Find excuses for you to remain there.

InTheCloudySky:
Stop being a mumu. Find a way to get him out.

Could you imagine. He came to me that the key I gave him is locked in the house.

I gave him my spare key which has the gate and main door key and for days now, he said he forgot my keys in his shop.

Some people are just so wicked. I will be kicking him out this month end.

Elporo:


E get one of my cousin brother. Has been trying to know my place here.

Nothing e never do. Blackmail, begging, preaching

Never shall I
***

Dearest cousin,

I rather loan you a large amount of money instead of showing you where I live.

My dear, e no too good to harbour person o.

Omogbe

Nazgul:

He has a parasitic friend who doesn't give two shits about him, the friend tends to boss him around his own house even up to the extent of owing him and making life miserable for him. And he's so shy to confront his so called friend so he's dying in silence. Baba 70 (fela) will simply say suffering and smiling.

How have you been by the way...it's been ages.

@topic.
You just have to reach out to him, let him know what you like and what you dislike. It's your house... you should be the boss, start acting like one.

Thank you for the summary.

vibbb:
He promised of spending 60 days (2 months) before getting his own apartment but now he has stayed 4 months.; That alone is a deal breaker. Lemme ask you: His he making any effort to get his own plc ?
No, he seems very comfortable now.
It's time for you guys to talk man 2 man. #Goodluck.
Will do just that

Sonnobax15:

I don't know how you people get into such parasitic friendship....But honestly op,if na be you,I for don sit that guy down,talk sense into him head.......Na your house,so why you dey tolerate such nonsense abi he dey follow you dey pay the house rent...

Mtcheewww

No, he doesn't pay rent with me.

pansophist:
An expression of self-love is not to tolerate parasitic friendship, because that guy is not a friend, but a parasite. As you grow, you will meet a lot of these folks, you will also learn to be tough and greedy, not as an expression of being bad, because people like your parasite (friend) will push you to that place. I guess you are an empath, and it is natural for you to help. But don't help at your own detriment, if anyone stresses you out, cut them off. You should normalize cutting off people that don't serve you out of your life.

You are right. I need to collect my money first before kicking him out. He was to give me the money on Tuesday but never came back to the house. Went to the house yesterday to meet him fast asleep because I came back late. This morning, he told me his babe would be coming and I said no pro but that he should get my money ready before Saturday then he sighed.

Drsnives:
I and the op are one
But my own na with my nextdoor female neighbor.
I dea chock

Woman neighbor? Well, the only experience I had with female neighbor was coming my room at 10pm or 12pm. I parked out without letting her know my new place.

It is never my intention coming to this place to write this but it's a sign of improving my writing. Although I may still make mistakes but I must write things to improve.

It's a long read o.

Ok

So my friend is cohabiting with me. Though he promised spending 60 days before getting his own apartment.

Now, I'm kind of greedy and stingy but I don't think these traits are hereditary or should I say, it's because of lack of association or maybe because of money. Currently, my salary I no dey reason am at all.
I feel shy too taking things from people or asking for help except maybe for biz

What I have not been used to is failing to keep to agreements. Before I will do anything, I will always tell you what and when it intend to last that is, coming clean.

My friend is the exact opposite. He's cunning. He told me he would stay for two months but have stayed for 4.

Our gas got finished and I had no money to refill. It's my house and I won't tell him gas has finished. I refilled the last time before now. So he offered to refill but he will be refilling with his own bottle instead of mine. His bottle was not in the house which means he is bringing it from his woman's place. Well, I accepted and he has refilled the gas and we are using it.

I travelled to Cross Rivers and stayed for a week. On my return I discovered two wraps of igbo on my table. Lol. Omo I never knew he smokes but I just wrapped it in a waterproof and kept it at a corner. I allowed two days to pass before asking about the cigarette. He said it belongs to a customer who left it on his shop. I smiled and changed the topic. After a week, I saw the remains of the cigarette in my bathroom and at my house entrance. I didn't confront and I behaved like I didn't see anything.

He will take his bath, use the toilet but won't flush. Water dey inside bathroom o. I dey flush I never reason am anything. I wanted talking to him of a place to find water if there's no water in the bathroom. I later found out he knows the place and he has been getting water from there.

He will prepare cooking stuff and won't throw the dirt away. I will have to do it.

He does clean the house and wash my clothes when washing not all the time though.

He doesnt cook regularly in the house and sometimes eats at his girlfriends place. I do sleep on empty stomach but it's not my food or money so I don't use to complain.

Am a shy person and do not know how to communicate so most times, we are always keeping quiet. I hate this.

He brought a girl to the house though he has been bringing them but that day, money I kept in my shorts got missing. I haven't confronted him about it because I don't know if he was the one that took it or the girl.

I am a part time student so my money goes to my education. I have to borrow from apps too every month and also repay when I receive salary. He maybe thinking I have money but nada. Like this month I have to settle three loan apps and I am damn broke. This my guy is owing some money which I have asked him to repay but he is dancing around.
It was tough asking him to repay because I felt he may feel am driving him away from the house but I get to ask anyways.

