₦airaland Forum

Meerahbel:
Those guys are dying gradually and they don't know it.

Girl, leave talk, I once sweared never to live in that area and today I am happily there

OmugwoAunty:
Divorced. I agree that she should obey her husband. That’s why I did not fight her with her not visiting.

Just saw this now, ur mother is divorced..
Let me be honest with u, ur mother is the problem of that family,
She no wan go do omugwo for u, u now want ur aunt to come and immediately label ur aunt husband snatcher, ur aunt read the conversation doesn't mean anything to me, it good she saw it and will now know the kind of person she has as a sister, ur mom dey scatter house, lying against ur husband as well.....
Madam stay away from ur mom, she is evil.
If u like no hear my own, she will break up ur house and u too will divorce and marry another.
The problem is not even the omugwo anymore, it's about the lies, hate and deceit coming out of a woman who calls her self a mother

tuzle:
One thing I noticed from ur post is how easily u guys in ur family share proof of urself abusing each other. Why did u share the screenshot of ur mom calling ur aunt an husband snatcher with her?

Why did her mother make such statement....that's bad of her,
I no dey there but her mother lied
She's a bad mother
Her mother is married to another man, is the man she's married to not someone else's husband before

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

Before I tell u anything.....where is ur father?

Una demand when buhari dey there?

Dem don use am buy yacht

What of those that are dead but still living under tinubu hardship

I remember but some are still indomie generation

Na thunder or lightning dey kill?

Roger3D:
Fucckk him and
Death to Isreal

Head slamming boko Haram tellolist

michlins:
The thing about the people who support Israel is that all their defence is coming from the Bible. Nothing logical or historical claim.


Israel are children of God. Palestinians are then what?

Philistines and Palestine are children of hate

pdppower:
He is full of Godly wisdom because he supports killing of innocent children, women and defenceless Palestinians.
If Boko Haram throws bomb into America, the next thing is for America to destroy the whole of Northern Nigeria, abi.


Ironically the Jews you support against the Palestinians actually hate you Christians.

U are a head slamming tellolist

God1000:
Angelina jolie is an upstanding woman with a conscience, the man should not expect her to behave like him.

This Israel-Hamas war has exposed a lot of people, divided friends and families, but I will always say the truth and stand with the oppressed, killing innocent Palestinians under the guise of fighting Hamas is a serious war crime and crime against humanity, how can any sane person support the bombing of hospitals, schools, churches, mosques and refugee camps

Generations of families are being wiped out right in front of our eyes and some religious bigots are rejoicing, Arab leaders are cowards for doing absolutely nothing to help Palestinians.

Those of you insulting other people for calling out Israel should desist from such unholy act

If I will not make heaven for saying the truth, then so be it

I'm withdrawing my support for west as well because I hate double standard and hypocrisy

I lambasted Mr Putin when he invaded Ukraine but I'm beginning to have a change of mind about him

Some of you that idolized Mr Putin then, calling him a hero are now making a U-turn because he's saying the truth against Israel

U are a tellolist

Franzinni:
Nigeria can't survive at the rate at which these snakes are inventing new ways to constrict the blood out of this nation ... They use all the education they source abroad to figure out brilliant strategies to serve the interest of the few at the expense of the many.

They don't even bother to hide it anymore.

May the Almighty inflict debilitating illnesses on every soul that had agreed to render this country hopeless

Without a revolution....our grandchildren will suffer....mark my word, these tribal politics they are playing will consume us and their children will still be bad leaders in future

Chigozie321:
Things are very tight. We shall overcome 🙏

We won't overcome except all ur politicians die and the rest race of Nigerians do away with corruption

ivolt:
You can only deceive idiots.
No human want to worship another, it is condition that bends crayfish.
What she really want so say is that:
As a jobless woman, she will love and worship my husband if he is rich.

Ekwensu

Truths9ja:
what if the man no still take care of you after every every , What of those men wey dey beat their wives nko ,the woman go still dey dey worship, make everybody do this marriage the way e favour you ooo,e no get formula abeg 😆😆. The husbands that beat their wives is what I called Abnormality among the wicked set of men in the marriage in this generation

Before a man will beat a woman....she might have done the undo....they like claiming victim,
The serpent is not far from every woman

duduade:
I don't understand why people being in children into this world and will still not take good care of them.. what will 15k do

So if u earn 20k as salary....how much do u spend at home?
U guys will be talking without sense as if u are in his account

kevwemike:
bros u try, in my own case i collect my children, and I have been the one taking good care of them bços my x wife vow to mk my life miserable but now I have move on and I and my 2 children we have great peace

Women are evil

Handsomejok:
Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

U say step daughter?
She don born before for another man?
That's why the first guy left
U guys no dey no reason before una go Bleep another man wife

Skyview01:
15k monthly, for what!

