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Buhari, it shall not be well with you and the bloody beasts amongst your people!

Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

Ok.

Oshiomole bastar...d
When you and your evil people were rigging and manipulating elections and selection of candidates contesting for elective posts, you didn't think about God, now that you are embattled, you are calling God.
Fu...cking midget, may God punish you and all of your evil accomplices.
To all of your sympathisers on this forum, thunder fire all of una join!
Eyin olofo jatijati.

Rubber stamp national assembly!
Those of you who thought Saraki and co were bad will soon realise that these bastar...ds currently occupying the NASS are even worse!

Most likely because of 50 Naira.

Poverty is a bastar....d!

It shall not be well with APC and PDP!

Men will embarrass you.
It can never be me.

Someone will come out tomorrow and tell us Amala destroys coronaviruses!

Alhamdullilah.
Some people them fu...ck them for toilet, e no lead anywhere.
Baba God go do am for all las las!

Good.

Why is he still alive?!

Loool.
Rely on Kumuyi's words and go and do anyhow near a virus carrier o!

Father Mbaka the pathological liar.

I pity the folks who listen to or worship at his church.

The same Shekau Buhari and his band of dunderheads claimed to have killed 20 times over the last 3 years?!

allthingsgood:
But it does
Buharii is the best thing to happen to Nigeria atm

It is either you don't live in Nigeria or you are just a fu....cking dunderhead!

Doesn't necessarily mean Buhari hasn't been abysmal and woeful in managing the economy.

Smh. That woman could have killed for no reason!
Nigeria is a huge joke, from government to the average citizen!!!!

Riele:
Hand sanitizer doesn't cure Coronavirus .

Of what use is it anyway ? .

Prevention from possibly spreading the virus after knowingly/unknowingly coming in contact with it.

You fu...cking plank!

Buhari Bastar....d, he claims to be fighting corruption, only idio...ts and moro....ns believe that anyway!

Not surprised.
Nigerian Politics is rife with unholy and selfish alliances which eventually gets ripped apart.
The losers are the electorates who these bloody bastar...ds called politicians deceive.
To those of you who are shouting PDP APC and UPP up and down, think, think long and hard... You are all losers!

not4sure:
Governor Nasir El-Rufai has apologised to the people of Kaduna State over the recent attacks in three local government areas of the state in which scores of people were killed.
PREMIUM TIMES reported how over 50 people were reported killed during attacks by bandits on six villages in Giwa, Birnin Gwari, and Igabi local government areas of the state on Sunday.
The attacks are similar to the spate in the northern part of the country.
Mr El-Rufai, on a visit to the affected villages, admitted that governments ‘best’ has not been enough in protecting citizens.
“As those that have been placed in a position of leadership, the responsibility for protecting these people rests squarely on my shoulders and those of my colleagues. I also came to apologise for my failure to fully protect them.
“We are doing the best we can and we are hoping that this banditry will end soon because the security agencies are taking the war to the bandits. But as they close one area, they attack in another area. It is a vast territory and it is difficult to cover, but we are doing our best to minimise such incidents. You should continue to forgive us,” Mr El-Rufai told journalists and residents at one of the scenes of the attacks.
The governor reiterated his government’s decision not to negotiate with criminals.
“In Kaduna State, we have zero tolerance for bandits, we don’t give them amnesty and we don’t negotiate with them. It is our duty to wipe them out, and until we send them to their maker, the security agencies are taking the war to the forest and we are eliminating them,” he said.
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/379938-kaduna-killings-el-rufai-apologises-for-govts-failure-to-protect-victims.html

Get fu...cking LOST El-Rufai!
It is not enough to apologise if you can not deliver what you were voted in to do, simply do the job you have put yourself forward or RESIGN!

Spot on.

Useless Governor, another white elephant project loading!
Go to Abia and see the mess around yourself, then come back and tell me if the rotund and inept vagabond can successfully oversee the construction of an airport!
Anuofia.

Kubura go chop am!

shullamite:
This is the car I want but I can't afford it at present. I pray God answer my prayer soon so that I can get this car. If na to sell the one I get now and add money buy this one no wahala.

Looooool.

Smh!
Bunch of fu....cking idio...tas!

Daddy GO shut up abeg, you talk too much!

It shall not be well with any redeemed member who come here and attack me or plan to attack me for the post above!

thorpido:
The man get case except he can wash himself clean.

Wash himself clean with what?!

Fu..cking idio...t!

Look at how wretched they look with their 200 naira slip ons!

It shall not be well with you Father Mbaka!
Ashiere eyan jatijati.