Travel › Re: What Is The Worst Country You Have Ever Been To by chinchum(m): 4:59am On Jun 21, 2025 |
It is always laughable how many people who have not stepped out of Nigeria thinks Nigeria is the worst country, even some who visit other countries only visit the upscale areas like capital city and conclude about the country. |
Travel › Re: Ezeukwu, Bende Road Constructed By Orji Uzor Kalu, One Year After by chinchum(m): 4:33am On Jun 21, 2025 |
But the contractor is Abia State "Governmet". It was awarded as direct labour to a community town union. While the road reconstruction may have been canvassed to be included and funded in the budget by the Senator. |
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Politics › Re: Oyo: I Will Contest And I Will Win – Oriyomi Hamzat Fires Back At Critics by chinchum(m): 10:57am On Jun 16, 2025 |
He will do well playing Local goverment politics. I recommend LG chairman. |
Politics › Re: "On your dollar we stand": Tinubu may be life President with 10th NASS - Dalung by chinchum(m): 10:44pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
pasol4real: Lol If tinubu see second position in 2027 he tried just like if he got 4th position in 2023. Many of you loud mouthed have zero idea about how politics play out in Nigeria and you dont even try to understand. An incumbent president in Nigeria usually have about 15-30% assured votes depending on political sagacity even if he did next to nothing. Let that sink. With Tinubu, he is not only an incumbent, he is from a majority tribe, about 27 governors at the minimum will support his bid, politics start from the grassroot not all the social media comments, jokers likes you use as feelers. |
Politics › Re: "On your dollar we stand": Tinubu may be life President with 10th NASS - Dalung by chinchum(m): 10:37pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
Everybody including nonentities always have opinion.
Tinubu is opposed to 3rd term presidency and even one party state. |
Travel › Re: The Moment The Sole Survivor Of The Air India Crash Walked To The Ambulance(pix) by chinchum(m): 11:44pm On Jun 14, 2025 |
Afrobasic: I really have doubts about this guy's story.
Sole survivor walking away totally unhurt. Something smells fishy 
Seems to me he wasn't even on the plane to begin with, possibly a bystander who got bruised by debris. learn to read or at least look at pictures. Haba His boarding pass also uploaded The guy was seated beside the exit door. |
Politics › Re: "What I'll Do To Those Who Insult Me" - Tinubu Reveals In Democracy Day Speech by chinchum(m): 10:48pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
dibunotion: Nairaland wants to turn us all to writers by force. Which one be 40 words before you go fit express yourself. I'm a man of few words I tire for nairaland oo 40 characters is different from 40 words. |
Politics › Re: Governor Eno Replies Kenneth Okonkwo Over 'Transgenderic' Comment (Video) by chinchum(m): 1:45pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
The governor dignified him with a response. He is a paper weight political analyst.
Could hypocrisy be an ibo issue?
This same man has moved from APC to Labour to unknown to "Coalition party" and now stuck in between labour and coalition party in less than 3 years. He did not even take an introspection but called a governor a "political transgender". |
Politics › Re: Democracy Day: President Tinubu Addresses The National Assembly (Live Update) by chinchum(m): 1:22pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
ppogba: There are teleprompters there. That was what American presidents used to deceive the whole world before thinking they are geniuses. He is not using tele prompters to speak. |
Romance › Re: Single Ladies, What's The Most Ridiculous Excuse A Man Gave For Not Marrying You by chinchum(m): 1:09pm On Jun 12, 2025*. Modified: 2:09pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
Kobicove: There might be some truth in this, one of my former secondary school class mates who is very fair I'm complexion married a lady who is also fair in complexion and the have 3 kids out of which one of them has albinism did you complete secondary school at the very least? This your opinion gives illiteracy vibes. Albinism is simply genetics, not based on complexion. Two very dark colored black couples can give birth to a kid suffering albinism |
Politics › Re: Why Is Tinubu No Longer Muttering Incoherent Words Like 'Bala blu Bulaba'? by chinchum(m): 4:05am On Jun 12, 2025 |
gidgiddy: All the medical trips to France is paying off, and he rarely speaks publicly unless reading a prepared statement The bolded is false, he mostly speak without reading from a prepared statement. A lot of people judge him by his frail look and appearance, he is quite intelligent and calculative. He speaks slowly now than he did some 20 years ago, but you can still tell he still got the mental acuity. |
Politics › Re: AriseTV Praises Omokri For Proving that 30Km Completed on Lagos-Calabar Highway by chinchum(m): 4:06pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Hemanwel: It is now I can confirm that Nigeria has gone to the dogs! Governance has been reduced to its lowest ebb! Imagine what we, as a nation, are arguing about in this 2025!
