Romance › Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by cassyrooy(m): 4:41pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Wallteck: For been naive, nice and kind. I have being a victim of bully because I can't defend myself. Have lose a lot of respect. I wish God can recreate me to be a tough guy. Have been call fool for my behaviour.
I just wish people can understand. This world we live people are just too ruthless. The moment they see a weak guy they will start using and riding him anyhow. If I decide to change my ways I swear I will be so Wicked to the extent I won't have love for humanity.
Right now, I don't make friends too much because I know my weakness. I just want to be a lonely and marry a lady who understands me. People are just too Wicked.
Respect to those tough guys out there. I will make sure all my child not suffer the same faith I suffer. People are just too wicked. My number one recommendation is Susan Cain's book titled Quiet. Download it and you'll realise that you're more powerful than you've come to know, and people can't mess with you because, despite your calm demeanour, you'll still court fear in those who have negative feelings towards you. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukraine Must Join The EU: Zelenskiyy Remains Defiant by cassyrooy(m): 6:07pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
I loved Putin but I can't support his senseless aggression against Ukraine.
Na Python Dance him launch so but like Buhari, e no go achieve anything because the spirit of a people can't be broken by the barrel of the Automatic Kalishinokov. |
Romance › Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by cassyrooy(m): 8:15pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Descottes: Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed. People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy We fit talk? |
Family › Re: My Dad Pursued Me Out Of His House Because I Smoke by cassyrooy(m): 3:55pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
NnolimNzubechi: Hello Nairalanders. It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me
Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..
Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.
So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol. I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him
So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.
So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.
What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..
Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke
Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....
Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa ... My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??
Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks Hebrews 12:7-11 NIV
Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
Your dad loves you and he doesn't want you trapped with a difficult-to-break lifestyle of smoking and whatnot. |
Music/Radio › Re: Top Five Nigerian Songs In January , 2022 by cassyrooy(m): 9:53pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggar Bunch of crab untalented dog shit songs
Baby girl...those songs are dog shit If you live in Benin city...then let's hang out so I can show you what good songs is all about I will show you my play list....while blazing my weed post malone( the music wizard) J cole The weekend Imagine dragons Jesse jags Sia Burna boy 2face Katty pery Passenger Bruno Mars Justin bieber WizKid( Balogun the big boy) Avicii( rest in peace) Twenty one pilot The Chainsmokers Dig the kid Cold play Khalid Maroon 5 Calum scot John legend Selena Gomez Ellie Goulding Christiana aquilera A great big world Rita ora Clean bandit Dua lipa Martin garixx Major Lazer The night Edsheeran Taylor swift One direction Lewis capaldi Sam smith Ariana Grande Kehlani Billie eilish Camilo Cabello.. Normani James Arthur You have an expensive array of artists in your playlist. You ain't all weed after all. |
Romance › Re: What An Elderly Man Told Me About Marriage by cassyrooy(m): 11:58am On Jan 29, 2022 |
betcliq: Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift. He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.
This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.
What do you guys think about it My (adopted) mum told me that there are Wives and there are Knives.That old man really confirmed her postulation to you when he engaged you in discussions, and I like his No-Sex approach. |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Chesterfield FA Cup (5 - 1) On 8th January 2021 by cassyrooy(m): 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
This Saturday is a good one. Glad I paid for my boys to see this very smooth game. |
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Celebrities › Re: Most Faceless Accounts That Attack You Are Your Friends — Actor Ugezu J Ugezu by cassyrooy(m): 7:43pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Enemy within is more potent and venomous than the ones from outside. |
Nairaland General › Re: What's Your New Year Resolution? by cassyrooy(m): 4:40pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
2022 Priorities:
1. Intentional saying of thank you God, thank you Sir/Ma'am, God bless you, I Love you, I'm very grateful, I greatly appreciate. (I want very little of I'm sorry situations)
2. Hustle, but chop life.
3. Peaceful rest.
4. Keeping off from bitter and toxic people. This one is not even slightly negotiable. Last year I axed three people within 2 months, this year, na once dem bite me, I cut their heads off. |
Nairaland General › Re: What's Your New Year Resolution? by cassyrooy(m): 4:33pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
sript: Walking and pressing my phone at same time at night....
That shit must stop This na serious problem o. Try stop. |
Nairaland General › Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by cassyrooy(m): 7:30pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Ahnie, thank you, thank you, thank you so much. God bless you Mama Ziino.
MissJoy29, shout to you too. God got your back.
I'll be seeing yall in 2022. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Caught With Fake US Dollars, Arrested In South Africa (Photo) by cassyrooy(m): 6:16pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Bad egg.
I can't fathom the inclination to criminality by Nigerians. |
Family › Re: A nairalander 4 Years Old Son Performing His Sonly Duty. by cassyrooy(m): 2:36pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
@Ahnie lol. Sonly duties indeed.
My mom tried to get me this early but I was too stubborn for her, na now I dey hand pick which duties to learn.
Of all things to teach him, please don't forget to teach him how to guard his back against bad people; male and female alike, how to see and handle money, e dey important.
