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DeGLORIOUS:
Which phone can one buy with 105k which can offer the following
1.Good memory space
2. Good ram
3. Good battery
4. Little bit fast charging
5. Compass
6. Doesn't hot unnecessary under heavy usage.
7. A bit good display feature

go and chop better food with that budget...

SIRTee15:
Polygamy was never God's original plan my friend.

It was permitted by God in man's fallen state and when his insatiable greed overwhelmed him. But God never intended polygamy for man.

If u want to know God's plan for man, either check the garden of Eden or the divine law brought by Jesus.
Show me which one of them sanctions polygamy.

Only God knows what they teach in church nowadays. So many ignorant Christians walking around blindly.

That Europeans sanction homosexualism doesn't change the fact it's a sin. I don't follow whites, I follow Jesus Christ.

God's original plan for man is not to die, I hope you also know that death upon man came as a result of man's fallen state? Yeah God made a man and woman in eden and so It is the fact that you people think you can reason out God's intention, or assume God's original plan is what is even making it more funny. Bro polygamy was never and would never be a sin, show me one place in the bible that says it was, polygamy was never God's Intended plan yet God gave so many people after his heart wives, some he even gave their masters wives in addition to the one they have already, some he gave their brother's wife to add to theirs, yet it wasn't in its initial plan for man. Why don't you explain that instead of assuming for God and helping God to reason.. Apostle Paul chose not to marry it was a choice of his, so also those who took just one wife is a choice for them. Talking about homosexuality you spoke about, the Bible Outrightly Condemned it in plain words, right from sodom and gomorrah when the men tried sleeping with an angel and refuse Lot virgin daughters, to when the children of Israel was together, homosexuality was spelt out in plain words and criminalised. So don't even go there, it is the west that choose to be blind to that part of the bible.

Mercisharelove:
The scripture comfirm one male and one female relationship!

Not one male, more females as wives, no, not so from the beginning. How do you know?


Genesis 2:23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

The man is the specie, the male and female! The spirit being, the creature of ELOHIM, THE CREATOR!

A man isn't a boy, no, it's the combination of male and female.


2:24 Therefore shall *(a) not two or more)* man leave his, not their) father and his mother, not their mothers), and shall cleave unto his *(wife) not wives* : and they shall be *one flesh, not many flesh, but one.* Pure spiritual! Follow the truth!

His rib, his wife and they shall be one flesh. Now if you want to relate physically, I am talking about marriage, romantic relationship, living together.

So, stop hurting yourself, be free, pray you meet the man you can meet their needs.

You know the female is like God, like THE HOLY SPIRIT, she has and is built to display all the attributes of GOD ALMIGHTIEST, the help meet for him, the man is greatly help, the same way Isaac was comforted, when Rebekah arrived, that's what THE CREATOR , GOD ALMIGHTIEST SAID before unveiling the most beautiful of HIS creations, while Adam was deep asleep, yet Adam was aware, through revelation that she was taken from the bones of his bones and flesh of his flesh, he said "she shall be called a woman", because she was taken from a man that THE LORD HAD CREATED AND MADE!

Ladies fly...Proverbs 31:29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

Rubbish, being supported with an half baked bible verses...... Polygamy was never identified as a sign in the bible, let he who can treat all wives equal go ahead.. It is Y'all modern western ideology that criminalised polygamy, yet you want to find a way to support it with the bible... It is funny the same west that frowns as polygamy are same people consenting and legalising same sex marriage... For perspective God delivered David's master to him and gave him all his wife as well. 2 Samuel 12:7-14. Let's leave it there for now, if u want proper debate come to inbox. All you have to do is discredit bible verses I will give u and I will discredit what you out forth. Just like Paul decided not to marry as a thing of choice and not as a standard, so also is monogamy a thing of choice and not a standard..

Wujio:
Continue to support a blind murderer and you will acoompany him to hell. What postiive traits suggests Putin is normal to you

keep quite Y'all blind Hypocrites, 95% of you call him a murderer because the west say so, but RN the west is Applauding and supporting the bombing of hospitals in gaza, if that isn't double standard what is?? Y'all Are puppet, and will remain so

Gbadugbakun:
I was discussing with a friend and I asked him this question and he told me sometimes he wears his own for 4 or 5 days before washing. So guys how long do you think a guy should wear his boxers before washing it.

