₦airaland Forum

BloomingDale:
Good luck to those whom decide to stay. Only a cheating wife or one with low self esteem/financial dependence will stay.

i think it all boils down to wisdom which is not women forte, the bible was very deliberate about a wise woman builds her home

where are all those over smart single ladies online that expected Annie to leave Tu- face today is their life better or more merrier than Annie, gudluck with your perfect man

BloomingDale:
Imagine getting a disease all in the name of marriage. You are not serious.

We have a true story before us, the lady in question didnt claim she was infected at any time, leave imagination

People get disease/Infections outside marriage doesnt make it less hurtful & bad ...

Hot soup requires patience, a wise woman builds her home

BloomingDale:
Fake story by a man to acclimatize women in staying with their cheating husbands. I wonder what woman with healthy self esteem will tolerate all that nonsense. She should go for an STD test and thank her lucky stars if she is clean. Never stay with with a cheat. It is unhealthy. That is no relationship.

Should every woman take your advise, how many women would remained married go n sleep over it
Despite he was cheating there was peace in the marriage until she discovered and use pepper body destroy her home
I guess OP took advice from single friends like you, don't know when married women will have sense, naa that there single friend wey no get boyfriend from morning reach night dem go dey follow for advice, it never ends well.

Englishisamust:
. This thing eeenh why do those set of people love it so much. In the morning I will see most of them drinking it. What it is benefit to the body??

Firstly men love alcohol and in a country like Nigeria you can't use a clean eye to face all the challenges of the day, boost needed

Those class of people you mentioned settle for satchet brand becos its what they can afford and easy to pocket & drink
Rich men have top brands of alcohol at home and in office they take shots ..

Most of those brands have a bottle package which is more expensive for an average earner in Nigeria

EreluRoz:
Asiwaju girl making us proud
Congrats.

What are the men actually doing sef? Though they are trying to bounce back in this Afcon wareva but women mostly put Nigeria on the map

Is Nigeria not on the Map by default f Nigeria won"t stick on the map maybe we should use super glue once & for all

Offpointng:
If it's the case of lending, She will lend me cuz she knows I'll pay back. lending wouldn't be a problem for her. just disappointed as to how she never thought for once to support me with anything.

Stop feeling disappointed, it is mostly likely Your situation wasnt convincing enough ...

what if you don't appear like someone who needs "support", maybe if you complain about gifts you might generate a "Fuss"

descartes400:
You erroneously and conclusively posited that women are not wired to render financial support to their partners...in other words women cannot offer financial support to their men if and when the said partner is in need,since they (women)are not capable of such an act, because they are not wired to

But of course you would rather throw tantrums.

Posit ke! was it also me that me authored "Her money is her money but a Man money is our Money" .. even women don't argue these things

I clearly stated "Exceptions to Few" .. the biggest money i ever got from a friend came from a woman. i didnt even ask her she heard something nd called me

When i say women aint wired to give financial support to their boyfriend, i meant it is something they rarely do, that you rarely do something doesnt mean you can't do it or don't do it.
Simple reality

Different strokes for different folks, for people like me we are just reticent in nature, we want to do things without public concentration or attracting eyes,

Even when i visit my parent, i come in late at night, naa the next morning neighbour go dey ask when you arrive naw .. i like it that way

i just don't like people knowing my moves even dressing i don't like when all eye is on me, i just wana come in & go unnoticed

descartes400:
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The emboldened is like saying women are not wired to fart when they eat beans or women are not wired to to commit murder

Oga your analogy no add up, what as murder got to do with "giving"
For these NL, people wey head dey pain plenty gan

EreluRoz:
So she didn't help you kos you got drinks for fridge hmm let me just keep shut.

Well for me I can appreciate a genuine little kind gesture for as long as I can. I just think it's the right thing to do

I don't see it as she doesnt want to help, according to her she wasnt just convinced, i don't blame her...

