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just yesterday, I punted with the remaining part of my April salary. Feeling sad, broke, depressed and sober. I really want to change now (like I always say).


Those in my shoes, feel free to air your mind on what you are passing through too so we find a way out.


Suggestions are needed. I'm thinking we have a forum on whatsapp to encourage ourselves

enough is enough. I'll go straight to the point. I'm a bet9ja addict. my penchant for bet9ja virtual soccer has led me to:


- sell all my property and run away from my rented apartment (back then in school)


-it made me abandon my education as I got into shaddy deals where my life was at stake . (sold someone's phone to gamble)

the same people who said all sort of unprintable words have started talking to me again. But does that remove the curse they have placed? By the time the things they said start manifesting in my life, they will blame village people or say I'm good for nothing.


This might be one of the reasons some people abandon their parents at old age. We need to bless and not curse

I'll go straight to the point. Why do parents derive joy in pouring insults and curses on their children. I know some are bad but correction with stern words are better than negative comment.


The day I lost control and pushed my mum down, there is no curse in this world my mum and dad didn't place on you. My dad said: 'you will roam round the street without peace of mind for touching my wife'. He continued: you will feel the effects of my powers as a strong traditional man, it will never be well with you' Hmmm...

SMH. Even village people weak for this your matter

empire2017:
screenshot 3!!!

screenshot 4 legbegbe!!

Op oo

Colourich:
Just saying. guys that are into slim ladies don't walk Nairaland making noise about it.

I'm teamSlim. Anyway, anytime

you have just killed the chances of your thread making frontpage with that title

UDUJ:
You lack sense

I don talk my own. If you like give birth in naija (a developing country). Once he/she grows up and see they were not treated the way developed countries treat children, they'll hate u for it.


Whatever they become in life will bounce back to you. Just like my parents have questions to answer for not making me excel.


better save yourself the high B.P issues!

pryme:
Yep, the Op is a deranged human that has access to the internet.

I'm physically okay. Just pouring out my mind

Cutehector:
Obviously you were a waste of time.

I agree. But I'm not alone in this. Stop living in self-denial. A lot of youths have lost the way. As early as 10 years, youths take to crime and all sorts of sexual acts.


If you are sincere to yourself, how many people in your household have/is living an accomplished life?


I see women struggling to birth a child after 9 months all to what end? They probably won't take good care of them either due to the harsh reality of the times or because they were not properly groomed themselves.

2) the commitment is enormous - when a child is sick, vomiting at mid night, you get to lose your sleep to rush them to the hospital. You buy clothes, food, pay fees and a host of other things. you can't think straight again and have free mind as you are thinking of how to take care of more than 3 persons. That sh1t scares the hell out of me. My 15k can't even take care of me properly.


Many of us were also not well guided. I doubt if parenthood will fit most of us.

1) children are becoming wayward and carefree - while growing up, my parents (my mum in particular) had to always face a lot of gloomy and embarrassing situations when I strayed. In jss3, I was expelled for homosexuality. This was after spending a lot in a big boarding school. Later on, she was despondent after learning I dropped out of the university (fled because of money I owed bad guys). Till now, I've not changed even when I try to. moral decadence has eaten deep into the fabrics of the nation.


So avoid the worries and pains children bring. Children are no longer assets like in the past

stop deceiving yourself with the saying 'children are a blessing from God'. 21st century children have nothing to offer but to make you worry. Below are some of the things I noticed.......

you never jam @ o.p. Girls are bolder these days. Dem get one urhobo girl I date one time. She fit even suck your pweek rise to bang you when u dey unconscious

fykes:
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So simple....go meet her, kneel down and tell her u r sorry....and ask her to forgive u and when she looks at u, get out the phone smash it to pieces and tell her no more earpiece u just want her forgiveness...
If she's like my mom, u will have a 60k phone tomorrow.

pheww... That's a whole lot to do. Mind you, I'm not from an 'ajebo' family where one can easily display affection and show a penitent heart.


Where I come from, we show we are sorry through our deeds

yeah! My boys are on it. Not even the pope in Rome can stop our wonder trio. YNWA

Ishilove:
You and your endless fake ass stories. You need to get busy. Lazy Nigerian youth like you

huh? Madam THOMAS. If I may ask, what is there to doubt about my stories. Is it the one I say I gamble? Or I hate my father? Or I pushed my mum?


