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Athemisia:
Be ready to stop eating cow meat because Islamic prayers are always said be one is slaughtered...

Hypocrites

What is this one even saying?

lomprico:
are you the one that released it from hell? have you been to hell before to see that that is the dance steps there?
silly silly

You must be either slow or silly not to know what the quotation marks there signify.

gaventa:
Does the Bible control the world? Is the Bible a manual to life. Who gave the Bible the authority to dictate for people? The Bible was written according to Jewish and Greek culture. Why should we use its narratives as a yardstick to life? Wake up man. Your conscience should lead you and the laws of the land you should adhere to

The thread is a Christian one, naturally it will be based on the Bible. Different people live by their religious books, it won't suddenly change because it is the Bible in question.

yuping:
Romans 6:13). First Corinthians 6:13 says, "The body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body."
Proverbs 23:27–28
27 For a prostitute is a deep pit; an adulteress is a narrow well.
28 She lies in wait like a robber and increases the traitors among mankind.
Genesis 38:24
Now it was about three months later that Judah was informed, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar has played the harlot, and behold, she is also with child by harlotry.” Then Judah said, “Bring her out and let her be burned!”

It doesn't say you can't do it. Plus if it is putting food on ones table, what is the harm? And if she and the customer both enjoy themselves, surely that can't be evil?

You just don't like prostitution, likewise the jilted Judah, so you are against it. But you like dancing any type of dance, so you want to fight for it.

OP pointed out some specific dances and you still insisted that they are harmless unless he provides a Bible verse that explicitly says so. The soapy masturbation dance isn't sexual immorality to you, is it?

lilvicky68:
Is prostitution not fornication with financial advantage?

The Bible is against fornication..

Where?

It doesn't state prostitution. Neither does it state masturbation. Neither does it state sexual dances or dances that do not glorify God.

Plus according to some, the people doing it are doing it to put food on their tables. Plus they enjoy it. Where's the harm in that, going by such logic?

People should read the Bible and stop looking for how to continue doing what they are doing by claiming there's no verse against it.

If you're waiting for the Bible to spell it out for you, you have a long way to go.

Does the dance depict godliness?
Is the dance to the glory of God?
On a lower level, can you do it for your kids and parents or at a business meeting?

yuping:
Why turn everything upsidedown, the Bible forbid prostitution.

Where?

Fraud. Robbery. Killing. Duping. Scamming. Using. Tricking. Violence.

These are their ways of getting money.

jesusjnr2020:
Exactly my point. Thanks.

Most dances that mimick adult themes are silly and could be said to "be from hell".

In fact, any dance that you cannot do in front of children is likely a dirty dance whose origins are unknown.

yuping:
Why we like to make this simple life complicated, who has gone to hell and saw them dancing, why all this propaganda? This thing we see as Evil or devil dance step is what is putting food on someones table or do you want God to let them be job seekers and die or depression. Please is there any where in the Bible that says we should not dance or make ourselves happy? If they is any please educate me on it.
#peace.

Prostitution puts food on people's tables, going by your submission that is permissible because the Bible didn't forbid "prostitution", let alone the one done by people who enjoy it.

chatinent:
Does it change the fact that human government has failed?

Human government has failed.

You're on Earth. What other government do you want? Lion government? Chimp government? Earthworm government?

socialmediaman:
I agree with most of what you posted here, but let's separate these misandrists parading themselves as feminists (the "men are scum" gang) from the feminists who know and perform their roles in marriage.

A lot of misogynists and misandrists are married. Likewise feminists and chauvinists. Role play is very easy.

Most men like to think misandrists aren't married, the same way they demonized feminists as aged spinsters, but hoodwinking a man is not a difficult task when all of them want virtuous women.

It is people who have complicated relationships with "roles". Find someone who wants your "roles". Don't try and force them into or it will always backfire.

Kobojunkie:
Nothing but marveling at what religion has reduced the Word of God to.

Anyone who thinks those in bold are sins does not know God at all.

That's what men say sins are. Because they feel better if they make it that it's women going to hell.

Kobojunkie:
na wa oo!

What happened?

It's true. Most men are prime candidates of hellfire without wearing miniskirts and using earrings and lipstick and flashing their panties.

AmazonTopaz:
This doesn't translate to current realities,be jobless and carry headship for head.

Some of you men see marriage as a power tussle the lady rightly laid out a marriage plan that happens in today's world but you want to tell us what we already know,every marriage is different for some marriages that are not Christian based the husband and wife work as a team and there is equality in such marriage just because you are not familiar with that reality doesn't mean it doesn't work for others and happens in such marriages.

Christ being the head of the church loved the church and died for it how many men of today can do that,Christ also washed the feet of his disciples I can liken this to husbands doing chores in the homes and treating their wives as the queens that they are,you are so quick to remember headship but slow to remember the responsibilities it carries.

