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DomPerignon:You say this despite the rest of us seeing quite a lot of Igbo people wanting state police! |
DomPerignon:First, I am not against state police. Second, I am not in the SE. I hope you see how you make up crap in your own head to believe. |
Actually, it is your irresponsibility that destroyed your life. And that irresponsibility has not yet finished destroying your life, or you wouldn't be here irresponsibly blaming woman for what you are responsible for. |
DomPerignon:You are the only one here who clearly sees what you claim you see. What I see is most of us have much better eyes to see much clearer than you. |
Nice2023:Don't mind them. One Peter raised concern and to some it's "all Igbos don't want state police". Please do not tire in dropping the truth and facing your business. You are appreciated by some. |
2special:God please make me wise like 2special when I grow up. |
Lovelink1991:Different from VeryWickedMan, who "issued that order with immediate effect"? Yes, I am very different. VeryWickedMan has powers I don't have, and if I had issued the order he issued, someone would most likely have shot me. |
DeOTR:I do agree. But before we start, I'd think we should plan as well as we can. One, after all, shouldn't go and buy blocks to build a house without a plan. And a plan is made by considering many factors. |
VeryWickedMan:You have been issuing this order from like since last year and we still have no details about it apart from the nonsense on social media. Personally, I don't believe them, but I believe you of course.
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I can not help imagine you wrote similar to what you wrote here to companies too, and I'm not surprised you got no answer. Your "sitting at home" is like waiting for manna to fall into your mouth, which is disqualifying, because, while you are sitting at home, those you are competing for work with are out their increasing their skills and desirability to be hired, such that even you would likely hire them instead of hiring yourself. I have a job for you. Learn how to promote your skills to a person who might find you useful. Employers do not care about your needs. They care about their own needs, which they might hire you to fulfil for them if you show them you can. |
I read your post. And I do engage in back and forth because unlike you I have respect for the views of others even when I disagree with them. I'm also aware you are not the only one here, and that others will read our posts and make up their own minds what to think. You have a good day too. casualobserver: |
My personal bias at the start of the World Cup was Iran would be robbed regardless what they do. This, however, is not it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apOZguWB2nM?si=L6tW4arQ31XOT5Hi |
Council on foreign intervention promotion? Is that a council to promote foreign intervention, like dump did in Venezuela and is doing in Iran or what? One would need the policy of the council one heads I'd think, so what one does is within their framework. |
Meanwhile, protest in Nigeria is aluta and endsars or Sowore's recent one that led to his arrest, as we have not yet recognised the powers we have. Thanks tons for this DJperdurabo. We will learn. |
DeOTR:You indeed do not understand my point. And that's not your fault, as my point on this issue is spread over many threads. You mentioned "sane climes". Where I live, there'd be consultation and studies where such has been implemented to see the problems they faced so they can be mitigated against in advance. Nigeria, however, does not consult nor study enough. You mentioned Texas. Texas, had many cities (or villages even, though they called them towns) at conception in the 1700s, some very far away from each other such that journeys by horse, which is all they had then, took days. That's why each town had a marshall. A federal police would not have worked. A place was not even recognised as a town until they had a marshall and a post office. And some marshalls were very prone to abuse their office, you'd find. I do not oppose state police. I just want it implemented properly |