Joys of motherhood blessings dear. |
Music/Radio › Re: Fireboy DML & Ed Sheeran - Peru (Official Video) by cassyrooy(m): 9:07pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SideshowBob: See as Ed Sheeran just collected this song from the owner, We must protest Colonial master, Lt. Col. Ed Sheeran of Great Britain. |
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Business › Re: Shoppers Storm Onitsha Main Market For Christmas Shopping (Video) by cassyrooy(m): 9:11pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
What Onitsha can not sell, Lagos will not import.
What Onitsha can not buy, if you import them, sorry is your name. |
Nairaland General › Re: 26 Years Old Without A Single Beard by cassyrooy(m): 12:58pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Denvacandy: Is this really normal, i will be 26years soon and i dnt have a beard atall, i am even less concern about it becoz na money dey my mind, but shey this thing normal like this, even small boys go dey call me name sometimes self nawa oo You're simply a late bloomer. No problem. Maturation go still reach your side. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Withholds Assent To Electoral Amendment Bill, Gives Reasons by cassyrooy(m): 9:51pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
Another lie to keep the political class gerontocratic and retrogressive.
Fxckers |
Family › Re: What Are You Gifting Yourself This Christmas? by cassyrooy(m): 5:47pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
ahnie: That's the raw truth. I no be hypocrite. I no go troway sugar if e enter my mouth, so I agree with you. |
Travel › Re: One Of The 17 Flyovers Constructed By Umahi In Ebonyi State (Photos) by cassyrooy(m): 5:08pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
Wisdomkosi: One Of The 17 Flyovers Constructed By Gov. Umahi in Ebonyi State (Photos) | #IgbereTV
By Francis Nwaze
This flyover is one of the 17 flyovers that has been constructed by the present administration under the leadership of Engr. David Umahi in Ebonyi State.
Something spectacular about this flyover is that it is not located in the capital city of Ebonyi State, yet it this classy and enticing.
For the past few weeks, Ebonyi State's capital city has been experiencing traffic jams as a result of an influx of investors, contractors, job seekers, adventurers, students, etc. for the reason of the uncommon transformation that has happened in the state in the past six years and a fertile ground for investment, education, job opportunities and more. I particularly observed that Governor Umahi is indeed a man who saw the future, Ebonyi's future, the future of the fastest developing state across the country, he saw this and began to prepare before the time, the time that Ebonyi will become visible in the world map. He began to install good roads, connecting the roads with beautiful fountains in the roundabouts and installing the classy decongesting flyovers across the lengths and breaths of where he anticipated may have a traffic jam if allowed to remain in the originality.
A lot has happened in the period under discussion but I elect to leave it for another day but one factual thing you cannot take away from Governor Umahi is his ability to correctly predict what the future holds, of course, we can confirm that he is on a divine mission, judging from his antecedents. You cannot take his love for humanity, his doggedness, and his commitment to ensuring that dividends of democracy cut across all.
Umahi has written his name in gold and will always be remembered.
Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1409758/one-17-flyovers-constructed-gov-umahi-ebonyi-state-photos/ This looks like the Abaomege Flyover in Onicha LGA. And for the project completion, we have to remember that he had late Dr. Kings Nweze to bring those to fruition. That man was a tremendous success in terms of infrastructural project management until his untimely death. |
Family › Re: What Are You Gifting Yourself This Christmas? by cassyrooy(m): 5:05pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
Already got myself a new phone, nothing further. |
Family › Re: What Are You Gifting Yourself This Christmas? by cassyrooy(m): 5:02pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
ahnie: What's the name of the toothpaste? Your siggy make sense die. Hypogamy is equilibrating things right now. |
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Family › Re: Family Festive Giveaway by cassyrooy(m): 6:32pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
ahnie: @cassy.rooy pls help vote for my candidate abeg her name is iya zainab. She's contestant number 1 Lemme go through the list. |
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Health › Re: Why Is That Nigerian Girls Don't Fear STD? by cassyrooy(m): 9:51pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
pocohantas: It is more of ignorance. Maybe after treating one STD, they become more aware and careful. Just like you’ll become more careful with your phone after it falls and you change the screen. True. The mode of contracting some diseases may be unprotected sex, but for some other modes like piercing by accident and other nonsexual way could still occur, and many folks (males and females alike) believes that they're free from whatever diseases that exist in our society, only to begin to share it via unprotected sex. Some were born with these things, others through one unknown source, some through Mother-To-Child (MTC), et al, but it never showed up any symptoms all these while and they just never got to know about it. |
Family › Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by cassyrooy(m): 1:24pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
As last born among the 5 children, it was really fun and my sisters just reminded me of it on Sunday night whilst we were on conference call.
Those girls pet me, bullied me, loved me, and ensured I got everything I wanted, they mended my fu"ck up's at every moment of slips, but they pampered me to nonsense. My mom also made sure I go everywhere with her and get anything I want.
I was lazy too, my own worse sotey na beat dem dey beat me to wash plates for house or my clothes.
But now whenever I visit them, I cook for these women in their husband's homes, do their laundries, and whatever I just know will ease stress from them. Them too much abeg. |