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well i married a lady who is two years older than me,i have a daughter who is 3yrs already and i am 29 now,my wife looks extremely younger than her age and it will take baba God to tell you before you will ever notice,though she is a working class lady and also into alot of sporting activities especially tennis and swimming,the bottomline of what am saying here is that one can marry a lady who is older (as long as love is involve)but in your own case the age is way too much and will be too obvious too and am sure we as men won't fancy that,compare to when the age difference could two to three years which is still within range.

abeg make unna no visit mbaise oooo,those people go finish you with dowry ,make unna run for cover oooooo

ha @ sistawoman,personally i have known and believe that "training" your partner in case is the bets solution and infact it brings you guyz alot more closer and bonded,imagine yourself teaching somebody something like that,sweet aand with memories too and that's one thing i find missing in a whole lots of naija relationships,the guy seem to feel he's a macho all because the babe is making some noise and groan while the babe too felt she is "action pack" as long as the guy is making some yeye noise.
To you ex abegi leave the bobo alone and let him be in peace,it doesn't worth it atleast you are married now but come o "why you no gree hang now" ?

i have a 2006 model and it's exactly these,2007 model is quite different in trims and design but it's a clean car with less than 20,000km atleast from the pics boye sent to my private email and at 2.7m it's also a good deal but why is the woman selling as these is my concern?

Ok good that you are married and same for me too as for your questions-

1- well it might not be so difficult to know if your man or my woman can handle such truth,since we atleast deal with them almost daily,remember most guyz don't want their ego bruished especially when it comes to sex and do you also know that guyz hardly tell babes that they are not good in bed too even when they are not,he prefers to discuss it with his friends,rather than tell her or assist her to improve,so the answer to your question is if am in a relationship for example and am sure my partner is not good at handling the truth then i will try to assist and improve her sex drive by my actions during love making,am sure she will understand when i start trying something new or requesting for more,that way i will be sending a message.

2- Is there also a right time to tell a babe that she doesn't know to use her God given materials and skills?I am sure that babe will feel bad right,so my number answer might still be able to answer for these,i will try some new stuffs, i will make us watch matured XXXX movies,as we watch i will pop questions like "can you try that,will you enjoy that,oya come let's try that?am sure these might alsos help

3-it might not be very easy to tell him the truth as you have earlier lead him on to feel like a macho,you see one thing i have come to realise over time is that a lot of guyz think sex is all about the b**ging of the p**sy walls,but for me i disagree,sex is a lot of skills and actions put together,take a scenario when a friend with smaller d**k met a lady whose last b/f had a bigger d**k,yet the same lady who is 27yrs old told my friend that she has never came all her life and her last relationship with bigger d**k lasted for four yrs?but in less than 2wks into the new relationship with my guy,she came like pure water,she came not base on size of d**k but posssibly on my friend's skills, i hope i have been able to answer your number 3 question that going back to tell the guy the truth might not be advisable especially when you are no longer in a relationship with him but if you are,then assist him to improve.

@sistawoman, i remember i read one of your post where you did mentioned your husband,so guess you are married?pardon me if am wrong o,i didn't also feel you were attacking my person, i hope my response didn't attack you in any way?apologies if i did in any way and to your questions they are not straight//clear enough for me to put any response,can you bring them on in a clearer sentence?

well thank God i never mentioned that "they all come back for it" and thank God i also didn't mention that my d**k being big is enough for me or al lthat i need,nope,good thing you mentioned that how effective to use it is the real thing and that i can assure that i am effective in using it well, i have heard from ladies that a lot of guyz who are big don't know how to use it,well maybe never carried out a research to ascertain that but for me i can say effectiveness of 85% is a plus and pls note i am never the type who can't take the truth and handle it well either since i know that truth especially sinceere truth can set set me free.

what i will rather change about myself?nah
My long d**k,yes my very long d**k,it's an asset though but i must confess that i have met ladies who almost flew through the burglary and infact ran for cover as soon as they set their eyez on the size,my people the thing worry even my self agree say the thing worry.

