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lol . . na today?

Lawyer ko . . doctor ni.

who no like bettr thing?

BUSTA is the hottest babe on Nairaland.

Who the F**K dares to disagree??

doyin13:
What I do not understand about this domestic violence thingy is where we draw the line.

What if in the delirium of sexual intercourse, a guy is moved to slap his woman to stop her
from moaning too loud. . . . .

bit his kini too

Pataki:
What is a question then?

I don't know . . u tell me
are u a victim of Domestic Violence?

in queue for cristalz  . . queue for a punching bag!
she right tho . . . some girls love and live for the abuse

Pataki:
Have you ever been a victim of domestic violence?

seriously . . . is that a question?

Why not if not? . . . . una don see remote control!

Cristalz:
@CH3COO et al.

I'm a pity to women folk for being objective?

Honest to God,i think y'all have never come across some really wicked women in this life. Women who make you want to run to the devil's house and hide. Just a pity that you all believe all women are made of gold and roses.Not all women are so wonderful.

As for my future daughters,i will bring them up so well that men will have no choice but to treat them like queens. A woman's behavior is everything. She should be gentle but not stupid. She should be smart but not loud and aggressive. She should be tactful and sensible. When a woman behaves like a woman should,even her man knows she holds the power and just lets him think he does. When a woman behaves like this and her man still hits her,then he should be shot in the knee cap.

But when a woman behaves like a trashy mamba,heck,she should be called to order in the most reasonable way her man thinks best. Any man that's been with a bad,as in,b-a-d woman will understand my point. And any girl thats been around one will too. All of you who've had everything smooth and easy all their lives with other human beings will never get it.

Call me whatever you will,but it aint going to change facts.

The same way all this yeye men ranting here believes that women are the foor stool and have never come across women like Jamo ones that the day u raise your hands on them is the day u will go and meet baba God.

davidylan:
The real fact is are these really women or "girls" with well-developed breasts? A real woman will respect you because you also respect her . . . a real woman will NEVER disrespect you in public or private no matter how angry she is . . . a real woman learns to say sorry when she knows she's done something wrong, not because she is afraid of a slap but because she loves you and honors you . . . a real woman does not take you for granted.

It is one thing to date a girl, it is another to date a woman. From what i see above, too many boys have been spending time with teenage girls.

davidylan:
are women sometimes annoying? - Sure, very much so!
Is a slap the right way to "discipline" her? - Go ahead as long as she is your pet goat.

If you know how to treat a woman well (beyond just shouting) u'll have her eating out of your hands in no time.
I havent ever had a girl disrespect me before . . . it wasnt achieved by slapping them around.

                   
                   
                   
                   
                   
                   
                   
                   

Pataki:
If you like know all the arts of martial defense, you do not reply violence with violence simple!!!!
Where were you the other day, when Onyinye2 was making mouth of beating a guy all blue for toasting her or thereabout, boasting of her martial art skills?

It is so easy to make mouth on the internet.

my point exactly . . .an that is why I won't go further . . .go figure!

Cristalz:
@I'm being objective here. Fact is some women take the 'treat her like a lady' thing for granted. They use it as an opportunity to disrespect their men because they've got immunity. I just don't think its fair to the men.

Note that i mentioned two scenarios.One deserved a slap,one didn't.By default,i'm not for female bashing,but girl,there are some nasty women out there o.I feel if a woman behaves unreasonably and cruelly,a slap is in order.
What do you want a man to do whose wife insults his family and treats them like trash or disrespects his friends? Beg her to stop? A good woman should be treated like royalty,but a bad one should get what she deserves.Its only fair. That's why i wanted to know what exactly the poster's girl said to the caller to deserve the slap.

so because of that she needs to slapped and trampled upon and beaten blue black because of this?
I can't believe this is even coming out from a female


@ debo,
una fit each other sef.
after u slap her . . she will cry and then u go apologise . . .then she slaps u and u cry and she will apologise.
on and on and on . . .  

Pataki:
I never said it was right. What I am against is women who reply violence with violence.

Kapish?

dat one na story o

u start violence I will help u continue and finish am!

davidylan:
She picked your call and so what? If there's nothing to hide why is that an issue?
If my girlfriend picked my phone i'd simply tell her to take the message for me. Shikena.
As long as i'm committed to her longterm she may as well get used to handling those who call me.

Better man . . thank u . . .too bad u'[re hooked already. My type of guy exactly.

Cristalz:
@post
She picked your call,ok.  .  .  .  .what did she say to the caller?

The slap will be justified if she had insulted the caller or told the caller never to call again or something. But if all she did was say,''hez not here right now,could you call back in 5 mins?'' or something similar,i don't see anything wrong in it.