casualobserver:So, you think I tell people they can be whatever they want to be but they don't need to work for it? But it's that bold that got me. In UK in the 70s, black kids were guided to be nurses and bus drivers and postmen by people who saw that to be the "true gifts" of black people, to the extent that a black child who aspired to be a doctor or a lawyer or accountant was told that was not their gift. casualobserver:Because I am not a high flying woman with a wonderful family with children who are flying high like me? casualobserver:I hope it's also okay to go to school and get an education and be the best lawyer or accountant or doctor or AI specialist too, even if one does not make millions doing so. I mean, it might beat "Hollywood actress or an Afribeat singer", especially if you have no talent to be "Hollywood actress or an Afribeat singer", since the talent for what I propose is dedication and study. casualobserver:Actually, I tell all girls that they are queens in their own right, and I tell all young people that they should develop their minds. Their beauty or lack off is irrelevant to me, since that's not what's going to feed them. casualobserver:I get you. You leave your life to chance. I don't. A good parent trains their children to be morally upright, yes, but they also ought to train their children to earn a living is what I think. If I train my daughter to be a president or a chief judge, which would be odd to be honest, even if she does not achieve those goals and only gets half way, she'd be a lot better off than if I did not bother and left it to chance. But for your information, I've trained my children to have skills that will earn them incomes so they can feed themselves and their own and that they can build on. Apex is for them to determine. They are now training their own children. casualobserver:And the foolish and the ignorant too. |
DeOTR:I'm very certain that we are talking about the "sane clime of Nigeria", and not some "climes" that have been doing it for decades and have refined it so it now works efficiently. It definitely didn't work as effectively in Texas when it was first introduced as it does today. |
giacomogiovanni:I never said they were mutually exclusive. I am simply against the stup¹d ignorant archaic "submit to your man" mantra. And it is my own opinion that it is the mantra of weak men who can not compete with women on a level playing field. If we were talking football, you'd be asking the opposition to play with 10 men and wear slippers! |
ugreat:I forgive you. You've at least pointed out that some do what this individual did, and that's a good thing. |
ugreat:Oh! Really! A misconception made you go about attempting to tarnish my reputation? Well, I guess this is you repenting. Please go and sin no more. |
HacheNoire:20k, apparently. Like £10, I think that is. My first scam in my time on Nairaland. And for all the things possible, to travel, lol. Ugreat, please post screenshots of buda scamming you. Its your duty to protect others from buda! |
Now this is a very new one, lol. My first scamming accusation in the time I've been on Nairaland. It certainly must be because this individual has way more than anyone else on Nairaland such that buda has to scam him. And for all the things on earth, to travel. And for the pittance of joining a whatsapp group! Thankfully, this individual has evidence which I am certain he will provide for Nairalanders to see for themselves. My engagement with him began on this thread, https://www.nairaland.com/8698859/romania-good-choice#139840766 And I'm very certain that anyone who looks at my profile would know my email address. As for my phone number, well, please share ugreat. ugreat: |
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sacajawea:Yes I did. And not only him but the first lady who should be fighting for women to be Nigerian president but is empowering to sell akara like that is what she wishes for her own daughters. That said, my emotions from another thread spilled over to here. https://punchng.com/remi-tinubu-faces-backlash-over-akara-roasted-corn-remarks/ |
CharlesCNG:I actually see incivility as our biggest problem. We use it to hide our lack of knowledge instead of understanding and admitting to ourselves that we can not possibly know all. An ego thing, I reckon. It's just a pity I often fail, and therefore make our problems bigger. Thank you more Charles. Your iron sharpened my iron and made me a better me. |
FSBoperator:Just in case you never heard, I found you a fresh "last throes of a dying monster". https://www.nairaland.com/8698871/gunmen-kill-benue-miyetti-allah#139840905 |
pussyphilia:Our marriage is not a ship. Besides, the assistant captain does not submit to the captain. They work together. And on some ships the second in command mutineers against a rogue captain. Watch Crimson Tide. It will expand your mind on the need for two man rule on a ship.
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I then gave her practical, realistic strategies to start doing for the next 30 days to inspire her husband to change. Real psychological advice when it comes to dealing with men. Not prayer and fasting alone… real strategy.A lot of women don't know how to train their husbands or don't know they might need to. You, Sir, give me hope. |
Anywhere is a good option. The question is, are you good enough for the available options? One question you need answered is, can you work there? If you can earn and pay your way while studying, I'd think you are good to go. Sorry I can't answer that though, as I've never been there. |
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