There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me. But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.
I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home. Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.
If na me she will go back to her father's house and stay for one year and decide if she can tolerate it or if she needs to quit the marriage. Because she can't be any of progress to my mum and be my wife at the same time.
post=107066258: Some critical decisions need to be made now for the country to realise its potential.
Anything to move our darling nation forward is all we want at @[/color].
We are getting close to that if it is possible for the private refinery launched by Dangote to come to life. We believe that we should have enough refined petroleum for the country.
Slow and steady Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime. God bless [color=#006600]Nigeria.
Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime.
We are talking about our nation moving forward for those that want to move forward in life and prosper, Not for pessimistic souls and antagonists. Our comments is not for everyone, just for those that believe in our darling country.
Don't get it twisted boy! You get whatever you wish for in life.
We Rise.
You dey plan use South South money dey get hope, fucking leeches.
[quote author=yerokunphilips post=107052038][/quote]Terrorist gumi, terrorist gumi why you always chilling with bandits, in fireboy's voice and in peru rythm
EmekaA125: The Adamawa State Governor, Alhaji Ahmadu Fintiri has completed the first flyover in the history of the State. This was revealed when the flyover located in the heart of the city was opened up to motorists.
The flyover unarguably is the first of its kind in Adamawa(Old Gongola State) and NorthEastern region at large.
Recall that Bornu, Adamawa and Yobe have been the hot-bed of series of attacks launched by Boko Haram insurgents whose main aim is seeking for an establishment of an Islamic Caliphate where Western Education would be prohibited.
The Fintiri led administration equally reiterated its effort and unwavering commitment in delivering democracy dividend which was the reason why the PDP got majority votes in the last governorship poll.
South South money doing wonders for the north, yet them fools still ungrateful and evil.
sirjamesjnr: There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.
That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.
If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.
My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.
To that man who is in a decent relationship: I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.
Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:
1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.
2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.
To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.
Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.
Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.
Hope giver, if you like go and marry a runs girl/olosho na bastards go full your house.
Abdul another zombie from the north that are the major cause of the problem of this failed Nation Nigeria, you have spewed poo like your elders thought you.
Niece: Instagram model and dancer, Usiwo Orezinena Jane known simply as Janemena has reacted after audio where Tonto Dikeh’s ex-lover, Prince Kpokpogri alleged that he has had carnal knowledge of the dancer, surfaces online.
Recall that the dancer had earlier denied having an affair with Kpokpogri.
Few hours after the audio was leaked, the dancer took to her social media platform and posted a video of herself with the “shut-up” hand sign while a song “Okay” by Adekunle Gold was playing in the background.
The Instagram model seems unbothered about the leaked audio.
Niece: Instagram model and dancer, Usiwo Orezinena Jane known simply as Janemena has reacted after audio where Tonto Dikeh’s ex-lover, Prince Kpokpogri alleged that he has had carnal knowledge of the dancer, surfaces online.
Recall that the dancer had earlier denied having an affair with Kpokpogri.
Few hours after the audio was leaked, the dancer took to her social media platform and posted a video of herself with the “shut-up” hand sign while a song “Okay” by Adekunle Gold was playing in the background.
The Instagram model seems unbothered about the leaked audio.
Janemena told me the way I had sex with her, "that her husband has never bleeped her that way since she met him 9 years now. Na she marry the guy, no be the guy marry her."
The husband is my homie, like we grew up in the same hood, he is a great guy and very calm but not a simp, I feel his plight right now, but this Kpokpogri man is too loud to be royalty. He has disappointed men as a creation and his village as a son. Shame on him
President Muhammadu Buhari on Wednesday presided over the Federal Executive Council (FEC) meeting at the State House, Abuja, Nigeria.
The meeting was attended by the Vice President, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo, Secretary to the Federal Government, Boss Mustapha; Chief of Staff, Prof. Ibrahim Gambari, among others.
obembet: Facebook user Asadinma sent Hilarious Birthday message to Abia state Governor over abandoned flyover over 6years
She wrote
ABIA FLYOVER @ 6! Happy 6th birthday anniversary to Osisioma-Aba Ngwa Flyover in Abia State,the first Capital project of Gov. Okezie Victor Ikpeazu PhD.
