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Even my late grand mother talk am. She even warned us.
I believe them.

Maybe just your own children. Another woman’s child is sh!t to you.

prof12:
You sound Igbo

Nope! Ethnicity has nothing to do with this. Buhari has failed, even his most ardent supporter is disappointed in him. There are many indicators of his failure, but one stands tall amongst all; he has midwifed a very polarized country. Ethnic suspicion has never been this rife.

Lightangel65:
Or he may just use her who knows, but if he is as kind-hearted as you say just give a try, after all what's there to loose.
I didn't know girls were capable of love

Seems you’re heart broken and need fixing. Your current position does not warrant you giving advise to anyone.

What amazes me most time is the way a woman who shows so much love to their kids can turn around to vent pure hate and violence on other people’s children

OgunLaakaye:
You cant wail, be in pains and same time be bitter till 2023

You will get tired!

If you like call me names while you live in self deception. One of your kinsmen sang a song about suffering and smiling. If this is the type of leadership and direction of country you wish for yourself and kids, then your standards are way much lower than can be imagined.
Continue feeding on crumbs from your masters table and think life ends there.

Sorry, it won’t sir!

Those who are familiar with happenings within the Nigerian Army especially the pre 1999 democratic era will never agree with the views of the writer. TY Danjuma is far from a lily liveried Army general and is highly respected amongst his pairs.
He is also very knowledgeable on Nigerian politics and has affiliation across boards. He is not one to speak carelessly, his words should not be waved away just like that.

Him don spoil Christmas for his innocent family now. it is imperative one controls his engine before it leads her/she astray

Welcome to Nigeria. A careful investigation and you will be surprised how much these Indians run the country

Kelben:
Bro. jor..jor..jor no hard feelings! let's have fun here.

I dey vex bro! Must people comment on a post? Imagine someone making such statements. if our sport industry, agricultural sector, etc can perform at the level of the entertainment industry, Naija for no never here again, then someone will be there forming posh that he is too good to watch Nollywood. Make him go follow betnaija or blackbet and allow us hear word

Davash222:
See the kind station you dey watch.. You're one of the problems we have in this country.

Yes i watch it. Clearly what you don't know has affected your judgement and you shouldn't have spoken on this topic, You have no idea about the content of the Nigerian entertainment industry, hence you will not know its rating and how much the industry gross annually,

You're definitely a big part of the non leadership issues that is slowing down the country.

Basic wisdom requires that you should be aware of the things happening around you.

Dey thing weak me too, that bridge and a particular estate that was built with bricks. everytime everytime, they must show it on half of the movies on ROK station

Finally my friend gets a chance to toast his crush. Gbenro, you shouldn’t have even married her in the first pls.

We don’t need your replacement, we need a better version of you.

Thanks for your service sir!

The special one has a new office in London
Congratulations Jose!

https://www.goal.com/en/news/tottenham-appoint-mourinho-as-new-manager/494s2cxg4leh1jvc4bex8b3uy

Na dey mother ash*wo investment be that Oo. She only can protect it at all cost. Package it young, hot and fresh like Rita Daniel

When David Levy is still there? In my opinion he is the biggest problem of the club. Shrewd and tight fisted tyrant. You can buy players from them and the players are poorly paid.
Poor Poch!!!

Op, would have help to include the prices. Interest go hand in hand with money

Where are those able and capable officer of the law that usually do accidental discharge? Make una hurry come abeg, food dey.

I tire Oo. I wanted to say maybe it was economy of scale until someone tried to sell Zobo, Kunu aya, etc to us for N600.

I told myself, this our local producer don’t like their self at all
Try meet tailor (sorry fashion designer) see, especially those ones sewing female cloths, you will consider learning how to sew by force.

You are competing with Chinese and you dey high your price. Dem need check your brain for your strategy

We have known all along that the youths have something to offer if not, how will the president call them lazy and his minister be looking for ways to suffocate them? A top CEO wants to spend 6 months in Nigeria next year, several others are looking for a piece of the gig these guys have to offer.

The dullards in power should find a way to organize this ICT sector before looking for a way to extracting monies from them through levies and taxes just because some group of people have put in so much effort and you see potential..... Only a thief reaps where he or she did not sow.

