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Racoon:
The journalist was not wrong in asking the question.Fani Kayode should have simple said he is sponsoring himself
That would have been it.

he didn't ask a question it was a direct statement... And it's wrong.... If he has said who is Bank rolling u, its a different case, he said although we don't know who is bankrolling you. There is difference between a question and an affirmed statement

Golan007:
What an excellent opportunity for the often boastful FFK to tell the world how he makes an income but alas, he blew it.


All FFK could say was that he's an ex minister.

I guess he means to say he has stolen quite a sum because we all know he's held no job for about 6 years now.

It is also well known in government circles that FFK is a corporate beggar.

He goes from governor to governor without a proposal but to laud them and sometimes sell them a pity story of how the federal government has been frustrating his business ideas.

One often wonders what those ideas are.

he held no job, and you think millionaire and billionaires remain rich because they hold a job position?? Face reality and understand that the money he made as minister when well invested he doesn't need to work to stay rich........ It is called money working for you, Do you know how many company he might be one of the board of directors as a result of investment??

collum:
FFK is simply unstable in mind, nothing stop him from answering such question with a joke and everyone smile over it. No amount of apology can undo his wrong deed

I'm not a fan of this man, but the journalist wasn't asking question he was sure that someone was bankrolling him and didn't know who it was.. That was really an unprofessional question and warrants same public address as FFK did....

alhajidembele:
Hello sir? I said imagine... besides some of these secondary school girls are 17 or 18+

I never even considered age... Even if the secondary school girl is 22, provided she is your student such tinx shouldn't even come to mind.. My own personal opinion...

alhajidembele:
Let's imagine you are a youth corper who has been posted to a secondary school or even a normal teacher - today some students didn't do their homework, which you which you gave to them since last week. There is this girl in your class who you have been eyeing since last term because of her big boobs or big ass & she also failed to do her assignment - will you punish her along with the others students? As a matter of fact, have you ever been caught in such a situation before? What did you do? If she fails your test, would you give her a C instead of an F?

dumb question.. Why will u eye a girl on uniform in the first place?? That alone makes this ur write up stupid... Not all feelings are allowed to grow get that sense now

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It isn't harsh it is stupid and childish..... Just once in your head turn the table around and out yourself in her shoes, some guy says before he can help u a fellow guy he must start sleeping with ur sister... How will you feel?

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

The one them dey talk for aso rock?? They think Mali is a state in Nigeria abi?? Those old men in aso rock should just shut up and not comment on that coup

Racoon:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/fg-condemns-mali-coup-demands-return-to-constitutional-order/%3famp=1

Tell her to stop using organic. Na Organic dey kill her dey go sooooo. How can somebody make Creme without a degree in skin therapy or dermatology make a Creme and girls will buyI wish these girls know they are poisoning their selves

NevetsIbot:
So a female friend dropped into my dm distraught at her skin condition. She was talking about her having stretch marks and how embarrassed she was about it... While I was trying to calm her down and let her know it was natural for someone who's gaining weight or for most people even... (I have tiger stripes on my bum too na ).. She maintained that this one was a big issue and she has been emotional and even lost her confidence...

According to her, her marks just started turning black and she has used organic creams to treat it, shea butter and just got coconut oil.
She sent a picture of her skin at the waist running to the back.

She would like a natural treatment cos she doesn't like these chemical stuffs from the counter. I for one don't like drugs and all.

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

be a professional and mind Your business.... Don't involve yourself in his personal affairs unless he asked for your advise or seek your opinion..... Don't go and shoot yourself in the leg. The two worse people to advise is a person in love and a person with money... Stay away from his love business, you weren't employed for that

Bacteriologist:
1. Canada.

Pros; Polite people, Great liberal politicking, Strong and rapid growing economy. Immigration policy ensuring strong cultural diversity. Canada is the future.

Cons: Small population density, Harsh weather, difficulty getting a good job without "Canadian experience."

2. Seychelles

Pros: Visa Free, Well developed (according to African standards), Maritime environment, Vacation paradise (meet new people often).

Cons: Very small population, Prone to Tsunami due to climate change, Not a diverse or strong economy (over dependent on tourism).

