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NOETHNICITY:
While it's good getting a job, but you will soon realize that life is much more than just getting a job

Be calming down. At least he can afford the basic necessities of life. Nobody says life is perfect. Even the Bible says a man's life is full of troubles.

Why do I feel its because you disclosed the challenges you had in your previous relationship. They then use it as an excuse when they are tired of the relationship. On the other hand it might be spiritual.

iceybux:
Exactly... anyways how re you?

I am great! Thanks.

iceybux:
Then he has to.. it’s a promise...if he do otherwise should be also ready for the consequence

In my opinion marriage shouldn't be forced. If she was my own blood I won't advice her to get married to him because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. The union won't be worth it. She just has to go through the heart wrenching phase. In the end she will come out better.

iceybux:
If he did that then I’m wrong from his perspective..but if not then it’s not a must.. pls don’t feel I’m insensitive.. having sex together is a mutual agreement and not a means to guarantee a purpose

He said so himself. He promised to marry her.

iceybux:
Yes every relationship must not end in marriage.. that’s the major issue with naija girls.. bcus u guys had sex they feel it’s entitlement to marriage rights.. babe we bleeped each other... it works fine if it doesn’t life goes on.. gbam

Why lie to her that he will get married to her in the first place? Did she beg him? Shey she was on her own.

Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

Why lie to her in the first place?

truthsayer009:
1. OP didn't specify if she is pressuring him about marriage and also she may not want to settle down with a man like him.

2. A woman denying you sex for 3 weeks is not tiredness, she is no longer interested and wants to leave. 3 weeks of denial has nothing to do with mood, you people should stop lying abeg. She has found someone else, period!

3. About the rape or attempted rape, this is still a crime and if she decides to report, he will face jail term.

OP girlfriend has gotten a job and met more classy men at her workplace and she wants to move on or up the ladder. Chikena! Life goes on.

Note that he said all of these started after she got the job. Its not about her meeting classy men. You should understand that her schedule has changed from what it used to be. For her just going home to rest maybe what she has on her mind. Meanwhile oga has another plans.

samuel051:
its meant for 18+, because only them can connote the meaning of saint obi and saint Louis.

lol okay I get now. Thank you.

samuel051:
After a long night of drinking with my guys,rain started falling and I couldn't get bike,started trekking home with half bottle of magic moment drink(3rd bottle we drank that night among other liquors). Instead of mumu me to go home,I go branch one girl house,jump fence enter(around 1:15am or so),she was happy to see me,gave me one mumu rice and head of fish,I managed to eat and we talked and talked about what I can't even remember till next generation due to highness. One thing lead to 13things and as she remove night gown (the short knicker and top own,not the long gown type)..Blood of tblachoc, d SAINT OBI abi na SAINT LOUIS wey full d room,my highness fly once..na once I grab my alcohol begin follow up,I almost died that night,how I made it alive and still got home the next morning in one piece is still a mystery science cannot explain till date.if I wasn't armed with that magic moment,only God knows where I for dey now.

Am I the only one who did not understand your story?

1. You should have married her by now if you say you truly love her.

2. Have it in mind that she is a human being like you. Imagine having a stressful day at work. The desire for sex will have been reduced drastically because of how tired she is. What you did is very wrong. If both of you were married is this what you would have done? put her in your sister's shoe. Plus you are an adult behave like one. There are days she might be in the mood and days she is not in the mood at all. It should not be done forcefully.

youngreezy:
Tall girls no sabi do doggy in my honest opinion and dem too big to turn anyhow ontop bed hence my dislike for dem,but u see those short bitches ehn,as u give dem "face down ass up"jeez!! Especially one wit round onion booty.,first spank den gve her some gud backshots!! Den pul d hair den spank again stil gving her d backshots.,if she cream ur dick u go mad...abeg i be spoilt boy oo

Disgusting.

You have to be patient with her. It could take months for her to adjust. You can check out the Stalwarts on YouTube where they shared their experience in that regard.

Fahdiga:
After eating the man's money she want to clean mouth abi. If reverse was the case these vagina people would have bayed for the man's blood. Why don't you tell him in the beginning that you aren't interested instead of wasting his time and money. Rip to her though

You read the story at all?

emmyskies:
Anytime...
This thing don pain me o. After all the stress of composing 5 essays, you couldn't submit...e dey pain me well well.

