Family › Re: Is Pregnancy Before Wedding The Best Way To Avoid A Childless Marriage? by cococandy(f): 1:07pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Don't mind them PresVA: The funny thing is that many of you guys suggesting this can't allow their sisters go through this...given that marriage to the guy isn't guaranteed. . So, I wonder whose sisters would be used for the experiment? 
And who told you that fertility issues can arise from only women? The cases of male infertility is on the rise... drinking, smoking et al have caused a lot of guys to be shooting blanks. .. Your bro should ascertain his own first.. |
Family › Re: Human Rights Activists Needed, Please! by cococandy(f): 1:04pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Na wa o. Sometimes I wonder if our Nigerian policemen are a different breed from the rest of the normal human population. How can you lock little kids up? For what? So if their bail wasn't posted same day, they'd sleep in there for as long as it took to get their mom out? What a horrible set of people! Argh!!!  so annoying. Mtchew. |
Politics › Re: Accidental Discharge: IGP To Introduce Use Of Stun Guns by cococandy(f): 8:54am On Feb 04, 2016 |
So what's their defense against real armed bandits? What they need is proper training and mental evaluation to prove that they are not trigger happy sadists before hey are armed and let lose in the streets. That way innocent people don't die and bad guys can be apprehended when they strike. |
Health › Re: Photos: Danish Woman Rescues Little Boy Who Was Accused Of Witchcraft - UYO by cococandy(f): 2:28am On Feb 04, 2016 |
May superstition not kill us in this our dear country  God bless her |
Family › Re: Man Spotted Carrying His Wife's Handbag... by cococandy(f): 10:20pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
Pidggin: Ladies, if you want to enjoy your marriage marry an enlightened man, if you marry native fowl na you sabi.  |
Family › Re: Man Spotted Carrying His Wife's Handbag... by cococandy(f): 10:19pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
What if the handbag belongs to him?  |
Family › Re: My Wife Has Been Poisoning My Meals Since 2008, Husband Tells Court by cococandy(f): 10:15pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
The man can lie for Africa. Diabetic and hypertensive, he should thank his stars he's still alive. Not blaming this sickness on poison when he's not even helping himself. All his accusations against the woman are speculative. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:27pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:41pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
9inches: I buy it already blended.
@bolded, good for you. i don't think i can find the blended one . Maybe I'll just go for shredded ones so that blending will be easier. Thanks for the tip. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:40pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
Blame dem dudes. They won't let mama bears rest.  Hahaha. Thanks Hun.  EnlightenedSoul: Lovely, indeed. You're expecting, Coco?
I've went shopping for a bridal shower just last week and another one a month before that, plus a housewarming. This weekend, I'm going on a pricey prenatal scavenger hunt for yet another shower, baby this time. All kinds of showers all over the place and it's not even April yet
Congratulations, love!  |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 9:38am On Feb 03, 2016 |
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Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 9:36am On Feb 03, 2016 |
My o my. These are so lovely. That white one at the bottom used to grow in our church Back home. Until some knucklehead cut them down. They smell very very good too. I remember I'd pick them to keep but then quarrel with my mom because she thought the smell will attract insects *nostalgia*. tearoses: Thanks coco Yes these are tearoses 
There are another type called Floribunda I think these were the old English roses gan gan Their flowers are different and they dont have such a strong scent as the tearoses That purple one looks like a newer cross that was made in the lab
"Floribunda is a modern group of garden roses that was developed by crossing hybrid teas with polyantha roses, the latter being derived from crosses between Rosa chinensis and Rosa multiflora" |
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 9:01am On Feb 03, 2016 |
This one looks a bit scary.  Like you could walk upon a lone one and jump out of your skin thinking it's an exotic spider. Onegai: Yellow Scorpion Orchid
First hubby saw this plant, he said "you bring it home, I pour Omo water in it" and I replied "You buy a t.v. with curved edges, I pour Omo water in it". So we have an uneasy truce: orchids stay with my mama, he doesn't buy gimmicky tv set. We don't get what we want, since we are all being childish innit 
Orchids are a love or hate thing, because they're so exotic-looking. This particular one needs shade, plenty of space to grow, cattle manure and a support (it's a climber). It grows fast if you give it all that. it is really long-lasting in bouquets and flower arrangements.I think it only comes in these colours of yellow-brown. |
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 8:59am On Feb 03, 2016 |
Are those the tearoses? I didn't even know that's what they are called. They are on my list of favorites too. Well roses of all kinds generally. So lovely. tearoses: Tea Roses ......one of my favourite flowers I love the colour, the shape of the flower and most especially the scent.
I managed to get them to grow in Nigeria, but rather than have lots of flowers between May and Aug as it should do, it only has about 7 flowers on the plant all year long. The flowers are also smaller than normal.
"Hybrid tea is an informal horticultural classification for a group of garden roses. They were created by cross-breeding two types of roses, initially by hybridising hybrid perpetuals with tea roses. It is the oldest group classified as a modern garden rose" |
Politics › Re: Female Army Cadet Tortures A Man For Calling Her "Beautiful" by cococandy(f): 8:47am On Feb 03, 2016 |
Too much illiteracy dey worry these officers. Don't they know they can cause serious damage with all those blows to the head? As if they even care anyway Wicked people |
Family › Re: Do Some Sistas Force Their Men Into Rituals For Money? by cococandy(f): 7:44am On Feb 03, 2016*. Modified: 8:19am On Feb 03, 2016 |
Are the bad men ever responsible for anything they do? According to some people If they are not being pushed to cheat, or beat on their significant others, they are being pushed to rape by the temptations of unclad women Or they are being forced to turn armed robbery by bad govts. It's never their fault. Something as horrible as ritual killings where innocent humans (including little children) begging and pleading for their lives are butchered and used for sacrifices is now going to be explained away as the fault of people other than those who did it? Una no dey tire ni. No 'good' man can be forced into ritual killing. That's just asinine.A good man will even be horrified by this thread. It's like you don't know how serious taking a life in such cold blooded wickedness is. Make light of it by implying that if they didn't have bad women in their lives they wouldn't be doing it.  |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 3:28am On Feb 03, 2016 |
Poor you. Sorry. heavyg: Royal rumble. Cursing and cussing on both sides. She even cussed at me with the unborn baby. Plus she just tore my singlet I had on, just because I did something which I don't see as anything and so I am outside now, smoking and thinking about my life.