3. UK

Pros: That English accent (lol!), Strong/Rigid economy, Better weather than the Americas (well most of it), EU passport (Brexit has changed that but proximity still makes it easier to move around other EU countries with relative ease).

Cons: Can't seem to find one for now except Brexit and Muslim invasion.

so u can't find cons?? Keep lying to urself.. OVER TAXATION is a con just to mention one

lekonso:
You are a very wicked person. Are you perfect? Have you not committed any sin since you were born? Everyone one has made a mistake before at one time or the other. The most important thing in life is to learn from your mistakes. You are talking as if you have never committed any sin in your life.

tell him the bitter truth and stop sugar coating and what is bad all In The name of we all make mistakes, how would his mum feel knowing the son stole from her and betrayed her trust and tried playing her for a fool? It's painful and disheartened, I pray he doesn't give his mum BP. Isn't this boy and his siblings the reason why the mum is saving In the first place...?? If the bank should know about it trust me they will file fraud case against him with or without the consent of the mum..

He isn't an addict but a gross thief.... Ask urself one question if he didn't have access to money given to him for safe keeping or his mums money what would he gamble with?? Why has he not sold his fone or clothes to gamble

You are evil and a thief to even consider using your mum's account playing fast on her maybe because she trusted you or she is ignorant how bank work... U should be arrested.... Just go to hell you deserve to be a loner.....

Though don't kill yourself, hustle legit without forex or betting coz it's obvious u not even an intermediate in forex, broker will always use u to shine... After u pay ur mum and the boy their money u can do whatsoever you want with ur fraudulent life

yocreo:
In Need Of A Serious And Sincere Advice

Hi Nairanlanders,

I would have loved pour out all I'm going through but posting about personal issues can be really boring to some people and also, some might think this is some sort of competition cos of the rate at which people speak about their ordeals lately. I have done something really terrible which I personally go crazy anytime I think of it to my mom. All I feel right now is depression, anxiety, unhappiness and frustration that I'm afraid I may do something crazy. However, I'm in need of a serious advice and counselling from concerned people. I'm willing to let everything out... I NEED HELP, I'M SO GOING NUTS!!!

MODIFIED: Since many are of the opinion that I type it here, I'm going to do it..


December 2018, a boy in my neighborhood who is also like a relative started making some savings with me, unfortunately that was the time I started betting as well. I used to be very trustworthy when it comes to managing people's money that's why he entrusted his money in my care.

Betting later got the best of me, I used part of the money to bet, that was how this ordeal started. In the quest of refunding the money I used on betting, I kept losing the more. I lost up to 90k before coming up with a lie of how the money was stolen in my forex trading account but I promised to refund the money.

While trying to refund the money I kept losing the little I had with me till I got hold of my mom's bank account, this started around October last year. I kept using my mom's money and the loss kept accumulating. I was able to recover the loss on my mom's bank account before 2019 ended. Now to 2020, the boy kept asking for his money, I had to return to using my mom's money again as I had no other hope of getting the money.. how I wish I had told my mom about the whole thing when it was still amendable. Fast forward to today, I have used virtually all my mom's bank savings from betting to forex trading without her knowledge.

When she noticed about the error in her account, I had to lie I helped her fix her account as she doesn't make withdrawals from her account  cos she's a trader who doesn't use her bank savings for her business.. I'm finished now, I lied to her the duration of the fix is 4 months and she's expecting the money with return by August ending.

Together with the money I owe the other boy, I'm in over 600k debt... I seriously don't know how I got here, I wish I can turn back time, I feel drained... I don't know what to do with my life, I feel like I have failed the woman who has always shown me nothing but love and care. I failed her, I failed the woman who has always trusted me to be a good son.  I even had to lie to her! Each time I think of telling her about everything, I get sick. I can't keep on going this way.. I just want this to end. I'm really SAD

I wish eve we the youth in edo can realise these politicians are animals and aren't worth dying for.... But of cause they choose to still die for politicians that doesn't have their interest in heart....

YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.


I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.

I'm more angry because you don't know your life is just starting.... Early twenties of 23' and you are lamenting bitterly like you are 40 already... Have sense and stop feeling depressed because of what your age mate are achieving... You will come out good just be steadfast and hustle harder...


Note: Life is an individual race, we are not in competition with anybody... That very time you wake up is your morning, even if it is 2pm...

