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his mom & dad didnt consent to our marriage, so i dnt go there

@Poster,

This might be part of the problem, the fact that your parent in-law did not consent to u'r marriage is not an excuses not to contact them. What did u do after the marriage. There is need for u to unite u'r husband with his parents. Humble u'r self before them, get them to talk to their son. I believe there will be some changes.

Please ladies know that u don't just marry u'r husband, but u'r equally married to his family. Find a way to unite them together, no matter what happened before the marriage. Peace and harmony is the key

I want to believe that u'r husband is hot tempered, that the cause of the beating and staying away. His staying away is for him to be able to get a grip of himself. Learn the old wise way of holding water in u'r mouth when your husband gets angry, that's only if u want the marriage to work, if not take a walk

ofcourse i cant compare my Nigerian man to an Asian man oooo. na 190 and MOBO444 ooooo

I for far oooo

the Asian men better pass the Nigerian men like you.

@ Joy

I believe that statement is meant for 190 only. Because U can't compare a real Nigerian Man with an Asian

Ode, Juju love, what do I tell you. I pity u, U need juju to win a girl ooooh so pathetic.

Mobo, You have started again. Beside is u'r wife white?

LouisThoru:
you will see him with his eyeballs almost dropping out of their sockets when he sees a beautiful lady.

I don't get it. What that have to do with being good in Bed.

I hope the dikk fall off, and crawl away,

Mmmmmm that too harsh.  But @poster a lady introduce u as her husband to her friends and u did not object or tell her to slow it down. And now u'r telling me that you want out. mmh just be very careful

And where the h--l is this Doc. Well I can Understand no motivation(Pay). If you will pay for consultation then Love doctor will come back now.

REVELATION!!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm that word have done more damage than good. Man of God tell you this that etc. Mmmmmmm apply caution

Our God is not far call on him and he will answer.

Just pray and do what ever comes to u'r mind. Believe that everything will work just the way God want it. And so it shall be. Its u'r life and not u'r mothers. A word is enough for the wise.

he did it for Nigeria he wanted to build pitches for our local footballers.

Pitches for our local footballers or pocket full of dollars. Pitches Na Awka

Ppl believe that the street of Europe is paved with gold, just go and grad as much as u like. While we in Nigeria helps u to spend it  

HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF BROKE AZZED DUDES? Huh

That want to give their babe the chance of answering a giver for once 

I absolutely believe its possible to be 100% faithful if you choose to be.

@Poster

Don't tell me that u have not talked to her. Just tell us did she agree or not?

You are tired of her now because you've had enough of her, when you marry a black lady too what happens in the next 7 years?

@Poster I want you to answer that question what happens after 7 year, I so much believe in marriage Family is very very important. You want to start another family? with another lady, Because u tested black after a long while, and its seems to be heaven. Wake up. U'r not fit to be called a husband. Be a man, make u'r marriage work. For you to remember all the help from u'r wife, means that what ever u feel is a physical attraction. U'r are not sexually attracted to your wife anymore, You want that young pointed tit yoruba babe. After 5yrs and may be after one or two kids will you still want the Yoruba babe.

u know take a leave come to Nigeria enjoy well well with black babes and If that is still what u want then. Feel free. but I know that the problem is that thing b/w u'r leg

Have I missed it or what? Can a dude answer the question, please.

U know i have not thought of this. But the truth is that we guys( especially the Igbo Guys) believe that our women is our responsibility. Just like our family is. We work our ass out to be able to take care of our own.  That's just the way were are wired.

@ Chines4: Not sure whom to recommend in Nigeria, but there are quite a few garages that are able to convert successfully. It's just a case of asking round, mostly in Lagos.

Pls what will it cost to convert the truck in UK, If am to buy from UK

Just tell her how u feel, If she feels the same way good, if not move on. Don't live a life of regret. Just do it

Which of the Okah brothers is Gbomo Jomo? or is Gbomo Jomo still out there? Time will tell. SSS,DMI,FG Nigerians are watching and waiting

Before we met, the mother has always been pressurizing him on the issue of marriage and women but he told her that the fvery irst lady that comes into the house with him is his wife, he doesnt want to bring in any lady and later begin to tell stories. He will be moving to his own flat next month, point is, she can never walk me out of his flat even she comes visiting cos my fiance is matured enough and shows every sign of seriousness.

What did u expect the mother will be happy, Thank God my son is not , (don't ask me fill it in). The mother will even want to make sure that u'r doing it.

Anambra and Ekiti can you compare apple and orange.

This shitt happened to me when i was 17+, hae to get my own apartment, after i did popsi and momsi cam visiting and continued the embarrassment, i stood up for what i wanted and they were forced to accept the relationship and the girl and she cooks for them when they come, insort she was living with me permanently lol,  But the sad news was that the girl was a perfect cheat, slept with cousin, was sleeping around,  We dated for close to 5 years.

Let me cut the bullshitt, my advise is oga,  stand up for what you want, with time they will have no other option but to accept the girl and the relationship. Are you mature enough for marriage bro?

Tell mama to shut the hell up it's your life!

Take care.

Your see your life, My people said that "a fly that does not heed advice follows corpse to the grave" Your folks warned you but u refused, why the bad news, She is no cheat, but she is just sampling your cousin and everyone around.

How old are u now, because you still sound 17+ to me.

b) Cut off his D i c k and let him suffer pain just as you're suffering emotionally and psychologically - he will then understand how not to cause pain on another human being.

In his next life, he will learn and understand the word 'Faithful' and swear never to be selfish and never again, hurt a woman. That's what women need to do to make those philanderers among men, overcome womanising.

Am really sorry for u'r man, u speak with so much venom, Who hurt you this bad? The only way for u'r heart to heal is to forgive and forget. It is not easy but thats the only way to heal. Revenge or bottled up hurt will not help. Trust Me

Well I have done same when my wife is about to drop with our second baby. And its just three of us in the house, I have to cook, wash plate and other house work. But guys it's not funny. although I did not back the baby ooooo. I know how to make baby sleep in a jiffy

Beauty is in eye of the beholder, Don't complain if u did not vote.

My people says that a mad man is not ashamed by his insanity but his brother is

I repeat, there is nothingyour prayer gets you that a non-prayer can not get.

Just try it first

^^^^ she reading it now, I sent her an email Grin

@Queeneve,

U can't do that to me. I'm in a talking mode and i don't want silent treatment at home. My kids are too young for any meaningful chat

Mo r'ogo!!! (I am in trouble) Grin

Chairman, abeg carry your holy fire dey go, I am not interested. You can continue with your mental laziness and disillusion by allocating any challenge in life to a higher being! Goodluck! Grin

God will bless me as much and as equally as he has blessed you even without religion. You can pray and pay tithe from now till the donkeys come home and your life will not get any real superior benefit. So, Oga, ride on! Grin

Bros take it or leave Prayer is the most powerful tool in life. You can try it, Look for anything you want no matter how impossible prayer for it without ceasing and you will get it. Trust me on this I'm a living witness to the power of prayers. beside I'm no saint

And where is the African contestants they look more oyibo to me than African. No back, No front , Sighs