₦airaland Forum

Hyerin:
I tire oo. They parade themselves as demigods on earth yet cry, whine, thrash and talk about women all day! They're so rational yet they can't think outside the wants of their penis. Every form of intelligence suddenly absconds but sure, we should listen to the ramblings of rabid-infested dogs and submit to their authority.

That red pill idiot followed me just to monitor my posts and provide counter-arguments. Talk about joblessness! I wish NL had a block feature or something. This is harassment.

I thought I'm the only one he began following.

He follows those who he believes are feminists so that he turns up on any thread they post on. That way he can regurgitate red pill jargon without being called upon.

JESHAL:
Madame the empirical evidence is clear about these,the scientific literature is solid, women are fundamentally Emotional beings, that is how you are evolutionary hardwired, even your ovulatory realities asserts these facts, men have no such limitations

Demzse bloodyiedspermatozoa daptown jesahl

Why are you still regurgitating the red pill fanatically? How has it given you a fulfilling intimate relationship? Or you come here to pretend you can say these things to a real woman teenage girl and she will listen to you?

Even your red pill king has quietly been washing his woman's pants. You can't know the red pill more than he does.

Susily:
A marriage where there's infidelity shouldn't stand whether infidelity is on the side of the man or woman

The man for the sake of his peace of mind should divorce the wife and the wife can go back to her sideman(if he'll accept her) and live happily ever after

You see I told you earlier that men control commitment.....the woman can only get back to the side man IF he accepts her and the child and you can most accurately bet that he was just in for the knacks and enjoyment not commitment

All your talking points are the old red pill drivel.

You see, women are wiser nowadays. This man in question needs to apologize to his wife. He caused her to stray. If he were a good husband she wouldn't need to have sex with another man.

He must have been squeezing the life out of her until she went to the warm and welcoming arms of a man who is treating her right. Let's bet the new man is endowed, provides lovingly and cares about his hygiene. Luring a man isn't rocket science. Most aren't smart to begin with.

Hyerin:
There's no bitter truth anything. Your pseudoscience, sexism and anti-intellectual verbiage has no basis in reality. Shocking fact: Humans are driven by emotions! Both men and women. Pinning emotions as a woman thing is old age misogyny. Men are not the more rational sex like you lot love to espouse, you're just sexist and caressing each others fragile egos.

You reduce women to being sexual objects like our existence is solely defined by having sex and giving birth. Why then should I entertain you or any woman for that matter? You keep blabbering on about sexual access, sexual abundance this and that which is all gibberish I must say. No man is entitled to a woman's body nor her time, nor her affections and vice-versa. You have a dangerous mentality like the rest of your Ilk which can also be found in rapists. Please don't quote me again.

They are rational yet always controlled by a sexual organ and orgasms. Heck, more than 80% of what they do in the real world is to appease the emotion/feeling of sexual satisfaction and superiority.

Logical yet unforgiving, a result of emotions that cannot be overcome.

Clearly they are very emotional and embittered. But because they are the ones expressing those emotions, they aren't really emotions— they are actually male logic. Wonderment!

How do you manage to communicate with the multi-moniker red pill bot? He is 40% of the people on this thread.

Susily:
The man should apologize to the wife for her cheating on him?

Yes, if he wants to keep his family. Otherwise she and that side man will get together. He seems to be more loving and not a nag.

Don't you love the arrangement?

Susily:
The child becomes his responsibility if the DNA TEST proves the child is his...... but he won't be taking care of another man's child which is the plan of the woman all along

DNA test is women's undoing in this era.... watch them jitter at the idea of DNA test

Not if the DNA test blah blah. The child is his.

You know so much about the woman's plan, are you the woman? Or are you the man who fathered her child? Single men always looking for women's plans.

DNA test is good for children, but what is the right test for the man who fathers such a child? Or that doesn't matter, as men destroy themselves?

That man better apologize to his wife and hit the gym. She can't be running after expired products.

MorningStar233:
Hahahahahahahah, I won't say no more....just thank God if all your children followed the path you taught them....

Once again, don't assume.



As for you, .just thank God if all your children followed the path you taught them

Susily:
Pls enlighten me how the man will be the biggest loser to quit his marriage??

A man has no problem getting remarried. A man can always easily get remarried than a woman

Men are gatekeepers of commitment while women are gatekeepers of sex......a man decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a woman decides if and when sex happens

A man that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for men

It's the woman's problem since she has a child (which she'll keep custody of) and she'll have a hard time getting a man again cos a lot of men now have become wiser and seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single mothers and divorcees with a child (ren)

A man has problems of getting remarried, don't act like it's so easy.

Men are gate keepers of sex, and women of commitment. A woman decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a man decides if and when sex happens. After all, he has the libido, ring and penis to offer in return for her commitment.

A woman that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for women. Men are predictable.

It's the man's problem since he has a child as one of his responsibilities (which he will fight to keep custody of) and he'll have a hard time getting a woman again cos a lot of women now have become wiser and are seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single fathers and divorcees with a child (ren), except the damaged ones. Times have surely changed for the better. Gynocentrism is the way ahead.

