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Vinnie2000:
Oh!!
Catholic Spotted!
So you guys are the ones that Stays in Church 2 Hours after Mass?
You Guys will pass by Legion of Mary, CWO, CMO, Lay readers,etc.. meetings and greet all the Members b4 going home!
I Tire for Unah!

Block Rosary, St. Michael Imo/Abia meeting, Imo State town meeting Abuja chapter, Local government, even our village own too.

Na so that woman carry me waka tire for this life.

When I later grew up and started going to church whenever I liked, this woman will still go to church by 6am and return by 4pm, I had to name her Nwunye Fada. Lol.

pocohantas:
OP doesn’t need to further his education. The ones that furthered, how far?

OP should simply look for his fellow SSCE holder. There are many of them out there. Some of them have shade where they sell cortex and petals hair relaxer. He wants to marry graduate ba? So that when he enters bank and the customer service officer is rude, he would tell her he has her type at home.

He shouldn’t give me that, “I just love her for her”. No human loves you for just existing, maybe your parents. But even those ones, as you begin to grow, they want you to take first in class, they want you to get a good job, they want you to buy them cars like your mates are doing. There are qualities OP loves in her. OP himself is not so altruistic.

#KaptainPoco Maka Chukwu, enweghi`m ike okwu taa!

Ihie masirim ka ngwara Dede a weputara okwu. O masi ya, ya were ihie anyi gwara ya, owuru na omasi ya, ya hapuwa o.

Udo

My mom taught me how how to do that, after mass then, we go from one meeting to another and we'll be greeting everyone we see and talking with them, I do it too when all is well with me and don't when I've got lots on my mind.

Surprisingly, we were both introverts. Weird mother and son. Lol.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

Hello Sir, I've read some comments suggesting that you advance educationally, from my understanding of those comments I think they're saying that you should do it for you, and not because of some woman.

At 36, you can still get a higher level of certification before 40-42yrs of age, and that's going to make you a more flexible person in your future endeavours.

ahnie:
Ok

Duly noted.

Thanks.

ahnie:
Hahahahahahahaha...not you again nau
Many thanks!
Are you on WhatsApp?

Lol! No mind me jare.

Yeah, I'm on WA.

ahnie:
Yeah am good Cassy!
Many thanks for the spot on.

Isoko Amaka.

neonly:
She just came back from work now 5pm not even a greet just straight to her room
Or should I just leave d house for now because am really emotionally hurt

Bros abi na Oga I go call you. Chill.

Sometimes the things we give bleeps about aren't what they are, and the things we handle with somewhat negligence are the biggest issue.

Some women are stubborn and the only way to get them into realigning with the family formation is to tame them through unconventional show of character.

Probably she's hardwired your oppression into her psyche and has elected to look beyond you for happiness. Where you offend her? People who rebel don't just wake up to, dem dey get reasons.

Drop ego, study her hard and see if you're dead to her before you proceed else you'd be getting a cold wall with her, and don't even use force, e no go work. Her spirit has taken a new phase, art of war no be only canon and ballistic missiles, be preemptive and less mechanical.

ahnie:
I'm calming down Cassy.

Your words too direct, e dey cut both from front and back. Kinda abrasive.

Hope sha you're good?

ahnie:
Forget I love you in marriage.marriage is hard,forget being married to your best friend, marriage is hard!hard!!and hard!!!

I think marriage should be scrapped completely coz it's an unending pit....

Please be calming down now.

pansophist:
I Find her interesting, then I'll need to hold on to the shaky faith in me to ask her out despite my fear of rejection, wondering if she will ever accept, and how I'll live with myself if she refuses. If she finds me interesting, then she would just give me green light, and pass the burden of chasing to me. If I didn't chase, she can safely conclude that I'm gay, that I'm not interested in her, or not man enough. Whichever case, the burden of performance rest solely on me, a position I can not negotiate myself away from.

So I finally summon the courage to ask her out, and she accept to go out on a date with me. Hallelujah. But a new chapter begin, I'll have to impress her. It's implied. Even if she finds me interesting, she knows she reserves the privilege to choose, why I reserves the liability to pursue. I'll have to be a gentleman to pay for the date, and probably pay for her uber if she is the broke type. The closest time I felt like this was during a job interview. The employer holds the power to choose. Let's not deceive ourself jare. She holds the power here, and even me the man's knows that. Only God knows the calibre of men in her contact list that she is ready to replace me with if I fork up. So I better be at my best behaviour.

Ok fast forward to the real deal. so she agreed, and we started dating. Now it's time to fork. I enter bed gallantly like John Cena, assured of my bedmatic skills to knack anything. But the problem is that even at my best, I may not measure up, because only God knows the gallant warriors that has gone through that route and set the bar so high, that she feel disappointed after the act. See me feeling like a superstar that I was able to reach three rounds, meanwhile, previous men de knack overnight non stop. Night vigil on top her body, for real. Again, the burden of performance rest solely on me. Just because I'm a man. Doesn't matter if other men don spoil show before me. Doesn't matter if na her fault for sampling multitudes of deeks, I just have to deliver satisfactorily.

