₦airaland Forum

Trimjos:
Shut up and quit talking trash. Hold your govt responsible for the high inflation. If they cant perform as per reasons for electing them, they should fvck get out. Stop blaming citizens

i am aware there are always myopic thinkers around not surprise,
I said human factor & greed, why do you feel govt is excluded or are the people in govt not humans, a local fool like are incapable comprehension
All these years we have being pointing finger at the govt and putting all the blame on the govt what as changed, if govt is the only culprit are the masses saint

History555:
Really. So palm oil, Garri, fufu, ugwu, bitter leaf, rice, plantain, banana, chicken, turkey, water leaf etc comes from the north

Good, most of the food items you listed are from the South but they aint as expensive as food items from the north ..

Asides imported, food items from the north are rice, beans, yam, potatoe, water melon, carrot & salad ingredient, goat/ram/cow , pepper, onions and groundnut oil these items are quiet more expensive

There was a time trailers from the north carrying food items were stopped from coming to the west, we felt it

The food basket of the Nation is from where

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crossfm:
Hehehe.

And the blind permutations continue .

Inflation will fall only in his imagination and paper. Oga just da whine Nigerians,he should go out of his finished office and see the plight of Nigerians.

These guys are really out of touch with reality.

The major forces behind Inflation in Nigeria is human & greed factor, nigerians are inconsiderate, we all chose to exploit one another so cost will continue to rise

fyzaila:
I don't know why things over there in the south, east, west are quite expensive compared to the north. In the north, that plate of food is 500 with 🍖 or 🐟. Imagine it is even garri o, not semo or poundi

Majority of the food we eat in the South comes from the North, during transportation a lot of ambiguous cost is incurred, and when it finally get to west traders put all there problem on those goods

For north most family own a farm, they are bound to be considerate

KIDfurniture:
Boy use snipper plz I’m sure when you’re gone ur family will experience peace . Frustrated soul. Just read and pass - must you show us that u are about to die of starvation. Konidafun awon to ni e

smh! failed parenting, i won't get into a mud fight with a KID abi ki lon je, tii won ba bii iya e ré tell her to step out ... one round lo je mii

KIDfurniture:
Our politicians know how to brainwash and divert the minds of the poor masses. Imagine setting up this shit instead of setting up companies / factories / give loans to small biz / build mobile toilets / ..

what is brainwash in viewing centre, are they asking for anything in return, did Sanwo olu beg for commendation, the problem with some of you is that you think "criticizing & wailing" is the only side to life.

Imagine your parent criticizing everything you do, they never see anything good in whatever you do .. what good wil come out of such r/ship

Omobude244:
Another avenue to loot the state dry 🤣🤣
APC nor rate Nigerians at all and people will still support this😁😁
We are gone

Every local govt in lagos has a recreation center, with facilities in place, even if they loot that does not undermine the benefit of socialization and FUN people had.

The recreational centre is accessible to everybody regardless of your party affiliation or tribe. if you are gone, R.i.p

GO0dharddick:
Honestly, I am surprised seeing how they are all rejoicing over this rubbish.

Westerners are the problem of this country

You like creating fuss where there is none, with the state of electricity supply in most areas and many homes can't even afford to buy fuel to get the piece of entertainment, such Centres is a good provision by the government
Nigeria can't wail/lament from jan - dec, we deserve some fun to cool our heads/mind, and if you are not happy about it pls go hug a transformer

Lastly "rejoicing" and "commending" are not same, no be everytime we go just wail & criticize, tew much of everything is bad

royalfly:
You have said your bit, all with imagination, trying hard to sound like you know what you are saying. What special circumstances does a woman need to say such trash. Be clear boy that no responsibility woman would say that no matter how angry she may be.... firstly you don't trow ur children under the bus because you angry, why drag them into the quarrel. Babayboy resemblance does not prove paternity. Alot of people look like u right?. Be informed that she said so not because of anything but for the singular reason that she feels nothing can happen.. if u are a Christian u would know that fathers have coursed thier children for things they did wrong, did we hear they went to hell fire because of that. If you repeatedly tell a man the kids are not his and state names of mutual friends you sleeping with then come home with soldiers to pack out.. the woman needs psychiatric evaluation. Weeks after she leaves, she ask fir money for school supply. Used the money together with hers and changed the kids school. She us simply acting what she said and wants to be responsible for the child. Life is not imagination. The guy is not saying he does not want to take care of the kids but the woman has to prove what she said, talking about real responsible men, they don't push matters under the carpet. I doubt u married. I pray u never told such words. She acted what she said so let her clear the children's name. Guy, well I know ur type.