Gracias.

MorningStar233:
Who told you she didn't try her best or train her sons well? Hmmmmm...don't worry wait till you have your kids and one will just be doing the direct opposite of what u tell him

Do you know what I have? Don't assume too much about who has a child and who doesn't on the forum.

Most people spend time policing other people's children, especially daughters, while they have the worst ones at home.

Eg. Pastors preaching against premarital sex, but his daughter is pregnant at 15 from a no gooder

Focus on your own home. Wait till you have kids for them to do the opposite of what you tell them. Then tell us how you parented them.

Susily:
All I see is someone justifying infidelity in marriage just because it's a woman that committed it

You'll be calling for the man's neck if he was the one they reported cheated on the wife

Justifying what?

That's the problem with the way men see things.

Most men don't understand how women cheat. Believe it, a woman who cheats never loses love for her husband. To her it's just exciting sex and maybe some money. She will always return home to her true husband. The sooner men understand this, the better. Men have emotional sex. Women just have sex. It's nothing personal.

The man will be the biggest loser to quit this marriage with a child. Where will he start from with relationships again? Is it from dating all over again? Plus women are wiser today to avoid divorced men. He just has to endure it and hope for better days

This woman is remorseful, and if OP and family pray for her, with time she will cool down and stay in one place with her rightful husband. What God put together let no man put assunder.

Kingpin1000:
Yes, you are young,rich and very talented. But babe no go let somebody deceive you that you're beautiful. So if them say make beautiful girls raise hand, you go follow raise.

She said "cute", according to the headline. Not "beautiful".

Gravatar:


Happy Birthday Mrs Rose Idibia

Though I won't forget how you prevented some associates of mine when they were kids from gaining access to the girls hostel when you were the matron in their secondary school.

Maximum cockblocking.

Yet in her own household sprang up the exact opposite. Train your sons!

lilvicky68:
My account has been without inflow..

I'm living by the Grace of God na..

L. O. L.

https://www.nairaland.com/6773338/new-strategy-serial-rapists-ritualists

How are you coping? Or they don't want fresh young men any more? Or you want to tell me you're old like that?

oshorstan:
You see that daddy's friend, he was the one that disvirgined her. She cannot do without him. Most women are disgustingly shameless. God please I don't want to be in this condition, because I go kill person. Pls Lord, give me a gift called Good wife. I don't want anyone that will give me wahala. I beg you Lord

Either you're lesbian or you're one of those men who want to give women a bad name as their service to all females they will know.

lilvicky68:
That means every guy is a potential criminal na

You, where did you get your latest account inflow from?

lilvicky68:
Omo

E don reach like this??

Read the news. It has reached

iLegendd:
I have realized women don't understand men when it comes to cheating. A man has pride just like a male lion in the jungle.

The moment a man's wife cheats, that image will never erase from his head. He keeps imagining the dick size of the man she cheated with, how she sucked and kissed him, etc.

Whenever he wants to kiss his wife, that image will flash and his mood will change. He'll feel he's not man enough and that's why she cheated.

The moment you make a man feel he's not man enough, he'll never forgive you completely even if he is a pastor.

Sex is sacred in marriage and any woman who doesn't uphold that does not deserve a second chance.

In dating, a woman has the power and the decides the man she wants to date. In marriage, a man has the power and he decides the woman he'll finally marry.

Sleeping with another man is like taking the power away from your man to another man.

Since you've already given another man the power, just divorce your husband and stay with that other man. Simple.

A man should NEVER pray for a woman who cheated on him to change for him — he should pray for her to change for her new husband.

What is there to understand about a man when it comes to cheating? Who created such self-serving rules to understanding male cheating? Since there is understanding, why have men refused to understand and permit with an open heart why women cheat and enjoy it?

Is it that the woman cheated on doesn't feel pains the same way the man feels it when he's cheated on? Is the woman a shock absorber of nonsense and its male logic, while the man cannot tolerate it himself?

You people have created unrealistic expectations and assumptions.

OP said the man was crying. If cheating hurts men and women alike, why create false logic for men who cheat?

lajid:
I wanted to reply this but then I figured you’re a woman so I pretty much know how you think and why you justified her cheating. But then it’s all good, have a nice day.

I wanted to reply this but I figured you're a man, so I pretty much know how you think and why you justified his bad approach to cheating.

But then it's all good, have a nice day.

lajid:
I think it’s ridiculous to try and justify cheating. On both sides, whether done by the man or woman. I hope they get to sort this mess out, I hope the child is also his because it’s more salvageable.

That man is supposed to find out where he has gone wrong, not crying and involving strangers in his family matter. It is his duty to give his wife peace, some men make the home front so terrible that the woman has no choice but to seek comfort from someone ready to give it.

The unique nature of a woman is that she is moved by sight, and as such she is moved towards comfort and polyandry by nature.

The man should up his romance game and give her peace of mind via money. Otherwise she should dump him. Every woman deserves peace of mind, not someone hoarding sex and money. Hopefully the man has learned his lesson. If he misbehaves, her side man will take over. It's that simple.