First, we commissioned a less than 5% complete road project with fanfare and razzmatazz. And not just that we are happy about it, we expended time, energy, and resources to prove to Nigerians that it was truly a 30km/700km commissioning.
The person who did this to us won't d*e well! Your real issue is your strong opposition to the project because of political alliance.That the road is 700 km does not matter, infact it could be adjusted in some years to cover more areas and reach 2000km. The part completed is already serving the people that is more important . |
Sports › Re: Victor Osimhen Orders Amala To Celebrate Sallah In Magodo by chinchum(m): 12:29am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Freshtruth: See person wey for dey earn 88 billionaire in 4years in Saudi Arabia u allow them okocha and co to brainwash u with playing in Europe nonsense bullshit. If na okocha get this opportunity during his time he no go think am na poverty make am dey do avert for betking.
Oshemein u have brought shame to ur family I pour spit for ur face na mum* man u be  you are what you accused Osimehn of. A 25-26 year old hot striker should move to Saudi? Poverty mentality has fried your thinking organ. What he earns currently if well invested should not make him poor ever again. A fool and his money will part ways. If he is foolish, he can still become poor after earning billions. Check out Ladar Odom. He has at least 3 more years to even begin to consider Saudi or moneybag league. He is paid wonderfully by Napoli while on loan. A shortsighted hunger stricken fellow will chase billions that he cant even keep years down the line. He has to stay in the limelight and keep challenging himself for greater laurel. It hurts he may not be at the world cup during his peak. |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri, Others Tour Lagos-Calabar Coastal Highway, Prove 30km completion by chinchum(m): 12:02am On Jun 11, 2025 |
All the 4% should go and rest. The 30km road can now be used to get to various destinations. There is nothing suggesting that the road is only useful unless completed. It is a fallacy to think the road is useless until 700km of it is constructed |
Politics › Re: FG To Train 100,000 Youths Annually In Forex Trading by chinchum(m): 11:57pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
I will prefer stocks trading |
Politics › Re: Chess Master Tunde Onakoya Visits President Tinubu by chinchum(m): 11:54pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Okoyiboz3: You can smell the akpu from a mile away. 🤭🤭 |
Family › Re: Mothers Dressing Like Their Daughters Challenge Gone Wrong by chinchum(m): 4:55pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Eriokanmi: How can someone openly shame her mother this way? Children of nowadays shaa The mother is a chained dog with no autonomy? An apple does not fall far from the tree |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Crisis Instigated And Sustained By The APC - Obi (video) by chinchum(m): 6:45pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
You have no galvanising quality and cant manage and mediate your party crisis to save your life, then turn around to blame the APC. What a failure? With such power bestowed on him by obedients, shame on him for not able to mediate and take a stand outside the courts. |
Politics › Re: I Pity Tinubu, 22 PDP Govs Endorsed Jonathan Yet He Lost Re-election —ndume by chinchum(m): 4:57am On Jun 09, 2025 |
Now 24+1 if you include Akwa ibom ,Anambra and Abuja
It could get to 27 or 28 by next year political primaries. Osun, Rivers ,plateau, Adamawa, zamfara, Taraba and bayelsa ( at least 3 out of 7 will endorse him)
He wont need 90% of votes.
49% of total votes is the highest he will need to guarantee reelection.
