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Ojemedad:
Wow, that's good

I have cross checked it, there is s 1% trading fee but better than the over 10%

if u want to eradicate that tracing fee spot trade litcoin to USDT a little higher than normal market price.. Let it join the order book as pending order and u won't pay fee.... Then use the USDT buy bitcoin with same process, reducing your buying price a little below market price and let it be pending order and wen it fulfills u won't pay fee.. But if the process is too much for u, just use the 1% fee rather.... But if it is paxful fee it is just 0.5% and moreover the buyer of the btc with litcoin will pay u a little above current market price, that will cover the fee

Peace ✌️

Oga talk price here, make who fit afford am Dm u.... In this 21st century you are still into this Dm me sh*T.

Ojemedad:
I need your help


I'm trying to send 48,700 worth of btc out from my wallet to my binance and they are charging me 6k

Why is the charge so high, is there any way I can pay less charge

sell the bitcoin on paxful and get paid litcoin, u provide your binance litcoin wallet and when you receive and confirm litcoin on your wallet, then release the coin to the paxful buyer and go to binance and change it to bitcoin.... No losses believe me. Its how I do it

Authority1o1:
Okay...




Decades of planning, years of execution, nights of strategizing, days of glory— all can be squashed within minutes.

Womanizing, fornication, adultery are the most potent catalysts to the waterloo of a successful person. History, both biblical and otherwise has propped up this truth.

Observe as Aliko Dangote continues to make a mockery of himself, while his Delilah takes her cue.

guy shut up, if u have no sense to contribute keep mute... Dangote didn't fornicate or womanize or commit adultery.. The man isn't currently married, he is very single and he is an adult who can have sexual relationship with the opposite sex, and shouldn't be sorry about it.. Its only making waves because he is a public figure. How does having a relationship with one person translate to womanising? Or going out with the opposite sex when he isn't married translate to womanising? U talk trying to make sense but no sense in ur words really

I'm no religious man, neither do I even go to church.. But C'mon, some of you are just so impossible and so quick to stone and hang a man of God even when he has done no wrong to you or anybody around you... Some of you will rather stone a man of God for thinking he is a thief than stoning who was confirmed a thief... Stop that anti-men of God behaviour. The least u could do is stay neutral.... Don't be that bitter and hateful person who wants to Crucify a man of God because he is a man of God and men of God are bad in your book...


Peace ✌️

Drop the name of some games you have built in the past.... Let's check if your work speaks for you.

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

you saying "my mom of cause" really made you sound selfish. Why then were u hiding under the charade of we wanted one of our moms to come. When you know very well it was yours you already had in mind to come. Doesn't that look selfish to you really At least hear from him first who he would prefer to come. He knows u will pick ur mom that's why he trew the question at u again of whose mom should come and u didn't disappoint him as he has suspected...
About his choice of African religion, I hate the fact that you are against his believes, why not face your own religion and leave him alone, if he wasn't working for him he would have stopped by now. but the fact that he said you are trying to charm him was said out of anger maybe during an argument else if that was true and he meant it, he won't even tell u...... Madam arrange your home ooo, a marriage will work or not largely depends on the woman, don't be that woman that breaks her home by herself.... And your husband only problem is RIGIDITY with decisions, he should be more flexible and compromise when he needs to... Not that he is heartless etc...

All of you saying omonile must be in the south, I speak for some communities in Benin, now this is how it is done.

Before you build any house you must first go to the community head and ask what their cost is for development.. It ranges from 20k to 100k where I have seen. After you pay that and buy kolanut and maybe 2 crate beer and one gin for prayer... U start work... U don't have problem with boys coming to extort you. Any boys who come to extort you, are solely on their own and not sent by the community and they do so at their own risk.....

Does it even make common sense that you just buy land and start building, without meeting the elders of the community you are building your property? Seems like disregard tho.

Manoftheyear:
Lol, come of it bro, nothing like that ever happened. I'm just being a human

you are being human while you are gently draining your Brother's business down... U think those little tinx do not count right?? Let it pile up and accumulate first, you will know the damage you have done to your brother by keeping mute... Being a single mother is not a ticket to steal... Single mothers are hawking sachet water on traffic with their kid on their back... The truth is this girl won't change, yes you saw this, What about the 101 others your didn't see?

AdaugoChisom:
I recently updated my device to MIUI 12 on my Redmi 8 and I discovered that the control panels doesn't support my themes. What do I please?

My control panel looks so odds
The first screenshot is my formal MIUI 11 control panel while the 2nd screenshot is my MIUI 12 control panel which I don't like.

bro what's the name of the theme u used on the MIUI 11

Redpanter:
You can't print the digital id, that's the point of it all... It's meant to be digital, not physical. It can be used in place of the plastic id card.

