₦airaland Forum

Chrisbenogor:
Unfortunately I am not enjoying influence as much. Anything more interesting ?

Hmmm...Influence ranks up there as one of my very best reads.

What page are you currently on?

immortalcrown:
What is the op trying to insinuate by writing that God's provision for Adam and Eve was insufficient for them?

Bros lighten up.

And come to think of it, they didn't have TVs, phones, washing machines, CLOTHES or even internet!

Would you, yourself, agree to trade places?

immortalcrown:
Wrong exhibition of a wonderful talent! The impression you intend to create in the mind of the readers clearly justifies living in sin and falsely defames God Almighty.

Did you mean to comment on another thread .

You're better off asking this on Reddit or some dedicated forum.

Shebi someone has told you spiritual husband already. You go hearam today .

Hmmm...the first ones are really sexy .

Mespu:
It's Only A Woman That Can Make A Strong WEAK Man Cry...... Ops Battery Low.

There, FIXED.

Recharge it of course.

Benwems:
My girlfriend told me a party her female friend is organising and I told her she could attend. But in the party guys rocked her (holding her waist and all those stuffs). This is not the first time its occuring. I told her previously that I don't like such. But sees it as childish. And we have dated for more than a year. Please serious and matured advice is needed. Thanks a lot.

If you want to live reasonably long, completely remove your mind from such matters. Even encourage it.

yinkuscious:
let me ask u this, can u cope amidst this ladies with "skimpy" dress ?

Cope ke? Who wants to 'cope'?.

Smite my enemies Lord!

Older men who can now 'cope' spend quintillions of dollars on Viagra and related...


I pop boners, all-day-long, for fully-clothed women.

I get very aroúsed from eye-contact (only with girls, you ídiot! ), or from shamelessly checking out the glorious contours on a babe's body.

Even, unclothedness is not really the source of arousal.

manjiggy:
What should a lady say if she means 'NO'?

NO.

Her vocal tonality and noncompliance are the true indicators.

No physical force should ever be applied.

mbulela:
See one of my earlier posts.

The girl in the song was neither a wife nor a girlfriend (we can discuss this angle later).
It was a one night stand, after a night of booze and drugs.
Go figure!

Female behaviour is very consistent. Nun, prostitute, mother.

Doesn't matter.

mbulela:
Let us take your argument further.
What did she say or do that he alluded to as being Story for the gods?

If you've ever had a girlfriend or a wife, you'll know that no doesn't always mean no.

She could say no this minute and doesn't want you to cüm the next.

Olamide got a no and not a NO.

yinkuscious:
this is the 21st century, where semi-unclothedness or total unclothedness is tagged as "madness"

By who?

Its all shifting sands bro...

honourhim:
Irrelevant posts.

Lol, even if my guy provides video evidence, you will still say "irrelevant" .

Hypergamy anyone?

5minsmadness:
Abeg direct me to the thread where u guys r discussing this plssssss

You too like bad thing : https://www.nairaland.com/2018164/opinion-girls-sleep-married-men/

yinkuscious:
indecent is "indecent", since everyone knows what the generally accepted standard is. Skimpy is also indecency.

My brother, there's really no genarally accepted standard.

A little over 100 years ago, women in the east walked about bare breasted - and it wasn't considered indecency. Why would it be indecent now?

My very own grandmother said they ran into the bush whenever the whites wanted to give them clothes.

UjSizzle:
No we're not. I know about bonobonos and their hypersexuality, but most often than not, they serve bigger functions than reproduction for their community eg settling disputes, of which the human population have courts.
So why again should we climb down the evolutionary ladder just because we think there's more fun down there?


Nice story
There's something wrong with the link though.

Aha, little Seun's word filters.

In the link, just replace "Romance-Machines" with vibrátors.


Great you know your brothers and sisters, the bonobos .

About 'climbing down' the evolutionary ladder; even if it were to be a descent...will be by just a few steps. We share close to 98% of our DNA with these excessively promiscuous dudes.


