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jessyzin:
Please be calm, there’s nothing wrong with it.

I am a mother of 3 beautiful children and most times I kiss them on their cheek and also kiss my little baby on her lips it doesn’t mean anything to me, that’s the way I show love to them and make them feel safe.

I really do understand your point, seat your wife down and discuss with her about everything that has happen to you in the past and why you don’t like her kissing your baby if she’s an understanding woman she will change

N/B: Please it’s not that serious, just me be calm.

Please, tell them.

Which 6 month old baby doesn't use their mouth to feel their mothers face and mouth?

fineboynl:
My friend who is almost 40years now him and her mother still kiss in the mouth. He is a spoiled child. Who sleep with anything in skirts. He doesn't even select class.

Then when he was 35. He was sick and I when to see him. I saw the mother kissing him In the mouth. It was so disgusted.

Your kid will get use to that kissing which is bad

Some families are like that. Seen an older teen (17-19) kissing his father in the mouth. To him that's perfectly normal. It looked odd, but the mother was there in the car so maybe the father grew up in those kissy homes.

If a child is tired of such, they will let you know. Or you, on your own, will decide to let them fly the coop.

Kobojunkie:
You want to turn society upside down be that one now.

Men should live and let women live, too. Morality was not created for only women.

It's men who encourage all bad sex things in society. They want it, they seek it and they have the equipment to do it.

Men also bring children from outside sex to destroy the sanctity of their homes. They threaten to divorce their wives if they don't accept their own "flesh and blood". Yet it's somehow wrong when a woman brings her own flesh and blood home.

Men showing their double standards again.

BMathew:
Men Helping Men to become a Better Men.
Please, People with deeper understanding should kindly review this with me.
A lot have been going through my mind as touching the way men lives their life; (I just said their lives, meaning left with Individual's decision).
I'm laying my emphasis on "Why men are not helping men to become a better men"? Listening to what alot of men out there had done for our other gender compare to their reactions towards thier fellow men then we can bold say the hardship we have now is caused by men(cus focus is wrongly placed).

I am not saying you shouldn't help other gender but let's see this together; If the assistance you've ever render to a lady is being compared to what you've ever done to your male friend (positively), can we rate it?

Note, I'm not trying to belittle any gender nor gender biased.

I'm just thinking out loud, if we can help our fellow brother the way we "mumu" over these ladies trust me by now most of our men would have been a better person achieving purpose.

My female friend posted something on her WhatsApp status yesterday stating that, You see Abuja ladies with iPhone12, designer shoes and bag with the salary of 35,000naira per month, is with the same salary? "what about that"?

"Another guy told me how his boss built a house for a lady he slept with once"

A man can swear Heaven on Earth that he had no dime on him if his fellow brother seek for assistance but they tend to show off, spend without even expecting anything in return for ladies.


Without vain repetition, When will men start Helping Men to become a better men?

You know why men don't help themselves. It's because they cannot exchange sex for help, as they usually impose on women.

Funny, isn't it?

Can you see how entitled and twisted the thinking of men is?

AmazonTopaz:
I didn't even remember to add this,thanks for your input.

In a nutshell men are their own enemies

I see their complaints about paternity fraud as pointless rabble-rousing. It is men who betray other men. And some of them complaining probably have a child somewhere that another man is taking care of.

We need to institute DNA tests on all the children of mens exes to know if he is guilty of family/paternity fraud himself, too. They keep hiding their evil tendencies to betray themselves because they don't get pregnant after trysts.

What a statement.

Well, primarily because it concerns all they think about as vaginometers.

The thought that a woman dares do what men do is outrageous and makes them emotional. It is only then they care about fidelity. It's just a reflex reaction.

Some of the men talking so much about paternity fraud and DNA tests aren't even the sons of their fathers. The way they have instituted baby mama-ism is the same way they will later institute paternity fraud.

Male on male wickedness. Men are never their own best friends.

rottennaija:
Reduced and in many ways corrected most of the issues I was dealing with for over 1 year. But it has also left me with another persistent issue that I'm still trying to wrap my head around. I have recovered from Covid but I'm still with fever, a very low grade fever that even the thermometer cannot pick up but I can feel its discomforting effect.

This sounds like long covid. Hopefully more research will help us to know how to deal with its symptoms.

Buff your body with the right foods and vitamins. Wish you get better, because we are all struggling with covid-like colds.

rottennaija:
Not really. Anytime I get it, my immune system will be primed further. Besides, I had covid twice with the vaccine

Were symptoms reducing or the same compared to the first time?

rottennaija:
Try again was what they said. Next week.

