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Wish you good luck. Hope the chics here will grab this opportunity

For me, I will advice him to declare a state of emergency in the power sectore immidiately. Set up a team that will ensure Nigeria has steady power supply within six months.

2. The Lagos Benin road might not be completed within the remnants of his tenure but something real can be done. Therefore to review the existing contract and hand it over to Julius Beger.

3. Overhaul and restructure the Police force. There should be a mass sack in the force.

4. Send a bill to the National assembly for the establishment of State Police.

5. Establish a human rights council that will be a watchdog of human right abuses like EFCC is to finance with headquarters in every state. A lot of human right abuses are going on in that country and no one is doing something about it.

POWER

INFRASTRUCTURE

SECURITY and

PEOPLE'S RIGHTS

are the fundamental areas where we really need fundamental actions in that country.

ElRazur:
From a joking point of view? Yeah.

The problem with this kind of thread is that these things will never happen in real life. In other words, regardless of what good advice people post up here, there is remote chance that any of us will actually have that chance, hence why I do not bother to make serious post sometimes with threads like this.

Do Jonathan and his people read nairaland? Probably not. And even if they do, there is a chance they have bigger fish to fry to be honest. It is nothing but an "If thread".

Point here is u 'never know'! And I think these days that ideas will postulate here today can form the basis of decsions tomorrow. U never know. And fate can thrust the mantle of leadership on us tomorrow.

HI folks! Acting President Jonathan just inuagurated the Presidential advisory council. If you were to be one of them, or if you have Jonathan's ears, what will you advice him on? You never know, maybe someone might be reading or Jonathan himself takes a peep at Nairaland once in a while and your advice might change things in Nigeria for good.

RIP Compatriot

sasifun1:
Why not venture into both men and women stuffs because women clothen move much more faster, And your budget will go a long way in achieving that

are u suggesting unisex boutique will be more profitable than an IT firm?

A new established IT firm in Port Harcourt requires the services of a qualified computer techinician for immidiate employment or to go into partnership with. Interested candidate must have knowledge in

1. Computer repairs and maintanance

2. Web designing and domain hosting

3. Internet configuration and networking

4. Phone repair ability will be an added advantage.

Remuneration is great and there is an opportunity to partner into other areas.

SMS or call 009 39 328 168 1557. No flashes please or email to chykeopio@yahoo.com

Still waiting on ideas from anyone in the house. Meanwhile I am interested in teaming up with a good and qualified It technician who is good in internet networking, computer repairs and installation and web designing and hosting. Any interested guy should get in touch please.

I need serious advice on whic business will be more viable to start in Port Harcourt with 1 million naira after rent in Port Harcourt. A good quality boutique for men that will only stock Italian high quality stuff or an It firm that will sell computers, notebooks , phones and accessories and will also do intallation, repairs and maintainance and internet networking.

Budget is 1m.

Of the 2 which one is more viable?

Advice and suggestions please-

Ms.D24:
Hello,
I am new on this site. I just stumbled on it, and was reading some previous post from different ones here, and my question is how do obtain a visa for my Nigerian friend? Is there anyway around the meeting clause?

Ask one Ms Patricia Daboh. She posted something here on this thread. I am sure she can be of help

No need to send those emails to anyone RT. As much as many will be disappointed ( I for one), it was fun while it lasted though
Let's not jump to conclusions folks. We need to hear Thoe's side as well.
you guys just saved me the money for the deep freezer I promised on behalf of nairalanders and the flight ticket home.

Just dont wanna conclude Theo took all of us for a ride just for her own fun!

So guys

Where And How To Meet Guys Ready 4 Marriage ? Anywhere! as it just happened on this thread

Et tu Ohakim?

Ohakim is not sure of himself and his abilities come 2011. So he decided to join the rig masters to be able to retain his seat in 2011. Let us all watch and see. His insecurity is as a result of his unperformance! Does Fashola need to join the PDP to be able to secure his second term?

eddy1977:
like the other guy said:the romanian lady should be way better positioned to help you out. if its only marriage in question, why make the easy thing so complicated? unless you are considering settling in romania yourself after this visit. if that be the case, you should do like your buddy; marry a romanian and have kids.
i beleive if you just wanna be a good immigrant into romania, you just need to lay low go with the flow and enjoy.

