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Family / Re: After 21 Years In US, 9 Years In London, I Found Myself Under Oshodi Bridge by chipower: 11:54am On Nov 21, 2023 |
conscienceman4:Yes oo. I had someone like that. He was living abroad. Whenever I would advise him to pray always, he would start chest beating - " No man can do anything to me, I don't believe in all these things. Etc". Nigerians don't value advice of someone whom they believe they are better than financially. I really tried to reason with him but he wouldn't let me. Last February, he collapsed and died. Nothing was wrong with him prior to that incident. It was a shock to everyone. His autopsy was inconclusive. He was a very good man but he was not involved in any spiritual exercise. I miss him a lot. Women are better when it comes to looking for spiritual solutions to problems. Men will delay and beat their chest until it's almost too late. May God help us. 1 Like |
Science/Technology / Re: Huge Python Delivering Money In Zimbabwe (Video) by chipower: 11:01am On Oct 27, 2023 |
urbobo20:Hahaha. You are very observant. I was about saying the same thing but you said it first. So the snake came from Zimbabwe. This explains why the Nigerian security agencies were not able capture it all these while. |
Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by chipower: 7:56pm On Sep 30, 2023 |
Prettychild: You are right. The story is not complete. He didn't just walk up to the girl and asked her whether she was a virgin. Obviously it didn't happen that way. On the surface, what the guy said sounds uncultured, but she should have told us what brought about the question. This will help us to have a better understanding of what transpired. Men, please don't be too comfortable around women. Always create space between you and women. Women are very difficult to understand. To be honest with you guys, I cannot comfortably say that I understand my wife. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Woman Reconciled With Her Husband On His Sick Bed The Same Day He Died by chipower: 2:09pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
tabaralph:You are right. She got what she wanted. The man can't tell his own side of the story cos he's dead. She is now blaming the man's kins for his death. Seriously! 1 Like |
Food / Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by chipower: 1:21pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
BoldBrainz:I don't understand you. Rice used to be one of the most common food among poor Nigerians. Now, a great number of Nigerians can't afford to buy rice. I believe that the topic is important. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by chipower: 1:12pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
lavylilly: You are right. Most Nigerians don't want a smooth running system where everyone will benefit. They complain because they don't gain from the rotten system. |
Romance / Re: Your Reasons For Asking Forgiveness When Caught Cheating? by chipower: 2:50pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
talented321: Normally, cheaters don't ask for forgiveness unless they were caught pants down. They would normally gaslight you if they think you don't have any hard evidence to support your case. Most cheaters ask for forgiveness because they don't want to face the consequences of their actions, and not because they feel remorseful. They regret being caught but they don't feel remorseful. The common consequences they are trying to avoid are shame and breakups. When I say 'shame' ,I mean the shame that comes from telling friends and family members. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by chipower: 6:01pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
1Sharon: I think we are saying the same thing. It will only amount to disgrace when the cheating is discovered, and men are caught most of the time. I believe you though, men should pursue cheating with more grace. They are messing up the game a lot. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by chipower: 5:20pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by chipower: 5:18pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick:You are not far from the truth. Women are smart cheaters. Many women have cheated on their partners, and their partners will never find out. Men are not clever when it comes to cheating. Consequently, catching cheating men is very easy. Another reason why women are not caught while cheating is because men traditionally think that women hardly cheat. With this mind set, men find it difficult to notice the signs associated with cheating women. The truth is that many women here have cheated on their partners without being caught. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by chipower: 4:42pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
blessingnenye:Cheating is not considered normal for men. I don't know if I'm misunderstanding you. |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs England: FIFA Women's World Cup 2023. (2 - 4)pens On 7th August 2023 by chipower: 4:12pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
OGHENAOGIE:They will lose narrowly to Nigeria. Thanks 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs England: FIFA Women's World Cup 2023. (2 - 4)pens On 7th August 2023 by chipower: 4:07pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
ambassadorgozie:Why are you afraid? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Music/Radio / Re: Jaye Lo: You Owe No Apology To Muslims, Soyinka Defends Davido by chipower: 11:34am On Jul 26, 2023 |
vannessa7:What was Deborah's offence ? Are you threatening Davido? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Music/Radio / Re: Jaye Lo: You Owe No Apology To Muslims, Soyinka Defends Davido by chipower: 11:30am On Jul 26, 2023 |
