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CelebritiesRe: Will Smith Apologises To Chris Rock After Oscars Slap by Coalkendar(m): 7:13am On Mar 29, 2022
This is so unprofessional
CelebritiesRe: 2baba Threatens Brymo With N2bn Defamation Suit (photo) by Coalkendar(m): 10:56pm On Oct 07, 2021
Charmingrascal:
Tubaba will always play the victim card because he knows he is loved and respected by many.

The is the same way he cheated Blackface and played the victim.
He knows he will always get support from the people.

Y'all that will say trash and try to broke shame Brymo should know that Brymo is one of the few artists we have in Nigeria with sensible, intelligent and intellectually sound lyrical contents and he is worth more than 3 Million dollars

Brymo is stubborn and he was fully ready for this before calling out 2face.

Tubaba should stop playing saint all the time. He is a cultist and cultists can't be trusted.
I second your motion my brother
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Having An Emotional Affair With Her Pastor by Coalkendar(m): 3:55pm On Oct 06, 2021
truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back
Good and Quality Advise....
PhonesRe: Specifications: TECNO Camon 18 Will Offer Triple Camera And 5x Optical Zoom by Coalkendar(m): 8:24pm On Oct 05, 2021
Enjoy your Nokia smartphone and stay peaceful...... Nokia is a global brand
Foreign AffairsRe: Meet The Afghanistan Interim Government by Coalkendar(m): 8:59am On Sep 11, 2021
They will still betray themselves
PoliticsRe: PIA: When 3% Is Greater Than 30% by Coalkendar(m): 7:18am On Aug 29, 2021
We have all decided to take reactionary measures rather than be Pro active about matters that concerns us. This is a bias estimator irrespective of how the format are been placed... Those representative of our are not doing their jobs sincerely...
CelebritiesRe: Why I Am A Lesbian – Temmie Ovwasa (Photos) by Coalkendar(m): 6:59pm On Aug 13, 2021
This passage speaks volume..may God Almighty guide us through life in the light of his Truth... amen
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Earn Unlimitedly With Click Worker by Coalkendar(m): 10:45am On Jul 29, 2021
Ease how does this process work
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Phed Graduate Trainee 2021 Test And Recruitment by Coalkendar(m): 3:49am On Jul 27, 2021
Please who else applied for the PHED GRADUATE TRAINEE job. Help us with any valid information on the latest happenings. Just incase you have been called please be kind enough to share your experience with us here.
Foreign AffairsRe: Death Toll In German Floods Rises To 81 (Video) by Coalkendar(m): 8:58am On Jul 16, 2021
Follow @mci_live
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Phed Graduate Trainee 2021 Test And Recruitment by Coalkendar(m): 9:14pm On Jul 13, 2021
I also had a zoom interview with them.. still awaiting call up
PoliticsRe: CDS Meets Military Chiefs, Prepares 70 Generals For Exit by Coalkendar(m): 7:02am On Jun 11, 2021
We are in for a dance in this country... Follow @mci_live
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PoliticsRe: Electoral Act Amendment Won’t Guarantee Free Polls – INEC by Coalkendar(m): 6:52am On Jan 11, 2021
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PoliticsRe: Governor Obaseki Wins Certificate Forgery Case by Coalkendar(m): 2:56pm On Jun 29, 2020
Sometime all we need is prayer for our Nation...


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CareerRe: How Old Were You Jobless, Staying At Home And How Did You Make It? by Coalkendar(m): 9:56pm On Jun 11, 2020
God bless you for sharing your experience here.. It really speaks to my spirit right now. I am kinda encouraged by your story.. I know very soon I too will testify to the Glory of God in my life...
SportsRe: FG Forecloses Involvement In Bash Ali’s Novelty Bout by Coalkendar(m): 9:15am On May 25, 2020
I don't know the connection between Bash Ali and the federal govt but one thing for sure is that NIGERIAN Govt has been in the habit of not supporting it own creative minds. That why we ate still underperforming as a nation...