Intent is simple. Question is meeting one of your own is ok. You will have a soft landing. Of course the lady is there with you always but nothing like having your own buddy speaking your language and thiers.

Ike.muomah:
If i where God i will seize Nigeria oil for 100 years. all the wahala will go away

Seems reasonable. Probably the oil is becoming a curse instead of a blessing

Davedavy:
isnt it better if the Romanian lady in question help you guys out?at least its her country and her language,besides she should know all the requirements and the right offices to visit.

good point davedavy but we will like to meet one of our own in that place. If we do meet an English speaking person it will be best but incase we dont, the girl is the best bet. But there is nothing like having someone that understands the language and speaks your own who is like a brother on your side. Sort of a soft landing

Eziachi:
Thank you. When I look at people I will take what I will take and leave what I will leave. No matter how bad a person is, if you look closely, there is always a tiny bit of good side to the person. I fought in the Biafran war and I had always said it that Ojukwu is the least skillful politician you will ever deal with but with Ojukwu what you see is what you get.

He doesn't double talk or talk behind your back, he is not materialy possessed and always stand by his words. And he love his people and that is one of the reasons Igbos loved him no matter the avoidable and unavoidable mistakes made in the most difficult circumstances he found himself at the age of 30 of which many Nigerian hated.
Who at that age and that period will carry such a burden without bulking up? If it was to happen today, things would have been far far different. very different.

Most Nigerians wanted Ojukwu as a war trophy at the end of the war but intelligent people like Phillip Effiong, Sam Mbakwe, Kemte Giadom (Ijaw man) Frank Apugo (Ijaw man that suggested the name Biafra) prevented that happening by help convincing him to go to exile in Ivory Coast and when that trophy failed to materialised, most Nigerians would have loved that Igbos insult Ojukwu and say all sorts to him, even humiliate him before their eyes but when that is not forthcoming too, they get frustrated and starts doing the insults themselves and it hilarious sometimes, when some of them cries more than the bereaved.
And I kept asking Bilymuse: WHERE DID YOU COME FROM? AND THIS WILL NOT BE THE LAST. ARE YOU A MAN OR A MOUSE? PUT UP NOW OR SHUT UP NOW.

Thank you Eziachi for some of the points up there. Maybe I skipped it somewhere but Kemte Giadom and Frank Apugo are new names to me. I didn't even knew it was him that suggested the name BIAFRA. Do you have an idea of the meaning or what it might suggest or what might have prompted him to come up with the suggestion? Like Nigeria ---obviously came up from ---niger area! Will appreciate your ideas.

Kudos and congratulations for your defence of fatherland.

And as a veteran that saw it all, isn't it condescending arguing with that guy bilymuse? So I think you should begin to ignore him. Why bother where comes from? He could be a gipsy for all you care.

I doff my cap!

I want to really know the processes involved in getting married there with a Romanian. I have a freind who wishes to do his marriage there with his Romanian lady. I am gonna travel with him but we might need someone, an English speaking person who's been living there to help us through the processes as language will be a barrier.

I know some Romanians speak English but it will be better if we meet an African who will be of help.

We will appreciate every assistance.

daniel.jimoh:
It is romania not romenia i have a friend studying in ASE (academic school of economics) he lives in bucuresti or better still bucharest so ask your question i ll pass it no to him and give you an answer here

Thanks Daniel. Jimoh for the correction. Foreign languages don dey corrupt man pickin English

Hi guys,

Please is anyone living in Romenia here. I have somethings I just wanna know bout the country. Might be visiting soon in August.

bilymuse:
chykeo

Wow! chykeo , this is wonderful
hope you are having a swell time in Italy. I must have gotten under your skin, sorry. Try take some time off, cool off the steam and let the show continue.