Fear Bible bangers when it comes to women matters. Most of them are infidels by the same biblical standards.

The only righteousness to them is to be the head of the home and for women to be submissive. The rest of the Bible doesn't exist to them. Not even the 10 commandments.

Religion twisted to the patriarchy. That is why they don't want women to preach, because their control points will be trashed.

AmazonTopaz:
That is why they feel empty when they are broke.Many of them lack basic human skills, attitudes and virtues on how to keep a relationship or marriage to them it is just money other men who know better and whose worth ain't tied to money alone tend to do better and are treated better when they are down because of the way they chose to relate with their wives.

Imagine one just telling us the man is the head of the home so what does it mean he should misbehave and not respect or treat his partner right.These men sometimes have a warped mindset on a lot of issues Nigerian women have tried oo

And. . . You're back

Your post is the truth. Subtract "money" from most Nigerian men, and they are very undesirable. And that is why women leave them when they are broke, all the ugliness is laid bare then.

They spend so much time preaching on what a virtuous woman is, and yet their own virtue is in shambles.

Hyerin:
He says dumb shit like that and expects anyone at all to take him serious. What a joker.

The average male attains proper sexual thought process at about 35 years of age.

For now, his work is to spit indoctrination.

JESHAL:
Women are sexual objects
Men are success objects


Period

The bloodysperm red pill bot.

What's your other moniker again?

efficiencie:
Dear if you followed by comments you will see that I am basically describing the situation women created for themselves all in a bid to conform to liberal ideals. I am married and I know the value of virtuous women. There are people who have made marriage work and I believe if done right marriage can be one of the most beautiful of things...but given the state of affairs in our world today one can see how liberal ideals are tearing the great institutions apart and one institution that has consistently been a victim is the institution of marriage.

Marriage today is increasingly been seen as a scam by most men and their fears have been well founded by facts from liberal societies. A man works his ass off trying to earn a living and after becoming a success he foolishly gets married just to have a sex partner, a home keeper and offspring. Soon enough he will realize that his so called wife is fair weather person and when the chips are down he will be left high and dry either by abandonment or by divorce. It is considered fair when the man has to have his properties shared equally in a divorce but when this happens to the woman lamentations begin...we currently have an epidemic of single men who are refusing to get married and they are more prevalent in liberal societies where most connubial laws are geared towards protecting women and not protecting relationships.

Data proves this point. This was culled from an editorial:

According to Pew Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in their lives rose nine percentage points since 1997– from 28 percent to 37%. For men, the opposite occurred. The share voicing this opinion dropped, from 35 percent to 29 percent. Source here

While more women have profited from marriage, men haven't. This is why I always advice. If as a man you intend to get married, seek your spouse when you have nothing. Find your spouse when you are not yet successful. The woman who is willing to support your growth and success is the woman worthy to be your wife. I don't care how holy your wife is. If she did not play a key role in your rising she will ultimately be the source of your downfall.

You are married, yet there are some infantile one-sided remarks you make. Or you are cohabiting? Your links on why young men are scared of marriage is nothing, because most are confused and brain washed. They can't run over women the way they were taught to by older males, and that frightens them. What is the Nigerian man scared of in a marriage? His shadow? The patriarchy? Spare us that drivel.

From your comment, the only role you feel your wife plays is having sex with you, having your children and cleaning for you? And, boom! You can easily replace her.

Yet you want a woman who will play a role in your life, when you have pushed her into 3 roles that are primarily to your benefit: sex, cleaning and birthing automaton. What else is marriage to majority of men, but having a live in house maid they can rule over? Some of you need to ask your females what they truly think of you.

The matter is clear. It's another case of stones.

If you like, seek your spouse when you are poor, it will not change anything. All you have done is give a test to a woman, because you want her to bend to your conditions. But what have you been tested with, as the perfect being you are? What conditions of hers have you met? Oh, but she's just for sex, birthing and cleaning. Why bother with that?

Half of you say what you can't do offline, and yet you say it like it's the law about women. Because if your girlfriend were to truly live with your online persona, she would've done something terrible by now.

efficiencie:
Women will be the ones to ultimately suffer for this...men will further deepen their resolve never to marry. As for sex, there are countless girls available for sex outside of marriage and there are married ones willing to taste forbidden fruits. As for house chores you can recruit a house help to do the job and pay him or her a modest fee. And boom some women have been replaced as far as some men are concerned. Who wants to labor for years and lose it on a divorce? Na woman go suffer this law las las.

If men don't marry because they are bitter at women, who cares? You're the ones looking for good women, why? You're looking for who to spend your lives with. A man without a woman is nothing. He will always seek to impress women. All the dickmeasuring is for who? Other males?