IconicR:Which boundaries are you talking about.? Who sets the boundaries? You? |
Romance / Re: Your Partner Confessed To Cheating... by chipower: 12:22pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
It is rare for cheaters(both males and females) to change their ways. It's a habit. A habit they formed even before getting married. Habits are difficult to discard. I believe the best action to take is to leave the cheating partner. This will allow you to heal. When you're cheated on, it takes away your self esteem and depression follows. It's a place no one wishes to be. Staying with a cheater is a dangerous prospect. The person might give you incurable STD. The wife of my friend gave him genital herpes and she wanted to deny it. A very sad story but funny at the same time. No matter how you want to pretend, it's very difficult to forgive a cheater. My friend has not forgiven his wife. He told me that he is just waiting for the right time to strike. |
Religion / Re: Morality And God's Plan: The Sinful Nature Of Homosexuality by chipower: 11:27am On Jul 09, 2023 |
confusedlady: I have interacted with that guy here before. After which I decided not interact with him/her again because of the reasons you mentioned. He/she teaches a lot heresies here. I mean, a lot! She seems not to understand basic Christian theology. She can also be an agent from the dark side. It's a possibility. The things she says here are scary. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by chipower: 7:50am On May 30, 2023 |
Worriedwife: I don't think the OP is singling out female children from broken homes for attack. It seems that he is passing through this situation. That's why he is seeking for our opinions. For me, one should be careful getting into relationship with anyone from a broken home irrespective of the person's sex. |
Religion / Re: Will People's Prayers Work For Me After My Death? by chipower: 7:31am On Apr 17, 2023 |
solreb: If what you are saying is true, how then did Jesus and Peter raised people from death? 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Just Like The Biblical Joseph, Have You Ever Turned Down A Sexual Advance? by chipower: 5:09pm On Mar 12, 2023 |
[quote author=Gentew post=121675360] I am presently trying to turn down a 21year old lady who is a virgin but wants me to deflower her but knowing fully well that I have no future with her..... I pray I'm able to turn her down until the very end cuz she's actually pretty and lovable.[/jquote] Who told you she is a virgin? |
Religion / Re: Just Like The Biblical Joseph, Have You Ever Turned Down A Sexual Advance? by chipower: 9:57am On Mar 12, 2023 |
jesusjnr2020:It was not a mistake. You wanted it too. She offered you what you liked. |
Romance / Re: I Cheated But Do Not Want To Admit by chipower: 7:39pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
omaira: If you love her, how can you be cheating on her. I pity the lady. She knows that you are lying. She doesn't trust you anymore. She might not tell you this but you have killed the trust she has in you. Believe it or not, you will do it again. |
Romance / Re: I Cheated But Do Not Want To Admit by chipower: 7:17pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
omaira: Once your partner starts to suspect you are cheating, he or she has taken the necessary time to figure it out. Your denials don't matter. Cheaters always think they are very smart without knowing that once you start to cheat, it will always show in your behaviour towards your partner. It is just a matter of time before your partner will decode everything. Cheaters are pathological liars. While they lie, they can cry and swear with all kinds of things(eg God,their lives, their ancestors grave etc). Cheaters have no integrity. The worst part is that they are most likely to do it again and again. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Am First Female Chief In My Hometown, People Make Culture by chipower: 7:51am On Jan 05, 2023 |
meobizy: Did she tell you she was from Nsukka? |
Family / Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by chipower: 7:20pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: My brother im so sorry this is happening to you. Infidelity is one of the worst things that can happen to someone in a marriage. It throws a betrayed spouse off balance and makes the person depressed. You must know that your wayward wife is not your friend. She is your adversary, so be careful. Stop sleeping with her. Go and do full panel STD test to make sure you are free from any disease. She is mostly likely lying to you. Wayward spouses lie a lot to cover their tracks. I believe she must have had physical affairs with one or two of these men. It does not take anything for physical affair to take place. And often they do it without protection. For now, don't think that your wife is remorseful. What she is feeling right now is regret and not remorse. Regret and remorse are not the same. She is regretting being caught. If you had not caught her, she would have been doing what she was doing. Don't pay too much attention to her pleadings. She is in a self preservation mode. She is trying to preserve her fake image and the marriage. She is ashamed. Don't promise your wife forgiveness yet even if you have the intention of reconciling with her in the future. Please let her people know about what happened. Don't mind her apology. The response you get from her people will determine if you will tell your people or not. You need emotional support right now. For that, you can tell a close friend you trust about what's going on. For a marriage to thrive there must be