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michlins:
This reply no even make sense. Why not ignore or simply answer the question.

You don't even know the person who is asking the question

Why not say, I can not discuss the relationship status of our CEO, you can ask her yourself.

Simple and matured reply. Everyone working hard to sound savage

You too serious abeg

Spud:
Due to the fact that ASUU has been on strike for a while. my sister asked me to send money for her to learn a skill. I sent 70k to her. 2weeks later i called her to ask which skill she decided to learn and she burst into tears on the phone, she told me she mistakinly but 50k airtime instead of 5k. I told her to calm down that i'll find away and she sent me this screenshot. I checked google but it showed me untrustworthy sites

p.s: sorry if this is the wrong section, but i need more solutions

Try to contact them as someone suggested they may refund you completely

But you can try palmpay app
Their commission is like 5%

darediamond:
This is the Major mistake of Hitler which made me to Partly HATE ME HIM.

He wanna Rule the world solely instead of dividing the rulership with Russia and thereby get rid of Britain the parasitic colonies dependent nation jointly.

Why Hitler??
Hitler Why.
Instead of bombing England to stupor you choose to face Migthy RusiYa?

Be calming down, He lost the battle of Britain you know?

When he couldn't defeat Britain, He diverted to russia after because he believed Britain does not have the capability of amphibious invasion of continental europe. But Alas, Britain kept fighting them in the sea and both in North africa.

His greatest undoing was also declaring war on US which now opened door for a 2 front war

Untop say the woman fat like elephant

She no kon fyn

Kon still be Lesbian

The lesbian partner con still get mind dey drag her openly with you, kon still dey live for de same neighborhood with you, she still even dey violent.

Your wife no even try to stop her.

Wetin make you kon still dey with the woman, even if na juju

Just imagine that your headache is not Male colleagues of your wife at her work place BUT the women that comes to make her hair

God forbid. Better to stay alone oo

ukandi1:
The law is explicit on this.

No policeman has the right to your phone without a warrant.
Don't encourage police brutality.
What the officers are doing is dismissable offense . That's abuse of power and intimidation.
Those who have the gumption should stand up and refuse such assault and abuse.
Thumbs up to those guys.
We all should have the courage to say No to these criminals in uniform.
Times are hard and most people are Struggling to ekk a living

You get justice in court, not by dragging a weapon with a police man. It is very sure he will be spending some time behind bars. You don't tackle illegality with illegality

360command:
Nigeria is not usa. That is a barbaric nature of the US police to shoot individuals not having a weapon. If you go to Denmark or Europe, no Danish/european policie will shoot an individual because his hands are in his pockets or trying to reach the glove compartment of a car for his car registration papers etc..

Well, in Europe, citizens are not allowed to carry guns unlike in the US. Police officers many times have been killed coz they allowed you make such move. Such move in considered as reaching out for a weapon that is why you have to obey

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Zeal0000007:
My friend as been victim of a toxic relationship, despite the fact both him and the gal in question have been together for long and he cares and love the gal.

The both stay together in an apartment my guy rented, he wanted to go see the gal's parents for proper introduction but the gal's attitude spoilt everything, so he had to pause the process. My guy loves this gal so much despite all her flaws , they barely stay a week without issues.

The gal is saucy, insults my guy at every provocation, no respect at all. Often times he has asked the gal out of his house but d gal will always refuse, I had to step in but no avail. The gal said she can't leave him to anyway or for anybody after all she had passed through with him, spending many years with him, that she will kill my friend if he tries any attempt to push her out of the house or by any chance end the relationship , she doesn't mind going to jail, and she meant it. I felt for the poor guy, bad relationship could lead to death this gal could starve my guy of sex for weeks, most times the gal will bully him, hitting him on the face just because he wants to have sex with her, she lacks respect, she's abusive though hard working.

Guys what's your take on this, your advise could safe a soul. He has learnt his lesson, currently he vowed not to allow any woman stay with him again unless they're married. Cos right now he can't bring in another gal in, cos it will be disastrous. And the current gal wouldn't want to leave either. I can't image myself stay with such a gal who doesn't respect me, at every provocation will be abusing me , tufiakwa . very stubborn and doesn't want to leave as well, advise pls.

Well i have not experienced this, but one of the best way to end such is to become the problem. The girl will start looking solution for.

If she mess up, beat her.
Insult her
Lock her outside
Insult the family
Insult the father
Lock her outside.

Become the problem and she will leave.
Only Negative can cancel out negative in this case

Evilblackman:
How will you be liking the people that did your people dirty because you don’t want to be seen as a hater
Cmon the British did alot of bad things abd this why people have hate for them

Look at you
People hate the British so much...
Enter any country with a british and a Nigerian passport and see who will be honored or respected.

Despite all the hatred. We support their football clubs, we love their university, we celebrate their visa, we go to their games

Hh

Parachoko:
Are you serious about this please?