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

though I'm not a fan of beating a woman. But bro I like your courage for standing for what is right... If she can do this to your niece, as yourself what she would do with a house help who isn't family?? Trust me she is a bad choice for you, if you marry that girl out of pity of her breaking down trust me she will manipulate u against every member of your family... Just be thankful she showed her true color before marriage....

sarrki:
Is true that Sheik Isa Ali Pantami left a better pay in Saudi Arabia to Nigeria (a professor in Saudi Arabia collects up to 25,000SR monthly).

Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala also left her job in the world bank with a pay package worth more than $351,740 (net) yearly in 2008 to accept ministerial appointment in Nigeria

Prof Usman Yusuf, the embattled NHIS Boss moved to Nigeria from Saint Jude Children Research Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee, as professor in the Division of Stem Cell Transplantation with annual net worth of over $200,000.

Olusegun Olutoyin Aganga equally left his role as Managing Director with Goldman Sachs in London in 2013 with annual net worth of over 300,000 pounds.

Magnus Lekara Kpakol also left as a professor of economics at the University of Dallas, USA then to Nigeria

There are many of them, what is opened for debate are those undisclosed and behind the scene benefits believed to be attached to these offices in Nigeria ��

and you think it will as a loss on their part?? It was a wrong move by the government to call them back.. Eg pantami would have been collecting 2million estimated monthly in the lecturing job... Now as a minister what is he collecting?? Forget basic salary.... They can't steal money in those places they where suppose to be employed but they can steal money in Nigeria and get away with it.... So know the difference

Miracle7998:
Brethren this is the reason I always tell people to always be on alert and be vigilant so that you will know what kind of things the enemy brings to your house, this is a bat that the enemy sent to my home this night around 10:40 pm and glory be to God we killed it.

You have to stand and fight your enemies we are in the last days

y'all spritualize everything.. And it's total bad and the thought of people are always after you will even kill you first before people are really after u

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

Bro I understand where you are coming from..... Trust me God will reward u for watching out for her financially, my advise is you must not get her a phone with huge price.... Even if it is a low range phone of 35k below she should manage it.. U are buying it because its a necessity to her education not because u just want yo make her smile that u should explain to her and make her see ur laundry need also which you are halting a bit to support her with the phone....... During are medicals she can fend for herself... And if she is appreciative enough, one of the days in future she might be the one helping u even if not financially or u both aren't together anymore..... Are u not surprised why you are still afloat in business even if she is stressing u financially Because to everyone in life there is always a helper which God won't let drained financially because of those dependent on him or her.... God knows where u fail financially(God forbid) so many others destiny fails as well.... Thats why u are still afloat in business....

NOTE: Don't expect anything in return or expect her to marry u because you helped her while In school, that's Entitlement, and when she doesn't trust me ur will be destabilise and feel she is ungrateful.. Do for her whatsoever you can afford to let go if that time comes... And don't make her feel indebted to you... This will help you

ikoroduarea:
Hi all,

I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.

Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?

I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.

Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.

See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.

I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".

You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.

I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.

I need your honest opinion.

Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.

I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.

The truth is they aren't dealing with you as friends anymore but a maga which you should make them know you are not... Don't give them 1 penny anymore, it is better you are called proud than called a fool, which they are indirectly calling u already...

Block them all on social media and ur wife does same thing, but before you do that tell them you are blocking them so that they can start thinking and fending for themselves as men henceforth....... And when they are ready to do something reasonable with their life like learning a trade or business as that will be the money u will give them which is the last.... Give them an option to choose a trade they want to learn themselves and fund it, after that don't give them 1kobo anymore.... U have tried even their brother Don tire isn't that enough reason to show u they are Liability and don't want to work or change

2cribz:
Go and make money my bro. Dont bug me with your boring sermon. All you fools here.

....

Lol indeed nairaland is an anonymous place... I would have asked you all you need in your life to make your life comfortable and I supply it to you for free just like a less privileged that you are...

Tell me to make more money, because I might not be a billionaire but believe me wen I say I'm richer than your entire family lineage together...