And just like the bonobos, sex serves many a function in humans too: recreation, social bonding, barter/commerce, reproduction, etc.

Humans obviously evolved or were designed for multi-male/multi-female mating (gang-bangs). The human male's genitalía packs excessive firepower (300 million sperm cells...), and the human female's organ is designed for spérm competition.

Yes, spérm from different males, in there, at the same time.


The human female broadcasts sex invitations 24/7 (permanent swellings). Doesn't have a mating season, masks her ovulation and packs an atom-bomb of a pleasure organ called the clitóris.

Finally, theory aside; open your eyes and really look. Don't you see mass "hysteria" in your specie?

BruzMoney:
In case that was not convincing enough he continues so that there will be no doubts. He narrates how the lady started saying he is in trouble, “he has broken my back, he has broken my arm” and he again dismiss this again as story for the gods, meaning not even the back breaking and arm breaking or the trouble he is threatened with will stop him from having his way with her. He MUST do this and he must do so by force. Oh God! Our people did not stone him, they did not even say please we do not want this; they accepted this obvious and heartless glorification of rape. What have we turned into?

While your earlier article: "Least We Immortalize Nuisance" was exceptional and on point; I cannot say the same for this extremely malicious one.

You are attempting to twist the lyrics here. Verbal persistence = rape abi?


She says "I am in trouble" => She's in trouble because she's late (for home, whatever, etc). Not Olamide.

Rape endorsement is a weighty accusation, and has the potential to irreparably damage this young-man's reputation.

“he has broken my back, he has broken my arm”: Again, rough consensual sex isn't rape. He was rough, yes, and that should be none of your business.

This is slander.

xpac01:
hmmmm, bros do you understand meaning of your moniker? Buddhist don't fight fire with fire.

Buddha Palm is a fictional fighting technique .

@ Topic

Lol.

Easy solution: fight fire with fire. Do not reward bad behaviour.

carefreewannabe:
It still boils down to wrong values.

I refuse to accept that men are controlled by their testosterone or in other words the thing between their legs.
I refuse to believe that a man who has such values like honesty, loyalty, fairness and fidelity will make advances at his wife's niece.

But in Nigeria women are considered a trophy and their value is determined by their age and ability to push out babies and this is why you will VERY OFTEN hear stories of men sleeping with their housemaids, their wives' nieces, their students and with women who could be their daughters.

It is not the same everywhere. The way in which women are treated is different and the frequency of such incidents seems to be much lower in some other places.

In some countries people emphasize other values more.

Please may I know the country where it is significantly different?

Saudi or Utopia?

^^^ Ahhh...wrong thread.

UjSizzle:
If men can train themselves to notice a zillion and one things in a woman before her sexuality, I'm sure this rape menace will be reduced. Even if it takes seeing them as siblings to make it work at all.

Meanwhile, why is everything in this world highly sexualized? It's like humans have suddenly become walking intimacy gadgets

Our closest relatives, on the evolutionary tree, Chimps and Bonobos are hypersexed 5-star sluts.

So are we.

The only problem with cheating this, and cheating that is that we haven't fully come to terms with the true nature of human sexuality.

Not so long ago 'experts' still held that women had absolutely no sex drives. As in ZERO.


Up till the 19th century, do you know what happened to women suffering from sexual frustration? They were diagnosed with a disease! A disease, yes. They called it hysteria.

What was the treatment? Massaging the genitals to órgasm.

The vibrator was eventually invented by a doctor for the treatment of hysterics...because the number of women who suffer from hysteria - and required repeated 'treatment' were just overwhelming for doctors .

Socially, we only adopted a concept like monogamy to maintain order. But monogamy itself is an aberration in nature.

You can read more about hysteria here.

adepiero:
Be happy! that was how Kim Kardashian got popular

Kindly PM me if you have the above.

Drop the VIN here too. Cheers.

Money is not your supply...

220,000 out of about 170m people?

Not so much.

You shouldn't have told him.

Generally, don't tell people what they can't handle. Had you told him the real figures, he'd have been dead by now.