Rahkman: Their exchange was captured in a video that later trended online. In the clip shared on Instagram by Samklef.
The lady who appeared to be one of the video vixens, was seen typing out what many assumed to be her phone number into the phone that was given to her by the bodyguard
Babe God don carry your helper come use it wisely.. to eXcape!!
Poswahala: Guys I genuinely need some advice Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids.
I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves.
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise.
Marriage isn't for everyone but at list mothering a child will be a good option.. Giving birth to your own Child will be Awesome I bet you is gonna make you feel alive and loved.
BabaIbo: Marriage they say is a beautiful thing but if you ask many men out there what marriage is to them or what marriage has brought to them or will they get married if they are given chances to rewind time, their responses will be in negative form or NO.
That same step(marriage) is the next step to be taken by me but I have one unanswered question. I am a young man in my 30s, currently free from any dating relationship and about to begin my search for a life partner, but I like being cleared/well-informed about something before going into it.
Pardon me for this long note I am about to dish out and the question I will be asking at the end.
For sometimes now, people around me have been telling me I am next in line to get married, some telling me to ensure I bring a responsible lady home and all that. My mom do tell me she won't rush me to get married but as an observant person you will notice she really wants me to bring a woman(wife) home.
My dad told me sometimes ago that if I don't have a lady, that maybe they should search for a young good girl for me early next year. My younger ones are expecting me to take that step so they can start planning on theirs and all that.
All these are for their own good or benefits, I am not saying they don't deserve it but I have been trying to get a tangible reason to get married i.e what is the SPECIAL thing(benefit) it will add to my life, I am the one getting married not them. "Na me wan wear the shoe."
A bikeman, popularly known as Okadaman that do come to my place told me story about himself and big opportunities that marriage has made him miss.
In addition to his words and those I have heard from others, the fear of things going south, disappearance of peace of mind and all that are other factors.
Presumed(anticipated) benefits which are not as they are expected to be again are)
CHILDREN: Children can be gotten without marriage, for example: C. Ronaldo, Mikel, and others did that and they are doing well.
GOOD MEALS: Foods can be gotten from outside or prepared by the man or any other person that is not a wife for the man. Moreover, how many of them can cook well like our mothers? I'm a better cook than most ladies I have come across.
COMPANIONSHIP: That is an overstatement in our present society. It is even more noticeable in dating relationship than in some marriages these days.
SEX: That is the cheapest service/thing to get after air and water(clean water is even more expensive). Moreover many marriages are lacking sexually. It is worse if the man has high sex drive aka high libido.
SUPPORT: I don't want to go there because it is an open fact that instead of getting support, the man is being leached/milked of the one he has.
HOME: I can still remember how some married men will pack their cars at the junction, stay inside their cars for long before driving home, some go to the bar/relaxation centers to chill before going home, some don even like going home. You all know why?
With all these in mind, I want to ask this question that has been bothering me because I need to sort it before taking the step...
Now, my question is "WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN IN THIS OUR TIME?"
PS: I used this image because what marriage did to the man in the picture is in the open
Olunmercy56: you have already known what to do, or what do you expect people to advice you? Oshi
Because women don finish for Lagos? ol boy! look for fresh woman , what is after two going to do for you? Anyways.. these a difference between people f***king up!! and people knowing they are about f**ing up! Well is your grave your digging not mine so enjoy.. Funny mallam.
Rastaramsey: Thats what's up mah niggarr.... It is a shame these politicians still come out to make empty promises Amaechi won't do anything to stop insecurity if elected.... He will worsen the situation sef... Insecurity is APC's thing.... Even a PDP president will struggle to eliminate it.....
Say no to any APC member....
Let vote in PDP
The only security they know are always the ones on the road or express harassing Innocent citizens.
keep justifying adultery.. and I see why we humans lust after EACHOTHER YNASH....
AND THAT IS MY STROKE BECAUSE I'M A DIFFERENT FOLK.
Well I don't blame you thinking I'm too small for you. I'm not justifying adultery was just saying people can love different people in different ways period.
I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.
A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.
WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.
Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.
A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.
He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.
He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.
He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.
Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.
He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.
She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!
It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.
She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.
The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.
She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.
I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.
Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.
Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.
The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.
The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.
They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.
How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!
Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.
That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.
Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.
Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.
Funny.... What about Ironman Thor Spiderman Hulk All of them posses powers to do good or evil This case can't hold water all the characters there are good and sometimes evil just like us in real life.
OyigboUpdate: U can see the comments as the IPOB bingos are cheering them for threatening to kill fellow Igbos on Facebook. Then when e happen they will want us to believe it was fulani and DSS.
