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Family › Re: Housemaid Arrested For Raping Employer's 14 Year Old Son by cococandy(f): 10:33am On Feb 11, 2016
veeluv2015:
cos it could be that she seduced and not raped
He's underage
It's rape.
Romance › Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by cococandy(f):
OP If you can handle being a step parent, then you can do it.
As long as you're sure your visions align and you're compatible with her.

The only reason people are telling you to run is because of their prejudices against single mothers which stems from sexism and nothing else.
I bet if you were a single lady asking this about a single dad whom you're considering marrying, nobody would see it as taboo. Instead you may even be made to look bad for your unwillingness to jump in and be a perfect step mom for his kids.

So pls don't base your decisions on the opinions borne out of chauvinism.
Rather your real concerns should be in your ability to be a step dad to kids that aren't yours. It's not easy.
But If you believe you can pull it off, then you've nothing to worry about.

A good person is a good person regardless of whether she's a single mom or young girl that has never had a boyfriend.
Ask those who married virgin women and still ended up unhappy or divorced.
Family › Re: Housemaid Arrested For Raping Employer's 14 Year Old Son by cococandy(f): 8:35am On Feb 11, 2016
ancashy:
With the way house helps are treated and seen as animals instead of fellow human beings I will be the least surprised to discover it was the house help that was molested and not the other way.
Molested by who?
The 14yr old?
Family › Re: Housemaid Arrested For Raping Employer's 14 Year Old Son by cococandy(f): 8:35am On Feb 11, 2016
why is the raping put in quote?
Family › Re: Manly Chores That Can Be Done Around The House. by cococandy(f): 8:33am On Feb 11, 2016
Include child care, cleaning and cooking then we will know you're serious. grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:24am On Feb 11, 2016
Akposy:
Cinnamon roll
Swiss roll
Glazed doughnut.

I did not actually make it. It's a vocational course
Nice

So who made them?
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 8:21am On Feb 11, 2016
Instead of her to pray for a good one she's prayed for a dead one. Lol.
Hope she's ready to die before her sons marry? God forbid though. Just using it as rhetoric.

She should have been wise enough to know that everyone can't be bad like her mom who treated her (your aunt's) SILs badly.

I just don't see any sense in such comments and that she made them to you shows she's no different from her mom (your grandma) whom she's trying to avoid in a MIL.

jaybeyblu:
My aunt prayed to marry a man whose mother is dead and she did marry one. her reasons was that she saw how her mom (my grand ma) treated her daughters in law terribly and she wouldn't want that. on the other hand, I love the inspiring stories i read here on wonderful MIL's and i pray to God that i would have a wonderful MIL who would treat me like her daughter despite the past experiences i had. It depends on the individual though like someone said, if you are a good person you are good, MIL or DIL. I for sure know that my mother would be a bad MIL to her future daughters in-law, she is insatiable. and i just hope my brothers stand up for their wives when the time comes because honestly i feel sorry for them already.
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 8:15am On Feb 11, 2016
LewsTherin:
True. Plus I have a great mother-in-law, my Lady and mum get along swimmingly and the percentage of bad MILs to good in the circle of people I find myself in is much smaller. I'v been following this thread since it began and I can not relate at all
thank you
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 4:55am On Feb 11, 2016
That's not possible
Vannywealth:
Hi everyone. I'm really excited this evening. I did a second ultrasound today to know my babies' sexes. Both babies were very active, but baby A was more active. He gave us a very clear view of his genitals. Baby B didn't let us see. I'm just praying it's a girl. But any one it is, I'm too grateful to complain. cheesy cheesy

Ehen! During our prenatal classes today we discussed among other things, superstitious beliefs we've heard regarding pregnancy. That led to our matron saying the two factors that determines who a baby gets to resemble are, genetics and mechanical factor. The mechanical factor she said is, a baby can look like that one person its' mom spends most times looking at during her pregnancy. Some of us asked her how possible can that be. She said it's very possible. And some other women agreed with her. She even sited an example of a black woman married to a black man who gave birth to a baby with all the features of a white child. From it's hair, complexion, eye color et al. When she was asked how come her baby had all those features, she said it was because she stared every day at a photograph of a white man on her office desk. All DNA tests proved that the woman and her husband were the real parents.

