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Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 4:30pm On Nov 19, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Na previous heartbreaks. cry
Even though I've found a man now, I've not completely been healed. That's why it seems as if my head touches sometimes.

Don't we all love these embittering heartbreak things? Hypothetically. The touching has been saving men from burns on the forum, they should be grateful, you're kind. Kind of wicked still. grin



shocked lipsrsealed grin This is sooo vivid. Super what? **coughs chokingly and crazily**

Lol. Naughty person you are. Yes, the gag reflex inducing type. But a regular deep scrub is not bad at all. To read more vivid smut, should I start selling?



Ahhh. Na Sony Ericsson battery oh. Those sliding types or the ones you flip open and close. grin

wink



You wanna be my protégé? Hmmm... I'll think about it. What's your type first? And are you really really very teachable and submissive? Because the kind of alpha men I deal with are the types that dominate completely. You will take permission before you take water or wee wee. You will take permission before you stand up. Even if your body is 'scratching you', you will take permission before you can touch any part of your body to scratch it. Deal or no deal? angry
This last paragraph! Na wah oh! Is it a BDSM Alpha relationship, you know, one of those kinky smouldering romance type relationships? I need someone who doesn't cum until I tell him to, and who likes to be whipped to get to that point. cry I need a sub. And a sub needs me to dom. If he's good, he can get to cum.

But I'm ready to learn. Spill the tips.
Christianity Etc › Re: Could My Prayers Be Working Against Me? by BRATISLAVA: 4:38pm On Nov 18, 2021
Lindner:
Whenever I deliberately pray intensely (very occassionally) about anything, the reverse is the outcome as against my usual 30 seconds prayer. I've noticed this trend. I've benefitted from near-miraculous opportunities by just my 30 seconds prayers.

Is it possible that my long prayers are working against me?

It's been over a decade since I left my parents to live as an adult and I'm the least religious person I know.

I've not stepped into a church in three years, don't pay my tithes or any of those things they do in the church.

Other than 30 sesonds to 1 minute early morning prayers that I observe, half asleep, half awake, that's it with my relationship with God.

But I've enjoyed so much grace, promotions, unimaginable financial blessings. My career took off like a jet. What took people over 20 years to achieve in my industry, I did in less than 3 years. I may not even take common paracetamol in years. I ascribe it all to God.

I was raised in a godly family. We prayed together as a family morning and evening everyday, WITHOUT FAIL.... plus regular fasting and prayer on Saturdays.

Again, just now, I left a meeting that I had been preparing for for several weeks. Because it was important to me, I prayed really well (many times). Something was telling me as I was praying that "You're going to regret this". The meeting was a major disaster!!! Everything looked okay until 10 minutes before the meeting. It was as if something was messing with everything. Everything that could go wrong, went wrong. They ended the meeting mid way
and never returned. I'm sure I won't receive any email from them.

I've been through similar meetings with even less preparations and just my 30 seconds of prayer and I usually dance out of such meetings.

Not just about this particular incidence but a striking trend I've noticed. I can begin to count. Today, I just promised myself never to exceed 30 seconds of prayer EVER again.

Am I the only one experiencing this?

This is the time I wish I had someone who is more discerning or could interprete this.
So stop praying.

Long prayers achieve nothing. And short ones don't either.

Sometimes we shackle ourselves with these superficial things.

Just read a psalm instead. If you need to be religious.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 9:00pm On Nov 17, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Lmaoo. You sure don't wanna be an objective and balanced woman, huh? cheesy Don't continue laidis oh. Rest small, ehn. grin So that people will not think you're bitter. Me, as I am like this, I have removed my feminism coat and off my militant boxing e-gloves. Be a woman that sees things from all sides and don't generalise all men, and have peace. cheesy

I have been been in a sweet, loving and sexful relationship with an alpha man that cherishes me since this moment when I stopped chanting equality.

Please men and say what they want to hear and be what people want you to be, no kee yourself with stress. grin grin grin grin

P.S.: In case you're interested, I can give you my activism gears and tools and batteries. I still get like 60% battery power for my feminazi fuel tank before I switch am off. I have fangs and blood banks, too. I can gift you everything if you don't mind.
But who made you wicked like this? grin

I must be needing some alpha hot times then. Toe curling, back lifting, scream inducing times with the super hung type.

@60% battery, Nokia 3310 battery or iPhone 11?