You want my pregnancy to be aborted, that's fair. The last massob member wanted Amadioha to strike me dead. Well I'm happy to inform all my Igbo admirers that Amadioha hasn't strike me dead. Probably, Amadioha recognises I'm telling the truth

I am a mirror and I'm going to show you, your ugly face

@bilymuse

You may have some points against DIM CHUKWUEMEKA ODIMEGWU OJUKWU but honestly you do not have to resort to insults. I dont know where you come from and I know Eziachi has been challanging you to say where you come from. He thinks you are yoruba just like everyone else here on N/L does but I think you are Igbo. I dont care about origin anyway as I believe we are all Nigerians. I do not think that any tribe in Nigeria insults thier elders. Yorubas prostarte before there elders ( Dobale. Dont know the correct spelling.) Hausas salute and dont even take a seat where thier elders are. Binis (domo. spelling might be wrong) and all igbos shake thier elders with two hands. We all ahve a culture of respect. I dont like and will not tolerate insults to an elder. I was angry with your insults of Dim Odumegwu Chukwuemeka Ojukwu, same way I would be mad with anyone who insults your own biological father. So please, I beg you, let the insults stop.

History is a judge of men. JFK said that history is the only judge of our deeds. I agree and we are even talking of the biafran war as people who are interested in history. I was born after the war honestly, but I have read every piece of book, commentary, opinion and documentary that has been written about it. I am not a great fan of Ojukwu anyway. I lost uncles and relatives to the war. I can accurately tell you most of the things that happened then, From EMEKA, by Fredrick Forsyth, The Nigerian revolution and the biafran war by Alexander Madiebo, Wole Ademoyaga's WHY WE STRUCK, and Ojukwu's BECAUSE I AM INVOLVED, I have read them all. We all know what transpired but I maintain that if you want an honest discuss, i am in it. If you want to really know what happened and where blames should be apportioned, I will discuss with you but please dont insult anybody. I am friendly with Ojukwu and my friends relate with him too. We may disagree on issues but we dont insult anyone. Please desisit from insults.

I believe Nigeria is healing from the disastrous effects of the war. We should all contribute towards and effective healing without causeing any more crisis. If you watched Fareed Zakariah's GPS today on CNN, you would have been proud and happy of the progress Rwanda is made after the genocide of 1994. Paul Kagame, the president said that they were more into reconciliation than punishment. Interesting lesson indeed.

I beg you Bilymuse, differ with the man ( I may agree with you on some points) but dont insult him. He is human afterall and a mere mortal like you and I. No one is infallible

@ Eziachi

I do follow your posts and your passion with Igboland. Keep it up. The guy is Igbo but I really wonder,
I think on this matter let us all rest.

Thank you for being a patriot.

Onye aghana nwanne ya

I just went through the guy's ealier posts.

I didn't realise I was dealing with an eternally, pathologically sick and doomed man.

Infact the guy just picks an article from a newspaper everday, copies and pastes.

I wonder if Seun Osewa has enough storage for all those in this site.

We all read Nigerian papers online daily so there is no point in copying and pasting here.

Seriously, that guy needs psycho help.

ADDENDUM:

Let us stop hiding under pseudonyms to insult people. I am so angered by these guys stupidity and lack of basic home training. I am begining to think you were even an abandoned child that grew up in gutter or an almajiri. Makes me wonder again if all those alms we gave you motor parks amounted to anything.

I am honestly so sure Bilymuse, that your father has not even been able to lead your kindreds not to talk of leading a people like Ikemba Ojukwu did. I am also so sure that your father did not get an oxford training and I am also so sure that your father never drove a Rolls Royce. I am so sure that you will never drive a Rolls Royce till you die. I am also sure your father never married a beauty queen. I am also so sure that you will never marry a beauty queen in this your apologetic existence. IKemba had all these. And the way you are going, no reasonable, responsive and responsible woman will marry you with your misery, jealousy, envy and lack of tact.

As I defend and am fighting for Ikemba, you see, your own fucking nameless, ostracised father who doesn't even know where he belongs to, does not have anybody to defend and fight for him.

Usu di ka gi.

THE EGYPTIANS YOU SEE TODAY; YOU SHALL SEE NO MORE!
And the ammorites, the phillistines and all those fighting the isrealites turned against themselves and started kiiling themselves. Is that what this post is turning into? LET CIA REPLY CHARLES TAYLOR IF HE MAKES ALLEGATIONS AGAISNT THEM. CIA has the capacity to do so

Charles Taylor is a criminal! What put him in prison before? CRIME Why is he in prison now CRIME
Since the CIA helped him escape from prison in America, let him wait for them now to come and help him exscape from prison in the Hague.