So now my question is how possible is this? Does any woman in the house have a first hand experience of it?
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 4:54am On Feb 11, 2016
customised87:
See my baby's bday mate.
. Pls join me in wishing my darling son a HBD. Its his 1st birthday! God bless you dear
he's so cute smiley
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 4:45am On Feb 11, 2016
Miami11:
I think they make up this phrase or watch alot of nollywood movies.
Growing up I never heard any one say this words. Who would say such when they've never met their mother in law.its just ridiculous.
Maybe a few crazy folks might say such but it's not as commonplace as this alarmist forum makes it seem.
Everyone just touts it like they know someone who's told them that.
Sigh undecided
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 11:11pm On Feb 10, 2016
Did you hear them say this with your two ears?
as in were you there when they knelt to say such prayers? Honestly.

I'm asking because a lot of people keep parroting this same comment about how some ladies pray for their MILs to die before they get married and I wonder who says such prayers in the presence of others.
African magic had spoiled a lot of things for reality such that you find hordes of people like you making such accusations when the the truth is that they've never in real life come across someone who let them into their privacy to the extent that they witness them saying such prayers or making such wishes.

They just repeat what they've heard other people say DILs do. undecided

Now I'm not saying there aren't bad DILs. There must be since badness comes in all shapes and sizes but only an insane person would pray for the death of someone they've never met.
The way I keep hearing this same line repeated over and over like its a norm makes me wonder if I've been living under a rock that I don't encounter these multitude of mad ladies that pray for the deaths of MILs they've never met.


dhabeautyjas:
this topic is an African problem. I remember when i was in secondary school, some girls always pray that their mil is dead before they marry, then i do pray for God to meet her alive and she should be my other mum, God does answers prayers.

mil is very nice and straight forward, she is very kind as she loves her son like kilode, that love is transferred to me. she was with me in my first pregnancy a month before i delivered. after i put to bed, 6 weeks, she washed baby and my clothes, cooked for me and makes sure i sleep well. she is God sent.
she always tells me how nice her mil was to her.
I think she is just a good woman cos thats exactly how she is to her other son's wife too. she is a genius. and i always try to make her happy.

ost of these wicked women also had their share of wickedness and they are transfering the agression.
wish all of those with wicked and mean mil will also not turn out to be mean when the time comes.
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 12:32pm On Feb 10, 2016
Pls do what you can and leave the rest.
He's not the one who's pregnant so it's easy for him to say it's not normal to be tired during pregnancy. double sigh undecided

You need all the rest you can get. So try and get it. If not for your sake, for your baby's sake.
olubankemi:
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Politics › Re: Fashola Can’t Run Power Ministry Like He Ran Lagos —CACOL by cococandy(f): 11:59am On Feb 10, 2016
Totally in love with this.
I concur
Politics › Re: SHOCKING: Buhari’s Minister, Mama Taraba Boasting How She Controls The Judiciary by cococandy(f): 9:33am On Feb 10, 2016
Kenai:
Buhari is a rogue himself. The only difference being that he has a holier-than-thou delusion... Oh, and an army of zombies.
Politics › Re: National Assembly Postpones Budget Passing Indefinitely by cococandy(f): 9:27am On Feb 10, 2016
So meanwhile they spend without accounting for it?
Issorait undecided
Politics › Re: DSS At Abuja Home Of Amalate Turner + What They Took Away by cococandy(f): 9:16am On Feb 10, 2016
HtwoOw:
A blog reported this , not the Government , werent you among those fighting for freedom of press? there it is , it happened , it was reported , this has nothing to do with government, Just hope one day your eyes will be cleared
Didn't it happen?
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 8:01pm On Feb 09, 2016
thelish:
My own dey even vex to see me n my hubby eating together or call him honey.she says is disrespect. Na so I start call am brother *** ooo. lol
that's absurd
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 6:44pm On Feb 09, 2016
babythug:
Please does anyone know the name of the plant popularly used to bathe babies that have skin coloration? It's a dark coloured leaf and looks very much like dried hibiscus...

