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A country where people aren't getting punished for their misdemeanors can never stand. A lot of Nigerians are corrupt, dubious and greedy. I sent a car to a friend in Nigeria as a gift, and the clearing agent took the money meant for clearing and absconded. The car accumulated charges at the port, as he wasn't able to raise another cash for clearing. He evetually did and the demurrage alone was 280k. The clearing agent was arrested by the police,and after the second day in cell, the police told my friend there is no point keeping him there, as that doesn't guarantee a refund. So he was set free, and made to sign that he is gonna pay over a stipulated period of time. It's been over 2 years and he has only paid back 140k. He walks free and carries on with his life like nothing happened, while my friend had to bear all the brunt. How does things work in this country, Isn't this behaviour encouraged when perpetrators already knew the end result?

She not meant to get married, that's going to be too stressful.

This lady always sounds foolish. What you posted in a public group is what you should have discussed with your fiancee amicably in the first place. You sounded so arrogant like you feed him. If you had all these opinions about the relationship, then you should have called the man, and discuss this a few times before exloding. If I was this Alex I would have done exactly the same thing. This is ridiculous! I get one wey dey sound like her, that I'm just about to kick her sorry ass to the curb!

We nees this strategy for our thieving politicians

Is it diffrent from what Buhari is doing at the moment? No wahala vote una Tinubu. We dey wait here to laff una.... Buhari tenure go be like luxury to you ppl when d time comes.

Jail d dumb head. The lovebirds can have a field day now while that hothead rots in jail.

Yea even if he hasn't been there. Do you stop to realize how many millions are in 14 billion? The budget is absurb.

fkj950ax:
Obviously you haven’t been to the villa before

As usual, they know Nigerians will rant online and move on. This got to be the most Evil Government that in the world. I'm wondering why they announce budgets to Nigerians, is this normal? Just asking, cos I don't undertand.

I read comments here and I laugh. A lot of people typing like kids that just grad from high school. I won't be suprised if majority aren't into any relationship talk more of being married. Comments are funny but not helpful or realistic. I don't have an advice for you OP!

Lol. This one funny.

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Also remember to add all the comedy skits from the North let me help you with one of them


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-10xvfO3gs

How is Omoefe a Yoruba name?

DryMouth:
Obi cubana employed a youruba COO?

Even if it's a local breed, which I'm sure it's not. Don't you know that the dog you call Ekuke is a unique breed on its own. Ya'll should educate yourselves and stop ridiculing these lovely pets!

Unless stories as usual. Nigerians are the most corrupt ppl on the planet and I regret being one. No one accounts for anything. No one or organization will ever be responsible for this discovery. Useless country with loads of shit head citizens!

Why is he being tried in a magistrate court?

You and the fellow nitwits who liked your post are dumb. So it's okay to keep this kind of people in the police system? You are all hypocrites. You crave for a good system but your mindset and mental state are so Fck up.

SIMONEKPA7:

Nigerians are just been stupid, must you video everything and post? shey if the man loose him job now you will be happy.
I hope you got video one day and posted in your worst behaviour

Absolutely, this is the best article on Nairaland's fp in a while. Something different from bunch of kids throwing polical tantrums all day. Thanks for putting this together

This statement alone get as e be. Vote Peter Obi for perseident in 2023. There wouldn't be remedy from mistakes this time.

That's a kind gesture from you, it's just funny that they consificated his car along with his working tools. That man lost a whole car cos of $100 - $200 plus Reg renewal fee. Na WA o.

fkj950ax:
Dudes drivers license was in the car with all the tools of his trade. One of those guys you see outside Autozone or O'Reilly that helps you with work after you buy a part inside.
Drove to the address on the DL and returned everything to him

Obviously I would never support morons who break traffic laws. I'm suprised you know the history of the car you purchased.

fkj950ax:
What do I know?
I live in a first world country too.
I just bought a car from auction 3 weeks ago. Belonged to a body work dude who didn't renew at DMV since 2020.
It got towed. Tow company held it for 6 months and PD approve the auction.

Auction is not peanut. It's what people on the spot are willing to pay.

The issue is not the auction by LASG, but the people who broke traffic laws knowing they will forfeit.

The next day after the auction and the attendant noise online, an SA to SanwoOlu still blocked a car passing one way and forced the driver to turn around.
The NEXT FXCKING day...

This one cheap na $100k own dey here! Samsung don dey Bleep up with pricing jare

What do you know? I live in a first world country. I have only suggested a method how things are being done in a sane country. We pay fines and our vehicles don't get auctioned for peanuts!

fkj950ax:
Maybe you should spend your time reading more about the auction and the traffic laws that got them all there before you post another comment here.

The Govement is doing the right thing, but rather in a harsh way. They could impose a heavy fine on violators, while they set them up on a montly payment plan for their fine. Fifty thousand Naira is good enough, and payment be split to about 6 months - 1 year. Violators should also be made to sign legal documents consenting to the disposal of the vehicle if they default in payment twice. This is method better than impounding and selling off peoples car for peanuts, over little traffic infractions.

I don't know why I feel this might actually be how the result would look like! God abeg o

BAT 190
ATK 209
PO 182

Chai!

Don't mind all of them I get the full gist of how it happened.... She didn't mention that her husband and his friend we out and both dead drunk when they came back. The friend was initially in the living room and they all discussing for a while... Okay was I really there?

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Summary please!

Nice one! But still not the best. There shouldn't be any situation where people are made to openly snitch on fellow citizens for money. This could cause problems. When the app becomes popular, people will resist others taking pictures/ videos of their plates. It's meant for the lazy authorities to do that themselves.

Bug her phone! It could be what you think, since your mom noticed the same thing. Both of ya'll can't be wrong at the same time.

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.