible character behind.

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

Clearly men are more obsessed with marriage than women are.

In a nutshell, you believe men can be picky but women dare not. You're not a beautiful woman so all you can do is assume the fault lies with such a woman. It's easy to blame her for why you couldn't get her. You couldn't possibly be the problem.

Same men who say beautiful women cannot be wives, due to some silly assumptions, so they marry the ugly ones who they feel they can control.

Most men are scared of beautiful women and know there is competition. Everything comes with a price, but many don't and cannot pay it. It has nothing to do with beautiful women, because if trash men keep approaching her, she has a right to turn them down the same way a man would refuse to marry someone he thinks is a bad woman.

Beautiful women don't have to agree to marry you just because you're a man and she should be desperate to.

TMKsouth:
SA is good at tracking covid mutations (sequencing) and is transparent with the results. Unfortunately, the world is punishing the country for it and it's crippling the economy.

I seriously don't know why the country has been the most affected in Africa, but 19 million tests have been conducted so that could be the reason.

Total number of cases is now 2.95 million and they are on the rise again, having recorded 2400+ on Thursday - believed to be evidence the country is headed towards the 4th wave. The highest daily record was in July at over 24,000 cases.

Total deaths close to 90,000.

You're right about the testing. Higher tests will prove a higher incidence, compared to a country like Nigeria that doesn't really do much testing and vaccinating.

I don't know why the UK is always on about the South African variant. It seems unwarranted, because there are other variants and so many countries crippled by it. Perhaps there's something political about it.

It's interesting to note from the statistics you've shown, that covid isn't that deadly. Thankfully. With the HIV/AIDS prevalence, one would've expected more casualties. But this has been more good news out of Africa. Dark continent winning this one.

Datboredberry:
Go uses these bad people for good... As positive role models and figures that would inspire others that there's hope for them to change...

He doesn't support fraudsters and ritualists!

But Jacob, a chronic fraudster got the full support of God while his honest brother didn't.

The ritualist Paul seems to have gotten a lot of support. Yet ananaias and his wife didn't.

Loreettaa:
Did you read this post?

Definitely not. I was bored.

Crop the ears, if you don't, fleas will disturb that puppy if not now, later when it grows, fleas always love Caucasian's ears the most, and besides, they loook way better with their ears croped, so plz crop the ears of that puppy, it's not too late.

It has nothing to do with fleas. I don't even know why people remove the ears. Mine had ears and never had flies, moths or fleas.

What is wrong with people having all kinds of bad breeds and thinking theirs truly loves them?

Is blessing CEO one of them? And Tasha?

Chickens with elephantiasis. Dragons indeed.

Nobody will eat it if they see it before it gets to the freezer.

Deborah98:
Grace doesn't work for a crooked and pervert person. God cannot be mocked for whatever a man sows that he shall reap. He who sows the wind reaps the whirlwind. Be careful what you sow, gestation period is for a moment the Earth will certainly vomit what was put in it.

Check through your Bible and tell us which crooked and perverse person he didn't use mightily. Criminal/scammer Jacob? Forsaken Jephthah? Wife snatcher- husband murderer David? Hot tempered sons of thunder/Zeruiah? Serial killer Paul? Blood drawer Peter? Vagabond Jehu?

It would appear God is attracted to these terrible people, and committed to helping them graciously. Meanwhile what happened to Job, Abraham, etc? You know it.

Nobody likes a saint.

Why are they the only ones with a constantly mutating variant?

Is there something about the people there that we don't know? It would be interesting to see their covid infection rates to see how true this news is.

All this begins with misogyny.

Say no to the red pill and other misogynistic cults. This is always the end result.

TolaniLuv:
You’re mumu! They are not married. Court doesn’t have case for Girlfriends

The thing will happen to you, mumu. Yes, that thing you were praying for. Keep digging yourself into that pit.

Read the article to know how they are married.

You are stupid, emotional and need to learn to reason without sentiment.

Susily:
The reverse is actually the case as most women will die early due to depression and frustration of not having any meaningful relationships. The law controls everyone(if a woman kills a man, she'd face the full wrath of the law and vice versa) both men and female but this time, the men won't put themselves in the position to be a victim of the law cos now they know relationships is a big liability to them by law that they have nothing to gain from and everything to lose

As most men are turning gay, so are women becoming lesbians so no biggy

It's really an interesting time

Actually the reverse is the case. Men live for women, that's why they are always talking about them, looking for money to impress women with, proposing to women and getting married every weekend. Without women, men are emasculated and worthless and very depressed. In fact, they will kill themselves with unbottled frustration and testosterone rages without women to oppress. Men are crying about dying young because they married just one woman. Give them 7 and they will be seven times earlier in their graves . Can't wait for their extinction, can you, with the desire for 7 women each. Holy testicles! Eventually they will become scarce, and the law will not spare them when it forces then to take care of 7 different women and their children. Very fast death. Women still coming out tops . Even if they don't marry them, that wonderful contraption called the law is going to enforce responsibility on them.

Oh, if women turn lesbian it is men that will continue raping little boys and corrupting the Earth for themselves. So sad. Diildos work, but what will sate men? Lesbians will be productive in having children, but the gays that most men will become? What will they have to offer? Well, at least they will have sex without fear of children and women emotions. Right? Want to bet the bottoms will start to get women privileges, too?

After all, men have been destroying the world for millennia while trying to get at women. Yet the noose of the law gets tighter on men's necks. Men always the losers in the irresponsibility game. You can't kick against that biblical nature you love.

Truly, interesting times are coming up.

Susily:
Nah, you absolutely got it wrong, surrogacy is purely business and any woman that wants to be a surrogate will have to state her price and sign on the dotted line...... it's business and no law will hold any man responsible to pay support to surrogates

We live in interesting times, I think biblical times when men will utterly lose interest in serious relationship cos it doesn't benefit them. Then the scripture will be fulfilled, "that 7 women will hold on to one one telling him they can feed themselves and cloth themselves, all they want is to be married to him"

I love the way the world is going, it's going to be an interesting ride

You think it's business now, just like men assumed girlfriends and baby mama would be no strings attached "business". Clearly it isn't.

Whether or not 7 women are after one man(men's usual solace in the Bible), men will still be brought to responsibility by the law. By that time the slut-shamers will be tired and so many different men will gladly be hosting children that could and couldn't be theirs, since marriage won't give that security anymore. In fact, most men would die early since one woman is already capable of killing them in their youth. It will be harrowing times for men. Most will turn gay. And the law will still be there to control men. Isn't the law wonderful?

It sure will be interesting times.

Silentgroper:
Can u ever nt hate on men 4 just one sec ffs!

Why does the truth upset you?

mmsen:
I've never called Nigerian women especially bad. They're no different from foreign women, once they know the system is in their favor they abuse it.

And what shall we say of Nigerian men who the Nigerian system favors, yet they whine so much about Western systems?

tofolo:
Shaving bumps, he cant even do surgery to stop hair from growing

That's because he's a transvestite only.

If he were to be a transwoman, he would have no problems with shaving bumps and muscles.

This is what women go through and they are told their husbands must cheat. In fact, men are encouraged to cheat. A wise woman will build her home by forgiving him repeatedly and treating his STDs while dutifully frying beans for him.

What exactly is the problem now? Aren't you a wise man?