What you can print is the nin slip. By downloading from self service portal in pdf format and print it in coloured or black and White, you can as well laminate it.

you can, just that I'm sure the feature hasn't been updated.... Most verification website needs physical card for verification than this Shitty electronic type....

JayDaily:
Thanks for this, invited an architect guy and he ruled out a filling station option out completely,

in his words, if I need a filling station it should stand somewhere else,

against my initial plan of having a small villa with almost every necessary structures built around...

like a residential area, a small mall, so residents don't go out far to get things, a fuel station so they can fuel their car around, a pharmacy, a school, children of residents can school just close by comfortably etc

talking about land, I'm in talks with a land owner close by, 4 plots,

I could buy him off, if need be...


somehow I believe this can be achieved in before 2025...

I pray God gives you long life and good earth to achieve that you've planned... But boss that sport investment is too good to look away tbh.. Can I email you??

BluntCrazeMan:
The Mobile App will send an OTP to your number.
You can also link All your other numbers to your NIN through the App. An OTP would be sent to any number that you are attempting to link to the NIN, and you must use the OTP generated before the expiration of Ten Minutes.
(Maximum of Seven Phone Numbers can be linked)
..
You can scan someone else's NIN and ID-Card.
..
You can see your ID-Card on the App too.
..
I Have Already Done Mine...
The App Is Fun And Easy To Use.

you have any idea how it can be downloaded and printed on a plastic Because screenshot does not work on the app..... For more than 5days now I have been messaging their customer care but no reply till now.

Buytrust20:
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same PI network wen efcc dey look for the owner....

Zzor:
I will take side on this

because you are sentimental.... And sentiments don't make you use your whole brain for reasoning.... No go use your head carry wahala wey no concern you.... Who like e use black soap, who like use candle, who like use anointing oil, let everyone use what they think works for them....

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

madam mind your business, he goes to a different church and does things according to his church doctrine doesn't make your own pentecostal church better..... When u dey use ur anointing oil, or handkerchief from ur own church, don't u think that is odd enough.... U said it earlier he always have bad dreams, so madam allow him seek help anywhere he deem it fit, u are his gf and not his wife..... So what's ur own?

canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.

We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.

Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:

1. I will never pay a woman's school fees
2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment
3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.

Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.

The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.

Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.

if you already said that isn't gonna happen, which other advice you need again See guy you see those nairaland post u see about dint spend this or do that for a lady, most that post same shit are the real maga.

On a serious note, if you can help her without hoping to get anything in return or have the feeling that she is indebted to you, please help... We'll need someone to give us a helping hand one time in life... Helping doesn't make you weak or woman wrapper like u read here.... Infact help her with the feeling of this thing between us fit end anytime and my help doesn't guarantee she's mine...
Peace

Estrella366:
never

what makes you so sure you are the first owner of the sim?? Saying never like you haven't heard of recycled sim.... Thats the only explanation and notin else....

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

just compliment of the season she replied?? Guy with this your insecurities u can get married, that's the hard truth.... He didn't tell the boy she loves him not discussed any private issue with him just compliment and she replied which is totally polite.... I sorry for anybody that will eventually marry you....

Donspicey:
During the BBNaija show i supported and voted for Laycon to emerge as the Winner because i was thinking that he would take over from EFE or TOLANI in the music industry as the big thing from BBnaija but very unfortunate the guy fall my hand Big time...


As a music lover that delights in listening to upcoming artistes with the believe that they always have something upstairs to offer i listen to underground artistes when ever am less busy so that i could be able to analyse their lyrics and contents but to be candid Laycon is one of the WACK artistes i have ever listened to.....


His songs lacks direction.........


The productions is below standard.......


The mixing and mastering is very poor for my liking.......


No content in the Lyrics.......


Though am happy for him for winning the grand price and also for the numerous endorsements but musically he have nothing to offer.....


Out of anger and disapointment i deleted all his songs on my playlist but am still one of his fans anyway........


I will still get his songs if he improves but for now,i will avoid his songs like a plaque...


Let me continue listening to..

TEMS...


WURLD.....


DESHINOR....


KAPTAIN......


TOLANI......


EFE......


OXLADE.....


ZINOLEESKY......


OMAY LAY........


ODUNSI.....


CHEQUE......


DIAMOND JIMMA.......


SEYI VIBEZ........


PREETYBOYDO.......


