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umar2:
To me that Full Body Scanner is not supposed to be allowed. This is already a very big issue in the Middle East, Europe and even the US don't use it, because they know the turn around effect of such, when u are scanned with these machines, your images is stored in not just a 3D HD Images, along with 1Trillion color display with a very high Mega Pixel Picture and rotaional display. These pictures are stored in the hard drive or memory of this so-called device and could be used to destroy your name in the very near future. Imagine if u a ignorantly placed wanted and the next thing u see is your live HD Colour Pictures, Your Uptodate Data displayed online. Please not every technology is suitable for consumption. Y wouldn't they take that to the middle east and install it, is that not were they presume to be the safe heaven of terrorist. To me this is the greatest terror treat of our era. No to Full Body Scanners. They are better options. I stand to be corrected. God Help Us Amin.

Consumption na food? Did all that you typed up there make ANY sense to you? Jeez!

LOL@ Oyinda
Weight loss isn't hard especially if you haven't been to the gym in a long time. . the weight just melts off
The hard bit is keeping that weight off and maintaining it. Just eat moderately and hit the gym hard.
You will be fine. The reason dieting don't work is because you gain all the weight back after you go off it
It has to be a complete lifestyle change. Something you'll keep doing 40-50 years from now.

Back and forth like a rocking chair. . . . Make up your mind already!

Shopping on black friday is a total waste! The weather is waaay below zero and the good deals are pretty much gone
before 6am. Keep an eye out for regular store sales and go to Nordstrom rack, TJ Maxx, Marshalls ; Surely you'd find something

This chic shows that it is all about dressing according to your size.
She looks wonderful and exudes crazy confidence!

na2day?:
like every other nigeiran girl, u easily miss the point of an argument, no one said she cant afford it, after all she was alive b4 she met her man but how easily they transfer responsibilities to the man is what i am talking about. i need not go very far, plz go dig up nl threads and read what your fellow nigerian girls say here, a common line is, "are u not a man?" or "may be she wants to know that u can take care of her when u guys get married" etc. and these are educated girls that worked their butts off in school to get an education oooo. i always like to remind them of the good ol' adage, "u can't eat your cake and have it".  why not take a survey and ask how many nigerian girls here take their man out and pay for it lets see. it is common knowledge on nl that alot of girls say they want men with "bentleys" when they dont have a bicycle tire to their name.  i can give u stories and experiences i had in chicago, houston and dallas easily. u might be different but certainly u need to open a clinic for your sisters

Alright. I rest my case.

Same height as me . Not fussy about height because smallish men tend to have the best tools

na2day?:
death! ! ! i like your style jare, u don give me tips

if they dont want to cook for their man they should stop dumping their bills at his door too and stop heading to his fridge to see what is inside. God forbid u agree to follow them to the mall, your life is finished! as for the $40, girl plzzzz! that is with the coupons, without the coupon it will be way higher; if $40 is nothing, how come they are not paying? they come up with all these great activities for u guys to do but some how forget their wallets and credit cards at home when coming, nonsense!

FYI: when an american girl tells u i found a great eatery and i did like to take u out, 80% of the time they are the one treating u out but when a nigerian girl says that, 99.99999999% it means i found a new place for u to spend your money on me (the girl) kapish!

If a girl tells you she's got some new places she wants you lot to try out then better believe she should be paying! Leave all that talk about taking her shopping and having you spent! Some of us went to school and studied our butts off to get to where we are at. Buying things for oneself isn't a big deal. We may even tell ya to pick up a nice shirt. Relationships shouldn't be that way really. . . it should be about two people coming together to make and keep each other happy.
A girl you are with (dating) wouldn't and shouldn't mind cooking you a meal whenever she can; if anything it should give her joy to do that very little bit.
Taking her out to shop whenever you can isn't that much of a big deal either! $40 is something one would spend at Applebees or something which isn't even a proper sitdown restaurant but rather a causal dine in place.

Like I said earlier dude! Leave that long story. Anything in your fridge I am pretty sure she can afford; it really should be about that. Treat a good woman great and she'd treat you like a god!

inspired_m:
YES, Rolls Royce Phantom

LIVE in Nigeria.

Best of wishes to you dude!
You're doing well for yourself

na2day?:
at least u met the ones that have papers or are citizens and all they fear is being used, those ones i can handle as they will quickly know i dont need anything remotely to papers. what about the ones that u meet and they suddenly think that u are the answer to her and her family financial problems? some will come visit u and ask u to help fill their tank, just bcuz they showed up in your house.  they u of a restaurant they found with great deals and even have coupons, u get there and by the time u are done u are out of $40 easily. if u asked them to cook they claim they are tired but just tell them u just finished cooking and u will see their eyes glow like green lantern and next thing out of their mouth, "honey i am so hungry, its just as if u knew i was coming". dont get me started on nigerian girls in the usa!

$40 isn't a lot of money if you take someone out every once in a while. That is about average. You shouldn't have to ask a girl
to cook something for you and doing that means you don't even know her well enough. Guys here too complain!

