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Bro, invest. Build some rooms and rent them out (in your villa where you wouldn't buy land). You can also start up selling rice business; big money. I'd advise you dearly, don't ever invest in any online whatever. Lastly, don't subscribe to buying any FG jobs.

I don't like this girl.

I think it's not her cooking that's causing this, it's your socio-cultural mentality. The food is purging only you (not even her husband), didn't you notice? Just be positive and grateful. And even if the purge continues, the toilet is an open unresentful friend. Besides, you aren't staying there forever.

AristocraticMe:
Good morning, I actually know how the world became like this. But I want to hear from you and learn more. We learn every day.

It's good you already know. Could you share it?

PeaceNexus:
I will advice any young man NEVER to allow useless love make you marry a Jehovah witness lady....you will regret it every inch of the way. Except of course you are willing to become witness.

How far are the marriages of non-witnesses that you only underscored 'witness lady'? Believe it or not, we have the happiest marriages and many reasons we marry those who share our beliefs.

daveP:
JWs insult Christianity of over 2000 years by thinking others are mere copies and theirs the original. Even their Bible shows that fact. Ask a JW what is the 3 things that makes us co believers and they begin stuttering cos they know where you're going and they dont want to agree as it will "contradict their teachings, belief"


I have Jw friends over 2decades and i discovered they always do something once you challenging them to a fact finding journey.. They begin to avoid discussing with you bout Biblical matters. Some even begin to grow cold towards you, even if you were respectful, friendly and courteous in discussing with them.


Smh.


So those that have Jesus as Lord and Savior are now unbelievers cos they arent Jws? Laughable!!!

You don't have to lie. We are always open to civil discussions not argument.

I was a Catholic. Let's take this by bits. Think about this: why did Adam and Eve (the original sinners) not go to hell fire? Clearly, they just returned to dust (a state of non-existence) as God foretold they would. (Eccl. 9:5, 10). When we die, we quit to exist (Psalm 146:4). Even Jesus knew this hence his wept Lazarus his friend died. (John 11:11, 13, 14). We inherited sin from our first parents and sin begot death.
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Sth to think about, when Lazarus, Jesus' friend died, if he went to heaven (where people deem as eternal bliss), doesn't it mean that Jesus' resurrecting him would be unfair for him to come and suffer on Earth again? Did you also notice Jesus said 'Lazarus had died' and not he transformed to another place? He even likened death to sleep!

UDUJ:
You are right I was born into a Catholic family. How did you decode that ? That was pretty smart of you

So if I may ask, since you don't believe in hell fire, what happens to us after we die?

TheManOfTheYear:
They are not Christians oga.

The basis of being a Christian is believing in Jesus as the son of God and Messiah.

Sorry to disappoint you, we believe Jesus is the son of God and foretold Messiah. We don't believe Jesus is equal to God or is God. Sorry.

UDUJ:
They are Christians but their doctrines are kind of different from those of catholics, pentecostal and other orthodox churches.

I still remember how they tried convincing me that there is no life after death and that there is nothing like heaven or hell. That after death we go back to the ground as dust that we came from and await the end time for the resurrection. It just did not make any sense to me

But I used to love reading their colourful pamphlets when I was a kid sha

It's clear you are a catholic. No one told you there is no heaven nor hell. You were only told we don't believe in hell fire.

womenareapes:
Jehovah witness is a church base on foundation of lies.

I won't advise my enemy to attend that church

Okay. What's the name of your church?

Hausa minds?
Now this is tribalistic and personal.

She even cried cos she didn't wanna leave me at school when the lockdown started but she had to go home..

Excuse me, was she living with you in school? If yes, this is when you lost it. It's wrong to cohabit.
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Pls i need your advise on this..don't ignore.. [b]REMEMBER I TOOK HER VIRGINITY [/b]but she insisted her mom would never accept a Yoruba boy

I must say, you have no respect for God, humanity and womanhood specifically; just see how you make a sin seem it's a trophy.

Of course, Christians who want to marry are commanded to choose only a fellow believer. ( 1 Corinthians 7:​39) Jehovah’s Witnesses view this command as referring not merely to a person who respects our beliefs but to one who shares and practices those beliefs as a baptized Witness. ( 2 Corinthians 6:​14) God has always directed his worshippers to marry only those of the same faith. ( Genesis 24:3; Malachi 2:​11) This command is also practical, as modern researchers have found.
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I know some will reprove me saying 'we are all Christians.'
Think: If you marry, will you appreciate if she didn't come to your church? Will it end in happiness? Would you share her beliefs? Even greatly, it will be disobedience to our God. We appreciate marrying people who share our beliefs; it brings happiness and we can avoid marry problems as pre-marital sex, unwanted pregnancies, and STDs.
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Next time when you say 'we are all Christians,' do well to be open-minded to ask yourself if your beliefs are the same with ours.
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Gracias.
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Comments are welcome. I'll respond to civil ones.