Ndume acting as face of opposition , seeing how the presidency has kept quiet to his shenanigans. I am close to certain, he wont retain his seat nor get governorship. |
Politics › Re: FCT Gears Up As Tinubu Set To Inaugurate 17 Landmark Projects In Abuja by chinchum(m): 2:06am On Jun 05, 2025*. Modified: 11:25am On Jun 05, 2025 |
Agbegbaorogboye: How many of them are 4% projects whether 4% or 0.0004%, what matters is if it impacts people. The 4% argument may make sense, if the 30km road is not going to serve people until everything is completed. In actual fact, someone else might decide in the future to extend the 750km road to 1500km and connect from Calabar to the core North. The road is now put to use. If a road that will take you 20 mins drive at continous 100km/hr speed is giving you so much sadness, then check yourself. Imagine the development that will be fast tracked along the communities by virtue of the road. Can you? |
Politics › Re: Abdullahi’s APC Exit Is The Signal: Only Ngozi Okonjo-iweala Can Save 2027! by chinchum(m): 8:34pm On Jun 04, 2025 |
Just looking for everything but nothing to convince yourself Tinubu is rejected....🤭🤭🤭
Can you even identify the Abdullah if lined up amongst 5 men. |
Politics › Re: Army Chief Oluyede Relocates To Benue With PSOs Over Herdsmen Killings, Attacks by chinchum(m): 1:59am On Jun 04, 2025 |
RandomFellow: Same strategy. I laugh when these guys don't know who they are fighting.
The people you are fighting with are not your regular ragtag armies. They have seasoned Generals and Commanders among their leaders. They know about strategies, military strategies.
The army have been loosing battles to them because those guys are more strategic! They know you and your weapons, do you know them? They are ready and willing to eliminate you and your people...are you ready to eliminate them? Get smart; only then can you compete against them!!! it is not all this you are spewing, it is because it is guerilla warfare, which is go to a village and start killing soft targets at sporadic interval. Those suckeeeers pick a village and starts killing anything in site, and run back in to s "safe zone' possibly another neighboring state. it is a ploy to chase them out of their ancestral land. what makes the bloood suckiiing demons more strategic? |
Celebrities › Re: Reality Star, Doyin Criticises Men Who Sexualize Women by chinchum(m): 10:22pm On Jun 02, 2025 |
The way girls/ladies/women now sexualise themselves is now alarming. Very tacky and annoying.
They think they are getting attention, which is true.
Were dun wo ko se bi lomo. ( It is convenient to observe the display of a mad person, but no one prays that is their child) .
There is an unending supply of nudity and i noticed ladies struggle so hard with setting limits once they enjoy an attention. |
Politics › Re: Name One Governor That Doesn't Make The News by chinchum(m): 10:09pm On Jun 02, 2025 |
I agree with the OP when it comes to southern governors who tends to get more mainstream press coverage than their northern counterparts.
I was wondering recently, how come a southern governor rarely gets talked about, at least his predecessor was known for his ridiculous budget christening and white elephant projects |
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Career › Re: REA Secures 130 Energy Jobs For Nigerian Graduates, Launches NEXTGEN RESCO Progr by chinchum(m): 11:07am On Jun 01, 2025 |
Why does the front page comments look phony? It is toi smooth and appears like paid actor comments or the same individual with multiple id commenting |
Politics › Re: Why The Anti-tinubu Coalition Isn’t Coalescing By Farooq A. Kperogi by chinchum(m): 4:46am On Jun 01, 2025 |
mrvitalis: Have you taken any poll to determine that? What exactly should the coalition have done that they haven't done
APC is just scared they don't know the next move of the coalition... They don't know the party they want to use.. The configuration of the candidates APC is scared ke, more like it is observing while stacking its armoury with more opposition decamping to it. It is about 20 months to election, and sadly for the coalition there are at least 2 strong candidates that cant concede for the other. Obi knows he will get in to political oblivion if he accepts a VP slot. Atiku cant take a vp slot. Obi has come out to publicly say he will context under labour party in 2027 indicating he knows the futility in the coalition. The closest chance Is if they agree to conduct a primary and whoever wins they all support. In all of these, APC is the party to beat, this time it is not only the incumbent party, it has an incumbent president candidate with a master political strategist hat. It is a done deal btw. Heavy sickness or death are the only 2 candidates that can stop Tinubu in 2027. |
Politics › Re: NNPCL Reduces Fuel Pump Price by chinchum(m): 4:10am On Jun 01, 2025 |
I maintain that Government should sell all the refineries , it is not worth running. |
Family › Re: How Do I Nullify An Impotency Charm Placed On Me Against My Wife? by chinchum(m): 9:34am On May 31, 2025 |
Greatmec: My dear, at almost 50 years you think I have time for kids plays.
Our people says that when other people's corpse is carried across the street it looks like firewood to you until the corpse is your family member then you feel it deeply.