If he refuses to pay, na hungry be that o because I can't force him before person put something for my water.

All in all, I know he won't be parking out till January.

And sometimes, that feeling of friendship is just there for you.

Hope you enjoyed my writing.
Thank you.

I haven't watched the movie yet but I believe with Tik Tok strategy.

Please, I want to know who here have used the services of Chrisvicmall of recent and did they deliver on time?
How long did it take for the goods to arrive.
Thank you.

One thing I know and want to say is that many people are into dirty and dubious business.

Babysho:
Same guy wey sing school na scam na e pass out for NYSC. For this life use your brain.

This life sef na scam

Ghozt:
When I saw this post I remembered the advice that my grandfather told me at my uncle's wedding while we were sitting next to each other next to the music band,the volume was loud I couldn't hear him

And that's how you lost out on the old man's advice. God no go shame you.

The cabals will use this to fight him later on

Most times dreams results from fear, sickness. Try to live a healthy life.

Gang90:

I'm into politics in my public handle this handle here is strictly private and on a good day, I will deactivate, cheers, I had left my bros house, a good friend is treating me to some drink in another city, I will get back to hustling tomorrow, courage isn't that bad after all, I read to be happier man not to attack anyone. I hope hope to play in the big table in national politics soon

Hold no grudges against your brother or his woman. Do reach out to them when you can.
I wrote something on my timeline and this is his reply " Though searching is a never ending phenomenon. Son we continue to search, as one solution opens up another likely problem. Most times I am pissed by his simple nature and living life. He has more than 500 different fictions in his library. But he is filled with life lessons.

At the bold, you are being opened to another phase of life, brace up for the challenges that comes with it.

Success in your endeavors.

Gang90:

You don't know what happiness is, have you read the complete works of Shakespeare, or taken a look at some of Tesla's models, have you read the republic by pluto, or seen anything about pearl harbour attack that changed the direction of the world war two, do you know about the Manhattan project, how much do you know about marry Slessor, oh I I shouldn't tell you where lord Lugard was born, for some of us the beauties of life does not always lie in sex, sex is great no doubt but it was not designed for some random kids.

I definitely know more about sex than you will ever know even if you sleep with a thousand woman, do you know why you or most people moan during sex, your sex experience brings you closer to goats and dogs, be human why not study and understand sex

When you don't enjoy some peaceful mental time but glorifies sex, tell me how you are different from donkeys, even 2 months old rats have sex tell me how are you different from them, perhaps your brother or you is not disciplined if he sees your room worthy of being a sex brothel, he should have washed the sheet becuase he wont have had sex there if it were hanging outside when he came.

Quite a good read.
It's good to know you have read all these books and yet failed at solving one little problem you encounter in your brother's house.
I am beginning to believe that you read these books to prepare for a fight with your brother over your fathers properties.
You read to learn but not to corrupt.
Like I said, you have done well reading these books and you think now you are smarter in life, good for you.
I haven't read many of those books and yes, I will read about them someday but I have read some other books many of Lobsang Rampas' with chapters of life being my favorite. I have also read The Saffron Rope, living with the lama, feeding the flame, candle light and wisdom of the ancients by the same author.
I have also read Three against paradise city, Want to Stay Alive and This way for a shroud by James Hadley Chase, Marked for Violence by Tex Bradley, The Mysterious Mr Quin by Agatha Christie, Ice Station Zebra by Alistair Maclean, Earth's Aura and many others.
I believe not all Nigerians are lazy in reading.

You see, non of the authors you mentioned lived their life complaining which you are now. With the vast knowledge from the books you read, you can't successfully and silently hit your brother or wife a surprise hit that will make them respect you instead you are opting for a physical challenge with people who are having fun with themselves.

You are pained because you have no girl who loves you and maybe you brag a lot. Live life easily, most of these authors you read about their stories never wrote what they endured in their relationship life with family and maybe friends.

If you leave the house, they will share your fathers properties so why are you afraid to ask for your own share of the property and instead planning to fight them.

Now, let me ask, did they know you were around, did you drop a written note to wash the bedspread after they have done the doing or you expect them to get up from sex and go into washing of your bedsheet, are they kids?

What stopped you from going to ask of a new bedsheet or rapper from your brother or his woman?

You have already conceived evil in your heart and maybe you may be planning something terrible.

For reading the books you mentioned, your title should have been "My brother and his wife had sex in my room and this is how I made her wash the bedspread or what I did afterwards that startled them" and not to come here to cry over loads of books you have read and yet couldn't solve a simple problem.

Now, why did you read about sex, because you are obsessed about sex and can't go for it.

We are not burying in our lives in sex no, but if you want to know a thing well you practice.

You can read well but have no love and maybe no life but your brother is enjoying his life having it in your room, maybe kitchen anywhere they want.

I know I don't know much about life but don't be carried away by lots of books you read. Apply principles in those books to situations that need them. Seek a way to maneuver out of difficulties at times without a show of strength.

Don't hate on your brothers wife, find yours and enjoy the life.

Do more and talk less.