Mods you can put it on the front page.

really dirty question if u ask me... As sson as a guy takes off his boxers to bath, after bathing, he should never wear back that boxers never!!!! Except of cause it takes your 4days to bath, then by all means change it after 4days when u finally take ur bath

etzvictor:
5700 @my end here in Edo state

una go just open mouth dey lie useless lie. For same edo state when bua production plant dey abi?? Simply say u never see BUA cement not this senseless lie you are telling.

xin5:
Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren

u need deliverance if u never really marry or at least have child or children out of wedlock... This is far from ordinary.. Incase u want me to interpret it well, u are 3 away from 50(golden jubilee)

Kuginzi:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/stop-wishing-nigeria-fail-because-your-candidate-is-not-president-laycon/amp/

this f00! Doesn't know wishes are not what policies and decisions crippling the economy is made from.... No matter how bad Democrats wish America downfall because a republican is president, america will ever fall.. Ill Wishes doesn't mean anything when people know what they are doing

Middleborn:
Part of the reason for asking is that I don't know this country that much other than it is really down the earth. I've dug up details about it. But is it a nice place to live in? I would appreciate real experiences from Nairalanders.

will be one of the best decision you will make... Yes new Zealand is very far but the standard of living is way too good, can't even compare it with the US. first talk to your supervisor and discuss with him if it is possible to present your thesis in absential... I have just one question for you. After PHD what next?? Lecturing job? That the pay is nothing before now, and even gone worse compared to the recent standard of living...

Saviourplease:
The office option will not work.

How do I keep costs low?

look for a shared apartment.. Maybe a two or 3 room flat, where u will be given a room from it and Y'all use the living room and kitchen together and you split the rent 3 way.. Don't fall for that trap of marriage yet when u haven't found your fit.

Arizoner:
are they scared to execute criminals?

majority of the time most governors do not find it easy to give consent for the execution, they will always push it and push it till they leave office.. U know what is means to be a Governor that consent to people children to be hanged or fired to death ? Even if truly they deserve every bit of the judgement... Bro it is hard for most governors, but no Be for person like me. blood debt must be paid with blood, not blood tonic. God can forgive them, but not me as Governor

fergie001:
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it is not about sentencing him to death by hanging, which Governor would sign off the bill to really have him hanged? Sanwu olu will definitely not sign that executive order, that's how he will be in prison while goverment keep on wasting money on his head via feeding etc..

HISSCRIBE1995:
THAT IS NOT TRUE!
TRINITY IS SCRIPTURAL .
IT WOULD BE WRONG FOR THE BIBLE TO RECORD THAT JESUS WAS BEING WORSHIPED IF JESUS IS NOT EQUAL WITH THE FATHER ,AND JESUS WOULD HAVE BEEN CALLED THE CHILD OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IF THE SPIRIT IS NOT EQUAL WITH THE FATHER ALSO.

1TIMOTHY 3VS16 CALLED JESUS GOD WHO MANIFESTED IN THE FLESH .
CHECK IT 4 YOURSELF AND SEE.

the trinity doctrine was smuggled into christiandom through cloak and dagger means, it never existed from the very first original bible translation.. Deuteronomy 6:4 said it and was said again in Mark 12:29, God is one, forget the trinity fallacy that came about from deliberate mistranslation of the bible original text by long James and Co. The bible refer to jesus christ as the first born of all creation, and jesus never spoke neither did he teach about the trinity Gospel, the trinity Gospel is rooted in Falsehood. The only spirit in itself is the power of God(Zechariah 4:6, Micah 3: the TRINITY GOSPEL IS UNBLIBLICAL. U can choose to argue, but this is the truth and in time you will know.

HISSCRIBE1995:
They don't believe in trinity.

. Trinity doctrine is the most useless and baseless kind of doctrine that has been sold to gullible People over the longest time ever, courtesy king James one sided translation.