respect, trust and love. Your wife doesn't respect you. She has destroyed the trust you have in her. She doesn't love you ofcourse . If she loves you, she wouldn't have done what she did. Most of the time, the signs of infidelity in a marriage might be presenting itself before the betrayed spouse but he or she often ignores them. Some of these signs are: your wife always picking fights with you, her phone is always on silent, change of password, avoiding physical contact with you, she is always with her phone wherever she goes, she is ignoring you, she is always giving excuses to deny you sex, she often tells you to be quick about it whenever you want to have sex with her etc. Often a betrayed spouse attributes some of the above mentioned signs to other factors other than infidelity. And i don't blame them for that From now onwards, judge your wife by her actions and not her words. She can't be trusted. She is a liar. Watch her closely to see signs of remorse if you are still interested in the marriage. If you are no longer interested, please cut your losses and move on because your wife is not a safe partner. The woman you taught you married was just a fantasy. My brother, your wife did not just learn what she was doing recently. She was doing it even before you married her but you didn't know. Habits are very difficult to drop. Marriage doesn't make one to change a habit. Your wife might become a safe partner in the future if she is ready to do the work that is involved. Again, are you sure all the kids are yours? On a spiritual level, infidelity brings stagnation in marriages. This might be one of the reasons why your marriage is not thriving. Please eat well and sleep well. May God strengthen you. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: What Disease Could This Be? by chipower: 4:12pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Witnesstony28: It looks much like genital herpes. It's very common. The symptoms comes and goes periodically. It can be severe in some people. Especially people with low immunity. It is caused by HPV virus. If its genital herpes, it will clear on it's own with time. The girl's body might be shedding the virus but at the same time she might not be experiencing any or severe symptoms like you. It happens like that to many people. Women are very funny atimes when it comes to sex. A lot of them succumb to unprotected sex when put under pressure. I believe you will get well. Be careful next time. Don't trust anyone. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Bet9ja’s Website Hacked By Russian Blackcat Group, LASG Responds by chipower: 5:45pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
How long will it take bet9ja to resolve this problem.? Everything about naija is always awkward. It's been days since this happened. |
Romance / Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by chipower: 10:22am On Apr 18, 2021 |
ceaser: The truth is that like most men, most women of nowadays don't value commitment in relationships. They hate it. They like sneaking around even when they are married. I have seen this a lot. Men always miss this point a lot. Many men think that it's hard for women to cheat but it's false. Women cheat a lot but they are very smart when it comes to cheating. They are very hard to catch. Your wife might be cheating on you for years without you detecting it. Obviously, the signs are always there but you will be ignoring them thinking that they are normal. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by chipower: 10:00am On Apr 18, 2021 |
maryjames9: Maryjames, if you can really sit down, take a deep breath and read between lines, through the conversation the girl had with the guy on WhatsApp, you should have observed that the girl is not really in love with the man who promised her marriage. She is not interested in commitment rather she is trying to get the best catch in terms of money. Well that is what she wants, I will not blame her for that. Every decision/ actions we take have consequences, good or bad as the case may be. We should be careful what we wish for because this type of woman can have extra marital affairs if things get tough in her marriage. I have seen a lot when it comes to these things. |
Crime / Re: My Father Has Been Sleeping With Me – Fatima Usman (Video) by chipower: 6:38pm On Jan 29, 2021 |
matm: The young woman is not looking for sympathy but justice. Obviously, the family was trying hard to kill the case under the guise of sacrificing to a fictional sky god. They have also bribed our police as usual that was why they released the criminal. Which court is handling the matter? None. This shows they were trying to kill the case. Please, try and read between lines. The young woman was left with no other choice than to embrace social media in order to get justice. And it's working very well in her favour. The man belongs to the prison. As for the young woman not shouting, this is possible especially when the whole thing started when she was quite very young. She was under a kind of mental captivity in the hands of the man. It's a psychological state. This is where psychologists will help and unravel what was going on in the mind of the victim. I don't understand what is going on in your mind but from your comment I can see your inability to condemn what this wicked man has done to a fellow innocent human being like yourself. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: My Father Has Been Sleeping With Me – Fatima Usman (Video) by chipower: 5:54pm On Jan 29, 2021 |
Helpfromabove1: I think you have a big problem. What is shameful about someone crying for justice?. She is the victim for God's sake. |
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