Dear Flyover,as you clock six years on that strategic location,east-west road, a major road linking Imo, Abia to portharcourt, the good people of South Eastern region pray that project like you should never happen anywhere in Igbo land.
Dear Flyover, you came when millions of people from Igbo land and beyond were expecting you to be commissioned as the first and foremost Flyover in Abia State little did we know that you will remain a center table and Las Las remain an abandoned project.
Instead of being a role model for other flyovers to come on board in some other strategic places like Ariara market, Umuahia gate, Umudike road,Abani market,Abaoffia, you have rather remained an embarrassment to ndu Igbo and have brought ridicule and Shame to our land through the ambiguous budget marked out for your completion.
Our competitors from Ngbago Ugwu are using you as a yardstick of judgement and rating on how best igbos Govern themselves and provide dividends of democracy for their own people.
Dear Flyover Chief, this your sixth year anniversary,we all are praying for you.
I like the woman regardless, she is human unlike her husband. Wanting the best for yourself is not a bad idea atleast she tried tutoring him for the position.
Terrier99: You will never see Ganduje condemn this, even if it happened in his state. You will never see Buhari express shock You will never see Garba Shehu talk about this The cloth covering the Sultan's mouth won't allow him talk The fool heading MURIC has become deaf and mute. Have you heard anything from Atiku? Tambuwal, Kwankwaso are now having vocal coma.
Those demented fools who say Islam is a religion of peace won't talk about this.
Hisbah, Boko Haram, Shekau, Sharia judges, Sharia leaders, MURIC, bandits, and the lifeless one pampering terrorists who enables them all are working for the same purpose.
And when the south replies the Muslims by burning their mosques and killing their imams they will understand better that Christianity is not cowardly.
presidency: HIGHLIGHTS: President Muhammadu Buhari #UNGA76 Address, Friday September 24, 2021:
Opening:
The President congratulates UN Secretary General, Antonio Guterres on his re-election and thanks him for re-appointing Nigeria’s Ms. Amina Mohammed as Deputy Secretary General.
On Covid:
PMB now speaking about Nigeria’s Covid Response (this year’s UNGA theme is “Building resilience through hope - to recover from COVID-19, rebuild sustainably, respond to the needs of the planet, respect the rights of the people, and revitalise the United Nations).
President Buhari says Nigeria has gone from only four Covid-19 testing laboratories at the start of the pandemic, to more than 140 labs today, and built isolation centres and emergency hospital wards in record time all over the country.
Nigeria has also trained more than 40,000 health care workers on Infection Prevention and Control, and established 16 infectious disease treatment centres across the country.
“I would like to reiterate my call for a fairer and more equitable distribution of vaccines to all countries so that, together, we can fight and contain the pandemic… It is imperative to underscore that no one is safe until everyone is safe.” — President Buhari
“At the heart of Nigeria’s post-COVID-19 response is the Economic Sustainability Plan, which has a major component, called the Agriculture for Food and Jobs Programme where we seek to leverage suitable technologies to build a resilient food system for the country.” — President Buhari
On Small Arms and Light Weapons:
“Nigeria remains deeply concerned over the illicit trade, transfer, and circulation of small arms and light weapons. Their excessive accumulation and uncontrolled spread in many regions of the world are having devastating humanitarian and socio-economic consequences, especially on the continent of Africa.” — President Muhammadu Buhari
On Nuclear Disarmament:
The President assures that Nigeria will take active part in the forthcoming Review Conference of the Nuclear Prohibition Treaty + First Meeting of States Parties to the Treaty on the Prohibition of Nuclear Weapons, scheduled to take place in Q1 2022.