Bargain hunter huh? The shoulder bag is quite different and cheap! ha! Cool

Marrying someone in Nigeria has it's gripes and all. It is all a personal choice. Not everyone wants to marry someone and bring them here
For one the issue of if they married the said girl/guy for real or just because they want to come over. These things aren't that black and white jare

That pimpled face fat boy is a model? Yeah my name is Tyra Banks then

Father God in heaven! Phantom in Naija?

ravenzord:
I see the beauty, but there's nothing in her songs that alludes to her brain power, I like her songs sha. BTW, who wrote that article? What's all the grammar for? Wetin be 'encumbered by diversity of cultures and chi of creative students'? What is that?

I just choked on my juice Haha haha haha hahaha ah

Dolemite:
I'm not saying she's not beautiful, no matter how pretty you are NO ONE needs to see the contents of your nostrils.

Right

Navy ones are nice Spikey.

^^ How does that change the fact that she's a good looking young woman?

She looks great! Ms Endowed to bad!

davidylan:
1. Not even date her in the first place. A man shld have standards for who he dates, if you know you cant stand a woman who drinks, dont waste your time.

2. In the event you date one, simply lay down the rule - no drinking period. She either complies or you move on. I'm sure some are assuming a man shld do this cracking a whip - no, if your woman respects and LOVES you, she will try her possible best to cut out those things that make you unhappy.

3. talk about it together, rather than eat out, insist you both stay in and try out some new recipe . . . as a man, its your job to teach your woman. It ALSO implies that your life is itself a modell that she can admire and follow.

Okay I hear you. From what I understood he (Ogidiboy) doesn't have a problem with her drinking . . you know being a social drinker
Just that she's been doing a bit much of it lately and all. I don hear you sha

Hawthorne is a great show. Mrs Will Smith looks amazing! She is so fit!
I wanna be like her when I grow up

David: Out of curiosity how do you think Ogidiboy should go about getting his gf to work out? How would you get her to cut out her bad eating habits
I am asking out of honest curiosity is all

dayokanu:
Grad Student in Minnesota, 6ft 2 and well built Into IT.

He is a good guy I can tell ya but you might assess him if he meets your likes cos You might prefer them shorter and with pot bellies

U sef! Wetin you wan yarn? I look like babe wey go dey into that kain dude?
Hook ya sister up jare.

y me:
that is my own opinion honey, i think i am fat in some ways
but why dont you just ignore my post dear cause i have all the attention i need so that of NL wont be of anyuse

Kids say the darnest things. Ignored as requested

y me:
am as shocked as you too
and that is the reasoin why i said the fiance did nothing wrong
i mean that is too much fat nah(no offense)
even if she doesnt want to do it for the fiance but she should try do it for herself
i mean a U.S size 4 like me dey complain say i fat talk less of 12
but she did try tho from size 18 to 12 that is one hell of a weight loss

A size 4 is fat right? Are you just saying that to get attention or you really mean that?
Why don't you go ahead and lose weight so that you can be a size 0. That is certainly more sexy.

honeric01:
We cool, we cool  

Yes that we are.

dayokanu:
^^ Chika,

I get one correct Naija dude for you in your neighbourhood. Minneapolis. Holla back and lemme give you the 411

LOL Most Naija men here aren't correct. Na to fear o! Wetin be dis guy's 411?

chaircover:
Dont worry; Its really easy.

The idea is to pose    . . . . . but dont pose more than the groom o!

P.s your duties [b]DO NOT include toasting the chief Bridesmaid [/b]

LOL what if they really find each other attractive?

honeric01:
Silly man, if your wife catch you, na outside you go sleep for 3 days  


Now you see that her post has confirmed what i was trying to explain to both you and dayokanu that :

Her boyfriend might be financially buoyant than her
That he might not be in the relationship for any personal or selfish reason
That he might have decided to stay in Abuja not because he can't afford to leave anywhere else but before he preferred Nigeria.

as for fantababe, like some said, you are the only one with the answers to your questions and i wish you good luck in your future and marriage.

Even if the above is true; Still doesn't make any difference in this case. She's in for it but like you said she's the only one who can make that decision.

Like you both have decided; Stay there and move out when you finally get married. Congrats to you in advance

Fingers: Orange
Feet: Clear

Sloan:
Chika, I tried to explain why I needed to give quite some details in my post. If you know her and are willing to help, I will be really grateful. I think someone who can at least talk to her at the first, maybe give a sense of things from my post and get her to talk is all I need. I am also trying to be discrete by not putting any personal information on this public forum but just enough information to get the reader to get a sense of what I am trying to accomplish.

Alright check your email then

fantababy:
Am still rereading all the posts and am laughing. Let me clarify some stuffs:

1. Thank you kabukabu for the pictures, am a 5.4 and my shape is similar to the number 2 picture.

2. My fiance is not marrying me for my papers, I am a canadian citizen, and he is a british citizen. He recently relocated back to Nigeria to set up an interior decor business which is doing very well.

3. I asked for the opinion of Nairalanders because I wanted to see things from different angles and get various views.

4. Am actually very pretty, I won 2nd runner up Miss Fego while  at secondary school.  

5. We both love ourselves sincerely, but I think he likes a trophy girl that he can show round to his friends.

6. I had suitors from canada, but none of them matched my standards. Am a christian and I wanted some1 with the same faith and values as me.

7. And am not a desperado. He was the one pushing for marriage this yr cos he wants to settle down before his 28th b.day in March.

Case closed! Now good and best of wishes to you and your marriage.