U no know say things hard?
She should add her own or collect from the guy that have been fucking her

Donkogbe:
i have never pay tithe before in my life but i do listen to messages on how this is a way of attracting supernatural blessings from God. this year has been very hard on me and i decided to give tithing a chance which as at now i will never stop paying tithe.

i have a problem of having a track record of how much i make weekly and monthly because i am a freelancer so money can come in anytime, anyday.

tithing has helped me reaslise how much of money has been coming my way and how much i make weekly and monthly because once any money comes in now, i will have to jot down the 10% and by sunday i will transfer them to the church account.

Brothers and sisters my october tithe was 24k meaning i made 240k last month.. i am still amazed because i at the end of every month i usually dnt have any money saved in my account but now putting aside 10% of every income has opened my eyes and i just want to thank God for this great revelation.

It's not about tithe, stop paying and money will still come, if Ur time never reach E never reach, if U like pay tithe from now till 99yrs....
What ever that happens to us has been destined, same way pastor's will lie to U if U don't attend church, u will go to hell, all they want is ur money, during time of Jesus there was only on synagogue in Jerusalem, that's why they travel far to preach the gospel, now ...there's phone, internet,tv, radio , satellite, books etc, do u still need church when as an adult, u know what God wants for u to make heaven?
Now tell me those in far away places during time of Jesus Christ all went to hell fire....God want us to love him and serve him, worship him, love our neighbors as our self, be good to make heaven, s an adult and enlightened fellow in this new age, do u need any body to tell u? U are holier than some of these pastors or imam that preaches to u, don't be decieved...just be good and u are already in heaven

All na our money from politicians, dem go still buy her yacht

If it was me...he will be sleeping with his forefathers now

UnfairLife7:
A 30 years old and above Nigerian man that doesn't have a good or descent job or business is said to be poor

For instance i personally consider someone earning less than 100k within 30-40 years as poor

70% of Nigerians are poor if U go by Ur assumption

Fugazy2023:
But to be honest, you as a guy or a father , will you allow your sister of daughter marry a poor person with not clear cut vision

Define poor

Chiquitq:
I've been there. Not divorced but separated. It's been over 6yrs. It was easy despite that the relationship was extremely toxic. I mourned for the wasted time and abuse tolerated. I was bitter about financial and material things lost in the course of the union. I was distraught by the embarrassments and insults metted out to my family and friends. I relocated to a new city and started totally afresh with my children. Got a job and started a business.
The man that I was married to was the evil of the earth and a fraudster and womanizer. To top it all, he was grossly manipulative. Being extremely manipulative made it hard for me to leave early or even set boundaries thoroughly.

When you say this your husband left suddenly, I believe you totally. He might be a narcissistic. sociopath. That's what he did to all the women he dated during our marriage. Many did not know he was married. He would promise them heaven, use them and disappear suddenly from their lives. Read more about narcissists.

Don't be in a hurry to remarry and if you date again, don't be in a hurry to procreate. I chose celibacy as a means to be totally free and live my best life. I have concluded that all relationships are challenging judging by other people's experiences and mine. On few occasions, one may be lucky but I'm too lazy to and lack motivation to try again. That works for me but it might not work for you.
Find a hobby and most importantly, improve on your finances and network. You would be fine in the end. Many nights, you would have flashbacks of events and be bitter but time would do justice. Try to have as little contact with him as possible. If he wants to speak to his son, doesn't have to be through your phone. Don't allow him to Hoover his way back into your life because he would just hurt you a second time. Stop listening to gist about him. It would help you to move on.

I don't believe all U have said.....
U are saying U are the saint in the union

Quietly inject the bastard to death

Kellie069:
Shey una talk say una wan put the 5billion naira join the student loan program So yatch way de Nigeria since June, una wan return am or watin una wan come do?

All our politicians need to be killed...
See the lies they tell and the theft is too much

Where's his face incase we see him in our street?

Nonesense ....strike over assault....
What of many Nigerians and youths killed by government?
How many una go on strike for?
Nonsense again