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iaamxavier:
I would advice you go for the lecturing job

There's high chances of salary increment in universities
Also if you know your onions there's also high chances of you becoming a senior lecturer within time

Also you have more time as a lecturer to start up a business to support your self and family

You get to meet a lot of influential people since its a private university
If you behave like the "Nigerian Lecturer" You'll make it big time if you know what I mean

Secondary school job isn't secured at all as you can easily be replaced at any slightest issue, But its all about fulfillment. If you feel fulfilled there you can as well stay back

and u think he has job security in the so called private university??... Oga he should go for what pay the bills and forget the name lecturer

saphiere:
Erica would have won this but bad people kicked her out. Erica still my winner.

yes she is ur winner, and she will remain ur winner. A person that body shame another is as worse as the person supporting her... In conclusion birds of like feathers soar together.

Where are those Niggaz always shouting the slogan

IGBO AMAKA. why have u guys suddenly gone mute

Ok

Charmingrascal:
Congratulations we know the monster u married.

Another woman will soon be in his captivity

its so disgraceful that a fellow man would write this kind of comment. You forget there are always two side to a story, and u judged based on one side.... I guess you aren't married that's why u talk without caution. E go reach ur body

A news without source is as useless as the convener.... Trying to make it seem like the man is less popular won't work for the PDP.... Everybody knows the pastor in the political atmosphere than the said governor, get that straight... Shebi na tomorrow, patient and let the numbers decide...

NOTE: I'm not a politician, neither do I support anybody due to personal reasons... I like Obaseki but I hate PDP more than I like Obaseki, due to what they did in edo state when lucky Igbinedion was governor... We can't return to Egypt.. Any man that wants good for Edo state as a governor can never associate himself with the PDP.... Speaking from experience

U guys should argue with proof. Before talking, upload the best picture u took with ur infinix then u will be swallowed by some shots taken with a xiaomi camera... Compare other fone camera with xiaomi, never ever use infinix... I currently use an infinix note 7 and a redmi note 8. And the difference is clearer than dstv... Infinix no get camera trust me, zoom the picture taken by that infinix and u go surprise

Swears this is manslaughter.... Container keeps falling anyhow killing people and nobody is doing anything about those containers.....

Profsam696:
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how much? So I know if I go msg u

EbonyCy:
Pls can you explain more?

don't mind that one, he just want to comment without reasonable and verifiable facts.... Their money there is close to rubbish wen compared to other world currencies check the above screen short I made.

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themes009:
Vietnam! Visa free , thank me later

[/s] na so una dey talk wetin una nor know.. U just say any country that comes to ur head... This is minimum wage in Vietnam and its equivalent in USD. So na that kind place u want am to go hustle..

sikowitz17:
The errors might have just messed up other peoples chances you know

oga it wasn't deliberate, the person is answering based on his own knowledge, he is just trying to help, he himself would have done same thing he advise them to do... It wasn't a deliberate action to mislead them.

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Kriss216:
Prayed for Ize Iyamu last Sunday.

Prayed for Obaseki today.


Anywhere belle face.

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Which village u come from?? It is called EQUALITY. he is a religious leader and shouldn't take any side publicly to avoid being bias.... U should know better than ur dustbin talk

MrSuama:
No be only you oooo. Either headquarters or cyber cafe.

if u click on apply with a new email, u go see the application number looks like this dssc/421/562/88425 take note of the last set of numbers, that is your application number and it is the number of people that has registered.. Wen someone else register the last number go turn from 5 to 6 and so on....

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Asquare84:
Good for them

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Risingblue008:
Why not in EDO STATE?cos he knows that there r total failure to us the masses,PDP for EDO and EDO FOR PDP
So PDP all d way

[/s] PDP puppet speak for urself and not the masses... U talk like a politician, but u forget politicians are just less than 2% in total number of voters, electorates decides what happens

JezCalMeJay:
Use another mail

thanks man... U mean another email address or another email provider??

preciousfuture:
I registered for DSSC today and I noticed my number is 3000+.That's a poor turned out.It seems people are not interested in Army's job oooo.

how can I register... The website isn't working well, or is it because I'm using my phone??

sikowitz17:
Ssc applications put numbers at 2700+ this morning...

pla how can I apply the website isn't working well

JezCalMeJay:
Damn...dssc as at when I finish registering 5mins ago is above 5000 applicants

but I have been trying the website isn't functioning well.. No where to input my credentials.. Immediately I login it keep showing permission not granted... And if I click on account it repeats same page... Pls any thing I have to know

Golan007:
It cannot be defamatory if true.

the op write up isn't about what is true or not neither is he writing about a company involved in an accident. it is so obvious u didn't read the op write up before even quoting me. If u did you will know the op was just trying to put a picture of a luxury bus, bcoz that wat he was talking about. My problem is he could have got a stock photo and not displaying a particular company bus that got involve in an accident, when he isn't even talking about accident... Anyway that is the difference between a professional journalist and the OP who just want his post to hit front Page, which NL will never move to front page bcoz it defames another's business..

And u stop jumping and quoting everybody wen u haven't even read the write up, don't be unfortunate sir!

Golan007:
Defamatory?

u are welcome.....

Ilal:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/traders-lament-ban-on-luxurious-buses-in-kano/%3famp=1

op remove this picture because it is defamatory to the the Company who's bus picture is uploaded... Use a regular stock photo

magicminister:
Can’t add any meaningful knowledge but I always recommend letting Atleast your mom, siblings and your wife know your finances in and out. My mom has all my passwords to my bank accounts and sister does too.

Should anything happen to me, I want my family to be okay.

ur mum should be removed from this list, ur sister is okay.... Bcoz according to order of life pikin no dey die before mama

Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

truth be told judging by what u have said, that guy isn't a nice person.... And u just forgot to add he is MANIPULATIVE, people that behave like him are always manipulative.... Comparing u with other girls is childish and u can never be good enough for him even after marriage no matter how u try to please him... Better run from that guy if u love ur future....... And u on the other hand, retaliation isn't always the way....

Uzomacharles:
Hi My Fellow Nairalander...

I'm a guy (20 years)

I have this problem in me and I think I can get some solutions/advice from you cos I believe many elders and well thinkers are in Nairaland...
So let me start
I'm a guy and I don't have a girlfriend and anytime I have some feelings for a girl and if I get to see her everyday then suddenly the affection and love I have for the person will begin to demish and im still a virgin(nobody believes that but I do) and have not dated any girl so I begin to feel somehow like it might cause destruction in my relationship like if I get married.......
I Masturbate Too and I HATE It....
Advices And Solutions Are Highly Appreciated..
Don't Mind My ENGLISH Please

masturbating is your only problem.... It is the reason why love diminish so fast when u love somebody, and its same reason for your lack of Confidence and still remaining a virgin

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Golan007:
Nobody wants to know your side of the story you idiot.

[[/s] you have a shallow mind and talks anyhow.

Racoon:
The journalist was not wrong in asking the question.Fani Kayode should have simple said he is sponsoring himself
That would have been it.

he didn't ask a question it was a direct statement... And it's wrong.... If he has said who is Bank rolling u, its a different case, he said although we don't know who is bankrolling you. There is difference between a question and an affirmed statement