You're right for demanding that you guys resolve your misunderstanding before sex. Continuing to have sex when all is not well is only piling up issues for the day it will all boomerang and sex will not contain it anymore. But denying her sex is not the best, if she go commit now, the whole world will say you pushed her/ However as a guy, you must find away to settle your issues and not allow it to linger for a long time till your wife initiate her sex moves. From what you are saying and her actions, you guys care less about each others feelings, that is a negative emergency! Try and fix this fundamental defect before one satan sent guy/lady come into the picture

FreemanTJ:
I'm Confused With The Way Forward With My Relationship And Marriage

2 years ago I met a lady through a colleague. We got really close and became friends, few months later we got intimate and eventually she got pregnant. She was so scared and devastated and pleaded that I not only accept the pregnancy but marry her as well.....her parents are both pastors and she didnt want to bring shame to them by having a child out of wedlock.

The truth is, I wasn't ready for such commitment but I couldn't bear to see her depressed and so devastated, so I succumbed to getting married to her. Within 2 months we had to do a rushed traditional wedding and white wedding but before that I told her I felt trapped and we had an agreement we weren't going to be living together. This was because we both had different apartment at that time and due to proximity to work I wanted to stay on the island while she stayed on the mainland. She's an entrepreneur and since she was pregnant it wasn't going to be easy for her shuttling between island and mainland

She was ok with the agreement and all the while we lived apart. After the wedding I never wore the ring as I never considered myself married. My parents were the only ones that showed up at my wedding, all my sibling were really disappointed.

Anyway, to cut the long story, while I was with this lady before she got pregnant I met a lady at an event and immediately we connected. We would chat for several days and play chess game for long hours. We shared alot of common interest in our profession, games and all. She's not the reading type so I always recommend books for her to read and we reviewed together. After about 3 months of communicating online she asked if I was seeing someone, at that time my wife (it feels odd using the word wife) was pregnant, I stylishly dodged the question but she another she insisted I answered and I just had to confess I had a gf.


She thanked me for telling the truth, we continued playing chess but it wasn't as often. One time we were playing and started teasing sexually, she played along and was surprised I even mentioned anything sexual. Few months after, I got married but never mentioned it to her. I fear I might lose her while going through a marriage I never wanted.
During this period I withdrew from all form of communication, I was trying to figure out my life yet distracted. She kept sending messages on WhatsApp which I ignored until after about 2 months, I responded and she was upset that after connecting so well I suddenly withdrew.
She asked if I had a meltdown or emotional breakdown which I denied. Just told her I was detoxing from social media but I was back for good. So we continued chatting for another 3 months and decided we saw a movie together. After the movie I told her I wanted to see more of her. Eventually after some weeks, I invited her over and we got intimate. It wasn't the best of experience for her as she claims to have been celibate for over a year.

When she got home that night we discussed our sex extensively and she said she has never experienced orgasm and has always had painful. I felt I could change that experience for her. The next time she came over she asked if I truly had a gf since we spend alot of time communicating online, this time around I said I did but due to the distance we had issues and the rship isnt heading anywhere. I knew it was selfish of me but I wasn't ready to let go. After the third attempt she had her 1st orgasm and i could tell she wasn't ready to let go either.

After a while she got suspicious, she would tell me she had a dream of a short black lady chasing her out of my room and I kept reassuring her it was impossible but she kept insisting this dreams were recurring but I kept denying I had a gf or wife. She described my wife perfectly and I just wondered how some people are gifted with the ability to see things in dreams. All through the while she insisted on protection as she couldn't trust me completely. She grew more suspicious daily and I got defensive everytime and this started causing a strain in our relationship.
During this period we were dating and I asked her if she publicizes her rship on social media and she mentioned no, then later she asked me what I was hiding but i got defensive and we had a major argument.

Make I follow dis your write up. It’s a great work of fiction!

nurey:
you will hide the document from her after you have done the re-registration.

the down side is officers who wan chop and decide to scrutinize the docs can blow the bubble.

Besides there are many lies you can give your mum

1. I bought the car from my friend because the offer was too good to pass.

Bad influence! You don dey open OP head abi?

More details and more pictures pls

suskumayaya:
A mentally balanced individual should know that the current temporary boarder closure is the right thing to do considering the security and economic implications smuggling has cost Nigeria.
The FG should implement a seamless, fast and transparent clearing process in the ports.
ECOWAS economic charter has been seriously abused.

Exactly my thought. Enough of this soothing emissaries from our neighbours without addressing the real issues. Nigeria should use this time to put in place a robust clearing system that would benefit us. Now is the time to implement a national import and export process that will reflect our stance as a sovereign nation.
Border closure is just a short fix!

Happy birthday Survivor, wishing you better years ahead. Hope you get to accept reconstructive surgery soon.