Imagination indeed ! so for your mind OP is passing through what nobody as pass through, seen or heard before some of you guyz online whu raised una sef, Na Op go 1st go thru divorce or marry bad wife

Do you know how many parent call there children "omo ale ni e" i.e bastard ... growing up i lost count the number of time my mom called me omo ale, does it mean she affirming she is not my mother

Dis the man say he is doubting the paternity of his children, why cry more than the bereaved what do you stand to gain pushing a man to abandon is children all for meaningless rant

Nothing concern me with the husband & wife madness , But the children must not be dragged into it, A responsible man will never abandon his children no matter what, there is No justification except DNA shows they are not his.

think whatever you like, i don't blame you i blame the yeye kind of Men we have now

Saviola86:
Things are so crazy


I am a single guy, I earn between 400 - 500k monthly

But I can't even feed properly because before I remove my mom's weekly upkeep, my rent which I save monthly, my tfair, my nepa bills, data , tips for my fiancee. I am left with barely nothing to save.

I don't club, I don't keep large friends, I don't womanize, I am not fashion freak, I don't even drink yet.

If truly you earn 400k monthly and you don't club, drink or womanize there is no reason you can't have a "saving"

You don't have children, what are you now finishing 400k on per month .. nah something is missing

pocohantas:
As e dey sweet me, e dey pain them. Na your mama you go chase with bottle. Feel free to stab her with it. My own mama dey her husband house and she didn't raise any hoodlum. We don't have to deal with anything like you in my family.

speaking of husband house, that one she raised might chase her with broken bottle if she refuses to sell that property to sponsor "Japa"

desperation clock is ticking e ma ba yii

pocohantas:
I am committed to ensuring you remain in perpetual pains. When you are less busy, please sneak into my diary and remain pained.

Keep wailing my dear.

As a shy type i won't say the feeling is mutual but you definitely know i'm not a fan of if dem slap your left cheek turn the right one ... i go commot cloth, break bottle, chase your mama reach benin ore express road ...

boya ko nii snore-free night

royalfly:
What if she said the kids are not yours repeatedly before she left. The man should still be running after the kids. My brother men or real men always give time it's chance to work. What will be will be. No man will intentionally want to abandon his kids. Circumstances varies. Please answer thus question please. If the woman said with her mouth that the kids are not his, what should he do? Please do not say the man should go and do a DNA, for me let her take care of the kids time will prevail. Ur opinion is highly needed

Any mature Man that have lived with a woman be it 1yrs won"t see a big deal here;

Firstly, women are talkers and emotional being at that, when they are angry there is nothing they can not say, in the heat of arguememt a woman can say "I hate you" whereas she loves you like kilode

Now if a woman says the children are not mine repeatedly, under what situation did she make that ourburst, was there a fight ? is she pained n trying to hurt me back ? Did she just come back from church and made that confession? a Man must think deeply before he acts that is why we are the logical being

If she says the children aint mine, i will start by taking a deep look into those children appearance & traits for any resemblance,
are they my carbon copy ? if i don't feel convinced enough then DNA cannot be ruled out, know your fate once and for all,

However it will be very foolish of a man to just take a woman's word at face value without proper verification, No responsible Man we think the way you are reasoning sef

So becos she says they are not your children, Ope o ! you cease that opportunity to evade your responsibility as a father, go out to chop the life of your head then 20yrs after you come back to claim the children when they succeed abi
I can't teach a grown man how to treat a woman But for children i fit break nd open the man coconut head to implant sense, haba !

ednut1:
where did i berate him I’m happy for him. Enough of men going to broke girls 😆

Do men really have a choice, you think a gurl like toke makinwa or mercy lambo will give an average guy a chance, women want men above them