Who proposes? Who pays the bride price? Who is getting married on Saturday? One word: Men.

You lot act like you're doing women a favor by marrying them. Don't marry. You will still have the same issues with baby Mama's. Want to know how? By the time all of you don't marry yet want someone else to slave after your offspring, a new law will be used to tackle that. And you will then refuse to have children, etc, as the "proactive" gender. SMH. Same issues will spring up again.

If there's way too many issues with women, whichyou frequently moan about and seek to teach women a lesson for, why don't you marry the peaceful, genuine, undemanding and loving gender —men? There's nothing wrong with loving yourselves, man to man. Right?

Too many teenagers on the forum. Come Saturday another man will be "shackled" gladly. Men are truly suffering. From confusion. And hurting themselves pretending to be red pill.

Hassanmaye:
We will not marry our peace of mind is everything we can't think without it, it's men who produce almost everything in science and technology engineering, So if marriage palava stop us from thinking WHO will develop the world

More assumptions.

All the men who are single are contributing to science and technology, according to you? Are you?

And if women didn't contribute, who worked in the labs and tirelessly on the sidelines when women weren't allowed to go to school then? What a narrow worldview.


Instead of bragging aimlessly about what other men but you did, why don't you ask why women didn't and still don't?

rottennaija:
Which lawsuits? They never married. That's why most rich people don't marry. Now he isn't going to be bothered about losing part of his wealth.

Even those richer and much wiser than he got married. Hiding from marriage isn't some magical cure to men's lives.

You need to work on yourselves. All the long rules for women clearly isn't helping men.

Dabronze:
I would rather hustle make enough money my life than to be a responsible husband.

And yet, looking at musk what do you think the benefit in not being a responsible father is?

You people praise what you don't really understand.

cococandy:
On top boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

If he was married then what would he do?

Very senseless I swear.

He's the type that kills and wants the populace to listen to his side of the story, and understand him and only him.

He's worse than Chidinma Ojukwu and the entire Nigeria police force put together.

But can you blame him? When someone is desperate for his control tactics. That girl needs deliverance from the bondage of hateful men. She needs a life that is away from men. She needs to find herself. Sick story and the pride he takes in telling it, as if he is her creator.

cococandy:
So in your mind, you’re anonymous enough to casually confess to aggravated assault without any consequences huh?

He actually believes so.

All these boys with their conditional love. Desperately wicked creatures. They feel they're the only ones who have love, the first ones in the universe. Possessive, narcissists.

They will later say their posts mean nothing. This one is a killer in the making looking for sympathy, like the other one who confessed to killing his girlfriend because he felt she killed his father.

And you know the funny thing? All the men will be in support of him, and some demented women.

Their only issue is that he will catch her spiritual sickness. They don't really care about anything else.

Olunmercy56:
Is this a man ?

He's a modern red pill man. The type you find bickering on naira land. In his mind, he can't let her get away with it. He's trying and failing to put her "in her place", as one of the sandcastle builders here once said.

Same guy begging her privately to kill the matter?

Turns out she's not his only blackmail victim, from what is going on online.

It's a pity this forum only reports his rambling because it's a misogynist site made to tickle the fancy of it's male membership.

Talkative, bickering, redpill pseudo-man. The woman has very poor taste in men.

JovialJune:
And you arrived at the bolded, equating everyone as ladies in your enclave or your sisters, your rants right from your first comment was baseless and empty, you went from going personal with the Op, to gallivanting sheepishly about with other females, your kind cannot be more than the walkabouts in the streets who come here to make mouth like a weasel when you are actually a worm in real life, I blame Bratislava for wasting her time with an empty lot, all of you so called male have commented irrationally and senselessly on here, which is expected actually, because you all don't even know your left from right, always facing front like people being remote controlled,

Imagine one yapping about because of the thread op used as reference, instead of focusing on what is seen everywhere in most threads by guys, their problem is cos it was a counter thread, does it change the obvious fact that is seen by thread created by most guys? Honestly the sets of men existing here all have the same empty brain, even the ones that try to behave matured lowkey supports the rants of the raving ones to a 't', keep at it, online persona is not reality, I blame bratis for trying to be reasonable with y'all.

I have decided to leave the discussion. It's better to discuss with a stone than these warped males.

They are willfully blind. All of them have a deep-seated resentment, envy and hate of women that makes them trivialize anything they hear about women or play whataboutism with it. It's obvious they have opinions that are anti-women. And most are plain dumb. It's a pity that majority of the males on the forum present IQs in double digits.

Some give the excuse that they will marry as the reason they are disgusting to women online. But the news we see about men is a reflection of their minds. News that they pretend doesn't exist.

Online they reveal the dirtiest recesses of their shallow minds.