MTNnews:
Of course ask the fool why he did not add the brewery the Pandora criminal wasted million of Anambra money on ?

At least Soludo already expose the investment is now worth next to nothing hopefully your Igbotic foolish head can comprehend that is what white elephant project truly is.

Why did the fool not add the Onitsha Monorail rail by the Pandora criminal or those ain't white elephant enough for you miserable lot ?

Why did he not mention the Onitsha monorail or that is not a white elephant project ? You fools think we can't see Tru your hypocrisy, wailt make pant de wear your papa.


An Igbo fool talking about delivery, is your pathetic hate filled soul delivered in the first instant ?

lol u are so Pained that u had to start crying., wailer .. U are a dog, oya go back to your cage. No more reply to you.

MTNnews:
Hate will not kill you igbos.
To the well meaning Nigerians that think Igbos only hate Fulani Hausa Yoruba you can see that Delta n Akwa ibom weren't spared in this clown bigoted criticism.

If I list abandoned project in Igboland I will still be listing till Jesus return but I rather not be consumed with endemic n irredeemable hate like the OP.

The Eko Atlantic you badmouth tomorrow igbos will claim they built it that is how low a despicable pig like the OP can go.

lol are u deliberately playing blind or you are just blatantly stupid?? He spoke against projects in igbo land than any other region, the 3 project he listed in ebonyi, shey ebonyi na state for west abi? The statutes of 500 million in owerri and the international airport in abi state u no see am abi? Small write up him don mention more than 6 from the east, yet you are only concerned about just 1 he mentioned in lagos. I don't know why some of you people are so useless that you still have not left this your hate and dislike for our igbo brothers and sisters. All These he has listed are verifiable and he was objectively neutral as much as possible, how you conclude so fast he is igbo baffles me. You need alot of mental healing to do trust me.

MTNnews:
Hate will not kill you igbos.
To the well meaning Nigerians that think Igbos only hate Fulani Hausa Yoruba you can see that Delta n Akwa ibom weren't spared in this clown bigoted criticism.

If I list abandoned project in Igboland I will still be listing till Jesus return but I rather not be consumed with endemic n irredeemable hate like the OP.

The Eko Atlantic you badmouth tomorrow igbos will claim they built it that is how low a despicable pig like the OP can go.

lol u are u just playing blind or you are just blatantly stupid?? He spoke against projects in igbo land than any other region, the 3 project he listed in ebonyi, shey ebonyi na state for west? The status of 500 million of owerri and the international airport u no see am abi? I don't know why you people are so useless that you still have not left this your hate and dislike for our igbo brother. All These he has listed are verifiable and he was objective as much as possible, how you conclude so fast he is igbo baffles me. You need alot of gelaing to do trust me.

Jewessgratitud3:
Right now she needs advice on what to do and I'm also going to be sharing what I have advised her so far.

This man has used his foolishness to implicate my sister and their lovely kids. Before I go into details of what happened recently, I'll like to give a quick backstory of how all these came to be and how she even got herself into this mess

Backtrack to 2014 when she broke the news that someone was coming to see the family for her hand, I asked her who the person was but she refused to tell me saying I'll meet him when he comes. I was now like ha... This one you're hiding it. I never knew it was one useless guy that was living in our former area in the early 2000s that all he does then was stand at junctions disturbing girls. He also disturbed me one period like that and I so much dislike him because of his behavior plus he's fair and I dont fancy fair guys.

The day came and we started cooking. Already I had gotten a hint from my eldest sister that it's the guy and I said was that why she was hiding it? What's my own there. We move. As the day was approaching, my idowus husband called and told me to warn my sister that that guy she's pulling with is not it. That if she's trying to have something serious with him she'll be making a big mistake. I said, she's an adult and can make choices for herself.


He came with his people and we did everything and she moved in with him. Now, this guy doesn't do anything. He claims he's a lawyer but never goes to work. Most times he'll go for early morning training by 6am and after everyone has gone to work, he'll come home and be sleeping. initially my sister was covering him up that he's doing something but anytime I visit after school, I'll always meet him at home sleeping. I knew my sis was just covering him.

