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Nice one

chatinent:
Life like a mist

Appears today and disappears tomorrow

1.5 m?

This is scary. The graph is yet to flatten

Amotolongbo:
see someone calling for a virus on another human being like him.

Hope you know that you are not immune from the virus either and may be located by the virus before FFK is located?

But he sets it is a scam. I didn't know why people play politics with everything

Really?

True??

lilyheaven:
You are going through what my husband went through, he knew he was sterile but didn't tell me, I insisted we do semen count, he refused , after much pressure he went with me, the result came out negative.
Two weeks after, I realized I was pregnant, I was very happy, but when I told him about it, his character changed, he told me he wasn't responsible. Three days to our wedding we went for pregnancy test, lol! I was negative
I became more confused. Oga was just looking at me like one fool, because I have already informed church I was pregnant.
After our wedding, I went for scan, thank Goodness, there was fetal heart beat.
His mood changed again, I saw hell.
Finally, I gave birth to a baby boy, this boy looks like my husband vomited him ( resemble ), he even has the same birth mark as his.
That was how everything went back to normal. His love increased, he even gifted me a car.

Please, I think you should calm down, wait till delivery. Don't be quick to anger.
We have another baby now.

Never say never is the rule!!!

You have not said to us why you are sterile but I want to assure you that if you had sex with her( without protection), chances are that the child could be yours. In medicine, the rule is never say never.

Blu03:
if you were the woman, would you marry a broke man?
Abi you would prefer an uncertain future? I'm not defending the lady, but before love there are other factors we have to consider for our security. Humans are foremost selfish. It's our survival instinct.

Who says he is automatically broke bc he lost his job? What happened to supporting your friend when they are down? She couldn't even pretend for a while.

Tacha

None of the above

Biafrareform:
Good evening all. I need your honest opinion on this .

My elder sister was put in a family way 16 years ago. The guy responsible, his family rejected the pregnancy Infront of my family .

We took her in, cared for her and she gave birth to a lovable baby girl . Dam, she is so pretty and was well loved.

She grew to become my pet . I loved her with all my heart. Infact we all loved her .

My elder sister is married . She has told her daughter that her present husband is her father when she start asking questions.

She is done with her secondary school and currently running a fashion design program . I planned on sending her to the Uni once she is done with her program .

Just got on phone with my sister now and she is telling me that , the dude that got her pregnant family has been disturbing her to allow them access to the girl . That they are ready to train her to any level .

And she is considering telling her daughter the truth about her birth .

Can you imagine the nonsense. I have warned her not to do that not to talk of giving them access and I am currently furious right now . After 16 years of loving this girl, someone is now claiming father .

Please how do I handle this .

I can thoroughly relate with this your story cos i am in a similar predicament. in my own case the girl is about to turn 14 and is still in secondary school. when my sister was put to the family way, my family peacefully went to inform his family about the pregnancy. But do you know that that idiot and his father passed through the back and organised thugs who came to their living room and gave us the beating of our lives. they smashed the windshield of our car and my other sister who was pregnant at the time almost lost the baby. But now, after 14 years that fool is coming to claim daughter. anyway right from day one the girl was told she was begotten by one irresponsible man, that fact was never hidden from her but the choice is her"s. the day she chooses to call him father is the day she seizes to be part of my family. i have given and will continue to give her the best i can even more than my own children. the choice is hers

samzyolu:
Some part of Delta and Rivers are Igbos and we are not leaving them behind

Pls they want to be left. Thanks

aminusodiq:
I dnt really care much about doctors and dis swindle explanations!!! Most of dem are outrageous in their prices too!!! Imaging a C.S Operation costing notin less dan 120k nd som hospitals wil even charge based on sex of d foetus, male child mayb 130-150k! U still av to pay even if dey lost d baby due to dia neglegence!!!. A friend of mine within a space of one week expended 33k on malaria nd typhoid. Moreso, most of dem ar still very heartless,

NMA are doin dem badly, but doctors ar doing WORST

is it by force to comment on an issue you know nothing about? Don't you pay school fees at school? Don't you pay for gas at the station? If you don't want to pay Doctors, don't use their services; visit your pastor for spiritual healing or meet the 'staphylococcus erus' people

Do not run but FLEEEEEEE!!!!!

[quote author=grandstar post=83748635]All these nah story.

The simple answers to the smuggling problem is to reduce import tariffs on rice and other goods to realistic levels. If import duties on these goods were not more than 20%, I'm sure the illegal re-export to Nigeria would cease.

And kill local production of rice and increase unemployment abi.

Who made the diagnosis?
Hope it's not other forms of febrile ailment such as Yellow fever

Hmm

story for the gods

NgeneUkwenu:
Who punished Otorm and Ikpeazu?

Names follow people. Please what does Ikpeazu mean?

If na Buhari now dey for don dey open their mouth

schooltreasures:
The Senate President, Ahmad Lawan has insisted that even though he believes in the president and his party, the All Progressives Congress (APC), he will anot allow them to control him anyhow. Full story here:https://newsfeed.ng/2019/07/13/i-believe-in-buhari-and-apc-but-i-will-not-let-them-control-me-senate-president-ahmed-lawan/

Na today?

I said it in the previous thread that the lady is mentally unstable.

Believe social media at your peril.
This lady is mentally unstable.
I know her very well.

Dhavido:
I've always locked my alert SIM card since I saw something like this last year, let's spread the word for others to learn and lock their SIM cards as against locking the phone

how do I lock my sim pls

She came on the 20th Dec around her ovulation.
You had unprotected sex.
She saw her period early January,4 days earlier than expected.
If she is pregnant(confirmed by lab test), you could be the father.
There is what is called implantation bleeding which occurs when the fertilized egg is being implanted in the womb. This bleeding can be heavy depending on the site of implantation and because it occurs at about the time of the next period, many confuse it to be menstruation while in fact they are pregnant.

jagorinho:
i would like you to find an avenue as quickly as possible to make yourself happy, you owe yourself that, i am not interested in how your marriage works but from the look of things you are not happy and your happiness are tied to individuals ( which is very bad). you can still get yourself back, my plight is try and be composed, try and get your happiness back, even if you have to get psychological evaluation, get it!!! because when you are happy others things in your life fits in so easily like a simple puzzle,
let me end like this....
1. Never take a girl introduced to you by a male folk too seriously, most times they are only good for entertainment
2. you are in total control of your happiness, do not let it be controlled by individuals, no matter how close they are to you.

Thanks a lot. I've taken steps towards that. I've started by cutting all ties with the fake friend. I think I'm getting by.

Speaking from personal experience, I will not advice anyone to even consider that.
I met my wife through someone I considered my best friend, who was already married.
To cut long story short, we got married. Few weeks later I stumbled into their( my wife and my supposed friend) chat; it was a bomb.
I have never been my self and will never be.
The thought of knowing things your wife had done with your friend is killing to say the least. It's not what you will wish even to your enemy

Sure?

Divorce simply means this marriage is over.
So by initiating and insisting on the divorce, Taraji gave up on the marriage, gave up on Robert and even began a new relationship before the divorce. I remember the scene where the divorce papers were signed.Robert tried convincing her to as little as look at him but what did she do? She shut her eyes tightly until he left the room.that was the point she gave up all entitlements to Robert and whatever it is that concerns him.
When the deal pulled through, she again told him we are not getting back together,ever.
Let me ask: what if that deal didn't pull through would she have returned to Robert?