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How much are you selling?? So I know if I can contact you or not.

So you couldn't see a different in the name between the company she is working for an the CAC certificate abi That's wasn't enough to praise suspicion abi?? Olymp trade is a forex brokerage company, and that your Olympic whatsover na scam, trying to make it seem like the forex brokerage company, hence why they gave it a very similar name... U get x3 of ur investment in 3hours and you believed?? Even you self na thief and your Greed played you.... Take heart and I'm glad you learnt the hard way.....

BUSHYANUS:
My fiancee made me take loan with my teacher salary. Big money for her which I am going to repay in five years. Just after I gave her the money, she has blocked my number.

Please help me

that serves your right... You never brought the loan suggestion here, why bring it now as it has backfired Deal with it

ThePlainTruth:
But what if they just want to use you to gain the knowledge they need on how to solve the challenges they have and then ask the contractor to leave? This new experience will be worse than the first one. They might even use the interview to gain this knowledge they need for the work without offering the contract.

oga just let the money be worth it. That's all, a knowledge hoard is a knowledge death

englishmart:
Firstly I don't trust abroad. You can never enjoy the home-based liberty you enjoy at home, abroad. By abroad, I don't mean Chad, Niger, Somalia, Sudan- North and south, etc. I mean a first world country. Though Chad, and co are considered as abroad.
I trust a known evil than an unknown good. I will rather invest the #2.5 million in my Akaraka village, Abuja.
What's your take?

And you still have that 2.5 million in naira saved somewhere or in your naira account abi Think how much it will be against the dollar in 12months from now... And that is the country you want to invest in....

Wish u well anyway, them no dey Tell person....

sapien:
Good evening, Romancelanders. It's quite a lengthy read, so bear with me.

This lady and I have been dating for the past 4 years, and I am planning on making it official later this year, though Covid-19 made my finances quite complicated recently, but things are getting back in shape.

Recently, specifically over 2 weeks ago, she suddenly stopped picking my calls. Prior to that, we haven't seen each other since September last year. She always comes up with one excuses or the other every weekend whenever I tell her to come over to my place or if I want to go over to her place to see her. I always have busy schedules during the midweek, so we usually have only weekends to see each other.

I have gone to see her mother and her siblings last year. They accepted me as a prospective in-law. The mum said she queried her daughter and she told her that I was the one she would like to spend the rest of her life with, hence the mum's invitation. Her mum usually calls me from time to time, and I do talk to her, too.

Couple of days back, I had to call the mum to report her daughter to her regarding the uncharacteristic change in her daughter's behaviour, and how, despite living in the same city, we haven't seen each other in 4 months, and how she has refused picking my calls in more than 2 weeks.

She promised to talk to her and ask her what the problem was and get back to me. I waited for some couple of days, but when I didn't see the mum's call, I had to call her back. I had to ask her to give her daughter her phone so I could talk to her and ask her some salient questions regarding our relationship. She kept saying there is no problem and that I didn't offend her, and our relationship is still standing strong. I asked if she was going through some personal issues that she could share with me and we might find a solution; she said she was perfectly okay. We settled our issues right there and then, and she promised to call back the second day.

I waited for the second day and I did not see her call. I had no choice than to call her back. Ladies and gentlemen, this girl didn't pick my calls. When she eventually picked after multiple missed calls, she was talking to someone else, while my airtime was burning out. I became enraged. I had to call the mum the second day to tell her I was no longer interested in the daughter, that she was probably seeing someone else, and she didn't have the guts to tell me.

The mum swore that her daughter is not seeing someone else, as far as she knows, and that she hasn't brought anyone to meet her. The mum is a Deeper Lifer, and from my interactions with her, she doesn't condone two-timing. She promised to talk to her daughter, that maybe we should give ourselves more time, like taking a break for a couple of months.

I am not usually this patient, and never condoned negligence and disregard in my previous relationships. However, this girl had been special to me, prior to her negligence. She was quite dedicated to me during the course of our 4-year-old relationship. She was never demanding, and was contented and altruistic, too. She helped me many times in the past, financially, whenever I was broke, and I always repaid her back, too. She was a wife material, and loved by my family as well.

The questions are;

1. Do I disregard the mum's advice?

2. Do I still give this girl another chance after her blatant negligence?

Mods, you might do well by moving this piece to the front page.

the mom is doing what every mother would do, protect their child even if it means lying for them... My brother don't be told before you walk your way... Silence is a loud enough response..... Stop calling her and see how it goes, Trust me the relationship go die natural death.. To the girl you are the only one in the relationship... Last advice...