Before they married my sister owned a school that was doing well. After her first child the school was still doing well but they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house. Sometimes she would come to school with bruises on her face. Since she refused to talk, me I didn't bother asking because if I do she'll bark at me.it continue like that until she could no longer bear it and started opening up to me that the guy doesn't do anything. Just goes about from one junction to the other.

She took in for her second child and fell sick. The school suffered mismanagement and folded up. That was when the guy showed her his true color. They fought to the extent she left her kids and went to my sister's house. My elder sisters husband settled them and she went back.

She had her third child and the guy started his madness again. This time he would leave them and go for hours without food. When he's coming at night he'll buy food and call his children to come eat and leave my sister hungry. So anytime I go there I'll just find her something to eat. Sometimes not always.
The day I said enough is enough and decided to pull her out of that nonsense was the day she called me, I was in a bus and she said for two days now she has not eaten anything and she's having headache. That the guy said he'll deal with her. I told her to hold on and sent her the little I could that I'll come and see her.

I got there and told her she can't continue like this . I told her to start following me to school to learn how to do what I'm doing and I'll be giving her small small daily pay any day she goes with me and later she can start sourcing for her own schools and be making her own money. I put her through and took her to a school immediately and assigned her to some classes after watching me for a few mins.

We did that for a few weeks and I was giving her the small thing I could after each day. She started going out to look for schools and two schools called her. She now said she can't be following me again , I said no problem. God helped her, She now got more schools and started selling books too and making money.
When this guy saw it, he left feeding and only buys food for the children once in a while. Meanwhile their fighting continued.

Fast-forward to last year, the landlord called my sister that he has given the husband quit notice, not because he was owing but because he was always disrespecting the landlord. My sister tried to plead but he said it's not because of my sister but the husband. Now this guy's is so troublesome and brags a lot. He quarrels with the landlord a lot and always goes against the rules of the compound. I on the other hand have been telling my twin now that she has the money to get her own apartment and leave the lazy thing but she remained there.


Last two weeks Tuesday. during that heavy downpour, the landlord came with some police men and threw their things out in the rain as she was preparing her children for school. It was one of the police men that now had pity on her and said they should leave the things in the compound instead of throwing outside in the rain and helped my sister to bring then inside the gate. The husband ran away. After everything he called my sister to bring the children somewhere. When she got there it was a friend's house. He begged them to let his family stay the night and till now he's still there. I told my sister, shey I've been warning you about this guy. Bett look for a place and move in before this one's change their mind. Could you believe this man continued his laziness there? When everyone has gone out he'll go there and start sleeping till they come back from work and meet him. My sister said he has started quarrelling the man's wife . Someone who's squatting you you're challenging them.

he's talking about moving them to Mowe but my sister is not buying the idea and says she wants to get an apartment here on the mainland because of her job and move with only her children but I'm of the opinion that she should leave the children with him because if she goes with the children he'll run from his responsibility and never pay their school fees again.

What should she do because the guy travelled for his brothers burial now and the owner of the house was heard asking the wife why the guy and my sister are still in their house and said let him come back first . Meaning they are tired.

I've told her to get an apartment now o.

you are of the opinion he should leave his children for a man you describe how useless he is, if that isn't selfishness on your path I wonder what is.. So you think it is easy abi?? First born your own first make you leave am. See Mohbad mama now shebi she dey cry now? Incase you don't know, any decision you sister would be taking going forward would center around the children primarily and her self secondary.

NzogbuNzogbu:
me wey dey Benin here na him you dey yarn opata to?

Where shaibu see the 300 million to negotiate, you no Sabi anything so sit-down look

Even those not in Edo already know say obaseki negotiated both him position and shaibu together with pdp, pdp was already set to zone it to Edo central.

Who be shaibu, the one when oshomole dey dismantle for Edo north left and right?

Where he see backbone, abi na because men dey hype am unnecessary since, ok where the backbone now when he dey crawl for ground begging obaseki?