Isn't that reducing the efficacy of the vaccine?

rottennaija:
Congratulations and welcome to the experimentation. I took moderna 28th of August. My second dose will be 28th of this month.

How did it go?

Modernizer:
thanks

Stick to one moniker or you may have to face a ban/deactivation.

koyyes:
You can imagine such a disgusting mentality. And he wants to get married to someone he will be calling a prostitute when his hothead madness starts and he throws his mannerless tanthrums.

I just knew it's a red pill guy.

Once you hear guys that claim they are rigid and strict, just know they want to control women. Meanwhile they cannot change or be better people. Rather the person who they want to enter into a relationship must become a footrag and let it be their way alone, or the relationship isn't worth it to them.

People are poorly socialized and it's reflecting in relationships and offices.

newbornmacho:
Even though you say it with some disrespect, you're actually right. I'm not necessarily fun to be with. I'm a workaholic, highly cerebral, always thinking about solutions to difficult problems, hate parties, rarely hang out, hate company, prefer news for my TV relaxation, play very hardball to make money....classic choleric.

Will any other temperament cope?

Is it not a choleric I need?

Very confused

You've based your life around so much temperament jargon. Who are you, really? Who do you need to be?

Who told you there's anything like a choleric? People are blends. But you seem to revel in your antisocial tendencies as a badge of honor for cholerics. You're probably more of an introvert than a choleric.

Being "highly" cerebral isn't an excuse to be a douchebag without empathy, or to use it as an excuse to be high on volatile temperament. The rest of the world is also highly cerebral and volatile tempered. How do the rest of us learn to live with a partner peacefully?

You are looking for temperaments, but unless you work on yourself you will still split from anyone you're with.

Everyone can change positively. And if they can't, they need drugs for it. Or behavioral therapy.

Reduce your judgmental introversion. People learn empathy.

koyyes:
A sanguine will divorce him straight up. They love fun and happiness alot.

Seems the guy is a killjoy..

Hear him talk about how he doesn't have empathy. And he doesn't want to change that. That's the last kind of man to go near.

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

Don't work on yourself or on your temper or gain some empathy. Look for a sanguine to manage you. Hopefully they won't get tired of your behavior one day.

Or if your expectations are too high, get a lump of clay and get to work making that perfect woman of your dreams, if you can.

Don't be entitled.

Klass99:
As in ehn! I read some comments and I was seriously shaking my head at the logic and excuses being made for Kelly.

Influential black men are targets, white people target black men blah blah blah. Absolutely no talk or mention of the fact that he sexually assaulted more than one woman. Even in the face of countless witness testimonies, they're still arguing and claiming he is a victim.

Yeah he is a victim of his poor choices and shitty lifestyle.

Honestly, the average black man is daft going by the comments here.

How do these rape apologists remove their brains and soak them in sewage before screwing them back in their skulls backwards enabling them to come up with these their defenses?

A man will rape someone, and a month or 15 years later she sees him on TV and wants justice-- these boys will say she's after fame. Does the fame exonerate him of the crime? Is his fame or wealth his innocence?

Once they feel the man is a celebrity or has a career, he must be innocent. It appears the foam in their heads can't process independent events.

To them Rape Kelly is innocent(he's a black former musician, system must be rigged against blacks), Christian Ronaldo is innocent(because he's very rich, evil Jezebels after him, yet he pays hush money), Baba Ijesha(with his nonexistent riches, the person reporting him must be jilted), Neymar(they want to bring down a good man, it keeps happening but miraculously he keeps being innocent), that Coza pastor (because he wears Gucci and is a pastor, she wants his lifestyle), fumilayo Twitter doctor (he's a Dr in the UK that means he can't rape someone who was in his house) the list goes on.

But they never stop to ask: why always these people? Why not their contemporaries? Why is it always a feminist plot? How is it always a feminist plot?

It's predictable why rape is still ongoing with the excuses men and some confused women make for them.

Hyerin:
Nah. You posture like you know what you're talking about but know nothing at all. A prime example of empty vessels make the loudest noise. Define and name the branches of feminism, then maybe we can take it from there.

Just because a man wrote rubbish about feminism to fearmonger, doesn't make it factual.

If only you knew what you're quoting. It's another bot. If he didn't show on this thread, no one else would.

wordbank:
Sometimes judges behave like junkies, especially on female related cases. As much as women has sworn your downfall, judges will definitely dig their pit in between their legs.
A lot of innocent men have been penalized over consented affairs, but for the fact that he is an alpha, pussy judges will sway just to hit the simp way.