We don't pray together, even though she is a good cook, home cooked food is a rare occurrence, no laundry. She takes her job as her best friend. She does not confide in me.
If she hates me so much, why did she marry me?
And we are not even a year....
And she is normally very calm and gentle. Or at least she used to be. Not because I wanted to marry her. But that was her person. Now I don't know anymore.... |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:35pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Lovely cupcakes from my baby shower. And other foods. I don't know how my friends made them so don't ask me for recipe 
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Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 10:19pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Lizypumping: DC. Are there Nigerians there? I learnt it's all hilly there? I almost visited.. Obafemi Martin comes in mind when I hear about the state Few Nigerians None in my immediate area that I know of.  We have Mt Rainier close to us. That's the only hilly part I know  Yea obafemi plays for the Seattle Sounders. |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 10:08pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Lizypumping: Oh I see and thank you for that. I do live around, it's for those that may need that help and hence you've suggested they check travel section for thier answers. So what part are you living if you don't mind? WA state. You? |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Lizypumping: Yea I did see that... I had replied before seeing the edit. What about the pregnancy questions? Do you have tips on that? not really. I'm a newbie like you too. Was only suggesting that you can get some tips in the travel section since you mentioned delivery in the US. (That's if you don't already live here) But if you already live here, your doctor, midwife/nurse and provider will give you every medical assistance you need. |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 9:41pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Lizypumping: Cococandy me I'm lost o! But let me say this - what if I'm pretty?  Lol. It's my phone oversabi  Doing autocorrect for me. I meant to type 'are you preggy'? Because of all your pregnancy related questions. I've edited it |
Family › Re: Newly Married Within A Year or Less- Let's Relate by cococandy(f): 9:25pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Are you preggy? Do you live in US or you wanna travel to US to have your baby? If so, travel section can also be very helpful. Good luck and enjoy your marriage. Lizypumping: 1.Let's talk family issues
2.How to stay hopeful within first year of marriage (pregnancy/fruit of the womb)
3. Healthy ethics and norms in first year of marriage
4.Transitioning from single to newly married
5.Male of female child
6.Advice and tips on determining child sex (sex styles and positions)
7.Planning for pregnancy
8.Prenatal and post natal care
9.Delivery in US
10. Faith in marriage
**choose a topic/number and enlighten us based on your experience or life stories around you** |
Politics › Re: Pictures From Boko Haram Massacre In Dalori (Viewer Discretion) by cococandy(f): 4:10pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Small children too.  |
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies With Large Boobs Hard To Satisfy In Bed? by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If you stick to one person maybe you'll learn how to satisfy a partner instead of jumping from one to the other. Hoe  |
Family › Re: See Face Of Man Who Battered His Wife & Inflicted Deep Cut On Her In Lagos(pics) by cococandy(f): 8:24am On Feb 02, 2016 |
At least they are no longer together. That's what's important. Let him go and face his demons in wherever he finds himself after this, instead of taking it out on his fellow human being in the name of marriage. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:03am On Feb 02, 2016 |
9inches: Same way you prepare egusi soup. Only difference is you are using almond instead of egusi. You might ditch egusi if you taste it unless you are concerned about the price. Nice. So you blend it with normal blender? Actually, Almonds are cheaper than egusi to me  I even have to go very far to buy egusi.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:49pm On Feb 01, 2016 |
Hahaha  Really? I wonder what could be the matter. Maybe it's from the yeast. You know you could use 'fast action yeast' instead of 'active dry yeast' if that one is proving difficult. Some of those different types of yeasts can affect the end result. armyofone: Team 4th trials here  First try was like a stone (stoney puff) Next try was watery Next try didn't rise Yesterday try no gree cook in the middle
Waaaaaah waaaaaah waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh  thank goodness say flour, sugar water and yeast cheap. Because the rate wey I dey sink them down the drain, my account for don empty  |
Family › Re: 11-years Without A Child Only To Find Out My Wife Has Been Aborting Our Baby by cococandy(f): 10:45pm On Feb 01, 2016 |
oloyede252: which kind of advice is this.you dont know if the man is wicked or cheating on her.and also dnt you knw the woman must be suffering from phobia of being pregnant maybe because the man is wicked that why she didnt tell him.you always blame women for everything.its her body she can do whatever she want with it..  |
Family › Re: 11-years Without A Child Only To Find Out My Wife Has Been Aborting Our Baby by cococandy(f): 9:13pm On Feb 01, 2016 |
 If this is true, Oga find your way to another wife o. Which kind thing be that? |
Family › Re: Should I Continue With The Relationship? (25+ Only) by cococandy(f): 9:06pm On Feb 01, 2016 |
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Family › Re: 20 Men Marry 2nd Wives In Zuntu, Kaduna State (Photos) by cococandy(f): 10:28am On Feb 01, 2016 |
That's the kind of foolishness you see where carnal pleasure is considered more important than beneficial social constructs and common sense. |