Silentgroper:
yeah well. We all know d bible or christianity as a whole is against feminism nd ask u to see men as a demi god. But for some reason, u seem to neglect dat part of d bible.

i wonder y though .. Maybe u're just a motherfvcking hypocrite.

What is feminism? And what does it have to do with my post or yours?

AutoChick4U:
I don't understand, why not sex chat with hubby and send nudes to him? Nawaooo, probably her sugar daddy.

She does not rate her husband at all.

We need to hear the woman's side of the story.

One cannot just conclude on what a man claims happened. Some of these men have pushed and pushed the woman to the wall. The man won't say what he did.

Most men just like to play on sentiment by shedding crocodile tears.

FutureIsFemale:
I believe that Mompha is or was dating Boby. They way he handled the matter from trying to take the public eyes off the issue by purchasing iPhones for his family to how he threatened Oye with lawsuits to how he begged Oye to make a video and debunk it.

That guy is a gay.

Why did Mompha delete that audio conversation where he forced Oye to make a video? A clear conscience fears no accusation.

Lol.

He threatened her with a lawsuit, but he has still not proven contrary to her allegations.

Nowadays to silence people you bring up a huge lawsuit. People will cheer on your innocence because of the amount involved. People are shallow and don't understand intimidation. They see it as innocence.

It's the new trend for rapists, revenge porn blackmailers and closeted men,l. Don't back down, even if guilty.

InTheCloudySky:
Remember, this is a 2-month old baby we're talking about, so I doubt they would have to pay. Seeing it was an emergency, I'm sure it was the Hospital that got the helicopter for them asap, to be taken to the other Hospital. Even if the mother has to pay for being flown (again, I doubt it and if she does, it probably wouldn't be much or a fee she can't afford), I'm sure she wouldn't turn down the opportunity to save her baby's life because of the cost, if any.

I didn't say burn victims don't survive or recover in Nigeria, so idk what you keep going on about. I told the OP "Thank God they're in Europe and not Nigeria" because the mother and child were not only referred to the specialist Hospital but were taken there/flown there by the Hospital via a helicopter. If they had been in Nigeria, would that have happened? But they're not in Nigeria, hence the "Thank God" comment, because they're in a country with medical facilities that don't waste time when it comes to saving lives.

I've a relative who was sick three months ago, stayed at one Hospital for two weeks, then the Hospital took her to another Hospital (at no cost to her) when they discovered she needed more intensive treatment and physiotherapy, which she received at the second Hospital (they deal specifically with the issue) for a month. Healthcare systems abroad are more empathetic, organized and of course, cutting-edge, which are some of the reasons why they work.

Why don't you ignore people looking for a fight where there's none?

There are toxic people around. They are lovey dovey until they feel offended by something which doesn't concern them. Then they come out in their true form.

The leopard can't change its spots .

InaNla:
Where is the baby?

And if they can't have one, so what? You people should give it a rest. You don't know what people pass through to have just one child when it's not forthcoming.

Most tenants don't want to pay. They will rather destroy your property and leave it a wreck then go. There are some who want you to forget about your property so that they can take over it.

Lindner:
This is absolutely no fiction. Thank God the interviewers didn't feel this way. They had my CV and saw where I served. I later went on to do my masters at the University of Ibadan. Anyway, I have no control over what you choose to believe. Just my little frightening experience.

Beautifully written. Your students must have gained a lot from your lessons.

Corporate2020:
I am a Yoruba boy.

I am a Muslim.

Yes, some dancing steps are from Hell Fire.

They will soon come and ask you where in the koran it said so.

Tolu181:
you be mad man

You have said it for yourself, for that is who you are. Not me.

yuping:
Is not about what I like or hate I'm not a saint but comparing prostitution and Dancing step and you know dance also is an African culture.
Did you read the part that says "Bring her out and let her be burned" because of being an harlot.
I ain't saint ooo I don't hate prostitute why should I hate someone that I know nothing about.
What I'm trying to say is before we preach let's look at the long run of our preaching and not make this heaven race look impossible not everything is bad as preachers explain it.
Look at people who went to deeper life when we are very young then, some of them lost their youth due to this rigid preaching and foresight of the pastor.
Before you preach make sure you don't turn the scripture to suit your personal feelings and always support every point with the right scripture not what you think.
Last last I go still go club thie night.

Narrow is the way.

If you don't like it and can't do it, don't make it sound like it's impossible.

If you want to go to the club, go there. The Bible doesn't stop you from. You sound as if as if clubbing is the only way to live free.

Silentgroper:
Does anyone dance at a business meeting? . .. Y cant i do d backslide, yahooze, focus dance in front of my kids abi na which kind mumu arguement b dz

You have no point.

The fact that you are quick to insult means you don't do much sensible thinking.

cezarman:
Please do a video and teach us EXACTLY how to dance the heavenly dance that have known origins... i.e the type of dance that is not from hell but direct from heaven.

You get what I mean Abi?

Did you really read that post and understand it?

truthsayer009:
Oh wow, a Christian Feminist, that's good to know

Didn't know you were a Christian oh.

When you post on an Islamic thread, does that make you Muslim?