If you say you are Broke, people expect to see some changes, atleast your lifestyle should drop at that moment, but when they don't see that many will just hold back,

If you ask her for help directly and she still failed to help then it clear she is not the supportive type

alsudan:
Oya Idiots gather here and discourse Obi sons sexuality.

3k megawatts for a country of close to 300 million people doesn't matter, but Obis son does.

APC is demonic, they destroyed even the small light that Nigerians were managing.

See pot calling kettle black, you saw idiots calling Obi's son gay but you didn't see Fools that were reiterating Tinubu daughter is a lesbian

Not only do we deserve the kind of leaders we get, we deserve one another

Arobaga:
Una think say na propaganda them deh take run government



You think what will make Nigeria better is by tagging Nairaland APC mods to ban or delete a comment that’s stating how bad Tinubu has ruined the country



After mods finish banning and deleting comment when yo log out online you’ll go back to your suffering offline



You people should keep praising this empty headed Tinubu wey no sabi his left from right

We agree Tinubu is not performing, But what as that got to do with power grid that as being falling since time immemorial

Is there any govt or administration Nigerians didnt witness power grid fall or darkness ..

Regardless of how worst thing are at the moment, Tinubu still has time to turn things around, we pray he does but no one should write him off already

EreluRoz:
Even though it's not enough to call it off, I think she's selfish and inconsiderate especially towards someone who has been there for her.

She needn't be told to do the needful if she isn't selfish

I do not support you asking her for assistance because she's just being unreasonable but you should call her attention to it after everything then test her again after sometimes so as to really know whom you are settling down with.
You may use another dimension next time.
Hope she chose you first(the only redpill language I agreed to) and not you forcing yourself on her.

You can't just assume she is inconsiderate, there was a time i told my babe i was broke, infact i was broke for real, buh base on one or two gigs i was till able to maintain some lifestyle ...
when i called her nd challenge her why she couldnt offer help, i got to know she was watching me and she deduce these one wey still dey get drink for fridge, On gen down no need help

Women are not wired to give boyfriends money, exceptions to few

Offpointng:
But if I was the one, I wouldn't have allowed her ask bfr I give her money monthly for the space of that 3month knowing her predicament so she wouldn't really feel it

Or was I expecting too much??

There are so many things to consider here,

1. Maybe you didnt sound convincing enough

2. There are people that people can't just believe they are broke, you say you are broke, she is watching and properly see your lifestyle no drop or change

3.Since you never asked her for help you can't conclude, they say a close mouth is a close destiny some people are like that you no talk dey assume yu are fine

Bro if she is a good girl just let it slide, just pray God keep blessing you and you play your role

Guyman want raise fund and Japa ... No gree for anybody

Mandem2:
I think what people are saying is that the government policies so far has no benefit to the common people and this is what most of them expected. I don't think anyone is praying for the government to fail. If the government fails then Nigeria fails and I believe nobody in Nigeria wants that to be the case.

Maybe you have spoken for yourself, as wierd as it might sound some people are praying Tinubu administration never succeed Just so they can say "We Warned them" or "We told them"

The best policies requires an receptive & enabling environment, there are to much saboteurs in the system/environment, part of those that creat the pencil are the ones selling eraser

crossfm:
Hehehe.

The master strategist has done it again. The one who built Dubai, south Korea and Lagos has done it.

As I write ,he has gone to France to bring in the magic. Once he is back 1 naira will be equal to 1 dollar .

How people can trust someone who said he will continue in Buhari's footsteps is what baffles me. Like seriously, taking after Buhari,that should have been the number one red flag .

His first move was to start shouting, subsidy is gone, subsidy is gone without any measure to cushion the effect of such action.

As if that wasn't bad enough,he went ahead to float the naira,like seriously,who carry out decisions of this magnitude in quick succession.

