₦airaland Forum

Bolade005:
Senseless women. The nigga they fighting over might be bedding another senseless woman somewhere.

Seriously, I long to see a video of two grown men fighting dirty in public over a woman.

Why always women?

They will rather gut or dismember each other with a machete than fight. Fighting is better than murder.

Obviously her husband was using her to raise funds, he is aware of everything. The same set of people supporting this man will not support it when a joystick is chopped off for infidelity. Good no one has a monopoly on violence, both genders got what it takes to wreck each others lives .

Hopefully her husband will walk in and butcher you to ngwongwo, we will catch up on NL.

Tenderly1:
This is the method I use and it comes out nice.

Thanks for sharing the confirmation.

Sprinkle the egg with a fork, use a bowl and do it in batches. Pour some groundnut in a bowl, sprinkle the egg, try and make it cover the groundnuts. You can start twirling the bowl while sprinkling the flour, don't use too much flour r. Twirling the bowl is for the groundnut to get coated evenly without the excess floor, so the groundnut rolls over the flour and gets coated . The egg binds the flour to the nuts.

CHIMCO:
I dont have any feelings whatsoever with her. It just that according to my wife she greets and talks to me more than her.

So other than your neighbour, she never had a cause for alarm? She never almost or actually caught you? You didn't answer my question. What is fuelling her insecurity?

OP but why is your wife suspecting you ? It seems your fidelity is in doubt, you should worry about that more. It's not good for your reputation as the man of the house at all. She don catch before?

I hope she isn't pregnant with another's child, inviting the nicest guy to take the fall. Use your head, anything can happen on the road in a two days journey . Your mission ain't worth the effort.

End the relationship and delete her room mate too , lose contact with both ladies. Which other hell are you bleeping out of her? Isn't it the same hell that you been bleeping out and she still cheats? Count your losses and move on.

Tell your sister, because this type might do his own kids. Those type of men that act like animals can stick it anywhere. She should leave the house fast .

Put the money in an envelope and give them. Just cut the long story short. Usually women buy those stuffs but your wife seems to be the stingy and paranoid type. So present the money in an envelope before she buys embarrassing gifts. Don't buy baby milk, buy non consumables.

Waist trainer, good work!

Relax, some even stay as much as 2weeks extra after EDD. Do what Okiweraju said and relax afterwards to let the get to the cervix. Seems it's your first. Keep doing what Okiweraju said till it happens. I wish you a stress free delivery.

KAYD007:
She seems to lack self-confidence. She needs to know she's better off without him, that she can survival without him.

She didn't state if she has anything doing for her self that can sustain her when she decides to walk...

Her situation isn't good at all...na this kind thing they make woman old pass her actual age...that man can't change...such are not meant to be married oo

Hopefully she will pick up herself before is late.

KevinDein:
fair enough. This one no dey scare them again
Man wey cheat go still cheat

No one is interested in scaring anyone, women have proved it from time to time that they are equal to the cheating task. Men are the ones committing suicide or murder because of it, the problem is theirs.

KevinDein:
fair enough. This one no dey scare them again
Man wey cheat go still cheat

No one is interested in scaring anyone, women have proved it from time to time that they are equal to the cheating task. Men are the ones committing suicide or murder because of it, the problem is theirs.

dasparrow:
She is your typical Nigerian-bred woman. You know, they worry about what society would say. They were not taught by their mothers on how to put their well being first. So, they suffer and smile while telling their single counterparts to "go and marry" because as we all know, misery likes company. Many married Nigerian women are miserable in their marriages because the average Nigerian-bred male was not taught to respect and cherish women. So, they the women suffer infidelity in their marriages, nurse their sexually transmitted diseases in secret in the privacy of their homes, and secretly envy their single counterparts who do not have to put up with all the mess they the married ones are putting up with.

Allow OP to continue suffering abeg. After all, that is what summarizes most Nigerians, they are the suffering and smiling people and 'sufferhead' is the middle name of most Nigerians.

