₦airaland Forum

EfemenaXY:
So Byvan03 is PREGNANT??!!

Congrats mami

Neverquit:
Postnatal depression is real.

In a country like Nigeria where such things are deemed ridiculous/lie/unbelievable, the mother would not have had access to therapy/medication/care.

Childbirth affects women differently.

True story: recently, a good friend had a baby. She couldn't stand the sight of her son. She didn't touch him or breast feed him. She was diagnosed with postnatal depression. Fortunately, she has an understanding hubby, and lives in a country where provisions are made for such things. She was fine after weeks of treatment. Now, she's inseparable from her son.

If na naija she dey, I can't imagine what she might have done, or the names peeps would have called her.

byvan03:
OK, so how many years will you plan your own trip? 2, 3, 5.....10years? .

byvan03:
Yesooo, I even made a video of my own. The movement can be terrifying because at some point I was worried that he might put his ass where the head should be . It even made me throw up sometimes and worse when am relaxing. Coco nothing concern me and pregnancy oooooo, soso ego ka ndum choro now . You won't believe that pregnancy scares me now, don't even know how I pulled through with that more than once.

SolexxBarry:
Bad for her but I think she meant no harm,love makes us do step is tins at times

byvan03:
I want to get to my 85th birthday real fast .

byvan03:
Preggy women have a way of fast forwarding dates, seems you love being double and don't want to miss it . I feel like dragging the date forward to November .

Jaquar456:
What kind of irresponsible upbringing is this?
I am so disappointed in Regina Askia. This shows she has not been an exemplary mother
I guess since she shacked up with some Frenchman and had this daughter out of wedlock, her depraved actions are not surprising.
Regina's unsavory past has caught up with her in this daughter.
Prospective baby mama, just as her mother was. Thank God she is not yet working at a strip joint or standing on the roadside.

cruzita:
see why it is good to grow up in naija where we have culture.a woman can't smoke in naija anyhow .But see how a lady is smoking as if her surname is BENSON

SHEEGO2015:
Lol.......... Abeg wats d work of ur husband

Chillisauce:
That's we will start planning now. No excuse

Chillisauce:
Singing. After the reggae play the blues.

Damn. I miss home.

Cococandy Efemenaxy edwife Oya o.buy una buy ticket to byvan03 house this Xmas


After we finish at ifyalways coin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4nT3Od5cxI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4nT3Od5cxI

konvict0111:
You have made an intelligent submission with your post on this subject, but I'm afraid your opinion has been influenced by your own penchant for the disease that is "Feminism".

Life is complex and is hardly defined by any rule, yet, from time to time, we must learn to commit to see beyond our noses, shun every form of sentiments and say the gospel truth no matter who is involved.

No matter the analysis we choose to do with this, a lady with kids from her teenage years must have been wayward in certain respect. I understand that there should be room for improvement in all cases, but we must learn to avoid choices that will damage us in the years and years to come.

I could just go on with my thoughts, but I'm obviously not a big fan of these things.

ancashy:
Is it impossible? who do not know the physical make up or stamina of the 14 yr old, the rate at which kids grow this days,you can see a teenager and greet him or her with Ma or Sir.In this life;anything can happen.

Dexema:
on a final note, this is africa, Nigeria where a considerable chunk of resources for family upkeep is "expected" to be provided by the husband and hence the supporting role played by the wife, I hope you do get my drift, different lands, different laws, practices and ideals.

pcguru1:
I think there's a perception from the ladies, that males can't be raped; because by default some are already suggesting:

1. Seduction
2. He molested her
3. Already making the maid the victim

However if the case were reversed rape would have come naturally.

Dexema:
there is no sexism here just plain reality, if the reverse were the case it would be allowable because the male is supposed to be the MAN in the house, or how does he act his role as a man in the house with no income? by just bleeping her? or haven't we seen cases where husbands lost their jobs and became frustrated thanks to their wives, and by the way I know what I mean by "militarised " women as I have come in contact with many force women and trust me very few of them are submissive and peaceful on the homefront .

Dexema:
hi cococandy from my own point of view the age is the least of the issues on ground, hell I can marry an older mature woman once the love is there. but the main issue is 2 KIDS who are almost adolescents + a militarised woman whose history and background remains hazy, then compare with a 26yr old jobless graduate with very little relationship experience (he has been dating her since he was 22). it doesn't just balance, if the woman truly loves him and she doesn't have any ulterior motive(s) she should free him and look for an older more stable man, btw she's not too old herself.

jaybeyblu:
Exactly! Funny enough my aunt now has 3 boys imagine if their future wives pray the same prayers. lol.

RiloKiley:
The one wey i write neva do una? Which one r u helping the man do? Na wa o.