2cribz:
You dey act like fool. All these under 18 year old teens on a faceless forum

i just said it that you are a bitter person... All you do is attack everything around you.. You are nothing but a plague....
Proof u are a bitter person
1) attack op that asked for help(even when ur name wasn't mentioned)
2) assuming I'm a teen and calling ur frustrated father age mate a fool.
3)calling nairaland a faceless forum even when you are cruising around it to kill boredom.(Hypocrisy)

You are a very bitter person and you will soon die if you don't stop your bitterness...

funkazelik:
Hi guys,

ive got N100k..what do you know i can do and get 10-15% interest back every day or two days.

got ideas contact me on 08068298717
thanks

15% everyday, ure in for a fucking ponzi or money doubling shit.......

2cribz:
Shut up. Just say u want to buy salvaged car.
Fool

you are a bitter person... Go treat ur bitterness and leave the op alone who is open to reasonable advice from expert not your bitterness

You just played yourself.... U lavish 1.8m future expenses money with this girl and u fell and needed help she couldn't help... Are u blind to the fact that she is using you or u are foolish Ask urself that sincere question.. That girl will reduce you to nothing and hop on the next available guy who has to spend on her.. Dey there dey form love to a girl who is even a Liability to herself

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

Mumu governor victimising his opponent supporters.... How clueless can this man be

PS573:
I'm in a relationship with a lady I love so much, she's so loving, caring and kind to me and after some months I asked her (Can you marry me?) She replied yes and she asked are you sure you can marry me? I replied YEs.

After Two weeks time she came to my house sadly, I asked what's wrong with her? She asked me again' are you sure you can marry me and I replied YES and YES, she said OK!

She opened up to me after some months, that she have "Tow kids from Two different men".... I felt so bad,speechless and confuse for a while, I just closed the conversation that day but till now I'm still confuse because I loved her before she opened up to me.

Please I need your advice what to do because I'm confuse and scared right now.

I appreciate all comments

don't marry that girl, point blank... If she truly was for you, she would have told you that deep secret initially immediately u both start dating.... I'm not against the fact she has two kids, NO!!! but I'm against The fact that it's for TWO DIFFERENT MEN... nigga don't even dare it, regrets ends it.

Only number 8 is a valid undeniable point... The rest is fiddle-faddle and Balderdash....

SolarEdge:
Your laptop charging port did not fit the power bank you bought, we never scammed you and we won't scam you. We tried all means to get the right plug to fit your system which was abortive. I suggested to you to incorporate an inverter to the power bank which you said the money was too much (15k) , I later asked you what amount can you pay while we balance up to get the inverter which you said 10k. The week we promised to send the inverter I was not on ground, I beckoned on you and you asked me to send your money and I said my colleague might have bought the inverter as we already agreed. To cut the long story short we came to an agreement to refund 35k to you which you've sent your account details. We traveled to Benin for a job and we came back yesterday which we intend sending you the money, but my personal account was restricted and the bank asked me to come over for a upgrade due to the cash inflow and outflow. I sent you a screenshot of the message and I told you I will send your money when as soon as I have access to my account. The deal we had did not go well doesn't make me a scam.

The job we went to do in Benin is 850k.. The client paid 550k last week Monday, sir we've never met with the client until we got to Benin. I have handled jobs with several client who has paid at least 850k without meeting me in person. I told you once I resolv the bank issue I'll send you your money.

A client I met on nairaland was the one that drew my attention to this.. Bro 42k can't make me. Relax you'll get your money once I have access to my account.

I never threatened you, I only told you that I did not steal from you, we are humans, circumstances beyond my control made this deal linger for this long.

I render my sincere apologies and every inconvenience this must have caused you.

Thank you for your understanding.
Regards

a business man like you isn't suppose to have issue with his account for long, if the account is really the issue you haven't refunded him. what if a client decide to pay you will you give a client account that doesn't carry ur company name or ur name, its unprofessional, so bros that is no excuse why you haven't refunded him..... Refund his money before you start answering for fraud case, be careful aiit. Be Liberal enough and sort the guy his money, you can't be holding his money and the supposed product you sold for him it makes no common sense regardless your excuse.... Same u that went for more almost a million job, same account you used in collecting the money you couldn't squeeze his 35k out of it, yet you are coming here to boast about the job you went to that sent you more than half a million last week without knowing you.... You are just dubious, be careful.