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Faggits!

Do men find women with nail polish attractive and sexy...

LordReed:
Not until I began to see the pain women felt did I understand.

Sweet pain.

My Spidey-sense is tingling...

This is a fake story. Writer is practicing.

Nice ride.

ifex370:
I already knew all of these

ITK

A lesbian?

Bro, snap and upload make we see.

williams20:
...but she needs to let him know without smiling and without deceit that there is NO vacancy ...
QED

There is ALWAYS a vacancy.

@ MaziOmenuko

Lol.

Don't mind those saying your girl is gone.

Far from it.

Women respond very powerfully to STATUS. And as far as she knows, her pastor is God's representative here on earth. Even, what other frame is more powerful than being God's rep?

She didn't really know what to do at that point - she was helpless. You can substitute pastor for Dad, but even more powerful (aka influence).

And unfortunately, you can't possibly 'compete' with pastor - his frame is too strong. You're just a sinful fornicator and pastor is God.

But...Mr Church Guy most likely will not be competition.


You can't do anything about it, they will get introduced, most likely hang out a few times. And if he's a cool guy, your girl will see him more, by herself - and without any compulsion from pastor.

Question is, how many really cool guys are out there? And of those, how many need pastor's help to get chics?

You see...

Don't get all reactive about this because its nothing new.

She meets new guys every day, all without pastor's help - and without informing them of you. But she still comes back because you are roundly her best option - currently. Same applies to you.

Edwardhead:
ice cream??

Sweet.

Choi! This im wife be like ice-cream.

Now, I can see what happened to my most gracious Shollypopz (v1.0). The later upgrade was a vile, bile-filled, fire-breathing demoness from hell.

Sagamite, you certainly bring out the 'very best' in women. See the most proper Enlightened now cursing like a sailor.

@ EnlightenedSoul

Sagamite was dropped on his head a few times as baby. Wasn't shown much love too. Please be more tolerant.

Accept that he could cheat on you, and still love him anyway.

Certainly, you too would remarry - should something happen to your husband (God forbid of course).

I'd rather have BOTH.

Sagamite:
Don't tell her.

I want to enjoy seeing her grasping at straws to escape the ocean she is in, while I toy with her and ridicule her.

"It applies to everyone, hence it is not sexist".

Feminist would say anything to make sure women get an advantage and men are victimised by the law.

Lol. But she's, by far, one of the smartest girls on NL. Guess we all have our blind spots.

laraxxx:
The woman in this video is selling a house to one Nigerian family in lon-DON for £50million

Where is all our money going to?? Apparently wealthy Nigerians spent over $390 million on property in London over the last 3 years ... is this okay? I think some of the people have very valid opinions - why buy a house in Mayfair


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0DgVg-owqI

Omo see wahala. Na your moni?

Stoke City...there is godu o

@ EnlightenedSoul

I came in here to knock Sagamite for no reason, and without reading his posts . But unfortunately, I did. And he's made a lot of sense.

His analogy is apt too.

The same way you think the cosmetics/accessories law is biased - because women will mostly be affected. So he thinks for divorce laws...because more men are currently on the receiving end.

Lol, comprehension was never my strong suit, so I might just be rafting as well...

UjSizzle:
If this isn't a conscious move, rather people acting out biological scripts, why the hell do men take it that she has a particular interest in any one person? For all she knows, you all (everyone who picks the signals) fall in one category: Possible mates if you fulfill whatever criteria she's set.

Good questions.

Women are not interested in any one person. They are interested in males who meet certain biological/social criteria. Same for men.

For men, mainly biological; for women, mainly social.

And, she didn't set these.

When she's playing out the script, they name her a flirt.

When she starts kicking applicants off the list, she's a biitch, and playing with people's feelings.

When she decides some are keepers but not mate material, then she is a serial friend zone-r.

You want to explain why?

Lol.

Really, no one owes anyone an explanation. "All's fair in love and war", said some dude. People are going to whine, whatever decisions you make, anyway.

Freiburger:
The only thing this guy does for his club is scoring against Chelsea

You can say that again.

UjSizzle:
Lol BuddhaPalm I guessing antispam bot just banned you


Farano, Pasqal09, Seun, Ishilove biko release him.

Meanwhile the rest of you can read the post I just quoted (that's the only way I can unspam it for now).

You're such a darling.

@ Mynd44

"Green-lights" are very very real - like your arm, or the device you are looking at, right now.

And they are not some 'nice' things another human being does. They are tangible Indicators of Interest - sexual interest. And can be consistently relied upon - if you know what to look for.

Actually, it would be quite weird if we didn't have them - other animals do.


As humans, a massive part of our communication is sub-communicated. Body-language, tonality, etc. And these are largely unconscious.

So most of our mating signals are sent and acted upon unconsciously.


What do most girls say after they've just had sex with a new guy? "It just happened". They are not lying. As far as they consciously know, it really just happened.

So those times you thought you saw a green-light, you most likely did, but what you saw was maybe, Step 1, in a multi-step mating dance. And this you cannot talk about, because she's largely unaware of what she's doing. Or more accurately, what is happening - because its her body doing this on its own.


These are the most common IOIs:

=> Eye-contact: if she repeatedly holds you gaze longer than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Touches you more than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Proximity: This takes many forms, and I find instances of this quite funny. She walks right into you as if you're a glass door - as in she go jam you . Crosses the road to walk on your side. Slows her pace, or increases it - so you guys cross...in hopes you will do your job. Drops something, or bends to adjust her footwear.
=> Aha...Preening: flicks her hair, repeatedly (no hands) - like she's some bird or packs it, to the sides, continuously. Displaying neck or revealing nape.
=> etc

But the biggest one, even in the absence of these, is COMPLIANCE! If she's compliant to your touches, invasion of her personal space, your leadership - let's go over there, stop that, sit on my lap; kissing, etc. She's in.

But your best option is to assume that EVERY girl you like, likes you already and will be interested - if she gets to experience you. So you give her the opportunity by going over to engage her.

In fact, if you're masculine, and she's there listening to you - on some level, she wants your cóck in her mouth, period. She just doesn't know it yet.

Even when she's standoffish, has a big scowl on her face and pretends not to hear what you're saying. She will soon come around.

Delusional? Maybe.

Potent? You bet.

I find several sections of this post extremely hilarious .

Rather callous...I know.

Arsenate:
just think of something disgusting; something you really hate. me, personally, I think of Chelsea and José Mourinho.

Lmao.

You think of yourself making out with him?

Assume she wants to be touched - at all times.

Omo, these things dey big, no be small. E fit swallow Oprah without chewing.

Cockblocking...

lafflaff123:
What if you get a job?

Shedding tears, real tears.