Be PROACTIVE instead of Being REACTIVE... A word is enough for the wise

thebosstrevor1:
You trade on the most popular platform which is binance . Binance wrote that for now, you can't buy crypto with your Nigerian debit card but you can withdraw to your bank account.

This is what the binance ceo wrote.

If you have $NGN on Binance, you can:
1. withdraw NGN soon, or
2. convert to #crypto and hold it


The reality is that p2p will flourish but it will also lead to lot of scams, making people distrust crypto investments

P2P will flourish, creating trusted escrow platform... Remitano has been working for a long time even without naira wallet... Strictly P2P while the platform works as escrow....

Dreyton36:
She can download a cashapp or PayPal , zelle

Spain uses those transfer method as well

If you need picker let me know , I'll give you at a very sweet rate and send it directly into your naija bank acct

cashapp for Spain... Guy na only US & UK support cashapp na.... Any other you see na try back door

Ojemedad:
Wow, that's good

I have cross checked it, there is s 1% trading fee but better than the over 10%

if u want to eradicate that tracing fee spot trade litcoin to USDT a little higher than normal market price.. Let it join the order book as pending order and u won't pay fee.... Then use the USDT buy bitcoin with same process, reducing your buying price a little below market price and let it be pending order and wen it fulfills u won't pay fee.. But if the process is too much for u, just use the 1% fee rather.... But if it is paxful fee it is just 0.5% and moreover the buyer of the btc with litcoin will pay u a little above current market price, that will cover the fee

Peace ✌️

Oga talk price here, make who fit afford am Dm u.... In this 21st century you are still into this Dm me sh*T.

Ojemedad:
I need your help


I'm trying to send 48,700 worth of btc out from my wallet to my binance and they are charging me 6k

Why is the charge so high, is there any way I can pay less charge

sell the bitcoin on paxful and get paid litcoin, u provide your binance litcoin wallet and when you receive and confirm litcoin on your wallet, then release the coin to the paxful buyer and go to binance and change it to bitcoin.... No losses believe me. Its how I do it

Authority1o1:
Okay...




Decades of planning, years of execution, nights of strategizing, days of glory— all can be squashed within minutes.

Womanizing, fornication, adultery are the most potent catalysts to the waterloo of a successful person. History, both biblical and otherwise has propped up this truth.

Observe as Aliko Dangote continues to make a mockery of himself, while his Delilah takes her cue.

guy shut up, if u have no sense to contribute keep mute... Dangote didn't fornicate or womanize or commit adultery.. The man isn't currently married, he is very single and he is an adult who can have sexual relationship with the opposite sex, and shouldn't be sorry about it.. Its only making waves because he is a public figure. How does having a relationship with one person translate to womanising? Or going out with the opposite sex when he isn't married translate to womanising? U talk trying to make sense but no sense in ur words really

I'm no religious man, neither do I even go to church.. But C'mon, some of you are just so impossible and so quick to stone and hang a man of God even when he has done no wrong to you or anybody around you... Some of you will rather stone a man of God for thinking he is a thief than stoning who was confirmed a thief... Stop that anti-men of God behaviour. The least u could do is stay neutral.... Don't be that bitter and hateful person who wants to Crucify a man of God because he is a man of God and men of God are bad in your book...


Peace ✌️

Drop the name of some games you have built in the past.... Let's check if your work speaks for you.

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

you saying "my mom of cause" really made you sound selfish. Why then were u hiding under the charade of we wanted one of our moms to come. When you know very well it was yours you already had in mind to come. Doesn't that look selfish to you really At least hear from him first who he would prefer to come. He knows u will pick ur mom that's why he trew the question at u again of whose mom should come and u didn't disappoint him as he has suspected...
About his choice of African religion, I hate the fact that you are against his believes, why not face your own religion and leave him alone, if he wasn't working for him he would have stopped by now. but the fact that he said you are trying to charm him was said out of anger maybe during an argument else if that was true and he meant it, he won't even tell u...... Madam arrange your home ooo, a marriage will work or not largely depends on the woman, don't be that woman that breaks her home by herself.... And your husband only problem is RIGIDITY with decisions, he should be more flexible and compromise when he needs to... Not that he is heartless etc...

All of you saying omonile must be in the south, I speak for some communities in Benin, now this is how it is done.

Before you build any house you must first go to the community head and ask what their cost is for development.. It ranges from 20k to 100k where I have seen. After you pay that and buy kolanut and maybe 2 crate beer and one gin for prayer... U start work... U don't have problem with boys coming to extort you. Any boys who come to extort you, are solely on their own and not sent by the community and they do so at their own risk.....

Does it even make common sense that you just buy land and start building, without meeting the elders of the community you are building your property? Seems like disregard tho.