Even if you land a rich babe, her money remains her money, for how long can a broke guy carry her load before breaking down

ednut1:
Men are now securing the bag. Marrying into rich families / babes with foreign passport 🤣🤣. Nobody wan suffer again o

Just becos you heard Tiwi is related to Ote$, you berate Remi as an opportunist,
You think a modern independent woman will settle for a nobody, before now who knows Tiwi but all thanks to remi cuppy remember she has a cousin.

pocohantas:
You can never have the things I desire. Not even the free ones, let alone what money can buy.✌️

Ofcus there is no relationship between light and darkness, even if bulbs are sold for free a winch won't desire one

pocohantas:
You wish.

You never start to wail. At the right time you would lay on a railway track and end it all.

and what wil i be doing at the rail track sell okirika cloth grade 2 abi grade A bra at yaba track .. even if i end up selling okirika bra i can never have your size lailai , go away

royalfly:
To hell with all of them. U av never been there so don't even try to reason it we can only pray that the man finds it in his heart to provide foe the kids with time. Keep in mind the guy is not intentionally leaving the kids. He is hurt beyond understanding. See ehnn u all will never understand. Cheating by a woman, even bragging about it. Running her mouth that the kids are not his. Even leaves the house with help of soldiers for no reason. Sent money even while she us away for school supply ends up changing the child's school. How are u going to deal with all that. U just need God to survive that

Bro don't need to be there or a divorcee to know how i will feel about my flesh & blood in any situation, "ko se le rii afin dan eru ba oloro nii " no scenerio is new under the sun.

What as the innocent kids got to do with the nonsense divorce, as far as these case is concern i am even disappointed the man thought of abandoning his children .. the mere thought naa fvckup
Whatever issues he has with the wife is
his fvcking problem leave the kids out of it, he chose a wife and he chose their mother .. Real Men take responsibilities.

When dey say shine your eye before marriage you na go dey form Man on mY Own & oversabi, if you feel your ex wife is not raising your kids properly, step in or make solid provisions

pocohantas:
Of course. Who exactly was he supposed to choose? Your wife that throws grammatical bombs and cooks hideous meals? C'mon dude. Life is not a Nigerian film. Ain't no rich prince marrying an ata rodo seller. No disrespect intended.

Maybe he is not children considerate, well that is his cup of tea ! if not for anything @least pick for the sake of the children fine you no gree fine, gbogbo toothpaste lo tii try you still get bad mouth spiced with odor

well all man for himself

pocohantas:
Lol. I know how attraction works. Sadly this is the closest you can come to me by that law. In reality you are with your kind. I hope you wouldn't be needing the rope soon. The delusion to think I attend Shiloh or have any need to.

Lier !! you know laws of attraction yet you are happy sukki papito chose you

You better buy laws of attraction from an accredited bookshop and throw that one you bought inside amukoko traffic away ..

Rantingpiglets:
Even with the IGBO moniker...your GBEGIRI Foolishness is epic.

Didn't Tinubu congratulate RENO? Even after RENO said that all TINUBUs Pampers and Teeth beed HYPO bleach cleaning?

Cry blood

Reno works for Tinubu subtlely, you don't know are you that daft.

pocohantas:
Nobody is forcing you guys to marry. I wonder why you are crying enough to type this senseless epistle. When you divorce your wife and leave those kids for her to take care of alone, come let's have this conversation. I bet she wouldn't even miss you. What kind of husband and father fools around online for years? Women dey marry sha, but normally you be her level.

Front sit reservations at shiloh annually and kayamantra is that not "Force" enough abi you wan add rope nii

kian! have "this conversation" as my what ?? mentor, therapist or guardian Beelzebub, wall gecko thinking of itself as a lizard
i think its time you read laws of attraction, stop pushing your luck

pocohantas:
Your ex-wife is taking care of the kids while you are busy trying to disvirgin your new girlfriend, yet you are still pained?

Why are the kids with her 247?
Did she stop you from coparenting?

If women can cook, submit and stay with cheating husbands for the sake of their kids. I don't see why this lesser scenario is hard for men to do. For a gender that doesn't benefit from marriage, this is an ideal arrangement if you ask me.

