Christianity Etc › Re: Yet Another Unanswered Question On Creation for atheists/scientists by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:49pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
honourhim: Irrelevant posts. Lol, even if my guy provides video evidence, you will still say "irrelevant"  . |
Romance › Re: Ladies,can You Marry For Money? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:08pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Hypergamy anyone? |
Crime › Re: Does Indecent Dressing Justify Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:59pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
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Crime › Re: Does Indecent Dressing Justify Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:58pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
yinkuscious: indecent is "indecent", since everyone knows what the generally accepted standard is. Skimpy is also indecency. My brother, there's really no genarally accepted standard. A little over 100 years ago, women in the east walked about bare breasted - and it wasn't considered indecency. Why would it be indecent now? My very own grandmother said they ran into the bush whenever the whites wanted to give them clothes. |
Crime › Re: Does Indecent Dressing Justify Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:31pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
UjSizzle: No we're not. I know about bonobonos and their hypersexuality, but most often than not, they serve bigger functions than reproduction for their community eg settling disputes, of which the human population have courts. So why again should we climb down the evolutionary ladder just because we think there's more fun down there?
Nice story There's something wrong with the link though. Aha, little Seun's word filters. In the link, just replace "Romance-Machines" with vibrátors. Great you know your brothers and sisters, the bonobos  . About 'climbing down' the evolutionary ladder; even if it were to be a descent...will be by just a few steps. We share close to 98% of our DNA with these excessively promiscuous dudes. And just like the bonobos, sex serves many a function in humans too: recreation, social bonding, barter/commerce, reproduction, etc.Humans obviously evolved or were designed for multi-male/multi-female mating (gang-bangs). The human male's genitalía packs excessive firepower (300 million sperm cells...), and the human female's organ is designed for spérm competition. Yes, spérm from different males, in there, at the same time. The human female broadcasts sex invitations 24/7 (permanent swellings). Doesn't have a mating season, masks her ovulation and packs an atom-bomb of a pleasure organ called the clitóris. Finally, theory aside; open your eyes and really look. Don't you see mass "hysteria" in your specie? |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide's Story For The Gods: A Nigerian Song Recommending Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:22pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
BruzMoney: In case that was not convincing enough he continues so that there will be no doubts. He narrates how the lady started saying he is in trouble, “he has broken my back, he has broken my arm” and he again dismiss this again as story for the gods, meaning not even the back breaking and arm breaking or the trouble he is threatened with will stop him from having his way with her. He MUST do this and he must do so by force. Oh God! Our people did not stone him, they did not even say please we do not want this; they accepted this obvious and heartless glorification of rape. What have we turned into? While your earlier article: "Least We Immortalize Nuisance" was exceptional and on point; I cannot say the same for this extremely malicious one. You are attempting to twist the lyrics here. Verbal persistence = rape abi? She says "I am in trouble" => She's in trouble because she's late (for home, whatever, etc). Not Olamide. Rape endorsement is a weighty accusation, and has the potential to irreparably damage this young-man's reputation. “he has broken my back, he has broken my arm”: Again, rough consensual sex isn't rape. He was rough, yes, and that should be none of your business. This is slander. |
Romance › Re: Friendzoning Her Husband, Please Help. by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:27pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
xpac01: hmmmm, bros do you understand meaning of your moniker? Buddhist don't fight fire with fire. Buddha Palm is a fictional fighting technique  . |
Romance › Re: Friendzoning Her Husband, Please Help. by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:54pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
@ Topic
Lol.
Easy solution: fight fire with fire. Do not reward bad behaviour. |
Family › Re: Opinion On Girls Who Sleep With Married Men. by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:37pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: It still boils down to wrong values.
I refuse to accept that men are controlled by their testosterone or in other words the thing between their legs. I refuse to believe that a man who has such values like honesty, loyalty, fairness and fidelity will make advances at his wife's niece.
But in Nigeria women are considered a trophy and their value is determined by their age and ability to push out babies and this is why you will VERY OFTEN hear stories of men sleeping with their housemaids, their wives' nieces, their students and with women who could be their daughters.
It is not the same everywhere. The way in which women are treated is different and the frequency of such incidents seems to be much lower in some other places.