Fast forward another day, on midnight. We are sleeping jejely. Then we heard a big knock, with a loud voice screaming, "open the door". She looks at me, shivering with her eyes saying, "baby, are we safe"? Of course implying that I should go check who is knocking on the door. It's not a duty to negotiate, it's my job as the man. And if anyone will be given the introductory slap, it definitely has to be me. Even if she a feminist, at that point, equality doesn't matter anymore. Gender role reactivated. She is a woman and I am the man. How about the two of us go see who is at the door? Two head is better than one? Well not in this case. The burden of performance rest solely on me.

If this is what is means to be the head, please, let's change role abeg. I'll gladly choose to be the neck, the liver, or even the oesophagus. All this responsibility and even multiple orgasm to compensate, I no see. Just a few sperm burst like tube toothpaste and I'm done. The one that pains me the most is that even in my innocence, just because the other party is a woman, then by default, the burden of proving myself innocent rest on me. She may give me a dirty hot slap in the street, and people will wonder what i did to deserve such slaps. Meanwhile if I do, all I'll hear is "do you want to kill her"? "Don't you know she is a woman? Real men don't beat women etc. If I was unlucky that it happened in a bad neighbourhood, I may be beaten public style, by boys who are quick to use my predicament as an opportunity to virtue signal.

Oya time to marry, I am ready, she is ready, but we are both broke. Although somehow, the burdens of brideprice, wedding expenses, proposing, buying ring, going to visit her family, arranging the house she will move in after marriage, and even more, falls on the man. Lots of men are unmarried nor because they are not ready but because they can't financially perform. Meanwhile, lots of women are unmarried not because they are not ready, but because they haven't met guys who will perform. My personal circumstances of being broke even if the economy is equally nacking us is unacceptable, but all I hear is, "bro just perform".

And this is one of the aspect I detest about maleness. That in relation with a woman, i bear almost, if not all the liability because I'm perceived as strong, and also that the burden of performance rest on me. Baba God, why?

Nna! This just shredded whatever is left from my sober state.

Very conscious writeup Oga Pansophist.

nelszx:
Man city currently awaiting Shakter Donetsk

Swears, Donetsk na City wife according to UCL customs and traditions.

No matter how broke I am, I don't mind buying a ticket for a journey with my last money.

I easily lose connection with a place and boom, I'm gone.

College is very important but avoid cultism, politics and whatnots, start developing skills alongside your books. Bag that degree and dump it somewhere, e get why. Don't regret getting it but never hope on it.

There are loyal women, but you can't keep them unless you've made some change or a big breakthrough is looking imminent. Accept that you're only loved conditionally, when someone loves you unconditionally, then there's a miracle.

Man wey no get girlfriend get plenty peace of mind, know this and live longer. So, don't jump into relationships with the mindset of joining the bandwagon. Know why you need one before you get into one.

The only person(s) that can bet on you with all they've got should be you and your family members, the rests owe you nothing. Nonetheless, there are some good people outside of this cycle. Learn to spot them by being responsible and respectful to everyone and also, dump every expectations from people.

You're still young, don't prove anything to anybody, especially a woman, that's not good enough until you prove yourself to yourself that your better than you were in your past. Build confidence, stay positive because this journey might be a solitary one.

Get domesticated as much as you can. It will help you stay independent from women for as long as you need to be until you're ready to settle down. If you don't, a smart woman can find her way into your life through this route, dangerously when you're not yet ready.

Read. Read. Read. Whether boring or not, develop your writing, speaking and even overhaul your own experiences. Travel too.

All these get why, but na later you go understand.

post=105069201:
Paddy, so good to have you back.
How was the surgery, hope it all went well?
Thank you Jesus.

Welcome back to be giving us those juicy and interesting topics on Nairaland.
We miss you.

BomaForTheMoney.


Oluwaseun
Daalu Chukwu
Nagode Allah.
To God be the Glory.
God truly answers prayers.
Welcome Back,
Welcome Back,
Welcome Back!

BTW,
We are not sir o,
We are simply WE.
Kindly take note sir!


To God be all the Glory.
More love to come your way Chief Odewale.
Keep being you and the Sky is your starting point.
Go and Succeed.

The proper way of saying it is “Chukwu Daalu” and not “Daalu Chukwu”.

Simdyofficial:
Una sure say I no go dump this arsenal Nawa o. COYG

Write your resignation letter quickly o

The tempo of this show has reduced, whether this was as a result of gathering boring HMs together with few smart ones or the games Biggie is trying to spin on us is entirely working towards negative zones.

For me, the last 3 days have been really difficult for me as a follower of this season of BBN.

I want eviction.. I can't help myself o. Give me someone's head o.

Munzy14:


Chai...succulent...


A lot can be factored in when it takes 2seconds to burst...Maybe with time things will blend..Then babe will be begging for the guy man to burst make she breathe small...

E just be like Automatic car wey you put for gear come the push accelerator to highest, E no go work...But if one taps jeje..From 2seconds to 1hr as time progresses...

By then Nwoke will move from Indomie to Beans then finally to Okpa...

I don't know if na Okpa Enugu or Okpa Anambra...lol

But Una dey puy pressure for us o..Ume ka eji afu oku a..

See, you sabi the parole.

The knowledge wey you don amass, I pray say e no go waste.