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LOVE is a beautiful thing. The first date with a Nigerian girl has some lessons to learn. Have you been on a date with a Nigerian girl before, or are you planning to?

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Look out for these signs whilst on a date with a Nigerian girl:

1. The initial talk.
Before you book a date, be precise with the girl. Let her know your budget. You may not tell her directly but spell it out. You can say things as “I’ll budget N10k for the day.” Most greedy Nigerian girls see dates as a point to eat lunch and dinner.


2. Know if she is coming alone.
This is a very important stage. Never neglect this part. You may be expecting one person and she'll come with four friends of hers to devour your two months' salary.

3. Pick your place.
Let you alone pick your place. Even in her lists of places, pick the one you can afford.


4. Avoid forcing her to eat when she pretends she doesn't want to.
Bro, avoid this to avoid premium Tears. If she says she's not hungry, leave her be.

5. Avoid the urge to ask her out officially.
The truth about this is that most Nigerian girls wear their best attitude on the first date. Give her that benefit of the doubt.

6. If you hear “you are the third guy I am going out with,” bro, take cover. I repeat, take cover.
Don't be ensnared. It may be for ruins.

7. If she wouldn't do more of the talking, please walk away.
I can't subscribe to being talkative at dates while my lady adjacent is adding finishing interjections. I rather not talk at all!

8. If she wears miniskirts, anklets, or fixes loud lashes, it is the door for you.
How can sb with no feminine courtesy be for you? Unless, of course, you are not for the reality..but pawns.

9. Be wise.
Don't speak with your pockets. Don't be pressurized into spending what you cannot avoid. Be man enough to scream it's enough. Premium Tears is not bae.

10. Be the man.
In all, be the man in the conversation. Maintain direct eye contact; win the eye battle. Don't look elsewhere whilst talking. Don't send the wrong message you are shy, ashamed, or have low esteem. Be the man.

Source: https://nopremiumtears.com.ng/2021/06/ten-kinds-of-girls-to-avoid-on-first.html?m=1#more

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I went for the date.

I don't fight for anything.


It's not about women.


It's about not getting injured.

Wizzzzmike:
So all those countries you only saw Ghana. Why the hate

Hate?

I love Ghana.

I am not happy they didn't make the first ten.

It's called fashion to them.


Some mothers advise their daughters to dress “sexy” and stop dressing like “mama” so potential husbands can see them. Meanwhile, many young girls choose to be a daylight stripper.

I once confronted one who visited me in school and she said she enjoys letting the world see how sexy her body is.

Isn't that a paused brain?


Hence, these daughters of Eve go out in revealing/half-baked attire. They can barely sit with their skirts because it may be rolled up back their thighs. Their blouses are now short revealing ugly protruding bellies.

Nowadays, the days of bras are dying slowly as young girls feel it's the new normal going braless and exposing their nipples to the world to behold.


It is now normal for girls to wear their tights and walk around, even travel. They feel very free, and don't mind the ugly sight of their underwear showing.

No feminine pride anymore!

Feminine courtesy is dead.



Two out of three girls are qualified prostitutes now, and the minority, up and coming.

Who are we to blame?


Who wears that crown?


We blame the society. We blame civilization. We blame our parents. We blame the men who call them sexy instead of spitting at their faces in disgust.

I'll walk back any girl who dresses stupid to me for anything.

I will not tolerate my wife wearing rubbish.

I will not give my daughters a chance to become oloshopreneurs.


I am the brother, father, uncle, and person who still have some value left for the female gender.



Chatinent, 2021.

I reserve my comment.

introvertloe:
i cant even write much just finished weeping,am feeling lonely no one even cares i cant even write much just finished weeping,am feeling lonely no one even cares

Hi,

We could talk. Please contact me on WhatsApp.

There is.