If you slap her for picking up your call,what will happen the day she mistakenly over-salts the soup? Pour boiling water on her head? Temper's never helped anybody.

No matter what . . .a man shld never raise his hands on a woman . .
secondly, the poster never said that he had warned her previously not to do so neither did he say that she had insulted the person at the other end of the phone.

What is wrong is wrong abeg!

Pataki:
Even Busta dey claim boxer for here. . . na wa o!

Like I always end my statements . . . i hate pple that do nuthing but rant.
I like the physical, put me and u for ring and see u leaves crying.

Someone slaps me back . . I wooze u back
if it don't work . . i bite and chump ur flesh off
if that don't work . . i grab ur balls and squash them
if u've got artificial ones . . i use my black belt techniques.

one of them gotta work

Besides all this guys need to grow up and realise that it ain't right to hit a woman
only in naija sha  . . cos over here . . u go sleep jail taya!!

Pataki:
Not every man deserves a slap back!!!!!

but girls does huh?

Queenisha:
it's obvious you carry girls with no self esteem.
them never born the person

Queenisha:
You see why I repeatedly say,I pity una wey never marry.
if all you gals have are sylvaos and hannibals and patakis
I pity una.
one slap there,one shove there before we know it, one cutlass to the neck.
that's how it starts.

hehehehe . . funny but very well said!
I concur and I pity the guy that trys that with me . . no be mouth o!

Hannibal:
@ Pataki,

Some chics deserve to be slapped. . . . . .
For a phone-call, he shoulda warned her seriously and the slap looks a bit OTT.
But then, it's not abnormal.
Why is everyone feigning the holier than thou attitude.?? . . . . . Who hasn't slapped someone before here??

keep dodging my questions.

are u indirectly confessing to having slapped a girl b4?

omoge:
to hell with your stupid call, you slap me i destroy your abunna, grab it and twist the day out of you

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chai . . .na the koko be dat!
slap me cos of yeye phone call . . to hell with u and ur caller!

Pataki:
Will you go back and read my post?

Where did I say I would hit my girl? I think you deserve a slap right now!!!

wasn't even talking to u!

Was refering to the poster

besides . . .slap me I go wound u back.
no dey look me like that o!

Hannibal:
It's only a slap, mate!!!
Whats a slap?? It was just a simple tap on her face and was borne out of annoyance from Mr. Sylvao 2000.
Don't crucify him for his actions. . . . . .loads of us have done worse.

u better start confessing !

Pataki:
So she picking his call deserves a slap? It is totally wrong man!!!!!

If she had committed another offense deserving a slap, I would not find a fault with that, but given the case scenario as stated by the poster, it is totally WRONG!.

Only a wussy would raise his hands to hit a girl.
go find ur match

Then again . . . ur girl is a dumb wussy as well . . .u slap me, i wooze u back o!! . . .big time!
and if that don't work . . .good thing I gat papa and brothers and loads of cousins to teach u some manners

Hannibal:
You did the right thing, hombre!!!!
Why would she pick up your phone afterall the rules were in place when the relationship started!!!
Never mind, she cannot leave u because of a weak slap. . . . . .Lets hope she's learnt her lesson.

seriously? u are with him on this?

I will say it again . . .try the Merchandise before u buy am o!!

what if the guy can neva perform?

debosky:
You were right jare!

I'm sure the rule you told her was 'pick my call = spending a week in intensive care unit (ICU)' but since you were in a good mood, you just issued her one small slap.

She should thank her lucky stars.

u?. . . .no be ur fault. . .shogbo?

What is it all u naija men sef.

U slapped ur girl and u came online to boost about it?
more grease to ur elbow. . . u’ve proved ur strength.

I am taking sides with ur girl for picking up ur phone but I know almost all if not all naija men get crazy bout someone else picking up their calls? Are u hiding something? Got another girl? Just warn her or press it on her that u do not like/want her picking up ur phone but slapping her is just stupid and uncalled for. She is a bigger fool if she sticks with ur ass.

Any man who slaps a girl is capable of beating his own mother. Its just wrong to raise ur hands on girl unless u killed a loved one of urs.

@Poster,

That is if u have a gf

@topic,

not just only nigerian men . . . alot of them do. its just in their nature.

i taya oh!

make u sef join queue now.

Too Long . . . . can someone please summarize?

I repeat . . . me i don't do that nasty stuff

segzi cres:
@poster i hope your fathers still have farming lands available at your village, b'because your goin dere very soon, when she has run u down.

hehehehehe . . . . . LMAO

1. Cut ur coat according to ur size
2. Soup wey sweet, na money kill am!

I am taken o . . . by the richest guy in the whole wide world!!

@ POSTER,

Says Who?