Those who ride on top of the tiger, normally end up inside the belly of the tiger.

Pictures of those amputated is troubling. I see them on TV sometimes. It makes my heart bleed.

Taylor should dance to the music.

Uzo emechiri na onitsha agahi akwabiri m aka. Let taylor rot in Hague. If I knew the day of judgement, I will be in Hague to witness it

THIS IS EXACTLY THE RANTING OF AN ANT. I AM SURE YOUR OWN FATHER, YOUR BIOLOGICAL FATHER AND GRAND FATHER AND GREAT GRAND FATHERS AND INFACT YOUR WHOLE GENERATIONS PUT TOGETHER CANNOT AMOUNT TO ONE OJUKWU

IF YOU ARE PROUD OF YOUR HERITAGE, IF YOU ARE SO SURE OF WHOM YOU ARE, IF YOU THINK YOUR FATHER HAS A NAME AND THAT YOU ARE A SON OF something SERIOUS AND WORTHY, TELL US ONE THING YOUR FATHER ACHIEVED HERE ON EARTH THAT WILL MAKE HIM WORTHY OF MENTION.

YOU ARE JUST AN IMBECILLIC PRODUCT OF A UNION BETWEEN A PSYCHOTIC SCHIZOPHRENIC AND AN EGOMANICAL PARANOIA (UR MOTHER). THIS IS THE SORT OF TONGUE TWISTING GOBBLEDEGOOK THAT A DERANGED FELLOW LIKE YOU WILL LOVE. apolgies Dele Omotunde. AND UNFORTUNATELY YOU ARE NOT EDUCATED ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT YOUR FOLKS ARE NOBODY AND THE GREAT IKEMBA DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PITEOUS EXISTENCE.

AND YOUR EXISTENCE MAKES THE CASE OF LEGALISING ABORTIONS STRONGER. I DONT BLAME YOU. YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABORTED AT CONCEPTION IF YOUR FATHER HAD THE FORESIGHT TO KNOW THE SORRY STATE HE WILL BE SUBJECTING HUMANITY TO BY ALLOWING YOU SEE DAYLIGHT.

Sorry fellow nairalanders, this is the first time I am losing my cool! BUT IDIOTS LIKE THIS BILYMUSE SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO INSULT OUR ELDERS AND GO AWAY WITH IT.

AND THE MODERATORS please since you allowed that motherfucking son of a harlot to insult DIM IKEMBA ODIMEGWU OJUKWU, AND LET HIS THREAD BE, THEN FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, LET MY POST BE

Please don't get me wrong! If I am misunderstood, charge it to my communicative skill or lack of it thereof and not to my heart. I didnt take sides with anyone. I am not the kind that just post for posting sake. I am of the view that this site is meant to inform, educate and entertain us. Most times therefore, I only read posts and sign go. But I was compelled to contribute here since it was becoming obvious that there was gonna be more of quarrells and a showdown instead of concentrating on the issue and matter at hand. As you can see, I began by just saying I wanna call for a truce here.

Of course you are very much entitled to your opinion and you will always excersice your right of speech but you shouldnt forget that your right stops where another man's right begins. So who goes to equity must go with cleans hands. I read the whole of page 10 once again to see if I missed something or see if you were insulted first, and I observed

Agathamari came complaining and crying of the treatment she got from her husband in Nigeria and here was your contribution

Theblessed:
, [b]If you haven't got a psychological problem of ATTACHMENT AND NEEDING TO BE LOVED (as a result of your childhood, lack of confidence and self esteem) why even think of such people let alone being in partnership with them? Majority are only out to use you, can't you see that? Or should I say, are there some common sense left upstairs or is it just an empty space up there? Why moan when you let yourself being used and abused by these bastards? Because, you let your emotions cloud your God given common sense - you don't need a degree to get this you know!! You are either born with it or without as this is only showing that some of you have ZERO COMMON SENSE. Please, stop moaning here?, The signs are all there for you to see but you vehemently chose to ignored it and come to N/L to moan.

[/b]

That only wasn't being helpful to a woman in distress and if it wasn't insulting, then probably she thought it to be.