No put mouth for what you don't know

lol were Shaibu see 300 million, lol I laugh you.... Na now I just really confirm say u no know anything about edo politics na news wen dem dey show for mainstream media u take dey know about happenings. So a majority leader as a member of the edo state house of assembly no fit get 300million even after doing a whole 4years in office as deputy governor, lol.. I have any many tinx I for disclose to you, that are off the books but no need, let me just tell you one na shaibu get 60% of the conoil Franchise in edo state , u fit no know but I dey tell you, close people to edo state government knows this, ask somebody u feel is close to the sir of power... Anyway talk anything u feel say u know, but I'm telling u point blank u no know what's up for this same edo....

Kestolove:
Poor man speaking, if you get money evn if it is sold for 5m...you go buy

u never know anything... Since I bough my iPhone 12 pro Max, I have not seen an active reason to upgrade, until 6months ago I lost the phone and I bought a 14 pro max in replacement.. Most times it is not about the money or cost, it is a thing of Is there a major upgrade? If yes is it worth it?

NzogbuNzogbu:
come let me educate you.

Obaseki gave shaibu the wings to fly, shaibu wasn't doing obaseki a favor by following him to pdp.

Na obaseki even fight for shaibu to retain that deputy position in the new party, even if shaibu betrayed obaseki then it would have made people more sympathetic to obaseki.

After that obaseki gave shaibu the platform to maximize his office and even take decisions on his behalf, the man has eaten beyond fat.

This has nothing to do with it's not his district turn, obaseki is looking for his own personal greedy payback from shaibu for all he has given him.

We know what is going on, the two are just greedy thieves but naturally shaibu as a mark of respect should surrender his ambition because the loot when he make from this govt was the Greek gift obaseki used to buy that same loyalty he is demanding from

lol, u wen dey one place for east or oversea dey tell me edo state politics that I am actively involved in. My brother relax there is so much that meets the eyes in regards to edo state politics than u see or news or you hear on nairaland.. Now let me educate you for what I know and the secret I was privy to, in both of them, shaibu is the one with the guts, Na him gan gan be the back bone of the governor prior to the last election and when they were outcast from APC, if it come to election machinary and strong powerful men that nagativelt disrupt the election in their favour every since then, Na shaibu be the backbone. Obaseki never gave shaibu the position of the deputy when he was accepted into PDP, shaibu Paid for that position, he paid over 300 million of his own personal funds to be paid with obaseki, that is why when it was time to give them the SSG position(PDP member they came to meet I mean) as per the agreement, obaseki told them he owe them nothing... Shaibu has paid his dues to obaseki in blood and in loyalty... If you think obaseki is all powerful without shaibu, why does he need shaibu to forfeit his ambition and support his own candidate?? Why not use your power as leader of the party to make shaibu realise he is your boy and make him loose the primaries playing fairly and squarely?? At least that was what oshiomole did with Odubu, he told Odubu we came together and we leave together, but Odubu said he will run regardless, but oshiomole taught Odubu a hard lesson and made him waste his money while obaseki which was oshiomole candidate emerged winner.. Thats how you show your subordinate you are greater than them, not by victimising them and making them feel uncomfortable and leave the party.... So my guy relax yourself and don't be quick to say what u do not know, I know so much bcoz my wife uncle(father immediate younger brother) was a commissioner in obaseki goverment in the first term and still a commissioner in this second term but different ministry. The intention of your subordinate to run for office should not be a reason to victimise him or Disrespect his office

Ahmed0336:
If I say Edo matter no tire me I like.
If I were Philip Shuaibu, I will drop my governorship ambition and allow those from Edo Central to contest.
His bet shot would have been him contesting for HoR again instead of all this brouhaha

anybody as a son or daughter or edo origin can contest, it is an act of benevolence to agree that governorship shouldn't be zoned to edo central, it is not embedded in parties constitution, so Shuaibu if he feel he has better chance of winning I dint see why he can not contest because the governor has said so.. If I were him, I will resign as a deputy governor honorably and plan for my come back either as a fellow PDP member or going back to the party he betrayed because he felt he was doing the right thing standing by a his principal, who is a son from a notorious family of chronic betrayals..... I might not contest this time, but will contest after 8 years when it is finally the turn of the edo north, after resigning I will use this next 7 years to build bridges and fellowship with powerblocks... But because of greed they won't want to resign honorably. When respect is no long served in the table, stand up from the table and leave

Tell your wife to always dust and fold dried laundry outside as she picks it up form the line... Na cloths snake dey follow enter house.. Or drain pipes

BiafranPatriot:
HE WANTs to revoke lands of foriegn embassies also?

