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AmazonTopaz:
Yep women own the world that is why even on this forum men cannot make a conversation without talking about women it is that serious.
You have not been able to contradict my comments because I speak facts.

That said you have every right to be jealous of my hubby he always prays for me and thanks the heavens everyday that I am a light and joy to his life which sane lovely man will not appreciate a Queen like me and treat me right he is a real man not a boy who is a sexist dragging superiority with women and deceiving himself that he is better than women.I am with a man who loves me so much I wonder if I deserve it sometimes but I am lucky and grateful to the heavens and we are enjoying our home owned by the both of us.

the stubborn fly follows the corpse to the grave... keep fooling yourself!!!

AmazonTopaz:
Stop using the word "hahahaha" it goes to show that you are crying and have nothing sensible to respond with.
Lol you are a clown a big one accept you lost your ego is so fragile you had to respond to me to excruciate your pains oh my my my.
Pity your sexist pitiable self though.Who told you I hate men and did I ever complain to you that my life is miserable when I say that I beat you you will be crying you had nothing to counter me with but went to chase shadows by diverting the topic who talked about men here have I ever claimed to hate men.I don't hate men you illiterate I have father figures who are sane men that value and respect women.My life is good I am living my best life surrounded with people that are worth it.I am a happy person that is why I am taking my time schooling you on the need to have sense and stop making wide assumptions on someone you don't know you have to pity your mental self to be this insane making wide assumptions about someone you know nothing about. I pity you poor boy

I didn't even care to read your gibberish, you don't worth the attention, better take the next available flight to India and marry as many men as you wish, Hahahahaha... MUMU girl!

AmazonTopaz:
Lol if only you know social issues are created by humans and can be changed by humans what do you mean that you cannot change how the world works?How does the world work boy or don't you know that how the world works changes as time progresses don't be a fool seek knowledge if you have none.Feminism has been working in Nigeria that is why women are educated,vote,have Jobs are bread winners have rights equal to men are equal before the law as men are etc.When I say you are an illiterate you will think I am lying feminsm is in Nigeria and has been working fine and will continue to.It is just like saying people who fought against slavery did not know how the world worked back then but here we are today slavery is a crime.Do you know that the fight for justice racial/equality and black lives matter is a movement like feminism which is working around the world bringing world awareness and is being implemented slowly but steadily I don't expect you to know this because you are a small minded person who cannot understand the things going on around him.

You are the one living in denial if you think feminism is not in Nigeria where women have rights in all spheres as I earlier mentioned before.It goes to show that you don't know what feminism is in the first place if in denial you mean women voting,working,driving considered equal under the law have upper hand in marriage acts etc in this country then you are truly living in denial in an alternate universe.

WEIRDO... Own the world in your stupid mentality, I pity your husband to be, hahaha haha, marry kolo keep for house!

AmazonTopaz:
Just shut up I know you are a proud nonentity scared to admit that a woman is much smarter than you and beat you at your foolishness better learn and read open your eyes to new realities instead of embarrassing your myopic self on a public forum. You went through my post saw that I am a smart classy lady git intimidated and pulled out like a coward who cannot handle facts.

I don't need anything I am happy and love myself hopefully you will too so that women will look at your side and not reject you everytime

You need lots of love so that your bruised ego will be able to handle to smart women that you will see excel in your life


Do well to Google search about female inventions and scientific discoveries of the 20/21st century and also women in Tech who create phones it will help you not embarrass yourself next time

Hahahahahaha... you beat me at what exactly!?, online Nairaland chats!??, if you take stuffs serious you'll go mental soon if you aren't already, I really pity you, you must be living a very miserable life to hate men like this and I doubt you have a Father figure in your life, WEIRDO!!!... Yes Graham Bell is now a woman's name!

AmazonTopaz:
And Indians don't have money do you know the number of billionaires in India can you compare them to the ones in Nigeria and you say your country has money but number one in poverty capital

You are truly a clown your country men have money yet your health system is trash and theirs is better than yours shame on your country.Which Jobs are they occupying actually?

Lol no sane woman will date you only your fellow mad women in the gutters will date you so don't give your classless self hope jor no woman dey look your side Na make you dey miserable dey sexist for women matter.
Men like you will actually pursue women who don't look your side and try to force relationships is that not desperation too only a cheap person knows a cheap person you are actually cheap that is why you talk like a clown no woman will ask.a cheap boy out so don't deceive yourself.