Mumu 90% of things politicians say or promise to do before election as always turned out to be a lie, Buhari is an APC member and predecessor to Tinubu, what would you have BAT say,
should Tinubu bad mouth or condemn Buhari adminstration how is that good for the APC image, una no they think at all

Validated:
This is the result of:
- the disastrous change that Tinubu and Buhari brought to Nigeria.
- monumental next level of failure that Osinbajo and Buhari incubated
- and the tribulation of renewed hopelessness from Tinubu
.. allwell, next time gullibility and tribalism will no longer becloud our judgment. When a man said #emilokan, we will ask,"lokan to where exactly?"

Let them loud the hunger with hyperinflation, na them go still suffer-am. Soon, many will start eating 0-0-1 per day.

If wailing and nagging is all you have to contribute how does that change anything .. even if you have a tree of money in your backyard with the present economic hardship, do you know how many people around you go dey bomb you "urgent 2k" billings

Since the govt are acting clueless & brainless .. its time we start drumming solutions into there hears till they hear us

Piroty:
Just start to learn trading so u can benefits from dollar increase and ur trading skills

Asides Nigeria infavourable balance of trade, another major problem are people like piroty and big players who now see Dollar are a great store of value against the Naira

Major stakeholders now save there money in dollars for soft profit & longer investment, the more people plug into these mentality the more it fosters the conspiracy against the Naira

Mordecai:


Normally, this deal can be consummated through investment banks. Infact, firms like FMDQ can handle these kind of deals.

But this SPV was incorporated in the Bahamas for one reason, to hide the investors in the SPV.

Why would these investors want to be hidden? Because they are Nigerians.

It is thus clear that this is an attempt by BAT to get many of his thieving colleagues to bring out the dollars hidden in their vaults and in overseas accounts and put it back into the economy.

Frankly, I think it's a great idea. However, the fundamentals in governance still haven't been fixed.
These same thieves are still stealing unabashedly, and can still steal, go to the forex market (which should be trying to recover) and buy up any available forex at any rate (it's stolen money, rates don't matter to them) thereby crowding out thise that really need the forex.

Until those fundamentals are fixed, the market would have no chance of recovering.

Which is why I don't believe in BAT. He is all about the politics, and when the choice comes down to good politics or good governance, he always goes for politics. Patriotism is just a buzzword for them. They don't have an iota of it.

So much sense in what you said, but can the fundamental really be fixed, cos the rogues destroying the country are deeply inside the govt

Talking of solution, i think the possible means is to cleanse the Forex market by making "Dollar" less attractive, i believe a successive drop in demand for "Dollar" will do the magic.

The question is how to throttle down dollar demand

ceejayluv:
We're on the same Page on the emboldened. We can only rub shoulders with 3rd World and allied $hitholes...

Would you have a jambite rub shoulders with an undergraduate in university,
i think its only logical you compare things with the same "Class" or "level"

Maybe we are in the same book but certainly not on the same Page

ceejayluv:
I've noted the correction earlier, why overflogging? For visiting is good, after all people visit Lebanon. I'll leave the argument of infrastructure, living conditions, security And HDI for another day.

With a Living horse there is nothing like overflogging, People like you don't read with an open mind thats your problem

No matter the arguement you bring up now or later, Lagos will always be among the top rated city to [b]"LIVE"[/b]among cities in developing countries, emphasis on bolded


though we are far from Best but things can only get Better

ceejayluv:
It's not about tribalism.. I'm Igbo, but If anyone said that the Southeast is the safest region (especially during the peak of the UGM/ESN/Ipob murderous spree), I would spit on the person's face. Reality is reality.
With a thousand dollars now, a visitor/tourist Will have a blast in Lagos, so it's reasonable to say it's a pretty Good place to visit.