And many more new face wey get oil for head...

lol some of the names you listed made me realize you lack standard and do not know anything about music... So I'm not surprised why you are disappointed with laycon..... That guy is better than 75% of the people u listed here.... Lol this guy u be clown I swear

Please somebody should tell me the page the current affair was uploaded on this thread before the exam... I need the page number pls, thanks in advance

Abeg somebody should tell me the page that has the current affairs on this thread that was uploaded before exam

If not for the fact that we are all pursuing same goal, and this thread seems to be the fastest means to information, I for don unfollow this group for obvious reasons...
On this thread We have the rumour carriers, the god acting individuals, the COAS younger brothers, the I too know Individuals, the ones with connection more than Buhari etc.... Imagine adults digging past posts and taking their time to screenshot it just to prove a point or demoralise someone else, I have 3 questions for Y'all.
1) Don't Y'all Do anything Outside Nairaland?
2) Has all The ranting and uproar here, made the list come out till now?
3) Can't Some Of You Just Read, drink water and Pass

We Are all adults aiming towards same goal, its just too early to start eating each others flesh..... Seriously with the way many of you talk here, I can easily tell what kind of a person u are...

Yahksbiz:
Why don't get a laptop

did he ask for a laptop recommendation?? With u and ur misplaced recommendation, he asked for a phone becaihe needed a mobile phone for maybe calls, text etc. No a laptop...

DennisEche:
ADAMAWA STATE IS A GOOD AND NICE STATE, LET YOUR SISTER GO THERE AND SERVE. THERE ARE LOTS OF OPPORTUNITIES, WHICH ARE.
1. NICE AND FRIENDLY PEOPLE
2. THEY ARE NOT FANATIC LIKE OTHER NORTHERN STATES
3. THEY ARE ACCOMODATING
4. THEY ARE LOTS OF CHRISTIANS THERE SO NO FEAR.
5. GOOD PLACE TO SERVE PPA.AUN(ABTI) LOTS OF NGO'S,FUT YOLA,AIR FORCE BASE,FARO BEVERAGES,RADIO GOTEL,ETC.
6. NO SHARIA THERE.
I LOVE YOLA, GOD BLESS THE LAMIDO OF ADAMAWA AND ALL THE PEOLPLE THAT HAVE MADE IT SO PEACEFUL

how has all these related to lots of opportunities??

Everybody Don get source source..... Y'all should take a chill pill, the list must definitely come out certainly... But all these una source said, una source said, it is highly misleading and uncalled for.... Even ur SOURCE no Get Sauce

Your greed played on you.... If u didn't have that money in your custody, how would you have handled the payment for the goods issue?? Use same way and stop posting your account number, u deserved to be disowned... But what do u know self...

Ahappy:
Please, I am sorry for the thread topic, I was trusted with the sum of 50000 which is my sister school fees,so I had this man who promised to send me some materials from abroad, I did get message that the materials had arrived the country already but I will have to pay the sum of #27500 naira for the delivery and paper issue,
I paid the money hoping that when the product get here which is a laptop and few cash,I will be able to refund my sister money .
But little did I know that a naked picture was inside the material, I was phoned by the driver who had already underwent search by the customs official, he called me to tell me that,I had to pay #50000 before they can release him.
I did pay #20000 naira telling him that I don't have up to that.
please sir and ma,I need your help, the driver had stopped picking my call already, and my sister is yet to know about this, I need your help sir and ma,God will not spoil what's giving you happiness, I am just a student ,I have been crying all this while,my mum is yet to know about this, that's why I posted this on nairaland.
I have even forgotten the product, I need my sister's school fees,she's an HND 1 student of Rufus giwa poly,owo ondo state.
I can give you proof sir and ma
this is my number 07044145432
I need the sum of #50000 which is her school fees,I don't know what we happen to me,if I fail to provide this money before she asked me to send it.
I dont get my self at all
don't mind my grammars please sir and ma.
help my life.
This is my account number
Akosile Emmanuel
UBA
2146595385
that's the remaining balance.
daddy and mummy help my life.
my dad will kill me.
my mum might collapse on hearing this .

ugo4u:
Aptly said, the people hammering solely on connection do not want people w/o connection to even attempt thinking it will better their own chances.
From experience have come to realise that this job is a matter of luck and personal effort to some extent. That doesn't mean some people don't enter with influence of godfathers them dey also but saying all officers entered because of connection is false.
Pressing from all angles is the best but to give up w/o putting up a fight because someone said you must have connection is plain foolishness. Even common exams wey people write on Saturday some candidates not shortlisted will think all those shortlisted had connection which is not entirely true even some people with high voltage connection weren't shortlisted for the same exam. Tell people this they'll think one is being economical with the truth.

now this is the whole honest truth.... Not all officers or recruit made it with GF, that's The truth, merit counts too.. But we know say Chief Of Army Staff and Defense minister Candidate na first shirt them go collect