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So thoughtful and correct!

There is a world of difference between married women here and over there, with the exception of very few end time women

With all the in-fighting going on amongst our administrators, I bet they wouldn’t have anytime for footballing issues now.

Hehehe, dem just farm keep for police to come harvest.
I can’t even imagine how you for explain. You go talk till her saliva finish.

So where dey weed now?

zionmde:
u are a lady who should know better as to leave ethnic bigotry for fooolish guys. unfortunately fooolishness might be running in ur lineage,who knows?

i doubt she is a lady. may be an impostor and maundering online for mischievous and economic purposes.

Boschh:
I wonder whether people are being paid to be tribalistic on Nairaland..

It's a shame though..

As in ehn! I came in here to read/see developing only to be confronted with ethnic issues from nowhere.
Maturity is in ICU on Nairaland

Answer yourself. Deep down inside you, you know the answer.
Guy you have used one stone to kill two birds. Next thing will be your sister in law will willingly come and surrender herself. After all you guys have started sharing bed. Sex is not sacred in this relationship again.
It might also do you well to learn the meaning of perversion.

From the way he’s been so quiet, I knew he has lost the battle. Pride must kill some people especially short people

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Guy God has answered your prayers early. The reason why the relationship has lasted this long is because you guys are not in the same town. Don't respond to her, just move on, her real self has been exposed. If you make up with her and she will eventually cheat on you and use this incidence to justify it.

conyema12:
I just need the my brother in law to settle whatever issues he is having with his mother in law..... Because she wants to take the child away with touts during the burial ceremony...

I understand you perfectly, that mother in law is a bad and unreasonable person that explains her behaviour. How can she say that the son in law kill her daughter, is kidney disease now a communicable disease? or how can she demand custody a child when her ties to the child is no more? There are some issues that has no settlement my guy.

Guy, hurriedly take in this little girl and love her like your own, this is the most humane thing you will ever do in your life. She is just two and will feel comfortable having a mate around, Children are always a handful but God has given parents the grace for adaptability. None of these issues are her fault. In fact forget about all those police resolution or documentation you're talking about, dat one na just means to bend dey girl destiny. As per the financial support from your brother in law, i'm very sure he will be supportive, even if he doesn't, the girl's up keep can never be beyond what you and your wife can handle.

Don't let the opportunity slide, its only good people that are offered this kind of task

Kai, so sad losing such a young prospect. War/fighting favours no one, you can hardly tell who might be cut in the cross fire

I admire your courage to bring this to an online platform, However, i think you can get this woman of your choice from any of your acquaintances or through referral from friend. 40 years is still borderline age in the game of romance in my opinion.

Someone once said that everything you need to succeed in life is within your circle. I regret not dating one of those girls that were giving me green light back then, may that not be your portion

End time children with their brains in front of their waist. Leave them with a girl the will plot the same way to pipe her

Hope the plane is well serviced, air worthy and he came with the bag of money to share for traders?

He is on his top job description of paying condolence visit as usual. Why is he not on that his black kaftan and cap?

biggy26:
These guys should realize that bad roads are more dangerous for drivers than google map. Again, simply use voice and stop looking at the phone.

That is not one of their problems become, that realization will only implicate their employers. The should even be concern about emergency health insurance for road travel but how will that put money in their pocket

How much did it cost them to come to this realization, because we are very sure this sense was beyond them a few weeks ago. One huge amount would have gone for "consultancy and legal interpretation" to procure update for their brain

CNN thrives on negative news nah. Unfortunately, the Ukrainian airline that crashed has given the something to chew on while they scout around for the next catastrophe

Nigeria never lack strange characters. We have governments that is finding it real hard paying 30k minimum wage that is less than $100 a month, why not focus on them and ask them to stop all the rubbish. Or is it the fact that Nigeria police remove their uniforms and go home in plain cloths for "security" reasons, abi is Boko Haram collecting 1k per vehicle in the north east? there is so much going wrong here that its almost irresponsibility looking beyond our shores.

Just saw him on CNN, where is my knife?

Prison evangelism mode activated. People won’t talk na sha. Persecuting Christians is never news worthy.

livebyday:
Hmmmmm

No comment abi? It’s better before you talk and get attached

strungup79:
I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.

My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home.

Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming.

My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep.

My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.

We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge.

She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect.

She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her.

Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.

Keep your sanity! Go to work, stay focused and make the best out of your life. Its only you that can pick yourself up. I will introduce the God factor to you because He is the only one that knows everything, sees everything and holds your future in His hands. He is close to you at those moment when you want to cry, when your acts of stupidity just to ensure peace in your home is thrown back at you. I can give you plenty examples my brother fa cause i have been there. But God is faithful and will surely come through for you.

ghettokid1:
This man just dey do/dress like a cultist!. Is he a cultist ni?

if you ask me, who i go ask? Bam lords where una dey?

My issue here is with you wife, so permit me to be frankly. She’s a bad person, how can she even condone such behavior as a married woman? She is setting the wrong examples for woman within her circle.

With her status as a branch manager, it’s chicken, maybe Sharwama , ice cream etc that’s her problem, if she see dollars nko? She go throw way her pant with wedding ring be that. Guy, you need to train this girl into a responsible woman then wife.

adekolaelect:
Trust yourself first before you kill yourself on top osinbajo who had made life with good character .now you can't say who you are bcs you are no where or nobody by now.I give kudos to him for having that characters ,wisdom and behaviours at this stage of his life e.g Age,wealth and influences he has.

Are you comparing me with Osinbanjo......... Really A simple aptitude or ability to comprehend would have prevented you from seeing me as the enemy.

ojokolax:
There's not much to add to your honestly honestly save that in all honesty, your views are myopic and does not indicate rational objectivity.

I stand by my opinion. You may think there are myopic and lacking rational objectivity that is your own opinion as well. We will subject the stewardship of your principal at the office to the test of time and see what becomes of him whether he will have enough integrity in left to stand on a pulpit or practice law. Time indeed will reveals all things!

Please they should come and carry him. I don't know where to classify him, whether as one that says one thing and acts differently or someone that is been used. Honestly i "honestly" with my church mind can't place him in a box, In fact i don't trust him!

Very true. Correct yan! You can be there throttling another dude's ass and expect us to come clap for you.

Bad belle people won’t like this fa. They are never happy for anyone

HannahHitler:
Lmao. You people should stop... It's not fair o.

Me that I'm almost a dwarf but I'm very sweet o.

Not so fast, let’s wait, you may soon show yourself.