It's obvious you didn't grow up in the ghetto. There are people even worse than me, here

SenatorAiyzik:
Bro I know your plight. I have been there. Best way to avoid this is get a home of your own become a man and then visit once a while. Stop saying you cannot cope. Give it a trial. She won't be there all your life. That's the only way to avoid nagging mothers and the only way to avoid self inflicted curses. It's what I did and now she respects so much cos she sees me less

Hmm... Don't have a good job that can make me pack out yet.if I manage to pay rent on my own, what about the furnishing. I'll need like two years to do that

lonikit:
u beat ur mother u need serious fasting and prayer. ask fr her forgiveness and God's. beg her to pray for u.

bro, we somehow settle. I wonder why she lets things escalate before she behaves well

biacan:
Your name says it all

Yea... The name is deliberate because I'm yet to achieve anything reasonable. It's not just me though. A lot of youths are wasting away

LonelyHeart627:
Please endeavour to change your nairaland moniker. Your attitude is directly proportional to your nairaland moniker at constant temperature and pressure

Hmm.. I doubt if there's a feature of nairaland enabling one to change moniker

eosigwe:
OP. I advise you go and learn a trade or go and serve one bigman for 6,7 years. You are sure to be settled well

I wanna be my own boss

LonelyHeart627:
Please go and apologize ASAP. I am 100% sure that her money was part of that 30k

Wow.. You're a magician. I only contributed half of the money (15k)

SenatorAiyzik:
Brother, go and apologise with immediate effect please for your own good a phone of 30k isn't worth the effects of the curse you just placed on yourself

she has even started cursing me already. She said that my children will treat me worse like a goat, amongst other curses. my dad added his after he was informed.


Hmmm.......

I got the temper from my dad. How do i avoid future clashes. I love mum more than dad but she keeps getting in my way. I normally leave to work when she starts complaining or I used earpiece. I adopted the second option since today is a public holiday but she still provoked me..


What do I do to avoid her? Pls don't suggest moving out. I can't cope on my own. Hmm... Maybe I'm just an ingrate/brat. The tough times she passed through during her time with my dad is also partly to blame for her psychological issues

the screen cracked in the process. The screen cracked in the process. I was made with rage. She noticed and fled to her room. Without premeditation, I went after her and pushed her down. Hmm... The biggest mistake I made out of anger and due to the fact that I'm short-tempered.


I feel bad like the other time I blew her. I had made a decision to avoid her to avoid this situation but she keeps crossing my path. Phewww... Thank God nothing happened to her. I still care but I'm allergic to nagging.

Hmm... I'm repulsive because of what I just did. My mum started with her rants again. She insisted I give her the 1500 naira she used to buy fuel for 5 days for the IPassMyNeighbour . We've been experiencing power outage for 3 months now.


I ignored because I have nothing to give her. Although I promised to pay but couldn't meet up. She noticed I was using an earpiece and ignoring her. She pushed my new phone down (worth 30k)

Abang52:
Bros honestly why you Bleep am
Abi na the thrill of fucking a virgin
Because I no understand how you come loss interest like this oo

Bros she must be hurt
There is nothing you can do about it

Imagine asking you how I can cheat on my wife with her knowing and not getting hurt

Guy you disvirgined this b!tch she must get hurt
You're her first for God's sake

Continue to bleep
The toto still tight
Slack am for the husband so him go divorce her quick

Remember say if she curse you e go follow wells

Bros abeg continue to bleep that toot
No leave am

Sag her boobs
Make e dey like agric pawpaw, footwear, palms flip flop
Bleep am

Then shift the toto to another street
How I wish na me

SMH

Kobicove:
Are you sure you're mentally stable at all?!

yea, kini?

Supreme01:
...and u think u r responsible
if u have a fone to enter Nairaland an ty pe dis rubish,u have fish brain.
You are too small to help her abi.. because she make a mistake not to waste you in abortion lik other women does abi.Continue one day ur reward will come. continue...

nor mind me. easy with the vituperations.

we quarrel but settle afterwards. see the language I used on her as ghetto-boy language

joff2:
If you are not a Christain, you can ignore this advice

Ephesians 6:2 "Honor your father and mother"--which is the first commandment with a promise--Eph 6:3 "that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth."

It did not say "honour your rich and honourable father or mother"

Be really careful bro

Hmm... ''........enjoy long life on earth''


But one may be respectful and alive but not living.


I'm not all that bad. Do you know I gave her my hard earned 30k to pay for 3 months rent. Instead she sent it to my elder brother. How do you explain that?


Some of her actions make me lose make me lose respect for her