Lol my family is being run on an egalitarian basis and reality is not far from me because the women in my family work and have a say in their family you on the other hand must be from the gutters that is why you don't know that the times are changing and women have as much rights as men in everything.Keep your sorry to yourself no wonder you sound miserable and lost in the never changing and evolving world becoming a new reality which you are currently blind to because you are not exposed to developments around you

You do really need help, but you have to realise you can't and will never change how the world works, at least not only you cus a tree can't make a forest, I just went through your posts on your page... Feminism will never work in Nigeria!!!, it is what it is!!!... it wont even be destroyed by men if it takes effect, your fellow ladies will destroy it by themselves, Hahahaha, reason why I initially said you are living in denial!!!

AmazonTopaz:
You are such an illiterate ehn you are not exposed at all and it is sad to see.Do you know that in Latin/South America the children answer the surnames of their mothers as well as fathers and some can choose to answer their mother's surname alone does it mean that their mothers married their fathers and it is a woman's World?

You are just a sexist and a myopic one at that because the world is mainly patriarchal and it has been agreed that surnames should be patrilineal you think it is a God given right when it is a societal one do you even know the origin of surnames?

Please keep quiet Nigeria is no different from India so stop insulting the country when yours is no better.

I have read that women invented some machines and computer related stuff in the 20th century which of importance in today's world and a simple Google search will help you not disgrace yourself men have the upper hand there because during the time of invention women were not educated and given certain privilege rights as men to pursue invention that is why modern women are catching up today and excelling because it was not made available to them from the start even an illiterate knows this.Since you wanna be petty and foolish who started the wars?violence and hate if not men who are the criminals and dregs of society if not men which gender is more prone to violence and terror if not men so will it be a crime if men fight wars caused by their fellow men then?Be quiet in today's world hard labour is not something common anymore so will you say men are better than women.You must be a big illiterate if you think women don't participate in phone manufacturing and production across the globe who told you men alone made phones or are making it now.Women went through labour for 9 months to deliver scums like you.

Lol... went through your posts, now i really know were you belong, I'm really sorry from the bottom of my heart. you need real Love and help. wish I could!

AmazonTopaz:
You are actually the most foolish person on earth though you could not answer my questions but had to badmouth the country that arguably is better than Nigeria when Nigeria is no different from the country you are condemning yet your fellow Nigerians go there for medical treatment and your so called leaders go there for medical tourism how many Indians have visited your country in that regard?

I have asked sensible men out and fortunately for me you won't meet the list because you are a stupid idiot and a stark Illiterate.You could not counter my point but chose to insult and disgrace yourself this night what a messed up fool you are
It is better to have an Indian mentality than the gutter stinking mentality you possess you are the one living in denial because you type like someone living in a bush far from reality

Hahahahaha, so who are those drilling boreholes all over Nigeria, are they not Indians!?, going for treatment shows we have the money but they come here to occupy our jobs!, so we are better of than them
Hahahaha, hope you've married all of them as an Indian Woman now, Hahahaha, do I even know you!?, so who fuking cares even if you ask me out, I have bunch of women on my unwanted list FYI!, so I don't respect women who ask men out... they seem cheap and desperate to me!!!, you are the one actually living far far far from reality, check even your immediate family and see how it's being run, except you don't have a family and if so I'm really sorry for you!

AmazonTopaz:
Yeah the destruction and violence we see today was truly caused by men we gotta give it to them it is their world no wonder it is a terrible one to be in.

That said I talked about India in my other reply to you what do you say don't you think it is a woman's World over there and how about Abroad where there is no payment of Brideprice and women have the upper hand in marriages there don't you think it is a woman's World there too.

When people say it is a man's World they forget that even women are men because 'wo' is added to it when removed you are left with the word 'men' say something else boy we live in an ever changing world where everyone regardless of gender,race,class and religion are fighting to be held I am sure as a Blackman you will be happy to hear a white man tell you it is a white man's World I don't think you will.
You have not been paying attention to women and the Giant strides women are making the world is evolving and the future is female get used to it and stop whining.It is a man's World yet women give birth to men and men cannot birth women LMAO you are a clown

maybe when your kids start bearing your name as surname, thats when your words will be valid and please stop mention that useless and overpopulated country again!!!, Virtually everything invented and made on earth were made by men, name any useful thing made by women!?... even the phone use in typing your living in denial shit are still made by men, men go to wars, men do the hard labours, men die for nations, keep calm and enjoy your womanhood!