It's in Aso Rock.

frozen70:
Is alright

A girs invitation for a date is to take you out for a lunch or dinner and probably pay the bills

Have time to interact with you and get to know you more

She could be working and can afford for herself

It's a more advanced way of approaching a man

As it is now, if you ever have interest in her, then you can accept the invitation and take up the relationship from there

But If you are not really interested in her, ignore the invitation or accept it and pay the bills, then simply let her know that you want her to be a friend and no sex attached

At this point she will know if she can handle such relationship

Okay, thanks.

Definitely, they'll be no sex thingy attached. I appreciate your time.

Vinnie2000:
This Guy..
You always like to Polish and Advertise yourself ehn??
Hope you re not using Styles to Find Babes in this site??
Is it dat you re too handsome like Van Vicker or Ramsey Nouah or Trey Songz??
Girls always dey Rush you..
Later, you will say Man's government has Failed!!
Dat God kingdom should come!!

In God's kingdom, Woman nor go dey oo!!
Cos it's obvious dat You like woman too much!!..
N you want to go to God's kingdom!!

Which part dey vex you?

Nobody ugly brov.

And yes, man's government has failed.

doggedfighter:
Are you a Jehovah witness?

Yes, I am.

NewDawn2O21:
can you assist someone and guide him through a final year project process in the field of library and information science?

Send a message.

Human government has failed.

Hit me up write your assignments, thesis, and dissertations.

This could be N3k working.

Let the heat cool down...



Then you talk to him.

Man's government has failed woefully.

Mehn .

frozen70:
Meaning that you are not man enough to honour such invitation

Go with her and enjoy your meal or entertainment

After that you pick up a relationship from there

No bi everybody dey sleep with everything o

frozen70:
Meaning that you are not man enough to honour such invitation

Go with her and enjoy your meal or entertainment

After that you pick up a relationship from there

I am man enough. I only need a glimpse what a girl date thingy looks like.

Ok o

Ghana na 72. Ok o

engrrichie92:
Hmmmm

If this were coming from one person, I would easily sweep it under the carpet
Different unrelated people saying similar thing maybe also be too risky for a right thinking person to ignore as well

PS: Nobody asked for money in all of these...except those I freely gave token to as a gift


Just really sad right now...

Freely bless me too o.

You didn't earlier post about her nonchalance, bro. BE honest. You posted about her refusing to borrow you money.


BTW, I blame both of you who don't think it's right to get married first before living in the same house and copulating.



Well, I suggest you diverse your income.

SmellySperm:
All na format. We all know how it will end

But in whatever you do,pls don't engage in a pre-marital sex

We aren't gonna do that.

I mean I made sure we tried out different prophets/pastors just to be double sure..
And they had thesame negative prophecies to say about her...how she's not good for my destiny and may result to my downfall, some would even say untimely death, etc
Not one positive vibe ...not a single one

Stop visiting prophets or pastors! They don't care about your happiness. They only care about you appeasing... And appeasing means cool money for them.

Right-thinking humans know that lady is good for you.

And who is that hanty in red sleeping?

The future is pastorprenuership.

Limitless72:
May do what?....Otolo !

May I? May I if I may?

BigJoe19:
Tell her you will think about it.

Man, I was dumbfounded.

That girl really bought premium courage. She didn't mind all my charisma.

TJaguar:
Man up and be up to the task. The girl already likes You, go for the date

Yeah, bro.

Problem is I don't know what a girl's date looks like..

As in, she'll be seated waiting for me?


And I'll come and she'll pull the chair for me to sit?

OlayemiAshraf:
Take a thick rope , go to the nearest tall tree , then hang yourself .... Oponu

Okay.

So, I tried doing this several times but the tissue paper keeps cutting.

I need practical to-dos.


Lalasticlala, Dominique ooo

Hello,

Quick one: so a lady, bold, tall, elegant, beautiful, well-dressed and cultured.. walked up to me and booked a date tomorrow during eventide. She's sb who I had often hi-ed while passing by.

This was no borrowed courage. She was in for it.


I didn't give any responses.. as I watched her walked out.


So, fam, what do I do?