Focus on the kids.

you must be related to that designer off-point, see reasoning ,what as new girlfriend and disvirgin got to do with the subject matter ... sex yii nonii

In cases of divorce won't the court grant one party child custody and who has a better leverage than "Mothers" .. maa ronu naw
Have we not seeing wifes making coparenting difficult, there are more tonto out there dey play

The biggest lie of All time, "i stayed becos of my kids ? yiimu !! the motivation behind the quote is financial dependant".
Divorce stats shows Financially independent wives crave divorce more than sex from their husband
There is nothing davido is enjoying inside marriage that a wizkid can't enjoy outside marriage better not push your luck at all

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders, top of the day to you all.

This topic is basically for the divorce men out there that are out of their marriage and living separately from their Ex wife and kids.

How do you cope with this when the custody of the kids are with your ex wife and knowing she was the one that betrayed you in the marriage by cheating on you, will you be comfortable still sending her money for your kids upkeep and also paying their school despite the fact they don't live under your roof.

How do you men deal with this cos attimes, it can be so discouraging knowing fully well what led to the union breakup. Presently am separated from my ex wife on the count of infidelity, my two kids have been with her ever since and attimes anytime I think about the hurt and betrayal, I will want to end any sort of provision for the kids but because am a very responsible man that wants the best for my kids, it's difficult to just look away.

Attimes my thoughts could be like in as much the kids are staying with her, I am on the loosing side and my effort providing for the kids outside my jurisdiction might look like a wasted efforts being that the kids are with her 247 and she can easily still the glory by making the kids believe she is the one doing the provision.

Pls divorce and separated men, how do you go through this turmoil and ways to navigate through to be sure you are on the right track.

Oga i find your concerns & questions very funny, Besides i don't need to be a divorcee to know how i will feel about by children or cope post divorce, as far as they are my blood nothing changes

These is not even a case of "Easy to Say" as you would like to save face, here is what i know

That your children don't live under your roof does not make them less your blood and that still does not stop you from being present in Life, if you really care about them, you can schedule parental shift or visitation

Regardless of whatever your wife did to hurt you that does not negate the fact that your kids are innocent and should be treated as an "Entity" ..
Your Kids bear your name and as such whatever better life provision you make available to them gives credence to your name/Status, whatever Big those kids become to tomorrow they will be address by your last name thats a Father's pride and consolation

Divorce or No divorce so many Men/Fathers make mistake not letting the children see the sacrifices we make, we do everything through there mothers, .... If you are so worried your Ex wife might take your Glory, why not come all out pay the bills yourself, visit the children school to pay there school fees, take the children shopping for clothes and buy them groceries Let these kids see, Since it bugs you

While you are playing Father of the year don't forget yourself, find companionship to balance your mental health. my 2cent

Rantingpiglets:
See the Obsession with PO?

Even if he is a blogging entertainer, does it stop the fact that a congratulatory message was sent to him on his birthday?

Now...why will the NATION Newspaper be ranting unnecessarily?

Why can't TINUBU celebrate Tunde EDNUT?

This is just Propaganda gone Bad.

I LOVE as PO..didn't recognize RENO...and I LOVE as TINUBU exposed RENO as a 50yr old Child

E Choke

Every soon na every celeb Owambe party and name ceremony we go dey see Peter Obi baba just dey cloutchase

Peter Gringo wants to remain in spotlight till 2027 by Congratulatory message to every dick and harry ....

DeepSight:
Was going to respond properly but the last line with "bastards" instructed me on what is worth it and what is not.

Have a good day.

It was suppose to be a secret ballot as you don loud am i respect your choice

Prinztong:
The federal Government of Nigeria will never allow any other sea port operate at 100% capacity in Nigeria apart from the ones in Lagos State. Akwa Ibom State have been trying for many years now to have a deep sea port that can have easy links to Sao Tome and Principe but this has not seen the light of the day just bcuz it's in the South South zone of Nigeria. It is well

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These are lame Arguement that holds no water, Can any you tell us how FG is an hinderance to other state running a sea port

Is it by Policies ? Laws ?? or Voo doo ... cos una rant is becoming more n more meaningless

Go n research how lagos govt built lekki seaport and pls outline FG donations & support through the process

BadBradley:
International Seaports like international airports are not within the purview of state governors.

