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2buff: Perhaps the greatest deception of our time is very the flawed belief that everyone is going to be young forever.

To some of you, when you see that [b]very [/b]old man or woman with skin that has draw like okro soup still going to club and trying to over-compensate by buying expensive cars, and knowing he/she can only settle for-real with a gold-digger who is only waiting for person to die so he/she can take your money... while others are at home lovingly staring into the eyes of their lifelong partner who's been with them through it all, know right there that you are looking at your not too distant future.

Time flies...very quickly.

TRUE TALK! AGREED &100 before you know it. you ve become old and wrinkly

Yoruba_Omoge: I almost cried when I saw your huge assumption that. Lawd have mercy!!
Any happily married same-sex couple would not advice their children against marriage.
You sound like you've been brainwashed lol. Are you talking about the same homosexuals who are currently campaigning for the same marital rights as heterosexuals?

What is marriage to you? What are the factors of marriage?




Actually, they don't.

actually they have the highest rate of suicide and yes! they have the lowest rate of divorce because they never get married in the first place, in otherwords no marriage no divorce..comprende?

i think the poster is desparately looking for a (marriage) husband or wife, but could not find one, therefore.. detesting marriage and trying to advice others to detest marriage too , so as to end up sad,bitter,lonely and desparate like her, even with all your education,well travelled and wealth, you are nothing without a husband. by the way marriage is not a BED OF ROSES most of the time,selfish people can not handle marriage,and why do people live together as boy friend/girl friend for more than five years than get married? might aswell get married

zoks: I think you deserve a Nobel for saying that.I am so sick of people who say things that make you check your coordinates.Nigeria doesn't follow those glowing examples of dot.com boom or doughnut millionaire stories.The next time someone tells me to start something I'll spit in their face.

why does he deserve medal? i hear people in nigeria are doing very well unless you are lazy unlike the others

steve_101: Bushman,u sound like a bushman really,when the guy pay 2 years in advance for house rent and pay 2 years for shop,the fund will vanish, people always say ...."Start something",start what if I may ask?

take it easy mister! i didnt know its that bad in nigeria,if so why do people in nigeria always advicing us relocate back to nigeria? and like i said earlier is not that easy here in england or america

ochukoccna: The average Nigerian youth would give an arm and a leg to leave the shores of this country
Dunno about today, personally witnessed Nigerians running to queue outside the American Embassy before 5am in the morning some 12 years back
Face it, save for a few entrepreneurs and those who have goo paying jobs, most Nigerian youth dey hear am

if they have the finance to go to america, why not use money to start something in nigeria,do you think its easy in america?

nigerians are hypocrites on the way home from church they will take bribe even though they just prayed to GOD to stop corruption

ndigbo are always against them selves so how is this going to work?

and we are blaming the nigerian embassiess and nigerian goverment for not helping nigerians in foreign jails

Fhemmmy: Does that made it right?

i would say yes, why would any one reap were they did not sow,they wanted something for nothing

yes i have met KING AMADIOHA!

whats with all this school here school there, psw,msc, all you have to do get the right conections go into metal export buisiness like me, and make millions after all its all about making money school or no school

r231: Lol

I am ready

East Ham, West Ham! Uptown Park , barking ETC ETC full of Asian pple

you forgot green street,white chapel,and bethnal green

its far worst here in england especially young girls having kids as young as 14 years, i know a 23 years old who is already a grand mother

brownlord: you must be very stupid, are you saying this is not possible?, dont say what you dont know man

yes it is possible only in nigeria..

the man crying proberbly thinking...what has he got him self into..how? did she manage to get him to marry her.. now he is stuck with the wi""tch for a long time

really?

they want to look like onyibo people, if only they know what onyibo people skin is really like

a hungry man sentenced to death, only in nigeria can this happen

i lived in johanesburg years ago, i know this things happen all the time, a south african police man tried to strangle me in 1997 in my hotel (mimosa hotel) room in hillbrow if not that i punched him in the face and ran off he would have killed me, even when i ran he fired his gun at me twice i am lucky to be alive today, so tearing a nigerian passport is like alleluyah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

which car is called "evil spirit"? my friend in naija gave me some money to buy it for him from europe he could not tell me exactly what type of car he meant he said its called "evil spirit" in NAIJA

guilty as charged!! NO 16

so people are still interested in coming to Europe/America?

i will know how it feels in three months time

:Pno because i am still friends with all the girls/women i had a relationship with...nice is nit?

Andre Uweh: KOWAA

money worshippers

NDI OGWU EGO

Mark Essien: Is this Love?
Could this be love?
Abeg count me out of this kind of love oh when my mate are Wedding with limousines and hummer jeeps... Mtchew!... I know all my fellow ladies gat my back on this one!

just because he dont have hummer jeep today does not mean he wont have it next year...be optimistic ..hang in there

ayomide falaye: If It is the one that is taken care of u.u wouldn't love him continue to enjoy beating. Go and pray over it from genuine man of God.u boy friend have a spiritual wife

why is it that everything nigerians go dey mention GOD and prayer? is clear that the guy is not interested in her anymore, its just a way to make her leave

next time he try to beat you again go to the kitchen and grab a knife and stand in his face he will run away

drzed: 1. Please make your OWN statements clear.
2. Dont misquote me by inserting/mixing your comments in the quote. A honest mistake, I presume.
3. I do not claim any 'pseudointelgence' as you put it.
4. Would you rather I sounded like a pseudo-idyot?
5. If giving my opinion (devoid of any insult or personal attack) upsets you, then that is not my fault.
6. Take it easy. This is Nairaland, not Angerland (just kiddin).

abeg! live that idi""ot! he sounds like a juvenile, am sure if he sees an oportunity to go and live abroad he will jump on it, and forgets all about NAIJA he is frustrated he is not getting any opportunity

drzed: Firstly, there is no need to use foul language. We dey fight? We are here to share experiences or our opinion.

My point is, let us not simplify being abroad vs. returning to Nigeria in terms of frustration, deportation or economics. People have choices. Some people live in The Gambia not because it is better than Nigeria in all respects, but because that is where they have opportunities. The same way that (inspite of armed robbery, kidnapping, planes-falling-from-the-sky, boko haram, lack of electricity, corruption, etc) we have many expatriates in Nigeria today working in our flour mills, bakeries, supermarkets, oil sector, schools and telecoms industries. It all depends on individual choices - and the circumstances that influence those choices.

This is why I always use the City vs. Village analogy. If my old man had remained in the Village, maybe I would have become the champion yam-farmer among my generation. He moved to a city and the rest is history. BUT, not all of my father's mates in the village are worse off today. Some did quite well. Including their children.

This was why (in my previous post) I agreed wholeheartedly with your earlier statement that 'diaspora no be heaven and Nigeria no be hell'.

Thats my point.

TRUE TALK