Next time keep on persisting please.

I experienced all those glitches that you mentioned buh I kept on trying to submit. Every hour I kept on logging in to see if the issue was resolved. I composed my 5 essays on the 20th and I couldn't let it slide like that...stayed awake till 12am on that website, woke up by 4am and logged in to see the issue had been resolved. If you had logged in on nairaland earlier, you would have beaten the deadline

Next time sha,,,apply early to avoid situations like this.
Best wishes dear

That was my mistake. Not applying on time. I wish you God's favour.

emmyskies:
Young lady, don't do that na,,,always persist and keep trying. This is not the first time that I have tried submitting an application at the deadline, only to start experiencing hitches as if the portal has closed already. I keep trying till I am officially notified that it has ended. I have missed an application via late submission that ended too soon.

Hope you eventually submitted coz they have just closed the portal now. Today is 21st already and they deliberately delayed the closing due to late submissions.

I even mailed them yesterday when the glitch was on. I submitted 4am this morning.

Shay you submit,,,else I go vex 4 you well well o

well I couldn't unfortunately. As at 19th I had some issues. I couldn't log in. when I successfully logged in my LGA was not popping up, plus the information was not even saving when I successfully filled it. Thanks for the encouragement.

emmyskies:
Go and retry again before the portal closes

It hasn't closed? I stopped trying. Thanks I will check it out.

I have been trying to log into my account without success. I tried recovering password and reactivating my account but it bounces back. I need suggestion as it ends tomorrow. Thanks.

gonkin:
Some people can look 30 and are 20, while others can look 17 and be 30. But i prefer young look abeg. The way these generation take dey mature get as e be. I no come know who senior me and who I senior again.

well a younger look also has its advantage. The fact that people might want to take advantage of the person. Also a matured look attracts respect.

Octopusssy:
How can this dude be 25, bikonu?

Really? You havent seen people who are younger in age but look way older than their age. I have actually seen a 16 years who you would think is done with schooling.

UncleKoboko:
Lol You're very delusional.
Chioma that was a runs girls back then in Babcock....

wow you attended the same school with her?

Memberclub:
Why do females grow old so quick?
Davido still looks the same person

Really? Do men go through the process of pregnancy? Not to talk of handling the home and her career combined.

manoflove22:
I'm down men

Brothel visiting implication or is it just a shaving bumps?

it been there since last 3 weeks so i just trimmed the area just now and see them numbering


I'm scared don't wanna live with genital warts, cos it a virus and it have no cure but u can apply medication on it, but it reports it can appears again, why na

I like it raw gang. It is well with you.

Uncle93:
I think 27, and only one broke up with me. Now I've stopped that lifestyle

You've dated 27 ladies?

DropsMic:
Mine was my big nephew in 2007

Very handsome fair dude. Baba lived with us until 2004 when he travelled to Ogun state in his own words to go and hustle so my dad gave him some money and we all bade him farewell

Three years later when i was playing football, a mad man walked into our field so we had to pause for him to pass' but there was something about this particular madman he was so familiar so i just kept staring at him. thst was when it clicked.. No be John (not his name) be this. To be sure i wasn't mistaken i hurriedly walked past him and stopped at his front to get a very good look and then i confirmed it again. It was John. My knees almost gave out, i couldn't even go back to the field i just went somewhere to wait for my guys to finish playing so we could all walk home.

When the match ended my friends joined me and we all strolled to our various homes. On getting to my house i met our door wide open, when i went in guess who i saw sleeping on our couch.. Omo the story long eh.

This life just get as e dey

please continue the story.

Hezzyluv:
Plenty ppl wish they lose weight, you're here asking how to gain weight easily. Well, take Steroids or food that contains a lot of fat.

Different stroke for different folks.

Ikenna17:
You're welcome, I'd like to hear your feedback when you listen.

Alright.

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wow nice. I love podcasts. I will check it out.

isn't 50 per day too much?

Udoboss:
No

You should give it a try. Best of luck