Lagos was enlisted among the Mega city to "VISIT" that is quiet different from "Live" ..... with the kind of landmarks, hospitality, venues and events you find in Lagos how is that a Lie, that you unprivileged to see beautiful places in Lagos does mean they don't exist

if you know Lagos is a good place to visit then why bring up unnecessary arguement in the 1st place, or its an habit to libel Lagos

proserpina1 i don't want to hear i want to go nd charge phone oo !

lexy2014:
can you show me the argument that you are referring to?

meanwhile, you have not answered the following:

1. did price of fuel, diesel and kerosene increase?

2. Why did it increase?

3. Did dollar increase?

4. Why did it increase?

"Did" is that suppose to be a question


IF by now you are still asking "WHY" its shows you have not being reading my replies or you just lack comprehension,

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Instead of them to decongest lagos
Them want choke am the more

How do you decongest Lagos wihout a particular tribe misconstruing it as a tribal war or witch hunt against them.

Beremx:
He backs it publicly but deep inside him he's also playing ethnic politics with it.

Sanusi wey be silent ethnic and religious bigot

You can colorize him as much as you want, but is records in office show he is more of National interest and he always speak the truth to government

playing politics is not a crime or sins naa career

ceejayluv:
Oh, alright... It's clear now. I nearly wrote a protest email to the ranking officials sef.

Imagine the whites reading comment likes your about your own country what do you think they will categorize you as

Tribalism don spoil una life, make everything sha be bad news so you can wail dem dey pay una for wailing

zebszebs:
I think they meant Lagos, Portugal, because how?

Even if people are deceiving you, should you deceive yourself?

Lagos that has:
1. No running water
2. Untarred, pothole-scarred, inner-city roads
3. Refuse is most times left unpicked for weeks and in some cases months by LAWMA
4. Stagnant gutters, filled with greenish effluents and other human waste, forming a breeding ground for vampire-like, blood-sucking mosquitoes.
5. Large swaths of the city are governed by non-state actors who go about shaking down small businesses and individuals for unofficial taxes and levies. The likes of them Oluomo and his NURTW ilk, to mention a few?

That same Lagos is better than Dubai?

And some people will believe this?

All these downside you mention are onl pertinent to one side of lagos i.e the mainland

You must agree with me there are some part of lagos if you ever luck to visit in your Life you will doubt it is in Lagos,

As you believe Lagos is the worst place becos of where you stay and visit, there are some people that have stayed in Lagos gor years and don't know all these things you are saying .... the only time they come to mainland is Airport

seunmsg:
Who did she apologize to? Her husband? Obidients? Chika?

She offended Chika and not her husband or Twitter users. Why make the apology more about her husband? She should have apologized directly to Chika if she’s sincere. This is nothing but a faux apology issued go gain cheap political points. This evil, wicked greedy, and arrogant woman must never be allowed to become the First Lady of Lagos state.

She offended her husband cos her action tarnish the husband image, in politics that a big own goal opposition will capitalize on it.

Rhodes wife won't contest of be on the ballot box but here you are clamouring she must never be allowed to become the 1st lady ... the only way to achieve that is not to vote for the Husband

lexy2014:
.did price of fuel, diesel and kerosene increase?

Why did it increase?

Did dollar increaaa?

Why did it increase?

What are the forces behind these "increase"

Fuel, kerosene and diesel are deriatives of Crude oil we have in abundance ... why is it so expensive ??

What is responsible for refinery not working ?

what is behind subsidy scam that as led to the increment in the prices of those commodoties ?

Don't just argue fo arguement sake, think

lexy2014:
Hmmm...that means fuel and dollars didn't contribute a kobo to inflation

Who are those behind local refineries not working despite all the funds sinked in ... is it not human factor & greed
if our refineries are function will we be importing fuel & dollarizing our economy


who are collecting dollar @ FX windows and diverting it, who are those hoard the dollar and pitching it against the Naira for huge gains

If Importers/marketers are sincere and not hoarding or diverting funds from official FX into black market to maximize gains won't things be better ..
Show me how human factor & greed is not in all of Nigeria challenges