"pearl harbour attack that changed the direction of the world war two"

This should be channeled towards conquering Nigerians problem and not to your brother except you perceive trouble from him.

In civil engineering, you encounter heavy mathematics which most times you don't make use of them for life on site.

Read and know but don't use it to cause problems where there is non.

Stay blessed.

Gang90:


Hate is a very strong word my dear, if I declare hate, you will understand the implication, I feel nothing. Disgusting is in the aspect of this whole sexual escapade, not in the whole contest, if shes totally disgusting, I won't even eat her food, if I hate her, i won't even stay in the same house with her, disgusting is irritating, which is the whole mental picture of sleeping in such unhealthy and non hygienic environments, disgusting does not equals hates, disgusting is about conception hate is a state of perception. Disgusting will fade out over time, hate grows stronger that's the disparity, I can't say I hate her, I can say her actions especially the one of this evening disgusts me

My senior called me yesterday and I knew he was coming with a girl. I left the house telling where I kept the keys.
When he was done, he called and told me he left the bed sheet outside. I got home saw it outside and left it there.
I have wanted to tell him to stop carrying women to my house but I remembered when I was still living with my dad and mom.
I have a friend I run to when a woman comes around. One day, I knack this babe and the whole bed was wet.
I turned the bed the other side and spread the bedsheet still wet with our sweat.
I left and till today, he hasn't said a word about wet bedsheet and bed, I still take girls to his place.
Today morning, I have washed my bedsheet.

Could it be you are fancing your brother's girl or you are just jealous.

You kissed a girl and you no knack her and you never kiss again hmmmmmm
Go try dey rassle woman o. Make sex starve no come kill you.

If no get money get sense n if you no get sense get money.
No dey like boys wey get money and no get joy. Nothing pass joy and happiness.

Weytin I talk sef, no mind me o

sirjamesjnr:
Do you know even Bible has no value for a worthless man? A sad reality.

Bible dey ginger us not to be lazy. This life.

Okay, I don hear.

Yomit71:
All of you saying she should give her number out as she wish are not well upstairs. This shows how decayed your heart is.
giving out her number anyhow, is she a customer care? rubbish

My brother, the comments I dey read dey burst my bubbles. Naija guys dey on another level o.

Truth is that women have free life and it's time many men learn to live a free life.

What, you give your number to men and you think it's okay?

Me I don dey learn things small small concerning life.

Donspicey:



Lolsss.....

Many people here have passed through more than wat happened to you in the quest for true love and they are still living......


Put ur sef togeda and move on dear....life is too precious to waste over avoidable incident.....


Crying will only add to ur predicament.....

It happened before....

It happened again second time......


Never allow it to happen again......

Always be on guard....if u hear odas tori u go know say ur case na moimoi.....

You see that word in bold, women no dey reason am when they see person wey dem love.
Na the life be that.

eliok:
Those of us in kdp, February should be preparing you for the next big sales month.
Keep flying.

What do you think sell well on February.

Always go for what you want.

Okay, Next news please.

Racoon:
President Jonathan will simply loose his relevance if he falls for this gimmick by these people.This government have so much destroyed every aspect of our national life that whosoever ascend the seat of the presidency (if Nigeria still remains an entity) will just be useless.Dont be their stooge.Restructure or disintegrate this failed contraption of a nation.

I don't think he will loose any relevance if he chose to contest.
My problem, will he be strong enough to dislodge the North enough to elect another southern man after him?

Mikester:


Worried over what I can't control? Abeg, make I enjoy my life jare. Life to short to dey worry on top unnecessary matter

Abeggi enjoy your life o.

Mikester:


Thank God me no get brother

You should be worried of not having one.

I can control him but we are happy as a family. Even though the girl is manipulative, she do adjust when I am around and we play and laugh together sometimes.

Not just middling in their affairs.

And the girl, she commands good business will so, I let my bros be.

Mikester:


Like I said, sometimes to draw people closer, you have to give them some distance. All the while you tried to convince your brother, did he listen to you?

For fvck's sake, leave him to his folly and stop disrespecting yourself. You aren't that jobless. When he screws himself up, his will come to his senses.

Na so my junior brother dey too o.
This my bro dey wash his woman clothes but him no dey touch my own. Pim I no talk. I dey go collect my clothes wash. Even my shirts wey him wear, na me dey wash am.
My house wey I dey mob at least twice a month, them no do am for months, na me come dey do am when I see d condition but pim I no talk.
Sometimes, if you worry these small boys and their Girls, the girls go turn them from you and you no go like am.
Now them don go and do come around when they desire.

Kriss216:
Nollywood can call big big money every time yet nothing come out.

One of their members, Emeka Ani is lying in the hospital soliciting for funds.

Just saying sha.

You see eh, in this life people no dey too reason another person like that.
That's why celebrities go dey buy motors of millions of dollars and people dey hospital, prison and in the streets dying.

Her money her struggle.

I don't agree with you.

So bad of a human.

Kpokrikpo:
Why won't they obstruct the road? Government of the cows, for the cows and by the cows

lol
Cowtocracy

So Una want quilt to worry Sunday?

Good for him and his people.