com ooo your broda tell you say in develop headache for poking older a**,mind your sef o

dee02 stop hating its not all naijas that are bad,i bought an honda crv 2007 in the month of june through nairaland and i have introduced more than 5 of my colleagues to the dealer and he has delivered big time more than my expectation

finally fianlly appollo don infect me for eyez after seeing wetin olu dey maintain,kai balalalalalla wshsbajhsha ahshaa na speaking in tongue be that oo.

you might make alot of hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm but like iice has said there are so many things to bother oneself about than age.

uncle boye make you try post the pics here now,haba

[s]i think u were born with a SILVER spoon thats y she is respecting u[/s]

My brother that's never true, i was not born with any spoon talk more of a silver spoon,i worked through the ladder to get to the point that the Almighty has put me so leave silver spoon out of these, i met a lady who understood me in-to-to and believe me i have a wonderful family that i have ever dreamt and wanted,full stop!

it's not very easy to say goodbye,especially where there is love, i remember very well when i wanted to get married,i was in love with two chics (one was older than me while one was younger) and definately i had to choose one of them,it was really difficult infact at some point i wanted to loose my mind and sincerely i must confess that even though i choose the older person i still keep in very strong touch with the younger person though she is also married now,so the bottomline is goodbye hard ooo my brothers

well for me its doesnt matter,i have been married for three years now and my wife is a year older than me but you hardly tell even after our first child (maybe because she is into lots of exercises and doesn't use all the creams) i don't know but i know my wife is firm full of respect and i have a wonderful family too,so for me it's doesn't matter the most important is happiness and not how the person will look later in the future.

@morenike & rampagain, i feel you guyz o,believe me as a child i was taught never to eat out side especially in naija parties because you cant just trust anyone o, i have had cousines who ate food at parties and still carry a sickness until today in some cases passed on sef,so for any party especially naija parties never eat o,in the case of my father my mother will cook for him,keep it in cooler in the car if the man attends your party and he's hungry he will sneak into his car and eat there jeje

@chummybro in as much as i want to also say that you don''t meddle into a scenario you know little about,i still want to mention here too that odili shared our money among some nigerdelta contractors who ended up not doing our roads,our water and clean ing our messed environment,yes we have being cheated by the oil companies and govt. at large but definately our elders,govt. and some of us have either aided or contributed to these, i have been in a situation where a man from nigerdelta was given a position and all he did was used it against those of us from nigerdelta all because we all work in an oil company,so in as much these is the case,now we are waiting for yar-adua and he's new niger delta ministry,we want to see what exactly they will do for us as we are tired of our governor who cannot function even with all the 13% derivation in their coffers

bros post the pictures or send pictures and details to anjola9ja@yahoo.com

pls remind me of these Ikechukwu Uche, i hope i am not hearing double?

@missshea,my advise to you is that your man stand's up for himself,he should tell his parents what he feels about the whole relationship,i am a nigerian based in nigerian and married to an older nigerian lady(she's two years older) we have a kid now and definately we too didn't notice the age difference until later into the relationship but i stood my grounds and fought my way into the heart of everyone,infact i remembered i told everyone that if they won't grace my marriage and bless it i will still go ahead,so let your man stand up because i am sure the parents will return to nigeria atleast after their vacation and you guys might still continue your life,so let him rise and speak up,he is the one in charge here.

send me a mail on anjola9ja@yahoo.com

@Ibime,igbos visit more because of their older folks are in the village while the yorubas especially those in lagos dont visit much because most of their elderly folks are in the cities,do you also know that alot of yoruba people don't take their people home for burial rites?

exactly what is wrong with these country?they cant support your ideas,they cant help your ideas to grow,they won't even fund your ideas,yet when your ideas are matured and ready for use, they will steal it and even launch it with so much pomp carnival,na wa ooh

send me a mail at anjola9ja@yahoo.com and i will assist you with details.

send me a mail on anjola9ja@yahoo.com

go for another ride bros,then i can introduce to genuine and good agent that will deliver from cotonu

@dantata, did you mean you are postive and you are waiting for your day of what?