Na that hammer go kill dem nonetheless I don't support rape or any sort of abuse

Alpha = pedophile


What an emotional write-up full of nonsensical sentiment.

Blakpot:
Because you think he's a superstar in male dominated industry, being hunted by ppl with pro feminist agenda?
That could be the case, but he definitely played a role in his downfall.

The sextape he made with a 14 yr old girl is all over the net and his marriage to a then 15yr old Aaliyah, its hard not to believe the accusations.

@preposter

Male emotions and logic are some of the most misguided sentiment.

Why do Nigerian men always play the victim narrative of being hunted by feminists when they are reported for rape? Are men more in the know of the case than the presiding judge who has the full facts?

Is it that formerly successful men didn't and don't rape anymore because their money absolves them, or what is the logic behind the victimization claims? Would it be more believable if he is poor?

The way some men reason is pathetic.

Where are all the brhoes who said he's innocent and have been using him as a talking point for rape apology?

Metalman:
Good morning nairalanders. I caught this snake this morning in my back yard. Anyone with ideas on what its food is because I intend keeping it. Maybe rear it and learn the business of rearing snakes. I heard it is a very lucrative business. Thank you guys.

What type of snake is that?

Why don't you learn how to rear them first before keeping one?

Even people who have handled snakes for decades have been killed by snakes. Be sure about what you have there.

baralatie:
Bros!
The mathematics is not beans but you can read about them

Bro, mathematics isn't a complex subject. Neither is space-time theory.

I simply want to know your source of the info on wormholes.

baralatie:
It's practicality is forward time travel
That is, the ability to move in space time from a point a to a point within a fraction of a minute

We can't even handle vacuum beyond the atmosphere. It's nice to think about the space world, but how practical is it beyond fantasy of such travel? Even simple robotics of SciFi aren't done yet.

What is the practicality of opening wormholes and the matter give and take involved?

Magnoliaa:
KO! Brutality! Chaiii. This cracked my ribs, mehn.

Asinnn. The thread come be like say I wander inside aliens' gatherings.

Plenty aliens on the forum.

baralatie:
Wormholes are theoritcally proven to exist Ina complex series of mathematics!
But only a part

The other part that will complete the wormhole to allow us to walk in spacetime is unknown

Mathematically.

Source on their existence, please.

baralatie:
Now you have three things
1.the observer
2.time
3.space coordinates
4.relativity

That space is expanding (that I find funny)

But that the above parameters are stated (I believe they work in theory)


What makes the 4 hypothesis work is (wormholes)

And do wormholes exist? In reality (let us say am a big fan of the concept)

They could exist in distant space, or be in the process of formation, since one has not been observed before. Maybe we don't have wormholes, but something else that is yet to be uncovered with further exploration. Maybe in the next 200 years his theories will be modified by someone else. If some large space body doesn't collide with the Earth...

baralatie:
General relativity is a theory of gravitation developed by Albert Einstein between 1907 and 1915. The theory of general relativity says that the observed gravitational effect between masses results from their warping of spacetime.

For the better part it's accurate. Space-time is an interesting concept, but what is the practicality on Earth?

Magnoliaa:
So in one word, what is the purpose this thread??

Help us ask again.

Any postulation on the thread is useless out of a physics class. After all, we live on Earth and not in space.

It's a thread to test Wikipedia searches. And maybe some Discovery channel.

gaventa:
Oh well it’s a Christian thread that’s accepted but doesn’t change what I said. Different cultures have their religion. Why do Africans find it hard to view Life though the African narratives?

The dances in question aren't even African dances. Eg soapy and other crazy dances they've invented.

jesusjnr2020:
Don't mind him.

He doesn't care the least about God or His Word, but just wants to use the teachings of men in the Bible to advance his ungodly mission.

I wonder what they mean by Christian feminism. Where he/she gets that idea from is baffling.

Anything outside of their agenda is seen as feminism. The matter has been forgotten with their deliberate confusion, just so that the matter at hand is not discussed.

JESHAL:
It depends on what I want, for now it's sexual access to many varieties of women, redpill ( truth) is irrelevant to my goal, I have to use game to get those coochies, when I want to settle down, I will use it to search and vet thoroughly for my spouse, I'm not going to pay full price for a woman, other men got for free,but for now telling women what is pleasant and decietful is the game

LMAO

You know your red pill bull is detestable, hence you need to conceal it.

Why does some indoctrination tell you how to vet? Why don't you vet yourself? Men must be very slow to have to be told what to think.

Why would anyone give you their full price when you have been used free by other women?

Goodbye.