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PoliticsRe: Okpanam Killings: Ohanaeze Moves Against Reprisal Attacks On Igbos In North by Coalkendar(m): 8:09am On May 15, 2020
This is the highest level of disrespect. How can you be causing chaos in another man's land..
FamilyRe: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Coalkendar(m): 7:31am On Mar 18, 2020
This is a well written epistle.. I hope the target audience see this and learn..

#Coalkendar
Christianity EtcRe: Satan, The Cherub That Covereth And The Inverted Pyramid by Coalkendar(m): 2:11pm On Mar 08, 2020
This is an apocalypse to what was hidden... Thank you for this masterpiece sir.. The Cruz of oil on your head will never fail... God bless you
SportsRe: Mo Salah Poses With Christmas Tree With His Wife & Daughter, Divides Instagram by Coalkendar(m): 4:41pm On Dec 26, 2019
[quote author=NGRsenate post=85227716]You see how foolish you are? You think you have sense?

You must not be abusive while expressing your opinion... Why are you guys naturally Hostile? Can't you just communicate without cursing.. Be wise and stay focus on the Topic not the character..
CelebritiesRe: EFCC Gives Update On Mompha. Dismisses Report About 'Bribing His Way Out' by Coalkendar(m): 5:45pm On Nov 19, 2019
Giant stride.. Let keep holding them accountable..
@Coalkendar
PoliticsRe: Photos Of Acheju Abuh And Her Burnt Home In Kogi by Coalkendar(m): 2:49pm On Nov 19, 2019
The politicians are sowing a seed they shall reap from bountifully... #Nemesis go serve them their own nigerian jollof
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Coalkendar(m): 11:44pm On Nov 18, 2019
Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section tongue

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one. grin
you scored big on this point of yours.. From the way the write up came it look as if you are kinda married...
PoliticsRe: Buhari: Nigerians Will Mind Their Businesses If Infrastructure, Roads Are Fixed by Coalkendar(m): 1:23am On Oct 19, 2019
This your post suppose collect award.. You wan use laff kill person for here oooo
NYSCRe: Lady Denied Her NYSC Certificate For Schooling In Benin Republic by Coalkendar(m): 8:13am On Oct 04, 2019
Her certificate would still be issued to her but she will have to travel to Abuja
NYSCRe: Corper Stephen Teru Uses Carpentry Skill To Build Furniture For Over 80 Students by Coalkendar(m): 7:54am On Oct 04, 2019
Creating value in your community should always be paramount in the minds of our today's youth. We are our own development. Good one bro
PoliticsRe: 3rd Term Agenda: President Buhari's Supporters Start Movement (Photos) by Coalkendar(m): 11:27am On Sep 22, 2019
Hope we stay sane in this country
SportsRe: PSG Fans Boo Neymar On His Return Before He Scores Injury Time Winner by Coalkendar(m): 7:09am On Sep 15, 2019
It such a good thing to be humble. It saves you a lot of trouble...




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TravelRe: Plastic Roads: The Possible End Of Pot Holes And Flood In Nigeria by Coalkendar(m): 10:13am On Sep 13, 2019
This is truly a welcome idea only if we can have a means of sustainability of this project. Research should be made on possible ways of improving it overtime.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians React As IPOB Beat Ekweremadu, Drag Him (More Photos) by Coalkendar(m): 9:19am On Aug 18, 2019
Let please be more open to reasons why such action were taken in the first place...
PoliticsRe: 2023: Igbo Youths Reply El-rufai On The Abolition Of Zoning System by Coalkendar(m): 5:48pm On Aug 17, 2019
We should all get ready for what the future have in stock.. Don't be surprised by then
PoliticsRe: Buhari Directs Malami To Return Zainab Aliyu Awaiting Execution For Drug Traffic by Coalkendar(m): 10:08am On Apr 30, 2019
In as much as I commend this effort, I also want us to see how skewed the bias is on the side of the president. Assuming it was a normal Eastern family or southerners am not sure if he will react swiftly to it.
This act goes a long way in revealing how he is. He is a one sided being....

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