In some countries people emphasize other values more. Please may I know the country where it is significantly different? Saudi or Utopia? |
Crime › Re: Does Indecent Dressing Justify Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:19pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
^^^ Ahhh...wrong thread. |
Crime › Re: Does Indecent Dressing Justify Rape? by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:13pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
UjSizzle: If men can train themselves to notice a zillion and one things in a woman before her sexuality, I'm sure this rape menace will be reduced. Even if it takes seeing them as siblings to make it work at all.
Meanwhile, why is everything in this world highly sexualized? It's like humans have suddenly become walking intimacy gadgets  Our closest relatives, on the evolutionary tree, Chimps and Bonobos are hypersexed 5-star sluts. So are we.The only problem with cheating this, and cheating that is that we haven't fully come to terms with the true nature of human sexuality. Not so long ago 'experts' still held that women had absolutely no sex drives. As in ZERO. Up till the 19th century, do you know what happened to women suffering from sexual frustration? They were diagnosed with a disease! A disease, yes. They called it hysteria. What was the treatment? Massaging the genitals to órgasm. The vibrator was eventually invented by a doctor for the treatment of hysterics...because the number of women who suffer from hysteria - and required repeated 'treatment' were just overwhelming for doctors  . Socially, we only adopted a concept like monogamy to maintain order. But monogamy itself is an aberration in nature. You can read more about hysteria here. |
Romance › Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:19am On Nov 28, 2014 |
adepiero: Be happy! that was how Kim Kardashian got popular  |
Autos › Needed: Toks 2013 Landcruiser. by BuddhaPalm(op): 11:43am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Kindly PM me if you have the above.
Drop the VIN here too. Cheers. |
Business › Re: What CBN Devaluation Of Naira Means: In Case You Don't Get It. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:38am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Money is not your supply... |
Travel › Re: US Embassy Receives 220,000 Visa Applications by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:15am On Nov 26, 2014 |
220,000 out of about 170m people?
Not so much. |
Romance › Re: Have I Lost Him? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:11am On Nov 26, 2014 |
You shouldn't have told him.
Generally, don't tell people what they can't handle. Had you told him the real figures, he'd have been dead by now. |
Romance › Re: Guys Share Your Maga-rizm Experience by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:44am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Been there...got a medal. |
Romance › Re: Male Advice Needed by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:36am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Drama. |
Romance › Re: Meet Mrcork's Girlfriend by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:30am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Can't be. She's not light-skinned  |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:08am On Nov 26, 2014 |
Stillfire: Lol, buddhapalm has just dissed African tradition. Booty shaking is our art form o. It is art jor.  Lol, not necessarily. One is sexual; the other tantalizing and sensual. You could liken them to the difference between watching a dozen baboons splash around in a pool vs watching synchronized swimming at the olympics  . |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:46am On Nov 26, 2014 |
UjSizzle: Tell your gf I'm sorry
 You're feisty, ain't you  . Not so fast though... gotta earn ya wings first. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:35am On Nov 26, 2014 |
UjSizzle: It isn't. It's actually beautiful to watch ya know Like watching ballerinas...the grace....hmmmm They just happen to be half/almost nakiid is all But they wear only enough to let your imagination take flight. Beautiful. It's like poetry or a really good novel, where the writer leaves you guessing even to the very end; allowing you connect all the dots yourself. It's crazy because the answer is elusive, but still mesmerizing enough that you stay glued till it's over. That's primal art.
Yeah I'm a woman who doesn't mind staring at female strip tease. What else hasn't the world seen  Ị ma wassup. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:31am On Nov 26, 2014 |
ayibawanemi: DEEP!!