Theblessed:
[b],

Now, the BEDROOM ANTICS - this specifically relate to most if not 98% of Nigerian men. Their BEDROOM MANNERS are absolutely zero. CULTURALLY, sexual explorations are not in a Nigerian man's genetic make up but it can be learned. Thank God some of them are gradually learning how to now, they find themselves in the West and have access to the world of INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY. In exploring the beautiful body of a woman, majority would prefer doing so with a WHITE WOMAN THAN a BLACK WOMAN, why
You better ask them? In my view, it is their ignorance as they think a WHITE WOMAN'S BODY is more beautiful than that of a BLACK WOMAN and everyone knows that WOMEN BODIES are PHYSIOLOGICALLY the same and no difference apart from the COLOUR of their SKIN and TEXTURE of their HAIRS. What else?? And for my sisters, I would like to say, if you can, try else where - you should not be deprived because, there are many ADAMS as there are EVES in this world. Try them, that's my take! And, you should all go for the best and the best all the time. Personally, I get it all the time from the man who can and knows how to RING my BELL - no mess up here!

Good luck with finding the right guy that could ring your bell to heavenly PLEASURE AND HAPPINESS! [/b]

And this probably is where the misunderstanding began

agathamari:
,
aparently you didnt know that oriental womens vag is tilted the oposite direction of everyone else. from what i have been told white women are more adventurous in bed. when was the last time you tied up your guy? he'd like it

I am only seeing the word APPARENTLY (meaning IT SEEMS or PROBABLY). I didnt see that as insulting or challanging you. She said from what she has been told, and she even adviced (seems friendly), that your guy will like it. DONT GET ME WRONG. I am very much much more attracted to black women. I DONT DO WHITES

agathamari:
@theblessed. i said vagina not ass. the vagina in most women point toward thier navel (use your finger to find out on yourself if you dont know already) oriental women point toward thier tailbones. ask any ob-gyn who has had dealings with oriental women to find out. btw oriental men members have a slightly different muscle structure then other men as well.

I see this as what I should do in this case. ASK an obstertrician or gynaecologist. I do not doubt your assertion that pysiologically we are all the same. It is possible that the lady was misinformed and you pointed out correctly that some people have changed thier anatomy in this crazy world of today but that wasn't God's original idea at creation. But since this lady is making an interesting submission, I will only have to ask and find out. She even said oriental men's muscles are different. This is a call for research. You already asked her for a research evidence but she doesn't have it and so you would have left things at that but instead

Theblessed:
Well, lady, your commentary above sounds sweet only to an idiotic mind. Intelligent people can not be fooled by such write ups hence I ask you ONCE AGAIN please, point to your AUTHORITY and WHERE'S THE RESEARCH EVIDENCE to back up your specialist knowledge of ASIAN WOMEN fanny. I believe - NONE, ZERO so leave this matter you can not defend.
As a woman, you mustn't be making crude comments of womanhood like this. In your view, they are ASIANS but hey, they are still WOMEN, ok!

[b]You have made so many crude and trashy comments here that's unworthy of a decent lady, leaving people on this site to assume the kind of a lady you are and the kind you associate with. You might be a nice lady but be selective of your words and how you use them. Don't just use words for the sake of it, please!!![/

agathamari link=topic=13194.msg4192987#msg4192987 date=1247672608:
wow someone is a prude who doesnt know about anatomy. if you dont want to listen to me i seggest you speak with a doctor who has treated an asian woman or a man who has slept with one.

b]

This is where she became insultive and THAT IS WRONG. As a decent and respectable lady, I would have loved it if you skipped it. She didn't use the 2nd person singular as has been the case in your altercations with her. She said someone, and that's what i thought you should have observed and ignored although her reference was apparent

Theblessed:
Imagine the blind trying to lead a fully-sighted person - How RIDICULOUS!!!!!!. My own profession, that this lady is trying to inform me about on here when she hasn't got a clue and couldn't even defend her own assertion or prove it's CREDIBILITY with RESEARCH EVIDENCE - too sorry indeed. She's just opening her mouth and bringing out things no one asked her about. To be honest, there's no point trying to have a dialogue on here with an IGNORANT, no point. People are talking from their a-ses instead of using their brains. Please, be well informed, get some education and show some decency. It would do you much good, huh!