AmazonTopaz:
And in your deluded mind that is how the world works right? Have you been to India where in your myopic mind that will mean the women marry the men over there since the women pay dowry and propose it is obvious you don't know how the world works since India is also a part of the world too.

Dumbarton better get it through your head that man and woman marry each other and not only men alone which is why women accept and give consent it is a two way thing.Learn and stop saying rubbish

Hahahaha... so when you want to give a good contrast you mention India!?, you must be the most foolish person on earth, a country filled with overpopulated stinking humans and impoverished as hell... you need a psychologist for even thinking of India, then go their and marry their men now, mumu girl!, blah blah blah, how many men have you asked out!??... stupid idiot, continue living in denial, don't quote me again with your stupid Indian mentality!, mtcheeew

AmazonTopaz:
And so says who?

They marry each other and the woman accepts the marriage or is it not? What exactly is your point

except you are to pay his groom price... stop deceiving yourself, it's a mans world whether you like it or not!!!

AmazonTopaz:
And so says who?

They marry each other and the woman accepts the marriage or is it not? What exactly is your point

You nor anyone can't change how the world works, never!!!

cococandy:
Yet when men give marriage advice to other men, they never preach the kumbaya you expect women to preach.

Their one stop sentence is to “send her back to father’s house”. Almost without fail, they never advice other men to stan bull shyt. That’s not breaking the home?

Very very funny

its the man that marries you, not YOU!!!

Ojady:
A MAN in its true and original purpose is created to "dress and keep" anything and everything that comes his way. If you disagree and say a woman is not part of it, then perhaps I should come and abuse/disgrace your mother or your daughter. Or better still, they (assuming, I mean) they come and say so so and so or such, such and such just took advantage of them...a real man will begin on reflex, to dress and keep (by asking how come, asking her to go and show him the person, strategize either overtly/covertly on how to defend her honour etc) My dear brother, when you are singing "Mama" (Boyz 2 Men) or 'Dear Mama' (2pac) on Mothers Day or saying "I can do anything for my mother/daughter o!". You are simply 'dressing and keeping' a woman (forget it is your Mother/Daughter).

A lot of women have been "undressed and unkempt". Unfortunately so also are men, this is why an unkept and undressed person, male or female, will only attract his/her. Like the saying goes "To stop attracting goats, quit looking like grass"

Ok oo, anything that rocks your boat!

Ojady:
What many young men do not realize is, every girl is seeking a man who will 'dress/cover' and keep her. To a.) dress is to protect immaterially (mentally and morally) and materially (network and net worth). To keep is to prevent a.) above from getting lost. Now the foundation of dressing and keeping is a charity that is taught from home. Who is her Father? Brother, Uncle's etc who were/are the blood related males in her life. Did they dress and keep her, are they dressing and keeping her? If yes, then your work is to resemble them with an offer that matches them or surpasses theirs...
Many girls have not been kept or dressed and so don't have a clue of what it is like, and so the first hapless fellow who desecrates them becomes their standard of being dressed and kept. And so the cycle of seeking anyone and getting it anyhow becomes the norm.

Long story short, men should go and look after (dress and keep)their own sisters, daughters and even their mothers... teach their boys from childhood the responsibility of being a man starts from your own sister at home. Only then will girls learn loyalty and avoid anyhow kind of boys/men

100 percent bullshit!!!... so a man is created to please a woman, then what the hell are you going to do for the man!?... fake loyalty when the going is good I guess!?, most of you are bunch of lying manipulators, most girls don't deserve a damn love, you deserve the worst kind of heartbreak... I mean just blanking you out rubbish!

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CsRockefeller:


If I say that relationship issues never tire me then I'm lying. Recent behaviour of a very religious lady I have been friends with for sometime with a view to taking it further has got be thinking, at this point I don't know what to believe in again as it relates to love.

So, I'm just gonna take my seat and do what my people call "Siddon look" cos I'm tired honestly, why can't I find a simple lady in Nigeria for marriage?

Because love is a big time SCAM!!!... the only true and unconditional love you get on earth is from your mom, the rest na conditional!, the only set of women who are realistic in life are prostitutes... the rest are bloody lying manipulators!!!

Righteousness2:
Unachukwu, It's so Pathetic and Unfortunate that Despite knowing the consequences for doing drugs, you still go ahead to do the crime.