You should know this

So the Lekki seaport built by Lagos state government is for Local errands abi, the biggest ship that just berth at the lekki seaport is not international

They will keep undermining every progress Lagos make with "Former Capital" But it quick to defend their clueless state governors incompetence blaming FG

Refinery that Nigeria/FG made look like Mission impossible, that wasnt within "Purview of FG" was built by an individual with the support of Lagos state government, what 36states can't put head together to do yet you are here blowing grammar

DeepSight:
I am no absolutist but I fear you may be one. I sincerely hope you are not one of those[b] who insinuate that Bola Tinubu found Lagos as a virgin and unknown forest in 1999 and made it what it is today. [/b]

You vastly underestimate the importance of the fact of Lagos having been the capital of this country from 1914 till 1991.
Indeed, for you, there is a special breed of people who live in Lagos, who are probably not Nigerians, and whose special vision and intellect is solely responsible for all that Lasgidi is.

Its diverse pan-Nigerian population of over twenty million people has nothing to do with it. Its situation as Nigeria's capital for almost a century has nothing to do with it. The resources and economic energies of two hundred million plus people who deal around it as their economic nerve centre has nothing to do with it. The petro dollars that were responsible for much of its development have nothing to do with it - in fact, whatever it receives as Fed allocation up till date from oil revenue contributes diddly squat. Its location on the coast and consequent designation from the time of the Portuguese as gateway to the lands that became Nigeria has nothing to do with it. Its international stature as the melting pot of the largest black nation on Earth has nothing to do with it.

No - all these have nothing whatsoever to do with it - it is all down to the great vision and leadership of one man - Bola Tinubu, before whom, Lagos was a small and unknown coastal village.

PS: Whoever you are, you cannot possibly be more Lagosian than I am - nor can you love Lasgidi more than I do.

How you could read my last sentence and still think everything is about "Tinubu" shows your level of reasoning
Does "Tinubu " sums up past leaders, before Tinubu we had amazing leaders in Lagos and post Tinubu we have wonderful governors ...

Your problem is Tinubu and you singled out Tinubu becos you know his blueprints is the bedrock of lagos current transformation you are just tew petty to admit it

Lagos is not the only state on the coastal line and nothing is stopping PH or calabar from recieving ship consignments if they want

Having a functioning sea port still boils down to effective Management in place, others state have seaport but only lagos is working shows "Human/govt Effort" is sancrosanct to economic expansion & growth

When other states are busy doling out excuses & using FG to cover for their inadequacies & cluelessness to run a seaport, Tinubu conceived Lagos seaport without FG and you think Honor should not be given to whom it due,

Its convenient to blame Tinubu for all the problems of Nigeria presently but you can not give BAT credit for a vision well implemented in lagos, what does that make you

Listen, bro, that your Parent is from Lagos or you are from Lagos only means you are a Lagosian by place of birth, there are patriot and there are bastards

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

with you *complicated* is on a whole new level

DeepSight:
Look much of what you say here is in fair order, however I hope you do not fall into the category of those who imagine Lagos "is what it is" exclusively because of its "inspired leadership" - to the exclusion of its role as the economic nerve centre of Nigeria.

There is something called "Enabling Environment" and it as become more of an habit for your likes not to take into cognisance

Lagos didnt just become the economic Hub of Nigeria "naturally", meaning some people made deliberate effort to make Lagos the economic hub, however between the people & the govt whose prerogative is to creat an "Enabling Environment" if not the govt

Its convenient for some people to undermine the effort of the govt with Lagos is former capital But why is Abuja not setting the Pace by now ?? institutions are bringing back there HQ to lagos, so why ?? maybe there is more to capital.

Lekki seaport, eko atlantics, dangote refinery and forthcoming airport will be major contributor to economic boom ... becos someone had a vision of "lekki free trade zone"
synergy, common goal and continuity in governance is Lagos leverage not "Former Capital" .. we must give credit to all past & present leader of lagos