Nne wetuo obi. Ada di ora mma. I admire you nwanne m nwanyi ma ne ewetu obi gi ana

Nwaka77:
My sister, don't mind that confused ignoramus who calls herself agathamari. If she is not on this forum bad mouthing Nigerians and Nigeria, then she is busy bad mouthing the man she married like anyone forced her to marry him in the first place. And then if it is not that, she is disrespectfully making inappropriate comments about the private parts of other women. She is not worth communicating with. The topic is about American women who marry Naija men and not Asian women and the shape of their punanies. She cannot stick to the topic of the thread for nothing. Please, my sister ignore her and engage in conversations with intelligent folks on this forum who have something meaningful to contribute. Stay Blessed and keep the posts coming.

U got a friend.

Theblessed:
Thanks my dear sister for airing your views about this 'Oke Nkita' of a woman. Too sorry for the Nigerian brother that didn't know what to do with his life in the States and end up with this Trash, that has no class. The sad thing is that, the Igbo brother even brought this thing home to Nigeria, what a pity!! Goes to show, people would do anything for money and security probably, the reason he ended up with a woman that seems to have gone through 10 husbands in a row. No wonder, he sleeps around searching for a decent lady whilst she ends up on N/L shouting about it and, seeking our sympathy. Shows the calibre of a woman she is - a shameless ignorant.

By this time Igwe_usa, sistawoman and agathamari hve abandoned the thread entirely.

I know Igwe_usa was harsh in replying you but know that your post about Igbo men was very provocating. Too provocating that honestly I wanted to reply you on that before Igwe_usa did. It was too insulting to a generation of men and parochial too.

Another note is that sistawomen said she objected to your first post of which I know your have a right to post as well as she has a right to object. But on the whole, on page 10, there are more disagreements between you and other people. You dont seem to get it but please calm down.

I hope you wont crucify me now or put a price on my head.

Remember,

A bu m,
Ezigbo nwanne gi,
Chykeo.

@Theblessed

I wanna call for a truce. I am so concerned that on just page 10 of this thread, you have quarrelled with two people; Igwe_usa and agathamari. I believe 2 people can really diasgree without causing any crises.

Agathamaris last post asked you to only find out if you disagree with what she said by asking an obstetrician or finding out yourself on you. I think I understood what she meant to be that the tube from the vagina of other women tend to move towards the navel while that of the orientals move towards the tailbone. I am no authority on this so i cannot say but one can only try to find out by asking. Does it have lead to insults and exchange of bad words?

And honestly speaking, I think Igwe_USA may have used some very harsh and direct words but his message meant only to say that you were wrong with your summation of Ibo and Anambra guys. I am from Anambra State and it is not about blind patriotism but I think the post was just very myopic. MAybe you ve not really seen Anambra guys. A lot of them are very decent, educated, exposed, enlightened, ambitous and gentle. Interest in making money which everyone on earth is guilty of (capitalism) shouldn't be the yardstick for gauging Anambra, nay, igbo man. Difference is Igbo men are very republican by nature. They just wanna be themselves and know that money brings the needed comforts in life. HAs anyone ever been in a situation where having more money makes him more uncomfortable.

I think we all should go back to the topic. It is not about anyone in particular and not about igbo men and women neither is it about anatomy. And please no more insults. And I believe atleast most of us are educated. Was insult part of the curriculum of any school we went to?

Busta:
@ topic,

if anyone has found a place where these guys are hiding please let me know O!

Anywhere and everywhere. You must be looking to be looked. And whatever you are looking for will sure be looking for you!

Did anybody know a forum like this with a simple question like that of Theolar will come this far with Reatruth?

Nezed:
@Chykeo,
ke kwaanu? i just seem to presume u are from the eastern part of Naija. U honestly wanna link up wt someone? Id readily be of service but u nid to knw:
1. That Theo and RT was a collective effort of we all.
2. Theo and RT have not convinced us or 'me' so i wanna mk sure its possible and can be real to meet via dis forum and make it to the altar. Am nt of the opinion that my Gurl Theolar and RT MUST tie the knot, but if am convinced that genuine friendships and relationships can develope on this forum, i would gladly assist anyone.