THIS WIkE na "drowning dundee" RIVERs STATE is not ABUJA.


NIGERIANs will SHOW the PUNK real actions soon...

Yoruba supporters of TINUBU, see UNA guy....so worthless

this one no well.. Are u aware abuja has a master plan and those people who has acquired lands especially those embassies and refuse developing it are part of the cause of under development in Abuja, so their land title can be revoked, be you anybody, or u didn't see Nigeria custom land was one of the lands? Y'all Should not always make everything about politics, it is about what is right from wrong

DaveHarry:
The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision.

My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?

u never see twin brother marry twin sisters before Talkless when they aren't twin.. Nothing is wrong except you know something you aren't telling your siblings

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

mistake you say, I'm not Suprised it is coming from a girl...

Nobody unveiled him or told him to run, he choose himself to run, all those are PR, and he would not even win primaries Talkless run on a platform..

Standstrong:
I picked up the gate man job ending of last month out of no other better options at the moment and seeing what economic hardship was making me pass through, especially waking up with no hope of where food is going to come from, make i no go steal, God abeg.

I have been doing the job well. Yesterday, while strolling around the area, I heard one man saying he is looking for someone to cut grasses in his compound. Being something I can do to collect the money to help myself as i was hungry and peniless, I met the man and told him i can do the work and we agreed on N15k.

So as my oga went to work, i rushed down to do the work. While I was on it, i dont know what brought my oga back to the house and he didnt see me at the post.

He called me and asked me where i am. I rushed down to the house. I told him i got a small contract of 15k to cut grass for someone in the neighbourhood.

The man got so angry on why I left his duty post to go do another job. Worse was that the person i did the job for was more like his enemy, as i later learnt they've not been in good terms.

He sacked me instantly. I begged this man as a human being to please forgive but he refused to consider me again. He even said, "go before you go and collect poison from my enemy to come and kill me".

Please what is my business with whatever fight the two of them are fighting?

That was how I lost the small job i just got 3 weeks ago and now back with nothing. He should have paid me for the 3 weeks right away but he didnt, rather he said i will find a way to pay you for the services so far.

Please, the country is already very hard and all I needed was something that could give me immediate money to survive on first.

Sad how struggling citizens are being badly treated everyday even while legitimately hustling for survival. How he will pay me for the 3 weeks, he didn't say it.

It's painful but it is not the end of the world.

I will make it too. Amen.

It shall never be well with hunger, agent of poverty.

he did well by sacking you... As his Gate a, you afw his chief security officer, and you left your only duty post of which you are paid for, it means he is not safe with you being the gate an of his property.. You deserved the sack..... Nobody will tolerate that nonsense Atitude..

Nice2023:
Big boy indeed!...did u the read the story at all?

They say he died poor that he couldn't even take care of the new born.

lol na lie, big lie... Mohbad died a big boy, forget all the nonsense u heard online. He might not be a billionaire but nigga was comfortable than an average Nigerian..

illicit:
Is there Mercury in the hunchback? Or it's just a hunch?

No pun intended

there is no mercury, just that they say that hunch is good for money ritual, 12years ago some men were arrested who kidnapped a hunchback and killed him and removed his hunched, they confessed to what I just said to you now.

HRprof:
Singapore is the most beautiful country in the world. The safest and cleanest . I thought Paris is heaven until I visited Singapore

lol it isn't the safest. It is Iceland. Iceland doesn't have prisons, the few they have is empty. And police here doesn't even carry gun. Lol. Many Year ago they did a survey and identified what made their prison so full and crime people were committing, then they addressed it, Boom prison are empty till date.. Na boredom dey kill anybody when find himself for prison

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

you don't forgive a cheating partner, You Either Learn Or you Perish..