I Hope you will have the wisdom to make Good use of the opportunity In this Death sentence
.
A Death Sentence is one of the most Favorable and Privileged way to Depart this Earth if you are Wise.
Make sure you repent and Surrender to JESUS before you are cut off.
JESUS Christ, the Merciful KING of kings will surely Accept you if you call on Him.
Eternal Life in Heaven Matters..

if he.was successful and brought tithe or gave you money, won't you receive it!?... my father use to say all dogs eats shit only the ones with shit stain on their mouths are called shit eaters!... if you won't collect it then you are righteous if you do you are evil and have no ground to condemn him!

nigeriagospel:
You're wise OP, nothing like love, selfish interest is the order of the day.

If it's does not favour us, we don't love it.

Naso bro!... reason why one shouldn't give a Bleep what people say or do, do your thing!

NVSBL:
Do you really love her for you to allow age be your problem? You sef you think you're young ne? She seniors you with just 2 yrs.

Guess you believe she won't be able to have kids from 35 and above, or marrying someone older is bad, so let her go.

You're not ready for marriage now, but you don't want to marry her in 5 years time. Better let her go. Let her date a real man within the next 5 years.

Someone that truly loves his gf will be avoiding excuses and face age related problems when the time comes, if it comes. Older women are still giving birth. But with your mindset now, even if you manage to make it within the next 5 years, if she doesn't give birth soon after marriage, you'll blame her and start cheating. Maybe deep down you're looking for a younger babe, or you care what other people think.

Let her go now, pls. For her sake. You never love yet. You just think you do.

If with all this, you still doubt letting her go because you really love her, then I say settle down with what you can, and enjoy your love. Work hard to fend for your family. Don't have more than one kid while still hustling.

Some say blessings come after starting a family.
Just make sure you really love the lady and forget age.

Wrong!!!... you can't compare a man's age and that of woman, their biology are built different!

e be like say to suffer dey sweet you for body!!!... you don't even have an assured job yet, if you know thousands of graduates roaming this country for over 5 years jobless I swear that mumu love go clear for your eyes sharply!, like what makes you feel you are special and will immediately land a good paying job!?... Bros leave that girl, go and establish yourself, this country hard oo, let no one sugarcoat anything for you, na person wey eat belleful dey remain food for another persin, till you finish your service na then everything go clear for your eyes! I reiterate go and ESTABLISH yourself!!!

Edolor:
Nairalanders I got the worst news of my life today, I lost my job, the only thing on mind now is suicide, I'm just tied of this life, in 2014 I had I fire accident, and since I recovered from that accident this is the job that I have been managing, I'm tied of this life right now.

You even have a job you lost rubbish... thousands never even get work sef!, you better harden up oo, cus if you kill yourself na ur people go feel the brunt pass, HARDEN up bro!!!

Omihanifa:
People only come to you because of what they stand to gain or benefit from you. The moment that thing is no longer there they move elsewhere

Yes man, reason why you should do what pleases you and place yourself first cus they will leave you but you won't leave yourself... People Suck!!!

People are only loyal when they benefit from you... frankly speaking humans suck and I'm beginning to hate humanity with passion!!!

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Rickbronz:
If you graduate from a university and you come out looking for someone to employ you, then you are one of the problems of this country. With the knowledge and enlightenment you've gained from school, you should be the one employing and empowering people.
There are several businesses one can start building now which requires little capital but with a potential for massive returns in the long run.

Even in the western world Graduates look for job... where you guys get the opposite mindset that a graduate ought to employ people baffles me, like why the education at all and parents spending a lot with students studying hard, better we all become business and skilled people then!

Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?

Only stupid idiots believe in Karma!!!... if there is anything like Karma the justice system wouldn't exist!, best be wise and smart, the world is truly a mystery!

YoungBlackRico:
And you both are wrong. All girls are NOT the same. Know that and know peace!

Change the kind of girls you hang around with or maybe it's you that needs some tweaking.

You are wrong!!!... all girls are the same!!!

Thief!!!

YoungBlackRico:
Stop generalizing man. Simply say, girls you hang around with or the ones you've met. How many girls you don meet to draw this conclusion?

He is saying 100% Truth!

Beremx:
See the way he suddenly started laughing when he saw the camera.

Ekwensu ojoo!!

Lalasticlala

Na wetin fit most of una girls... money is not everything!