What they actually need is misandry.

advanceDNA:
All your talks are fallacy-driven
Everyone that doesn't agree with you is an evil man out to destroy ....I don't have to agree with your opinion to be civil, fair, and still not hate women..

...Incase u havent noticed, you are acting all paranoid at everything called male.

The typical approach of men to women issues is this quote above.

All your talk has been escapism. And blatant fallacy.

You don't have to agree with anything a female says, but it doesn't negate the truth.Your opinion on what is true for women, when you have a p****s is amusing.

When men want to escape the truth they hide behind anything, even false accusations of paranoia. Isn't it funny how many women are paranoid, according to you? Mansplain some more.

This discussion is over.

TarOrfeeek:
There's obviously a larger kock and more suave idiot pumping her full his cum every weekend.

Women really are children. It does not matter whether you sold your soul to buy cabin biscuit for her.

If you like behead your mother to cook soup for her.
Cross the Atlantic ocean with rubber slippers.

It does not concern her.
What concerns her is this - that by 3pm on Friday, there's a large kock waiting to pump cum into her. And that kock is not yours.

So whether you're in hell fire or heaven. Whether you're in prison or palace. Until that kock is done, and she moves to the next kock (usually won't still be you) "you're nothing but a used kock in the hands of the kock curator."


So please men, before you do grand gestures, make sure you've done something for your mother.

With men expressing such disgusting things, it's no wonder women read them and deal harshly with them. In as much as you see women as sex objects, they are free to deem men whatever they please in turn.

@Gentlerespect76 This is not a case peculiar to women.

Rather, both sexes should be encouraged to be better people.

If it was truly womenfolk who are behind the problems bedeviling relationships, as we are made to believe, why is it that all the reprimand and preaching for them isn't working? Why do homosexual relationships have the same problems? Probably because there are 2 sides to every relationship, and focus on one side will not make the other side better. It's likelier that menfolk need these messages to be better people just as much if not more.

When men focus on making money to attract women, it is inevitable that they will be left bereft of anything else to offer them. When the money is gone, what is the woman left with? Is it an empty man with no redeeming qualities, as is often the case? We need more virtuous men topics.

Most of these cases aren't as straightforward as they appear eg. Woman dumped him because of money. There is more to the why.

In conclusion: Menfolk need to work on themselves as much as they think womenfolk should.

advanceDNA:
What exactly is your point...women commit crime against men just as men do it against women....crime and evil is in humans not gender specific.....but once it happens to your gender you make it look it's an agenda to destroy your kind....

Listen yourself...every talk is an abuse, scorn, kill, death, rape...it's almost like men can't talk without you painting a negative scenario or outome from

Sounds like you are the ones afraid and looking to destroy men that you don't understand over nothing..

Last last we still dey marry una every Saturday...so I don't get what all this hatred is all about

You sound like one of the types who destroy women through trivialization of real issues.

You will still marry to oppress, hate and do all the things you glorify on the forum.

But for now, further discussion is pointless. When you are married and have a daughter, dig up all your posts and read them out to her as bedtime stories/gist. Since they are harmless.

Missionaire:
The thing is very annoying... The OP used only two threads as justification for her rants and people cannot see that one of the thread is a counter thread.
The other day, one uyai lady here was writing that Nigerian men are useless and she wants to marry a white man.
The other lady created a thread that said that Nigerian men are rapists.
People no see that one.
Hatred is not about the gender, but the person.

In case you haven't noticed, Nigerian men post such things on a daily basis, all the time. That can't be an issue to you. You call it victimization, but go to the first page and check out the kind of topics males create about women. The vast hate generated on the forum is from males and directed at females.

Males create them endlessly and push them to the fore. Now, open any such topic and read the comments. Read them without bias and report back on your findings, if you've not programmed yourself to trivialize the constant insults, generalizations, cybetbullying and abuses directed at females.

It's interesting to note that you can count a few and use them as your strong points. But what about the flood of constant hate from Nigerian men?

Some of you will only know the effect of what you're indirectly supporting in future. Right now it's gist or fun that isn't funny.

The only normal males on the forum are the ones with daughters and didn't grow up in the gutters. They are the only ones who will admit to what is going on rather than playing whataboutism or ostrich.

advanceDNA:
Afraid??
Suspicious??
Seek to destroy??
Lol...U guys over react too much...get offended over beer palor gist and call it hatred....u guys are our daughters, mothers, sisters, cousin, aunts, it's funny when u people paint picture of hating over petty online gist...

It's "petty" until women get killed, beaten and raped in real life.

All of the perpetrators started somewhere, much like a lot of you as teenagers, and a lot of you have started your indoctrination online pending when you can actually get near a woman to abuse her.

And if that is what you call gist, abusing and scorning women, if you call misogyny gist, then you have a lot left to be desired.

Any excuse to trivialize what you do in a daily basis to women...