Disguise military men as voters secretly armed and dangerous and keep rounding this killers up.. Nigeria put in some intilligence into this our so called military No security ..They just come and kill the innocent just lambs..Is a pity
Thandiubani: Davido has showed off the new land he just bought for the building of his dream house.
The star in a social media post said he acquired a large land in the choicest residential area in Nigeria, Banana Island and that he is now ready to build his dream house there.
Watch the video he made showing off the land below:
Ini Edo don go dance bad luck dance with her bottom power!! Rita be careful about the people your invitating to your wedding No be everything person dey loud nowadays social media to dey cast..
AntiMen: I'm married with two beautiful children.. I love my husband no doubt.... But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this... He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other... How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.
Go and satisfy yourself your body go come down.. Is either you stop going to the church which is Making you commit sin as soon as you enter the house of God Or go for counciling make this known to your husband..
siofra: Actually I was quadruple dating if you look at it well. Two of the relationships were quite serious. The other two were not that serious.
I was almost caught on two occasions and I was caught on one occasion. This was back when I used to be a hot mess and I didn't even know what I wanted from relationships. To me, it was just fun.
The time I was caught was when my side boyfriend1 took me to a gaming center to play one game like that, there, I met my side boyfriend2. I almost died when I saw him I cunningly introduced them to each other. It was months later when I was breaking up with my side boyfriend2 that he told me he knew. God! I was so embarrassed there I was thinking I was smart.
The second time was when my main boyfriend met me as I was strolling with my side boyfriend1. I told him my side boyfriend1 is just a friend but I think he didn't believe because he questioned me like he was a policeman He asked me to leave my side boyfriend1 and follow him to somewhere. My side boyfriend1 was confused and the two of them were staring at me expectantly, watching to see who I would follow. In the end someone called me and I pretended it was my aunt calling me to go and meet her. Then my main boyfriend offered to escort me to my aunt's house. Omo see questioning na.
The third time was when I was taking loved up pictures with my side boyfriend3. Then my side boyfriend1 passed by. I was so scared because I thought he had seen me. But thankfully he hadn't.
Anyway lockdown made me come to my senses and helped me reflect on my life and I decided to cut them all off except my main boyfriend.
yanabasee: Lol...... You're one of those fools that feels they have super powers .. One of your ilks told me that I will see him in my dreams, till today, the bastard still never appear oh ..I deh wait for am..
And you're here again talking rubbish...telling me that it's not everyone that I challenge on social media... Like say na me quote you first abi na your foolish finger quote me first begin spill trash..and I come give you back and e pain you...you come the quote dates give me...lol
Make thunder fire you and your papa...if you no do wetin you type .make you never sleep wake up again...bastard
I expected you to say that you will appear in my house and strike me.... But you failed...
You think say I deh fear juju? Lol.....
And you didn't take yourself to be intelligent, definitely a foolish person that you are will always take reasonable comments as being unintelligent... Your brain is too small to reason properly...
Young man, your already being reasoned nothing can change my mind period! Next time you will learn how to interact with people I will make sure you don't go Scott free on this bet you. Be warned!! Nobody should interfere. I will make sure I dim your light.
yanabasee: If you're intelligent... You wouldn't type this nonsense....
But since you're not... I expected nothing sensible from you....
You might think that everyone is as ignorant as you and your entire siblings...
Fact I said a story is fake doesn't mean that I will fall a victim to anything related to this...
She narrated how the food she consumed made her eyes to turn and how she was just shouting for help... and yet she realized and saw one of the girls turn into a snake....
Those that sound intelligent to you?
If you go about consuming any nonsense thrown at you without flushing out sensible things to hold in your brain... Then, your brain is filled with nonsense.... Hence, the reason you spill the trash you just did ..
Didn't take myself as intelligent but from the looks of things, I think your being honestly stupid Until you find yourself in such situation..I give between today 3rd of and 7th of April you will understand what I'm talking about Next time you will learn to shut your firthy trap..Don't worry you won't die just a eye opener! But mark it, I'm not bluffing Is not everyone or anyone you challenge on Social media.
Funny is ignorant people like you, fall victim to these kind of events A word is enough for the wise.. Even if is just a made up story such events have happened even worse, The foolish thing about most Nigerian youths is don't stand to be corrected or take advise so is left for them to experience it first hand for the eye opener!
300whitewolves: Now that Nigeria have refused to qualify for the 2022 world cup, Nigerians have started pitting their camp to other countries already. For example i will support Portugal in this world cup. You can share yours too.
Crime › Re: Divorce-Seeking Wife Beats Husband To Pulp In Lagos (photo) by Charx122: 9:18am On Jun 02, 2022
you have already known what to do, or what do you expect people to advice you? Oshi
No other person than her father.
there I was thinking I was smart.
