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Mispreeti:
Please I need your advice.
My sister is at the hospital with one of her twins who is seriously ill and I'm in her house taking care of the other twin. I have been here for a week and her husband has been disturbing me for sex. I refused but he is not listening. He touched me while I was asleep and I felt it then I immediately woke up. He pretends to be covering the baby sleeping beside me. I told him i will report him to my dad in the morning. He has apologised and promised not to do it again but I know he is lying because this is not the first time it has happened since I came here.
I can’t go back to sleep and I'm afraid if I close my eyes and sleep, he will come again.
Please should I report him to my dad or give him another chance?

Report him to Buhari.

A brief of a recent and successful spouse/settlement visa application. Might be useful for folks planning to apply sometimes soon.

Application Mode - Self ( minor consultation ( free ) with an immigration lawyer to clarify a sentence in the application guidelines )
Application (Completed and submitted on behalf of applicant ) Submitted : 2nd December 2019 - Standard.
Biometric - Priority - 10th December
Generic Email Message from Decision Making Centre - 16th December ( Sent to Sponsor only )
Text Message Received from VAC - 29th January ( To pick up passport )
Approved - One month entry granted validity from 30th January to 29th February 2020

Docs submitted ( All uploaded using the self service and before the 10th of December, the date of the Biometric at Ikeja VAC Centre. )
- NARIC English Language Confirmation
- TB Cert.
- Communication Details - some emails, whatsapp (screenshot of selected messages and calls selected randomly over a period of 2 and half years)
- Family Photographs with some involving relatives and friends ( selected over a period of two years )
- 7 months payslip from UK, a contract role ( March 2019 - March 2020 )
- Letter from contracting/employment agency confirming contract, pay, start date and payslip authenticity
- 7 months bank statement covering all pay period for the duration of the 7th month payslips.
- New accommodation tenancy agreement signed on the 1st of December 2019, with letter from landlord confirming we are family friends and my wife and daughter are allowed to live at the property. (no proof of rent payment sent, no inspection report as accommodation is solely occupied by me, no other utility bill apart from an email confirmation from water provider saying I have registered with them)
- Letter from Employment agency confirming change of address and latest bank statement showing new address.
- Proof of British citizenship for daughter and father (sponsor)
- Marriage certificate
- Travel ticket back and forth between applicant and sponsor
- Proof of address in Nigeria and proof of courier and postal services between sponsor and applicant ( to and out of Nigeria )
- Sponsor cover letter, narrating genesis of relationship, detailing and explaining supporting documents added )
- Applicant cover letter narrating genesis and current status of relationship.
- Passport biodata pages ( Nigeria, expired and British ) - Sponsor
- Passport biodata page ( Nigeria ) - Applicant
- Passport biodata page - Daughter ( 15 months old ( British and Nigeria )

No contact to landlord, employer, employment agency, sponsor or applicant by the HO.

All in all, a smooth and straight forward process, made easier with good travel history between sponsor and applicant, Sponsor a British Citizen and a daughter who was born outside the United Kingdom but has a British Passport.


Best wishes to everyone else awaiting a decision or applying in the near future and if you have any question, let me know!

Trump did that shi.....t!

Alhamdullilah for a safe landing.

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.
I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.
I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..
She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.
Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?
In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

Ok.

Looool.

See Ganduje agbada like tarpaulin wey them dey take cover 100 seater tent, gomina barawo dollar jatijati!
Bunch of shameless bastar...ds, no ideologies, no principles.
Useless leaders and politicians!

Thegoodone13:
Jonathan will be coming president again in Nigeria. People don't believe me because I'm not a pastor or prophet. I don't know how it will come to pass but what I saw in 2014. God show me where people gather and send him out of office but he later returned.

My friend shut the fu..ck up!

All of you idio....ts and moro....ns who are cursing and killing each other every day because of these two incompetent buffoons, I hope you will all manage to rest and focus or channel your energies somewhere else after this latest round of pics.

Buhari oni kuuure oooo!
What is the meaning of all of these?
Buhari olofo, come out here!

Yinmu!

Dan Allah!

Smh.
Reports APC to US Consul general?
What a shame.

Zulum get sense.
I hope he continues to do the right thing for his people.

Nwoko Muniru Baba!
Jaiye Ori e Looooor!!!!!!

Christmasdon:
What is Femi Adesina's take on Amotekun.

Does he matter in the grand scheme of things? Adesina is a charlatan!