Don't give me your equipment, ma, give me the opportunity to be your protege. Those happy times will stop me from posting ugly truths here.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 8:45pm On Nov 17, 2021
Kissmyassbiach:
In your pathetic attempt to prove you’re one of the good guys, listen to yourself.

Fucking idiot.

Not all men but definitely you.
Glad to see more people seeing through such pathetic posts.

He's fallen to inanities rather than facing the fact.

Is it the butterflies that were asking the 17 year old girl for sex in return for the lessons or was it a Nigerian man, exploiting as they know best to?

They are always the good guys. It's always never Nigerian men. It's always the people women associate with in their circles, yet who are these so called popular (supposedly rich) men doing these things? Are there no women in their circles?
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 8:40pm On Nov 17, 2021
Magnoliaa:
I don't even have any interest in the matter. And I'm not into tech, so I really have nothing much to say on this issue and I don't know whatever goes on there. If I say anything, just because, na rubbish I go tok. Nonsense.

I just wanna observe and read opinions and make jokes where I can.

Since other women influencers on Twitter have taken it up, that's good then. One less prey on young women.

And this is only in the tech 'industry'. Though, I notice a lot of people believe cases like these (as seen on this thread), but will cast aspersions on other cases that happens in the entertainment industry. It is the same propositions like these that directors and so on make to women in the beauty and acting spaces. But somehow, people believe the latter group deserves it because they are fine or 'dumb.'

Nobody here is saying techy girls are asking for it, or calling them oloshos or something along those lines. Because they have the 'brains', right? But when it's a student in the university or a club girl, 'oh, she must have gone to meet the lecturer.'

No wahala.

I don't understand the bolded, btw.

Oh. And whatever. I have no ish with Bratislava. She's mah main girl. Always on the beat and on point. I like how she gives it hot. cheesy tongue Face her if una get mind and disprove what she says.
One hundred likes to this.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 8:38pm On Nov 17, 2021
Lollittaa:
except cooooooks yaf chop red pill, he's a very cool guy.
Hot lava ke? Oya take chilled malt. Bikozianu(please) grin
He's not an objective person. Just a concealed typical male excuser who will beat round the bush rather than face what is in his face. The type who looks for a mote to conceal his true bearing.

I would appreciate not being included in the same post with an unfortunate being like himself. Thank you.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 8:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
angelfallz:
Where were you when a married British minister and a married women were caught on CCTV kissing and groping.

I believe you have a serious psychological issue of inferiority complex.
What bearing does this have on the tech guy forcing sex on a minor because he has a desk and a little power?

Some of you will compare an apple and a bowl of spaghetti to make a non existent point.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 8:30pm On Nov 17, 2021
Depressed101:
great, this is the same guy that denied me a laptop from techsultan.. Good he is busted.. Wicked souls, woman kii you there
So he has laptops and won't give his fellow guy?
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 2:07pm On Nov 17, 2021
Godoverevery:
What you said is a fact....can you most guys ain't arguing with you.

I have marked ur moniker the day any guy make a general statement about you ladies which is a fact and you try to exclude yourself......(hmmm) drop mic.
Bring your statistics.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 2:06pm On Nov 17, 2021
truthsayer009:
No, he doesn't want to pay for sex. Instead he wants to lure girls to have sex with them as their reward for scholarships. Every one is rushing into tech now, he would have slept with tons of young women already because of this scholarship. I am beginning to see reasons for only women tech scholarships in Nigeria for the past 3 years now. I sense this kind of rubbish going on. I know this is food on is ready for BRATIS-BOILING GOT-LAVA and the rest of her crew, but there might be some truth to this. All this laptops that men cannot get that women have been getting should be investigated.
It's still men screwing themselves over. No harm done. Maybe if you let women hold posts in tech, men wouldn't need to buy laptops anymore?
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 2:01pm On Nov 17, 2021
airsaylongcome:
Lol! You had to go sub that thread were we were having that back and forth over women getting preferential treatment in Tech
Lol.

If I didn't, who would? Hahaha.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 2:00pm On Nov 17, 2021
Lollittaa:
grin grin grin you and BRATIS-BOILING HOT-LAVA seem more alike than you both realise.
Don't mention me in the same sentence with a being that cannot be objective.

He's trying the age-old diversionary tactic of men who don't want to address what is before them.