On Terrorism:
“Boko Haram terrorists group, though fragmented by internal strife and weakened by our defence forces, is still active and preying on soft targets. Nigeria will continue to work closely with UN Counter-Terrorism bodies and entities with a view to bringing this scourge to an end.” — President Muhammadu Buhari
“Nigeria has spared no effort in addressing the challenges of terrorism posed by the activities of Boko Haram in North-East Nigeria and the Lake Chad region, as well as banditry in the North-West and North-Central Nigeria. The Nigerian Security Forces have recorded considerable success in the fight against terrorism. As a result of the renewed vigour of our military, many terrorist fighters are voluntarily surrendering to our security forces.” President Buhari
On Climate Change:
The President assures that Nigeria is continuing its transition to a low-carbon economy, consistent with achieving the Paris Climate Agreement and the Sustainable Development Goals.
“We intend to build a climate-resilient economy that effectively aligns with the SDGs and that has great potentials to unlocking the full opportunities in different sectors of the economy, while protecting the resources for present and future generations.” — President Buhari
On Trade:
“Fair and equitable trade would eventually eliminate the need for aid. My country and indeed all African countries do not intend to stay indefinitely looking for aid. All we need is a fair and equitable system of international trade.” — President Muhammadu Buhari
On Debt:
“There is an urgent need to consider expansion and extension of the Debt Service Suspension Initiative to include all Developing, Least Developed Countries and Small Island Developing States facing fiscal and liquidity challenges. In addition, a review of the eligibility criteria for debt suspension, including outright cancellation, is needed for countries facing the most severe challenges.” — President Muhammadu Buhari
On UN Security Council Reform:
“No reform of the United Nations system is more urgent than that of the Security Council. Stakeholders around the world are asking how such power could be concentrated, with scant representation. The intergovernmental negotiations have taken too long, some 15 years. We must avoid going in cycles… It is unreasonable to expect unanimity in this matter. The issue, indeed, is about justice, not unanimity...” — President Buhari
On the Middle East:
“Nigeria encourages Israel and Palestine to re-engage in dialogue based on relevant UN resolutions and Initiatives. The two-state solution has the support of the international community and is widely acknowledged as the path to lasting peace.” — President Buhari
On Chancellor Angela Merkel:
“Let me close my statement by paying special tribute to a great and humane internationalist, and an exemplary practitioner of multilateral cooperation. I am speaking of Chancellor Angela Merkel of the Federal Republic of Germany. As she exits the stage, we wish her well.”
On Nigeria and the United Nations:
“Nigeria re-affirms its faith in the United Nations and is further resolved to continue to work with all Member-States for peace and security, development and the protection of human rights.”
— Presidency Office of Digital Engagement (PODE)
If failure was a person it will be Buhari, the old man failed so bad that the elites in his cacus became ashamed of his policies. A dull brain reading what was written for him, without shame he was even asking for cancellation of debts. The audacity, thief.
Patrioticman007: No erection No Biafra. Imagine they want a dot Nation, but they are not ready to cleanse themselves of evils they see in others. To name just a few Drugs peddling na dem Human trafficking na dem Baby factories na dem Yahoo Yahoo na dem Fake drugs na dem.
The dot Nation will be the first republic on earth to legalize crimes & the requirement for President will be a recognise international Drug Baron.
I didn't see terrorism, skull mining, poverty or laziness in all you listed so atleast we are trying to survive in a failed country that despise us for being successful hardworking and smart. Igbo boy any day any time.
The North is still yet to understand that the politics they used to control before is no longer in their power because the Yoruba man has woken up and with Tinubu eyeing the sit, they need to play smart and give in for the south or they will totally become irrelevant come 2023
Regardless of me not liking Buhari, I like this woman alot she has proven to be wiser than her husband. She would have made a better president than her husband.
Lovenorth: This man of a governor has made it clear that Buhari is the most Cherished president of Nigeria, we thank him for that revelation and confession but he should also understand that we Nigerians are ready to support whoever Baba endorsed as his successor. So the expectations and assumption of bringing PDP in to the equation of Nigerian political arithmetic operation is erroneous
I remember when ipob were feasting on the police and they were crying like babies now they are killing innocent citizens and laying false accusations on them. Shame on the Nigeria police force.
What's good to talk about Nigeria please, there is nothing as worse the inflation of food prices in a country, if the people you claim to love and lead are finding it difficult to eat then the country is wrecked. Thank you.
Family › Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Brown2012: 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2021
