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Family › Re: Wife Awarded The Sum Of N92 BILLION For Divorce Settlement by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:28pm On Dec 06, 2014
Sagamite:
Don't tell her.

I want to enjoy seeing her grasping at straws to escape the ocean she is in, while I toy with her and ridicule her. grin

"It applies to everyone, hence it is not sexist". grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Feminist would say anything to make sure women get an advantage and men are victimised by the law. grin grin grin
Lol. But she's, by far, one of the smartest girls on NL. Guess we all have our blind spots.
Nairaland General › Re: Rich Nigerians Spending Millions On London Property - video report from London! by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:11pm On Dec 06, 2014
laraxxx:
The woman in this video is selling a house to one Nigerian family in lon-DON for £50million shocked shocked shocked

Where is all our money going to?? Apparently wealthy Nigerians spent over $390 million on property in London over the last 3 years ... is this okay? I think some of the people have very valid opinions - why buy a house in Mayfair huh huh shocked shocked


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0DgVg-owqI
Omo see wahala. Na your moni?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Stoke Vs Arsenal (3 - 2) On 6th December 2014 by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:01pm On Dec 06, 2014
Stoke City...there is godu o grin
Family › Re: Wife Awarded The Sum Of N92 BILLION For Divorce Settlement by BuddhaPalm(m):
@ EnlightenedSoul

I came in here to knock Sagamite for no reason, and without reading his posts grin. But unfortunately, I did. And he's made a lot of sense.

His analogy is apt too.

The same way you think the cosmetics/accessories law is biased - because women will mostly be affected. So he thinks for divorce laws...because more men are currently on the receiving end.

Lol, comprehension was never my strong suit, so I might just be rafting as well... grin
Romance › Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:18pm On Dec 06, 2014
UjSizzle:
If this isn't a conscious move, rather people acting out biological scripts, why the hell do men take it that she has a particular interest in any one person? For all she knows, you all (everyone who picks the signals) fall in one category: Possible mates if you fulfill whatever criteria she's set.
Good questions.

Women are not interested in any one person. They are interested in males who meet certain biological/social criteria. Same for men.

For men, mainly biological; for women, mainly social.

And, she didn't set these.


When she's playing out the script, they name her a flirt.

When she starts kicking applicants off the list, she's a biitch, and playing with people's feelings.

When she decides some are keepers but not mate material, then she is a serial friend zone-r.

You want to explain why?
Lol.

Really, no one owes anyone an explanation. "All's fair in love and war", said some dude. People are going to whine, whatever decisions you make, anyway.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Newcastle Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 6th December 2014 by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:27pm On Dec 06, 2014
Freiburger:
The only thing this guy does for his club is scoring against Chelsea undecided
You can say that again.
Romance › Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:45pm On Dec 06, 2014
UjSizzle:
Lol BuddhaPalm I guessing antispam bot just banned you


Farano, Pasqal09, Seun, Ishilove biko release him.

Meanwhile the rest of you can read the post I just quoted (that's the only way I can unspam it for now).
You're such a darling.
Romance › Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by BuddhaPalm(m):
@ Mynd44

"Green-lights" are very very real - like your arm, or the device you are looking at, right now.

And they are not some 'nice' things another human being does. They are tangible Indicators of Interest - sexual interest. And can be consistently relied upon - if you know what to look for.

Actually, it would be quite weird if we didn't have them - other animals do.


As humans, a massive part of our communication is sub-communicated. Body-language, tonality, etc. And these are largely unconscious.

So most of our mating signals are sent and acted upon unconsciously.


What do most girls say after they've just had sex with a new guy? "It just happened". They are not lying. As far as they consciously know, it really just happened.

So those times you thought you saw a green-light, you most likely did, but what you saw was maybe, Step 1, in a multi-step mating dance. And this you cannot talk about, because she's largely unaware of what she's doing. Or more accurately, what is happening - because its her body doing this on its own.


These are the most common IOIs:

=> Eye-contact: if she repeatedly holds you gaze longer than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Touches you more than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Proximity: This takes many forms, and I find instances of this quite funny. She walks right into you as if you're a glass door - as in she go jam you grin. Crosses the road to walk on your side. Slows her pace, or increases it - so you guys cross...in hopes you will do your job. Drops something, or bends to adjust her footwear.
=> Aha...Preening: flicks her hair, repeatedly (no hands) - like she's some bird grin or packs it, to the sides, continuously. Displaying neck or revealing nape.
=> etc

But the biggest one, even in the absence of these, is COMPLIANCE! If she's compliant to your touches, invasion of her personal space, your leadership - let's go over there, stop that, sit on my lap; kissing, etc. She's in.

But your best option is to assume that EVERY girl you like, likes you already and will be interested - if she gets to experience you. So you give her the opportunity by going over to engage her.

In fact, if you're masculine, and she's there listening to you - on some level, she wants your cóck in her mouth, period. She just doesn't know it yet.

Even when she's standoffish, has a big scowl on her face and pretends not to hear what you're saying. She will soon come around.

Delusional? Maybe.

Potent? You bet.
Family › Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:36am On Dec 06, 2014
I find several sections of this post extremely hilarious grin grin grin.

Rather callous...I know.
Nairaland General › Re: How Do You Control Rising Manliness In Public? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:53pm On Dec 05, 2014
Arsenate:
just think of something disgusting; something you really hate. me, personally, I think of Chelsea and José Mourinho.
Lmao.

