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Sagamite:Lol. But she's, by far, one of the smartest girls on NL. Guess we all have our blind spots. |
laraxxx:Omo see wahala. Na your moni? |
Stoke City...there is godu o ![]() |
@ EnlightenedSoul I came in here to knock Sagamite for no reason, and without reading his posts . But unfortunately, I did. And he's made a lot of sense. His analogy is apt too. The same way you think the cosmetics/accessories law is biased - because women will mostly be affected. So he thinks for divorce laws...because more men are currently on the receiving end. Lol, comprehension was never my strong suit, so I might just be rafting as well... ![]() |
UjSizzle:Good questions. Women are not interested in any one person. They are interested in males who meet certain biological/social criteria. Same for men. For men, mainly biological; for women, mainly social. And, she didn't set these. When she's playing out the script, they name her a flirt.Lol. Really, no one owes anyone an explanation. "All's fair in love and war", said some dude. People are going to whine, whatever decisions you make, anyway. |
Freiburger:You can say that again. |
UjSizzle:You're such a darling. |
@ Mynd44 "Green-lights" are very very real - like your arm, or the device you are looking at, right now. And they are not some 'nice' things another human being does. They are tangible Indicators of Interest - sexual interest. And can be consistently relied upon - if you know what to look for. Actually, it would be quite weird if we didn't have them - other animals do. As humans, a massive part of our communication is sub-communicated. Body-language, tonality, etc. And these are largely unconscious. So most of our mating signals are sent and acted upon unconsciously. What do most girls say after they've just had sex with a new guy? "It just happened". They are not lying. As far as they consciously know, it really just happened. So those times you thought you saw a green-light, you most likely did, but what you saw was maybe, Step 1, in a multi-step mating dance. And this you cannot talk about, because she's largely unaware of what she's doing. Or more accurately, what is happening - because its her body doing this on its own. These are the most common IOIs: => Eye-contact: if she repeatedly holds you gaze longer than normal: Sexual Interest. => Touches you more than normal: Sexual Interest. => Proximity: This takes many forms, and I find instances of this quite funny. She walks right into you as if you're a glass door - as in she go jam you . Crosses the road to walk on your side. Slows her pace, or increases it - so you guys cross...in hopes you will do your job. Drops something, or bends to adjust her footwear.=> Aha...Preening: flicks her hair, repeatedly (no hands) - like she's some bird or packs it, to the sides, continuously. Displaying neck or revealing nape.=> etc But the biggest one, even in the absence of these, is COMPLIANCE! If she's compliant to your touches, invasion of her personal space, your leadership - let's go over there, stop that, sit on my lap; kissing, etc. She's in. But your best option is to assume that EVERY girl you like, likes you already and will be interested - if she gets to experience you. So you give her the opportunity by going over to engage her. In fact, if you're masculine, and she's there listening to you - on some level, she wants your cóck in her mouth, period. She just doesn't know it yet. Even when she's standoffish, has a big scowl on her face and pretends not to hear what you're saying. She will soon come around. Delusional? Maybe. Potent? You bet. |
I find several sections of this post extremely hilarious .Rather callous...I know. |
Arsenate:Lmao. You think of yourself making out with him? ![]() |
Assume she wants to be touched - at all times. |
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Omo, these things dey big, no be small. E fit swallow Oprah without chewing. |
Cockblocking... |
This Java, does she suck díck? |
Yeah, the underwhelment does happen. "Is this sex??" Just stay of the másturbation for just a few days and you'll want to fvck even a goat. |
If you combine beans with that medicine, the juju go spoil. |
baba11:Bros, your head no correct .You're kidding right? |
kingDavidda1st:So a more apt alternative would be...tying down? ![]() |
Freest:Had it not been for the footsteps, I am certain you wouldn't have stopped - at least when you did. |
Because that's where the money is! |
Supzeel:Short answer: Be yourself. But if you're currently shy, insecure, unconfident, self-hating and misogynistic, is that yourself? Not at all. So this leads us to the very, very long answers: rediscover your SELF-ESTEEM, become masculine, get in touch with your sexuality and have a strong sense of reality. A process really. Finally, there's a good elementary but very helpful ebook on the subject. Been around for years: Double Your Dating. Will cost you about $14. |
You don't really want your girlfriend back. You want those feelings back - from ANY girl. You just, currently, think your ex is the only option you have. |
firstkyn:Most times: YES. You kinda need to understand the dynamic at play whenever you interact with a women. Your role as man is that of leader, protector, provider, etc. And if she's going to pass on your genes to her children, you have to be a relatively STRONG man. How will you be able to kill a fvcking lion if you're scared of talking to a harmless little girl? You need to banish shyness, and related words, from your vocabulary. Shyness is one of the most unattractive traits a guy can have. |
Hazardd:Daaas right! |
Prixus:Lol, konji no too get sense sha. And on the other hand, her RAM go don overload with thoughts of "will he agree", "what will he think of me?" ...if its a real story though. |
Chrisbenogor:Hey bro, most certainly the voice. That's why I tend to be tepid about audio books. I am assuming your interest is motivation & human behaviour. So anytime you do get the opportunity - even if its 10 years on - read it. It is a class act. In the mean time, check out: Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, and Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality by Christopher Ryan. Best Regards. |
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