Am naturally gifted, Honestly---how do i know? Ask all my brothers nd male cousins. .
Great week y'all. Huggs.

@ Nezed

A bu m nwa afo igbo si na akuku obodo Zik! Just joking though. Was talking about others not necessarily for me. The thread is just a great one and we will like to see more of it.

U too. The best of the week everyone

Busta:
Any websites please??

Can't supply you with the websites but i can give you the bags with different and colourful designs. I live in Italy and they are on sales now. Designer bags and shoes are very cheap and affordable

You guys are having unnecessary issues here. Sistawoman and KB1 and the other lady have just succeded in cutting of this thread from what it was originaly Have You Dated A Black American

Akata is not derogatory at all.

Oyibo is not derogatory at all.

Sista woman it is probable your husband didnt like being reminded he married out of his comfort zone whenever you are refered as Akata!

It refers to black Americans and even Nigerians who live in America are even refered to Akata.

If you refer to someone in Lagos as an Akata babe, it is even a recognition and respect.

Get back to the topic.

newbride:
tough question.i have to think about this.

WHICH KIND OF TOUGH QUESTION? YOU WILL IF YOU HAVE THE CHANCE

newbride:
i didn't give my opinion cos i didn't want people to be biased

honestly i will never ever give my child away, not for the world

And fyi am not poor financially or emotionally, was just trying to start a subject cos of what i read in the news about MJs kids.

The real parents of the kids actually gave both of them up for 10m£ and thot i shd get nairalanders views

As biola said they are PRICELESS and i will NOT trade them to own the world.

See your thinking. You are just danm so poor emotionally and financially to think up this. FOR OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART; THE MOUTH SPEAKETH

sexyLeamon:
Where And How To Meet Guys Ready 4 Marriage
lmao do you think marriage is like a onenight stand?

A demonstration of crass ignorance and laziness! You would have read through the entire thread before making post. Message for such Nairalanders like you who like posting on every thread whether they are making meaning or not but just wanna be noticed.

ugonna0071:
so whats up now? How's RT. I think this thread is the best so far in NL. i'll be popping in and out for updates.

Wish u guys luck. I'd be donating a cow for the Trad

Thanks Ugonna0071 for the cow. I have already pledged a deep freezer on behalf of nairalanders.

@Theolar, realtruth, Nezed and all the others in the house, you see we are going ahead. We have almost everything in place. Please more updates.

Nezed, No more guys and girls linking up? We need more of this

I only wanna chip in a little bit as most people have written for and against marrying a Nigerian guy. I didnt have to marry anyone to get my legal residence here. I think people should understand that while some people ( not particularly Nigerians) marry for the stay permit, so many others marry for the right kind of relationship LOVE.

One person's bad experience should not deter another from exploring her luck and following her heart. If you have a Nigerian guy and you think you love him, go all the way with him. Don't send money across if you have not met him and if there was no genuine and reasonable reason for the money.

And if you think you ve become a marriage counsellor that you want to advice someone not to marry a Nigerian man, is it out of jealousy that you dont have no one?

And to all those who think Nigerian men are after them just for the papers, what happened to all those guys ( your countrymen) that dated or married you before? Were they too looking for green papers? did they eventually get the papers and dumped you? What about those baby mothers in America whose kids dont even know thier fathers? Were they all born by Nigerian men? And why are all these chics on the internet on the lookout for men if they are satisfied and happy with thier country men?

Men, go after your heart. If you see a Nigerian guy that you love and you wanna marry go with him. There is an African American lady here PATRICIA DABOH who posted her experiences in www.nigeriavillagesquare.com of how she met a Nigerian guy online and married him and brought him to Americ a and how happily they have been living since. She even has a post somewhere here on Nairaland. Can you look her in the face and tell her the husband is fake?

Marriage everywhere is a lottery in which men stake thier liberty and women thier happiness. You may be luckky and be happy. Ofcourse a lot depends on the woman though if you wanna have a happy home. If you continue the way you are, he may just as well leave you like your ex did.

Ask: why do they leave? you may find the answert within you and not on green card! I'm outta here

Consultant:
Great advice from gen2genius and romeo4real.

No point in repetition. Those 2 guys genius2genius and romeo4real gave the best advices. Blend the two and you will have peace