Yes,

Once the viral load is zero, hiv can't be transmitted through sex

tomtomastom4:
I created this thread in response to the post on front page about ladies that date men who earn less than 100k. Below is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/7292274/ladies-relationship-men-earns-100k

Of a truth, its not easy to manage such amount, but when one is already in such situation, you just have to manage and improvise.
Now like the OP of the above thread requested, here is the break down of how we make our expenses.

To start with, I was earning about 130k previously before we got married by March this year, but I changed job and the pay of the new job is 95k. STarted the new job around Feb this year, even though there was a loan I was paying off.. Need I add that my wife was working in a firm where shes paid 45K, but two months after our married, she quit the job due to pregnancy stress. Am sure ladies will understand.

This is our break down.
Monthly salary 95k
I remove 40k first from the salary and transfer it to 3 different acct.
The first acct receives 20k. This acct is not touchable except on extreme emergency. Its our main savings acct.
The second acct gets 10k and its for our rent, also non touchable. Rent is 150k per year. Before u say my rent is high compared to my salary, I like my privacy very well. and the cost of rent isnt friendly in my state.
The third acct also gets 10k. This one is for semi savings. This acct is touchable when cash at hand have been exhausted before the next month salary.

From the remaining 50k,
I send 10k to my family acct. I and my brothers do contribute 10k+ every month and its been used to run expenses WRT our parents and last born.
I gv my wife 10k for her monthly up keep. Its small. But its the sacrifice we all have to make for the good of the family.
I hold 10k myself for logistics and transport. I must confess, is not enough. But One have to strive. My wrk place isnt far. SO transport is N100 to and fro, thats approximately 3k per month. The remaining money i use it for other logistics. 4k out of this money goes for gas wch last for abt 2 weeks. And when we want to refill and there is no other money left, we fall back to the 3rd acct.
The remaining 20k is strictly for food ( On this food issue is where I "duff my hart" cos shes really managing things well and trying.
Sometimes, I really feel for her, cos this her pregnancy makes her to crave for things that is not on our food menu, but then when the money is not there, she just surpress the cravings. At times I feel bad.

The remaining 5k, for now is used to pay back a tailor who sewed multiple pregnancy gowns for my wife.

Its good to add that any small money I make like 1k or 2k on side hustle, I directly buy mudu of rice, beans or flour for swallow.

Its not easy at all. But there are families with kids leaving below that.

My wife is abt 5mnths pregnant, we plan to divert the 20k savings to buying baby things in preparation for child birth.


The truth is that the economic situation in this country is bad and so cost of leaving is very high. But then one have to survive.
But then in Nigeria now, how many percentage of the population earn above 100k. In fact how many jobs out there pays such as amount.

The only advice I have for ladies is that if you are not working and you parent family is the type need financial help from your husband after marriage, or you are the type of lady that is high class and wont settle for less or manage with your man. Plz kindly wait and take your time to look for a man that is RICH or financially capable of taken care of you and maybe your family. Please dont hide under the cover of you want to marry quick and then accept a struggling man only to start putting pressure on his head. Plz wait and marry a rich man.

Most responsible men wont really appreciate it if you are always demanding for things you knw fully well that he can not afford.


It is also good to note that no condition is permanent, things will definitely get better. A better job might come or my wife might get a job after her maternity which will increase our income.

The bottom line is, as a couple, but of you will have to work things out to improve your finances.

Oga, someone just promised to support you with 50k. And he is saying he hasn't heard from you. Kindly check the second page of your thread

Trex001:


Have se.x with her and in 3-6 months time go for blood test

U=U
Undetectable=Un-transmittable

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qjMFH4CqFfw



https://fij.ng/article/n22m-stolen-from-customers-car-parked-inside-an-access-bank-branch-in-kaduna/

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eezor:
A Cameroonian lady has been ordered by the Court to pay her boyfriend 23,750frs after he sent her 3,000frs to pay for a taxi to attend the man's birthday party but the lady did not show up and instead switched off her phone.

The man went to the court and filed the suit together with evidence which includes his. momo (mobile money) statement and WhatsApp chats between him and the lady before and after sending the money after the lady ignored his messages and then switched off her phone.

The lady was ordered to refund the man 3,000frs plus interest of 750frs and a further 20,000frs in damages for the emotional anguish he went through.

The lady was detained awaiting payment of the damages by her family.

Bro's incase your not aware in NIGERIA constitution your mandated to file a suit against such inhumane for causing you emotional trauma.

This is laughable, but THE SOURCE

Lamasta:
Oga read the story again very slowly and you will read where they slept in the cell that day...

Once you are arrested for an offence, you have to be locked up naaa.

Every police department in the world do that.

Go and commit a crime in New York and you think you will not be locked up by NYPD. Even civilians can lock you up if you commit a crime

Lamasta:
So na to lock them up be the solution to the disagreement abi Na so una go dey support oppressors

They were arrested and taken to court. That is the right thing to do. Besides the PRO called police on them.

IMPUNITY would have been if the police came down and started manhandling them

I checked the meaning of ophthalmic and i saw that it was something related to the eye disease.

