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Can stand it when a man raises his hands on a woman and what makes it worse is that these women allow it to happen. Its shame cos most women remain in such relationship in the name or love or that they are scared of being alone.

Both of you are still young and still gat ur life ahead of u.

If u ask me, I think he sure likes u but not sure if he wants to date u. keep chatting with him for now and keep this to ursef. U don’t even need to let ur friend/co-worker know that u guys are chatting. (I mean the one that already knows that u have a crush on him).
U neva know…as long as he ain’t married, anything can happen.

There is no rush in life. As long as u guys are meant for each other….u’ll pull thru!

It’s never a good idea. Then again, it works for some people.

Seriously?? U guys kidding me?

keep it coming guys. . . Interesting!

   

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All the best!

@ Topic,
Either one of u needs to start looking for anotha jobs.

In my opinion, nobody needs to teach anyone such things……God created us with all that and the rest is just applying ur common sense.

U guys don’t seem to be getting his question wrong.

Good question!!…, dunno wat to say but I’ll keep a eye on this thread to see or read other pple’s reactions and replies.

Nothing but greediness and stupidity…, besides, if u’re happily married like u claim, you won’t have any time to be sexually harassing women.

I’d say u decide if u really love ur wife or not? Is the embarrassment and degrading ursef really worth it?
Think about that and put ur mind straight if u wanna go thru all that hassles or not.

If she actually caught him red handed and later went to confront him about this issues…knowing the kinda husband that she has, then she is a bigger fool than I thought.

She needs to pack up her luggage and baggage and leave his cheating and trifling ass!!

What is it with naija pple and first love? I know a lot of Nigerian girls that feels so attached to whoever they lost their virginity to…, make it sound like that the guy is indebted to them forever and he has to marry them becos he disvirgined them?

@topic, my advice for u is to move one with ur life and u’ll find someone that appreciates u better. Ignore her cos who knows wat might happen when u marry her? She’ll leave u in the middle of the night and run back to her first love whenever he comes calling her again.

And to think that they were together for 2 days?
lol she’s just a cheap slut!

There is nothing wrong in asking a girl if she has a bf. The question is that wat is the connection btw both of u?
If she is just a casual friend or someone u ain’t got feelings for….u can ask her. Then again, if she is someone u wanna date or u’re feeling her…its not wise to ask her if she has a bf. She will tell herself if she has one or not.

nuthin wrong with that.

@topic,

try harder and get a better job!

@topic,

Wat kinda naija guys have y’all been dating or hanging around.
Personally, nig guys know wat it takes to love and make a woman feel good. Don’t know about other countries but I dated an African American b4 . . . and believe me, their mentality when it comes to dating is way different.
1. They don’t believe in calling u all the time, I guess they feel that u’re fine and if u’re not, u’ll call them. If a nigeria guys loves u, u’ll ring ur phone down.
2. You guys go out to the movie or go eat . . . dating or not dating, u gotta pay ur own share of the meal or pay for ur own gadam movie. Nigeria guys believe that they have to or have the mentality that they are meant to foot bills when u guys go out.
3. It is not in their opinions to be showing u with gifts. Some of them do while a lot of them believe that u shld open ur mouth when u need something. Nig guys will shower a woman love as long as he loves.

Then again, every man according to their beliefs or what they wanna believe.

@topic,

It is a tough call. Lots of rich, greedy, stingy a** Nigerians.

Seun:
Why can't you have an affair with an unmarried man? Why must it be a married man?

it is not like these things are planned or predictable. Sometimes u find ursef in circumstances like this and best part is how u deal or handle it.

@poster,
It is hard especially when u have a very strong feeling for someone who happens to be married. You gotta know behind your head that he belongs to someone else and u don't want him to leave his wife. Put ursef in the wife's shoes. . . Karma is a bitch and "what goes around must definately come around". You don't want someone doing the same to u when u get married. Besides, what is wrong is wrong . . between man and God!

secondly, as for the guy abroad, I for one don't support long distance relationships. . .on the otherhand, some people have a way of making it work.My advise will be that u keep your options open, make friends and mingle with other guys and see where this leads u.(i didn’t say date them oh). It helps not to put all your eggs in one basket.

Most importantly, leave the married guy alone. its hard but once u put your mind to it, u can do it.

if u ask me;

when u are single, yes u gain freedom at first, after a while u get tired of the freedom and really start to crave company.

fun at first, boring later on.

@TOPIC,

really, how can u tell tell that someone is an ogbanje?
it takes one to know one

some pple were just born without no manners or respect

yes


ever been paid for doing nuthin?

@topic,

are they even xtians?

@topic,

cos life must go on!

uspry1:
I do not believe the story----it worth 2 cents. It belongs to soap opera or TV for movie!

Every twins has different personalities, habits, and characteristics easily to detect the differences unless if twins set up to fool/take advantage of you in the name of MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!

true.

anotha story from the depths of nollywood.

Nautillus:
_{Sorry men, you were just a "rebound f**K-boddy" Shit happens ok}

dust yourself off and move on.

word!!

u were just a rebound to her -----move on, u'll be fine!

@topic,


Seriously
Husband needed?? On NL??

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