You insinuated that am not a man in my house - I guess you are the kid here without life experience.
Over the years there is no style I have not used to make our sex life to become great. I have taken all the good gentle man advises, I have also taken strict measures, I have disciplined, I have applied sanctions, all to no avail.
I also came to realize that the move that hardly succeeds is force or too much manning up. Why? When I decree things or force it, most times she ends up complying, but you won't like the outcome. Have you ever tried to romance a dead wood? Ever tried kissing someone who allows you but can't kiss back? Ever tried making love to someone who refuses to participate at all but has submitted her body to you to do as you like?
If it's a new girl you might not .mind and just go on to do your do. But when it is your wife my dear you won't find it funny. It's like taking a horse to the stream and trying to force it to drink.
I'm one of those guys that girls love and fall for naturally. So her attitude messes up with my head. I am incapable of raping someone simply because once a lady manifests her unwillingness or resistance for the sex act with me, my manhood falls, I can't proceed. I only make love when it is mutual. So when I use man of the house tactics on my wife, believe me the result is never good. Reason why I do everything to get proper consent.
I use "almost 20 years of marriage" and "almost 50 years old" Just so that someone who knows me very well won't just fall on this post and be 100% sure that's it's me. But even these are very true. 46 to 49 is almost 50. 16 to 19 is almost 20.
I am able to write everything here because it's sort of a faceless forum. If not you and I know that I couldn't be able to open up this much. Toh. By your explanation, it is not spiritual. Her attitude is what switched you off. The bigger issue is communication in my estimation. I have heard women not wanting sex, but a woman continually turned off by the touch of her man that she loves need help. Maybe seek a TRAINED counselor, most likely not pastor oooo. Hope she consents to you both seeing one. |
Politics › Re: Rivers: No Reason For Peace Not To Reign Between Me And My Oga – Fubara (Video) by chinchum(m): 9:14am On May 31, 2025 |
Terrible politician. Knowing fully well that Wike installed majority of the house members and they were / are loyal to him. He needed to win over half of them before attempting a revolt. He had only 4 by his side and started a foolish fight. There was nothing Wike could have done if at least 50% of the house was with the Fubara guy, at least first term would be won and finished Obaseki had a similar template but he had about 60-70% of the house of assembly members behind him and even failed to let the others sit for about 3yrs.
It is a fight of thief vs thief. |
Family › Re: How Do I Nullify An Impotency Charm Placed On Me Against My Wife? by chinchum(m): 4:10am On May 31, 2025 |
Greatmec: My wife is a very very responsible woman. I can leave her and travel for 2 straight years and never be perturbed about her cheating on me. She has never given me any reason to even imagine that she is capable of such. Ironically that faithfulness is actually what ultimately lured me into this incompatible union.
As for your other suggestions: Hmm my wife hates anything stress and I guess she almost sees sex as stress. So she would prefer we get on with the "do" instead of 'wasting time' on romance.
So our typical love making has zero romance, zero kissing, zero spicing. Just get your erection and get on with the act. Oh there must be Vaseline or lubricant else no show. In these 20 years together I can't remember making love with her once without lubricant. No moaning, never. Most ladies I have made love with I am always aware at least when 8 out of 10 of them reach orgasm on a regular basis. But in these 20 years I can't remember being aware if my wife has ever reached orgasm once. She can't handle my microphone, she doesn't know how to do such things and don't wanna learn either.
However in spite of her colorless attitude towards sex I have always been super attracted to my wife and once we are doing the do I actually enjoy my wife so very much. All she needs do is agree for us to do the do and automatically I will get a great erection that will last us for 30 to 45 minutes one round duration. That is why I can't understand how all of a sudden - 8 years ago this nightmare started - I can't get an erection for my wife again no matter how I try. Even if I force it inside slightly erect or semi erect it will ejaculate within 10 to 30 seconds and instantly dies.
It's very possible though that her frigidity might have affected me. To what extent I wouldn't know ... i think you are catching cruise or you are not a man in your home. So you have a sex problem and in an attempt to get a fix that may help, your wife wont even allow romance because it is "stress". Stop playing bro, you either have an enemy in the home or you both are living a lie. The issue you have in your marriage is not romance or sex, it is deeper than that I suspect this is one of the tales by moonlight from the round 20 years you mentioned you have been married. |