May be it is a special soap for a particular eye disease treatment. But you go use like that probably because it is expensive.

Caleb17:
Some women are always disgracing themselves. How many times have you cried for a Better Nigeria??

Baba calm down, all na cruise.

G

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Aether:
It's a good thing that you admitted your mistake of not reading the T&C.
As others have said, you can likely break the safelock, but you'd lose the accrued interest. Next time, use Kolo

Jjj

ebexofficial:
Leave the money there, collecting it means you have to forfeit the interest and may also affect your principal.
This is a temptation you should overcome.

Borrow and forget the locked funds for now

Ff

In this age and time, someone is still storing contacts on phone, what happened to your Gmail naa.

Except if some secret things con dey there ooo like
1. Porn
2. Sex tape
3. Bad business deals and the likes

Right now only what pains me about missing phone is pictures and documents inside.

Google photos can solve picture issues self

Whatsapp backup will solve whatsapp messages issue

People should learn to store delicate data on the cloud rather than device only

Beebah2000:
This is what I can never do for a man.
God forbid!!

Pray not to find yourself in a situation you will fight because of as man.

It can happen to both man and woman and it takes split seconds. It may not be you attacking a lady because of a man but you might encounter someone crazy people and things could go awful in seconds.

Just imagine after going out with a guy, a distant crazy friend just walk up to you and say "so you are the bitch snatching my boy friend" as you are surprised thinking over it, slap landed on your face, b4 saying jack, she tore your cloth with another slap. Seeing she is someone you can fight, I bet you must fight back.

To you; You are defending yourself
But to viewers; you are fighting because of a man

That's how it usually happen

Some people that fight because of women are never willing to but just trying to defend themselves

AlfaSeltzer:
Lawan and Atiku will divide the northern votes.

Yoruba Christians will rally Obi.

If Tinubu is bitter, he might throw his weight behind Obi just to spite the North, bring some Yoruba muslims with him.

The rest will depend on INEC rigging.

If APC Eventually brings up a nothern candidate, then i suggest this


I feel Peter Obi should merge with Kwankwanso's NNPP with Kwankwanso as vice. That will really give him a very big chance. You can see NNPP have not said PIM

Jmichael1:
Abeg i dey fyn grl wen go rape me and i promised i won't tell any1.

i wn jst comfam sumtin...

See this one, you think say na Genevieve abi Chika Ike or Yvonne Nelson go com rape you abiii. By the time you see very fat thing wey her stomach done go down, her body don wrinkle finish na hin you go know

Error401:
Sequel to my last post
https://www.nairaland.com/7030121/external-hordeleum-chalazion-know-anything

I finally got it solved by going for the surgery.
I used almost all the recommended drugs and methods on the previous thread but it dosent seem to go away. So I took the bold step for the surgery cos it's really affecting my self esteem.

The process is simple and should be completed within 30mins. Prices varies according to location, little or no pain after anaesthesia injection. You only feel pain after surgery.

Its better you undergo the surgery cos the bulge hardly go away on it's own. Final solution is the surgery and you dont need to worry about any scar, because the incision was inverted (internal eye lid incision)

Please how much did it cost you in total including consultation fee.

And which state or hospital did you use. Private or Public hospital?

Good day all,

Pls I need the suggestion of Caterers in the house.

Pls I have a little inquiry to make. I recently started making pop corn in the evening to complement my 9-5 job. I started about a month now and God has been faithful.

Recently, someone came to meet me to inquire if I could do outside work and i told her that i would get back to her.

My issue now is to go about the charges. So for the caterers in the house, how do catering charges occur?, lets assume the quality of rice you intend serving at the occasion is same thing you sell for 500 naira or 600 naira at your shop, how do you calculate the outside work to cover the extra cost you will incur and also make good profit.

If you have sone pop corn for birthdays, yoir comments will be most appreciated.

Thanks

jesuscousin:
Only for the high and mighty pple. If Dem born ur fada we'll go there. U go hear entering fee 100,000 new beach na ur mate

A little google search will help. I just checked their Instagram handle and discovered the the gate fee is 3k which gives you access to all facilities asides the cabana which is 50k for 10 people. Which is still like 5k.

God sparing my life i must visit there this year. Na only once person come this life. Ee get many 10k wey i don spend wey i no fit remember wetin i use am do. At least if i spend this 3k + add ons, like 15k, if dem ask me i go say i go flex

Yoruba

President Buhari

Though not encouraging, but if the place isn't far from you take it up and manage it.
Reason being that you only work 15days in a month. Ensure you don't sleep on your off days ooo. Get daily menial job or enrol for skill acquisition or use those days to look for better job. Best use it to acquire good skill both digital and physical that can fetch you money in a short while like barbing, catering etc. You can even start evening indomie business on off days. 25k for 15 days is far far better than 60-70k that will tie you up completely

May be He wants to impose someone that will fight him in 1 year into his tenure