As I don't celebrate birthdays, I have nth to say.

ArcSEMPECJ:
Your own yahoo......huspupi will have to apply as an apprentice oo

Lol.

AristocraticMe:
The world has always being like that... think about Slavery, World War 1 and 2 , Persian war, israelite in slavery in the bible, the killing Jews in USSR and Germany some of this events took place centuries ago..... we all just need to draw closer to God.

Have you ever asked how the world became like this? Are you open-minded for a discourse? Good morning.

pedel:
God's kingdom has nothing to do with a physical evidence of a failed state. Those guys could have been lawyers, bank staff or electricians in a functioning country.
Go to other countries that are considered failed states, you will see young people carrying AK47 and committing crimes.
For more than 10 years I haven't locked my backyard door because nobody is coming to rob the house for anything. That is not possible in Nigeria.
Remember, Jesus said the kingdom of God is within you.
Instead of being religious about what's happening in your country ask yourself if this is an isolated incident or it's a worldwide problem.
You need good governance, not some kingdom to come.

I need God's kingdom, little wonder same Jesus also urged his disciples to pray for it. It will restore God's original purpose to mankind. Even the UN has the slogan of what God's Kingdom will do inscribed at their HQ. (Mat 6:9, 10., Isaiah 2:4. Rev. 21 1-4.)

LAguy:
You mean Oracle talk all this
E be like ur own ifa they reside for banana island.

It's not for me but the gods. Wetin will I use it for personally? Even the money, is it for me? It's for the gods.

Teeklef:
Baba!!! The guy no do ritual now.

Oga mi, all join.

emmnprince:
God's kingdom came 2000 years ago and has been existing to date. We're not expecting another kingdom except the advent of Christ.

Any [scriptural] backup?

Dimma22, hello good morning. I received your email request via Nairaland.com but the email is inactive. Please mail me instead with Juderichlord@gmail.com

Miniso:
if u were struggling with finance, would she have been with u, you are financially stable u can get any gurl you want, settling for 8 years older Bro think again and again.

Thanks for the input.

At the detriment of the youth.

Katier00:
believe it or not, in this situation age will play a big role in your marriage and that is why you are already worried

You could be very right. Could you simplify please?

Vyzz:
I don't know what to say just try ya luck....


If e no work.... Divorce

I don't believe in luck.

Enskynelson:
Make your choice. Are you OK with it and is she fine with it? Remember ladies grow old faster than guys. In the next 10years, hope you won't go out with her and your kids and they will think she is the mother of all of u including yourself? Think it!

That's another thing too.

Nowhere is really safe.

Don't give her your phone again. Talk it out with her basically on the 'nude' part and not on the part if she was into you or not. Teach her it's more beneficial to become a woman of substance like Ruth, Nnaomi, and Martha who were exemplary. Teach her the dangers of her nudes being exposed and its futuristic damage. And you, stop developing insane feelings for what you've just seen: be first you.

Katier00:
it still boils down to your take. As a woman I can't marry a man 8 years younger than myself

Put yourself in your thirties and meeting sb who you felt is the same age bracket with you only to find out later you assumed wrongly when emotions were setting in; when the person was so what you need in all ramifications. Would you let the age deter you?

I'm this kind of guy who began toiling at a very tender age so I kinda started being independent when I was 15. So, I'll say I started becoming successful early. I'm in my twenties and she's in her thirties. The lady in question is working, and very beautiful outwardly and inwardly and doesn't look like she's eight years older. She so fits my spec religiously and otherwise. When I found out she's older (not even a year but eight freaking years), I just don't know what to think. I don't know if I should say it's an issue or not. She seemingly doesn't have a problem with it. I'm also very financially comfortable (I wouldn't want to go into details) and was to opt-in for marriage in the very near future. She's so open-minded and truthful and just like Eve for Adam, it was like Jah made her for me. I don't trivialize dating so it's clear it would have been for marriage if we dated. If you were me, what sincerely will you do?

The problem of not having another job while training.

What PDP knows, APC knows. They are one.

Am I the only one who hates to read any news from anyone who has held a public office before?

Yawns, as if it's not Buhari's English name.