It is easier for him to tackle a word that the matter at hand.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 1:36pm On Nov 17, 2021
cooooooks:
Aww...when she can't get beyond her circle of fellow unfortunate peeps she starts throwing her toys out of the pram.
Bore off.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 1:23pm On Nov 17, 2021
cooooooks:
No be me carry you go dey gallivant with so called bad Nigerian men.

Keep the same energy when NL men insult all Nigerian women.

Unfortunate fellow.
Still on the same watery old excuse?

You're still typing garbage after sentiment has been cast aside.

You're the unfortunate one here. You're a Nigerian man, too. A double tragedy

Here's a good Nigerian man like you, doing what they are known for on three continents: https://www.nairaland.com/6793272/follow-up-nigerian-locked-up
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 1:07pm On Nov 17, 2021
cooooooks:
Just because you come in contact with such men doesn't mean it's the norm.

I'm a Nigerian men. My father, my uncles are Nigerian men. This is not normal.

No difference between you and the NL guys who say stuff like "Nigerian women are useless", etc.

Unfortunate peeps.
The excuse of it's the kind of men you meet is getting old. Who are the people perpetrating such acts if not Nigerian men? The tooth fairy?

Is it that you're in denial of the normal daily headlines? Or you are waiting to meet such dirty men to know they exist? Maybe if a gay man turns that Nigerian men charm on you, you will feel otherwise.

Only the truly unfortunate person here will deny statistics and work with sentiment rather than facts. You can't even address the issue head on, rather diverting here and there.

Most Nigerian men are sex felons.
Romance › Re: Tech Guy Gets Called Out For Preying On Scholarship Applicants by BRATISLAVA: 11:40am On Nov 17, 2021
This must be the preference men on NL say that women in tech receive. Must be the preference they give out. This is why guys in tech must be begging for laptops. Men sabotaging men.

Most Nigerian men are sex felons. Even the dirty-looking ones in backwater government offices. That is a typical day in their life, scheming and looking for ways to demand sex from women to do the things they should ordinarily do.
Crime › Re: Missing Young Boy Found Strangled To Death In Ebonyi State (Disturbing Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 10:48am On Nov 17, 2021
Curious345:
you lied... The perpetrators of this crime have the following

1) phone line (fingerprint)

2) national ID (fingerprint)

3) driver or okada license (fingerprint)

4) Bank account (fingerprint)

5) bvn (fingerprint)


A simple forensic examination of the cops will bring out the perpetrator in just 30sec..

Our criminal police force will rather ask for 10k, than do the needful
Bitter truth.

There is a database, but it is geared towards unscrupulous use.
Politics › Re: WATCH: I Was Never Against Influx Of Social Media - Desmond Elliot by BRATISLAVA: 10:46am On Nov 17, 2021
One day, the same people condemning him will vote him for president.

It's a Nigerian thing.
Politics › Re: Photo: President Buhari Presides Over The FEC Meeting by BRATISLAVA: 10:44am On Nov 17, 2021
Even the amoral will have a problem with this.
Crime › Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Arrives Court Today Looking All Fresh (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 3:09am On Nov 17, 2021
Bigpapi:
By hanging straight up
Were you there when they hanged the akwa ibom serial killer Iduak in his new iconic shirts? Or perhaps the port Harcourt serial killer, the both of whom killed more than 20 women between themselves? Or all the terrorists and bandits who happen to be men— and have killed several thousands of men and women and children?

Or could it be that you and the person you quoted are more fond of emotional and bigoted posts, as the case may be?
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Gives Me Money & Foodstuff From Her Mum's Shop For Free; Help Pls! by BRATISLAVA: 2:51pm On Nov 16, 2021
27Pushing30:
How old is the lady (age range i.e 15-18, 19-23 etc)
Must be a naive child from 12-16.

Which makes one wonder if he is not drastically older than her and using her speedily, being that he knows he's a golddigger out to ruin the mother's business.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Gives Me Money & Foodstuff From Her Mum's Shop For Free; Help Pls! by BRATISLAVA: 2:46pm On Nov 16, 2021
Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?
How old are you, golddigger of a teenager?

You're gobbling her mother's sweat, while the woman is cracking eggs at Lagos beaches cursing at the person who has been stealing her money from her shop, declaring that whoever eats her money will be scattered in life like the eggs against the rocks?
Family › Re: Men, Please Be Good And Kind To Your Wife If You Wish To Enjoy Your Old Age by BRATISLAVA: 2:39pm On Nov 16, 2021
When you marry a man older than you, he will age faster. And turn geriatric when you just want to enjoy retirement together.