Abubaushe:
SSA to the president,he has a son who is a pilot among others.Be informed.

Konida fun e, iwo omo iran ki ran yi!
Fu...cking dunderhead, I asked a question and you bloody lunkhead failed woefully
Vacuous troglodyte!

How old is Femi Adesina?

Why do I need to meet the judge?
Fu..cking lunkheads!

BOYLOVABLE1:
A lady send me a friend request on facebook since early last year which I accepted, from there we started chatting.
According to her that she's from India and she will love to marry, we talked a lot. I asked her so many questions about her and she said so many things that she a single mother.
After two months she went off and I also moved on. Just last week Friday, she appears again telling me that her account was hacked.
She has been sending me pictures also request for mine which I did send, she send both nude pics.
On Friday she also wants me to send mine which I declined. After much persuasion, I sent her my nude, she insisted that she wants to see my full unclad pic.
To cut the story shorter, immediately I sent her my full unclad pic, the next thing I saw was:
"You dey craze, I resemble your mate?". I should better comply or else....
When she is through with me I will know my myself.
I just weak, immediately I blocked her on Facebook. I think she wants to use my unclad pic to scam me. She has been calling me but I refuse to pick the call.
Please what will i do?
Don't mind mind my English construction.

Ok.

Whether he likes he should flag off G-wagon, he is a monumental failure!

Daumandu:
Can This Lead To The Downfall Of Someone?
I just moved in to a bigger city and a better and bigger apartment. I co-rented a flat with a middle aged man.
Now here is the problem, in my business at least in a week, I attend to nothing less than 20 clients but since one month I moved to this apartment I have not seen a single client.
Any day I do my digital marketing I am sure to see at least 10 to 20 enquires but since a month I moved to the apartment no body ever chatted me up for business.
Today I had to withdraw the last 5k in my account. The least amount I ever had in my account was 20k now I only have 500. I am someone that always enjoy the grace of God in my business but now its as if heaven has turned it's back against me. I am seriously thinking of leaving the apartment.
Any Advice?

Sorry I cant help you.

Political hoes.
No ideologies, no principles.
Shameless folks!
Any government in power.

Jeffmonti:
This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.
The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019 the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keep it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she want to have my child when she know we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shook i couldn’t take her calls she texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.
So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital she for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her she’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).
So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and told asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.
Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.
So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.
I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.
Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

Ok.

Who is the foolish moderator who pushed this old news to the front page?
Abi ori e daaaru ni?!

You should have served him a plate of rice, fried stew and a giant piece of fried amotekun.

Odindi Baale ile, how can you serve him one egg?! Or has Buhari taken over your household?!

Smh.

OmoNla99:
Different judgement for different classes of people. Yewande oyediran killed her husband in Ibadan in a similar manner. Heard she is walking free today and has left the country sef.

She got a state pardon.
Ajimobi granted that.

Ekemeze:
BACK TO YOU AND YOUR GENERATIONS. adiok uno.

Come here you silly prat, why are you running?
I have ended the presence of unfortunate bastar..ds like you on this forum and I will do the same to you effortlessly.
I will chase you out of this forum, you are dead from today.
You fu...cked with the wrong one.

Olofo Omo iran ki ran.
Sopona l'oma je enu baba e ati iya e!

Ekemeze Oloriburuku omo ale, come here, ewu Gambia!

Nawa oooo!
Oluwa wetin dey shelle everywhere?!

Ekemeze:
May u be killed by your wife

Simpleton, you have sawdust for brain so you cant comprehend my post.
You are too dim-witted to understand that what the lady did was unacceptable.
Too vacuous to understand that death sentence is barbaric and there is a little child needing a parent for upbringing.

May Amadioha smash your scrotum into hopeless pieces, you fu....cking troglodyte.

May you and your generation be ruined by lassa fever.

Anuofia, ogun lo ma pa baba e ati iya e, iwo omo ale jatijati yi!

Deoboss:
In this scenario, Madam Sanda’s child will grow up hating his mother knowing fully well she sent his father to his early grave

You CANNOT be so sure of this.

Annie939:
who will take care of there Child? the judgement is too harsh they should reversed it, at least prison will be better than death sentence

I agree.
To think we are still dishing out sentence in this day and age is simply despicable.
We cant cover up or make excuses for the senseless act she committed and the soul of the dead cant be brought back to life by way of the judgement but it would have been better if the sentence had taken into consideration that a young child will be an orphan when a life sentence could have suffice.
A very sad and unfortunate situation.