You think of yourself making out with him? grin
Romance › Re: 5 Sign's That Girls Do If They Want You To Touch Them by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:25pm On Dec 05, 2014
Assume she wants to be touched - at all times.
Politics › Re: North Korea Orders Citizens With Same Name As Leader To Change It. by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:36pm On Dec 04, 2014
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Celebrities › Re: Oprah Winfrey Poses With Lion On O-magazine Cover [photo] by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:12pm On Dec 04, 2014
Omo, these things dey big, no be small. E fit swallow Oprah without chewing.
Romance › Re: 5 Privileges Ugly Girls Have by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:55pm On Dec 04, 2014
Cockblocking...
Christianity Etc › Re: "......what If....." by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2014
lafflaff123:
What if you get a job?
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy

Shedding tears, real tears.
Romance › Re: Letter To My Lovely Code... by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:41am On Dec 04, 2014
This Java, does she suck díck?
Romance › Re: Am I Different,or Am I A Freak by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:11am On Dec 04, 2014
Yeah, the underwhelment does happen. "Is this sex??"

Just stay of the másturbation for just a few days and you'll want to fvck even a goat.
Health › Re: Are Nigerians Who Reject Free Condoms Hypocrites? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:59am On Dec 04, 2014
baba11:
Why u dey fear me

I no go beat u nah angry grin
huh

Your head really is not correct.
Health › Re: Weird; Man Invents Pill To Make Farts Smell Like Chocolate by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:30pm On Dec 03, 2014
If you combine beans with that medicine, the juju go spoil.
Health › Re: Are Nigerians Who Reject Free Condoms Hypocrites? by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:27pm On Dec 03, 2014
baba11:
What is the essence of giving free condoms?are they promoting promiscusity or abstinence....So if i took it,wouldn't i find somehow to use it....i believe they are marketing their products not minding degrading moral in our society...If you want to preach nay HIV,preach faithfulness to your spouse and abstinence.Why will you give someone condoms without asking his marital status...#Chai##SMH
Bros, your head no correct grin.

You're kidding right?
Family › Re: Why Is Getting Married Referred To As "Settling Down"? by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:20pm On Dec 03, 2014
kingDavidda1st:
Its called settling down cos you are saddled with some family responsibilities that ordinarily you've not have done while you were single.
So a more apt alternative would be...tying down? grin
Romance › Re: Guys Help out! My Worrisome Experience This Mornin-She lied!!! by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:45pm On Dec 03, 2014
Freest:
Hmm,,...
She's a small gurl just infatuated and all that!!!
Had it not been for the footsteps, I am certain you wouldn't have stopped - at least when you did.
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Nigerian Girls Reveal Their Cleavages? by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:06pm On Dec 03, 2014
Because that's where the money is!
Romance › Re: Int by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:05pm On Dec 03, 2014
Supzeel:
Pls Help I don't know hw to approach a girl on the street and online" I need tips
Short answer: Be yourself.

But if you're currently shy, insecure, unconfident, self-hating and misogynistic, is that yourself? Not at all.

So this leads us to the very, very long answers: rediscover your SELF-ESTEEM, become masculine, get in touch with your sexuality and have a strong sense of reality. A process really.

Finally, there's a good elementary but very helpful ebook on the subject. Been around for years: Double Your Dating. Will cost you about $14.
Romance › Re: Gt by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:51pm On Dec 03, 2014
You don't really want your girlfriend back.

You want those feelings back - from ANY girl. You just, currently, think your ex is the only option you have.
Romance › Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:24pm On Dec 03, 2014
firstkyn:
please i realy need to know,kus this is driving me crazy... so annoying that even if she has feelings for him she wil have to waith for him to strike a convo first.... why girls? cant you just save the shy guys?
Most times: YES.

You kinda need to understand the dynamic at play whenever you interact with a women.

Your role as man is that of leader, protector, provider, etc. And if she's going to pass on your genes to her children, you have to be a relatively STRONG man.

How will you be able to kill a fvcking lion if you're scared of talking to a harmless little girl?

You need to banish shyness, and related words, from your vocabulary. Shyness is one of the most unattractive traits a guy can have.
Nairaland General › Re: This Is Getting On My Nerves by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:01pm On Dec 03, 2014
Hazardd:
This thread is example of it
Daaas right!
Romance › Re: Guys Help out! My Worrisome Experience This Mornin-She lied!!! by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:56pm On Dec 03, 2014
Prixus:
instead of u to b happy u left there with ur balls still hanging btw ur legs. btw it's either this story aint true or d girl is just plain dumb. how can she call u when she knows her dad is around n is dangerous? what exactly was her plan? seduce u, then straff u right there where her dad can walk in n catch u guys?
Lol, konji no too get sense sha. And on the other hand, her RAM go don overload with thoughts of "will he agree", "what will he think of me?"

...if its a real story though.
Christianity Etc › Re: To All Atheist, Agnostic, Skeptics E.t.c Do People Know You As An Atheist? by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:17pm On Nov 30, 2014
Chrisbenogor:
Audible app says 10 hrs to go. Maybe it's the voice of the guy reading it. I was so hooked to predictably irrational I finished in record time. This one is kinda slow for me.


PS: audible is the only way I can justify not reading for my exams or even reading the mountain load of manuals I should know like the holy bible. .........
Hey bro, most certainly the voice. That's why I tend to be tepid about audio books.

I am assuming your interest is motivation & human behaviour. So anytime you do get the opportunity - even if its 10 years on - read it. It is a class act.

In the mean time, check out: Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, and Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality by Christopher Ryan.

Best Regards.

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