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OP goodluck. I can't tell you what to do. You are a grown woman and should know what is best for you. After all, it is your marriage and so you should know how much you can take. You married a bed wetter who is also a chronic cheat. How low can you go? All because you want to bear "MRS" and probably look down on your single counterparts. Many of you married women in Nigeria go through so much crap, it is no wonder many of you are envious of Genny Nnaji, Rita Dominic and other spinsters that don't have to deal with half the crap many of you go through in your terrible marriages. Anyways, I wish you the best in whatever you decide.

Suffering and smiling individuals are everywhere in the world. Despite western civilisation and women empowerment in developed countries , some still endure abuse. It's an individual thing, not necessarily a Nigerian woman issue.

sisisioge:
Word!

But these moraforkers are giving women bad names mehn, now she's gonna have to contend with the dreaded divorce. God knows she knows what to do, the thought of divorcing the moffo and getting the Ms stigma is her concern. May God punish devil!

I tell you, the man in this case is unmanageable.

sisisioge:
Word!

But these moraforkers are giving women bad names mehn, now she's gonna have to contend with the dreaded divorce. God knows she knows what to do, the thought of divorcing the moffo and getting the Ms stigma is her concern. May God punish devil!

She doesn't even need a divorce, she can separate till eternity if she has a problem with the tag. This man is terrible from all aspect. Imagine having to endure the smell of urine from a broke, cheating and beating husband. That's sure way to hell on earth. Chances of inheriting hell fire to spend eternity too is sure because I don't see the chances of a bitter person making heaven .

merahki:
Posts like this make me feel decidedly unready for marriage!!!!
....make it look tasking, boring and something to suffer thru
Actually, something about this post solu mu oyi, I really do not know the English phrase that would convey the meaning aptly, but, making my skin crawl is all I have now, and I dont think "it" is "it"

Forgive me for climbing all over your post
I just noticed your post and had to say what I feel

Lol,the post solu oyi hoo haa! Anaghi ezo onu ekwu ya.


Tasking sometimes but certainly not boring. You won't have to suffer through it actually, it depends on you and your inmate. It's worth it if you get it right.

jerryfisher:
did i hear bed wet!!!!!with dat alone I should b over

You can't dump a loved one for that nah .

freecocoa:
No be small "pummels you" and this man most likely pees on her during one of his bed wetting sprees, I'm sure she cleans up the mamiri after him, still somehow he has the nerves to ask her to leave, yet my sister is here asking questions, issorai.

Seriously I don't understand some of these women. The " bed wetting spree" part is killing me .


She must clean the mamiri meekly, before nko?

AyoolaIgwe:
divorce is not an option. God said in His word, "I hate divorce...". The marriage vow has to stand, "for better for worse...till death do us part". I'm only disagreeing with u from a Christian stand point

Nah u knowoooo!!

2black1:
I tell you.
What about in laws, how often do you think is ideal?

Just do your best, number of times doesn't have to be fixed. Your wife can also visit without you if she wants to.

2black1:
I agree with you they wont be around forever.My problem is I dislike travelling on Nigerian roads.Even 1 hour journeys can be quite tiring for me.
My mum visits from time to time anyway but I see my dad much less. We talk more on phone.

I hate travelling on our roads too, one can only do his best jare.

The guy is shameless!! No be even HIV .

I just hope your mum isn't the Patience Ozokwor type, if not you go divorce tire.

Why is it that most women lack standard? He is broke, cheats, bed wets and pummels you, yet you are here looking for solutions. How bad will it get before your survival instinct kicks in? I believe that when you are fed up, you will know what to do.

Behind every cheating man, there is an equally cheating woman, believe it or not.

Visit your parents as often as you can while you still have them. They won't be hanging around forever, once or twice a year is very poor.

Am interested in wig making, especially the braid wigs but I don't really know if I can learn online. I don't know anything about hair making.