But according to nairaland boys, men die first because of bills. Not because they are looking for 10-20 year age gaps. Good luck to wide age Gap couples.
Crime › Re: Man Beats His 8-Month Pregnant Wife To Death In Oyo (Picture) by BRATISLAVA: 2:34pm On Nov 16, 2021
AprokoGirl:
Shared By: https://www.instagram.com/p/CWT2XJwrzj4/
I don't understand.

What is wrong with you typing the word violence and beater ? Are those now forbidden words that they need to be censored with asterisks?

Very soon there will be no free speech. This isn't the first time I'm seeing that ridiculous sort of thing.

If you cannot type the word violence, how will you call out vi*olence?
Romance › Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by BRATISLAVA: 6:54am On Nov 16, 2021
Solofresh2:
Thanks for that
Some of them are even shouting that I should go make money as if they know my worth
Am 100 sure some of them can't afford my lifestyle despite my age.
Do what gives you pleasure.

Some of them can't even experience the type of love you feel for her. You're both in the same age bracket.

Even if you regret it, at least you can stand boldly and say you chose what you wanted.

If you follow their way and it doesn't work out for you, these same people will ask you why you weren't man enough to choose your own path in life. Some will go ahead to do what they are discouraging you from, when later they have such an opportunity.

There's nothing wrong with you being in love with an older woman. There are lots of people in such relationships and they are happy. Popular cases are Jason Mamoa, Aaron Johnson-Taylor who have been together for years.

Some of them against your choices even have mother's older than their fathers. Some of the single women telling you to face to books and get money wish they could have even a younger man, rather than face Nigerian mockery at their ages.

Do you. Be happy with your choices, and if you must regret, regret gallantly.
Romance › Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by BRATISLAVA: 9:36pm On Nov 15, 2021
Same forum a man of 30 claims to be in love with an 18 year old teenager, and he was getting accolades.

Now a boy with less than 10 years age difference wants the same thing and he's being warned and chastised to sit down and avoid her.

Now she's an auntie, while the man from the previous thread was told that he's in love.

Fear men and their useless biases.

He's suddenly not mature and should have other focuses, but the girl was mature and focused because it was a 30 year old man cradle snatching.

Do what makes you happy solofresh2.
Romance › Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by BRATISLAVA: 9:33pm On Nov 15, 2021
Same forum a man of 30 claims to be in love with an 18 year old teenager, and he was getting accolades.

Now a boy with less than 10 years age difference wants the same thing and he's being warned and chastised to sit down and avoid her.

Now she's an auntie, while the man from the previous thread was told that he's in love.

Fear men and their useless biases.
Family › Re: 600 South African Girls Aged 9 And 10 Gave Birth In 2020 by BRATISLAVA: 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021
Rape culture.
Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by BRATISLAVA: 5:54pm On Nov 13, 2021
fxexperts:
So what can buy happiness or what special role does your female gender offer to the family. Cooking, cleaning or washing of the children cloths, And why cant the female gender see beyond that. I can hire a housemaid to do all that, nothing special about all that. You think its only mothers who play with their kids these days. I for one do play with my kids a lot, when ever i am around, and they prefer me to their mother when ever i am around.

You are forgetting father are the ones who advice's and guide the children on the right part. while mother always spoil them.
Fathers and mothers can take on any role for the stability of the family. To advertise fatherhood in only the realm of money is a sign of no understanding of true fatherhood.

The way you people try hard to aggrandize men and trivialize women, one begins to suspect you come from broken homes or there are much deeper issues.
Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by BRATISLAVA: 5:36pm On Nov 13, 2021
fxexperts:
Typically entitlement mentality of the female gender. You are talking as if men pick money from the tree. Is it not their time and effort they put into making such money.

And at your bolded. The mother caring for the children and the household is also not a blood sacrifice, but rather is it not her responsibility. You can not go higher by trying to bring other down, it doesn't work that way.
I didn't read past your first line. Usual entitled male rants.

Entitlement mentality when everyone works, right?

Carry your male chauvinism elsewhere. What is special about having money and using it on your own children? Is it that only men have or make money, that money is their only contribution to the home, and yet men make such a big deal out of it? How can a man be so entitled that without money he is nothing?

Money won't buy your kids. It won't buy a happy home either.

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