Manoftheyear:
Lol, come of it bro, nothing like that ever happened. I'm just being a human

you are being human while you are gently draining your Brother's business down... U think those little tinx do not count right?? Let it pile up and accumulate first, you will know the damage you have done to your brother by keeping mute... Being a single mother is not a ticket to steal... Single mothers are hawking sachet water on traffic with their kid on their back... The truth is this girl won't change, yes you saw this, What about the 101 others your didn't see?

AdaugoChisom:
I recently updated my device to MIUI 12 on my Redmi 8 and I discovered that the control panels doesn't support my themes. What do I please?

My control panel looks so odds
The first screenshot is my formal MIUI 11 control panel while the 2nd screenshot is my MIUI 12 control panel which I don't like.

bro what's the name of the theme u used on the MIUI 11

Redpanter:
You can't print the digital id, that's the point of it all... It's meant to be digital, not physical. It can be used in place of the plastic id card.

What you can print is the nin slip. By downloading from self service portal in pdf format and print it in coloured or black and White, you can as well laminate it.

you can, just that I'm sure the feature hasn't been updated.... Most verification website needs physical card for verification than this Shitty electronic type....

JayDaily:
Thanks for this, invited an architect guy and he ruled out a filling station option out completely,

in his words, if I need a filling station it should stand somewhere else,

against my initial plan of having a small villa with almost every necessary structures built around...

like a residential area, a small mall, so residents don't go out far to get things, a fuel station so they can fuel their car around, a pharmacy, a school, children of residents can school just close by comfortably etc

talking about land, I'm in talks with a land owner close by, 4 plots,

I could buy him off, if need be...


somehow I believe this can be achieved in before 2025...

I pray God gives you long life and good earth to achieve that you've planned... But boss that sport investment is too good to look away tbh.. Can I email you??

BluntCrazeMan:
The Mobile App will send an OTP to your number.
You can also link All your other numbers to your NIN through the App. An OTP would be sent to any number that you are attempting to link to the NIN, and you must use the OTP generated before the expiration of Ten Minutes.
(Maximum of Seven Phone Numbers can be linked)
..
You can scan someone else's NIN and ID-Card.
..
You can see your ID-Card on the App too.
..
I Have Already Done Mine...
The App Is Fun And Easy To Use.

you have any idea how it can be downloaded and printed on a plastic Because screenshot does not work on the app..... For more than 5days now I have been messaging their customer care but no reply till now.

Buytrust20:
bitcoin was mined for free years ago? Today, the value of the cryptocurrency makes it even hard to purchase. Do not be bothered though as there is a new coin ready to take the crypto space which may worth more than bitcoin in price/value It is called Pi Network cryptocurrency. It is currently being mined for free, without cellular data, even when your phone is shutdown.
I am sending you 1π! Pi is a new digital currency developed by Stanford PhDs, with over 9 million members worldwide. To claim your Pi, download the “Pi Network” app on your App Store or Play store and use my username chinixx2020 as your invitation code.

same PI network wen efcc dey look for the owner....

Zzor:
I will take side on this

because you are sentimental.... And sentiments don't make you use your whole brain for reasoning.... No go use your head carry wahala wey no concern you.... Who like e use black soap, who like use candle, who like use anointing oil, let everyone use what they think works for them....

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

madam mind your business, he goes to a different church and does things according to his church doctrine doesn't make your own pentecostal church better..... When u dey use ur anointing oil, or handkerchief from ur own church, don't u think that is odd enough.... U said it earlier he always have bad dreams, so madam allow him seek help anywhere he deem it fit, u are his gf and not his wife..... So what's ur own?

canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.

We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.

Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:

1. I will never pay a woman's school fees
2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment
3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.

Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.

The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.

Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.

if you already said that isn't gonna happen, which other advice you need again See guy you see those nairaland post u see about dint spend this or do that for a lady, most that post same shit are the real maga.

On a serious note, if you can help her without hoping to get anything in return or have the feeling that she is indebted to you, please help... We'll need someone to give us a helping hand one time in life... Helping doesn't make you weak or woman wrapper like u read here.... Infact help her with the feeling of this thing between us fit end anytime and my help doesn't guarantee she's mine...
Peace

Estrella366:
never

what makes you so sure you are the first owner of the sim?? Saying never like you haven't heard of recycled sim.... Thats the only explanation and notin else....

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

just compliment of the season she replied?? Guy with this your insecurities u can get married, that's the hard truth.... He didn't tell the boy she loves him not discussed any private issue with him just compliment and she replied which is totally polite.... I sorry for anybody that will eventually marry you....