richfella reincarnated(i have gone through your post history and i cannot be mistaken).ever since i read your submission titled 'THE ILLUSION OF PURITY' on a certain thread. I wish to be like you when i grow up(no shiit).i stay following your exceptional perspective on issues about how the opposite sex are wired Am caught. Thanks for the compliment; you're a man of very fine taste  . PM me in your second year, and I could recommend some related resources. Congrats on your admission too. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:51am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Lol. I don't aspire to be a slave to my appetites. Self-control is why the world is not up in flames yet. The day we quit restraining ourselves, we will råpe and kill, pillage and burn and do everything we want to without a thought.  Compassion and empathy...not morals. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:36am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: By the way, strip clubs have half-nâked dancing women? I thought it was a full show. Why would I go to a strip club for half-nakëd women when I can just buy a music video or put on Soundcity? Its atrocious bro... comparing pixels on a screen to real-life, double-deluxe, feminine deliciousness in living colour  . Please never say that again. And you seem to hold strip joints in contempt. Well, one of the most beautiful sights I've ever experienced was watching a particular girl pole-dance. Was not the crass, artless booty-shaking variety. Words fail me. But it was art, sublime art. Perfect form & control (she just floated), a beautiful smile, a beautiful body, eye-contact, absolute grace of motion and genuine enthusiasm. She really had more fun than I did. It was the divine feminine, the essence of all life, on display, in all its glory. I was enchanted, inspired, intoxicated... stricken!Had I the inclination, could have most easily sculpted a David or composed a symphony - immediately afterwards. Unfortunately, yours truly drowned this divine impulse in Heineken. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:28pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
UjSizzle: Tsk tsk. So we just go wherever the wind blows us? What happened to choice, and making of ourselves what we want to be? Well, from the highest philosophical perspective, we merely have apparent choice. And closer to home, you didn't choose your drives, desires, inclinations, etc. Every action is spawned by preceding chains of events of which you are not at the cause. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:55pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
UjSizzle: Hmmm I see why Yuzedo likes you. I'd kiss you now if I could  My girlfriend won't like that very much. She's some vicious nazi-bítch  . BTW, you write really well. Your energy easily shines through too. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:35pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: The nice guy is simply the dude with moral restraint. Lol, you believe that? A nice guy is actually a guy in fear. A guy who buries his legit wants and desires under whatever convenient excuse he can latch onto. If your strongest drives, as a human, are of the devil. Then you must be a child of the devil. Embrace it. You should not be at war with yourself. But if your drives are of God...then he really wants you love chicks, and have fun and cut loose. It is your destiny. Don't let the so-called morals of an unconscious society define your reality. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:01pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
senbonzakurakageyoshi: @ihedinobi, much of what you've said holds true, but saying that you can't meet a nice guy at a club,restaurant or bar.....I don't think that's right. I have a friend whose parents met at a club....and they've had a pretty amazing marriage. What I can agree with is that you don't find those guys at such places ON A REGULAR. Everybody has their definition of a good time and loud music, dance, a book, a glass of wine and TV.....the difference between a nice guy and otherwise is limits. After all there are people that sit at home and drink themselves to a standstill or smoke weed till they start seeing things. @ Bolded Bro that left me in stitches...  |
Celebrities › Re: Kenny Saint To Fight Prostitution In Ikeja As A Legislator? by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:00pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
What I see in my local government, especially the Opebi axis where I reside, baffles me. Prostitution has gone up by almost 1000%, it never used to be this bad. I think there can be a change. Something can be introduced to these girls and let them know that there’s a gift inside of them that can improve their personality and [they can] make money by working hard without having to dehumanise themselves. So really it’s the area of human productivity that’s really pulling me into public service, and that’s why I need to get on a platform to get the job done” she quipped Aha, she wants to go into public service...to stop the girls from servicing the public. Doesn't sound fair to me  . |
Nairaland General › Re: Is This Sexual Harassment In The Workplace???? by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:52pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
This sexual ASSAULT, by the woman. |
Romance › Re: nn by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:05pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
100Cents: She stays close to me. She monitors everything I do. She told me today that my neighbors now give her information if another lady visits my house.
Like play, she is my church member. Sometimes on getting up to go home after service, after saying the grace, I find out she has been sitting behind me and close to me all this while. It repeated today again. How she knows where I seat in a 2000 seater church is what I don't understand.
I stopped picking her calls 2 weeks ago and thought that all this has ended since I saw her getting back again with her boyfriend. For where, she cornered me today again. To worsen matters, when she calls all day and i dont pick, she comes to knock on my gate by evening when she knows i am home.
Truth be told, I don't love her. If not, I would have settled for her to compensate her excess love for me. Worse off, I am in love with someone else who has been away for 6 months. My lover is coming home in 2 weeks time.
How do I end this madness in 2 weeks ? My lover trusts me more than her parents self. Don't shít where you eat... |