cc: Onegai, Tearoses,cococandy
Sorry dear. I don't.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:43pm On Feb 09, 2016
seangy4konji:
I swear to God..that lady na killa...Na that kind lady i deh find to marry make God give me better money...i
lol cheesy
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:42pm On Feb 09, 2016
mitchelle1989:
Yeahhh!!! My puff puff is finally here.
Thanks to cococandy for posting the receipe
am now creative lol. grin wink
First was moi moi, chicken sauce and this.
Next will be what? Maybe cookies #thinking#
When I put d first batter into the oil, it came out shapeless and I started laughing at my self lol, I re-strategised and used my two first fingers to press it out and dats wat we got. I added fresh pepper and onion.
Yay!
Thumbs up to us. We did it grin
Politics › Re: PHOTO: Angry Virgins Protests Topless In South Africa by cococandy(f): 8:10am On Feb 09, 2016
This whole thread reeks of backwardness.

WTF! undecided
Politics › Re: North Will Never Discover Oil In Chad Basin – Shehu Sani by cococandy(f): 11:47pm On Feb 08, 2016
I hope they probe themselves after wasting all that money
Family › Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by cococandy(f): 11:29pm On Feb 08, 2016
It's not like they don't know sha.

But it makes them feel better to say otherwise so who are we to burst their bubble?

Fanirandele:
Abeg don't mind those guys, they pick whatever part they want from the Bible to suit their evil intents forgetting the same Bible condems adultery. The thing is 9ja women have caught up with them and give as good as they get only they are even better at the game grin. That's why many women turn a blind eye, tehy are also doing their own thing and so don't care wink
Family › Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by cococandy(f): 11:16pm On Feb 08, 2016
I love that it's not all horror stories on this thread.
Truth is that if you're a good MIL except your DIL is crazy, she'll appreciate you.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:04pm On Feb 08, 2016
radiokilla:
lol, updates from peeps like cococandy has me drooling.
smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:04pm On Feb 08, 2016
mubzay:
⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ a lot. I was referring to d pic n recipe u posted above. Will take note.
Will appreciate if u can post recipe for fish or and chicken oven/microwave toast. Thanks
I'll think of something later
Family › Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Feb 08, 2016
While you're right OP,
It is like that for those who want it to be.

If it was only in the case of cheating, it would even be good. There's active oppression of the female gender in Nigeria and only those who don't like the truth claim it is otherwise.
While the others will tell you it is supposed to be so. (According to their God of course) whom they've never seen but believe he endorses such.

Those who the status quo favor will look for every means and reason to ensure it is perpetuated with support form those who it doesn't favor but are too timid to go against the crowd.

That's why the debate fight will always go on until one there's equilibrium or one side gives in. cool
Celebrities › Re: Franca Brown's Househelp Burns Her House by cococandy(f): 10:46pm On Feb 08, 2016
Pls what's the connection between her burnt house and her marital status?
Stupid people undecided

BTW that house help needs mental evaluation.
That's how she will kill somebody someday and claim that a voice in her head called their queen instructed her to do so.

They just leave mad people to roam the streets as normal people.
Lock her up in yabaleft right way.
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 9:17pm On Feb 08, 2016
anumide:
Eeewwww
You just ruined my breakfast!
And this pancakes consumed my time. *crying*
cheesy cheesy funny story sha.
sorry smiley
Politics › Re: Sanusi: Buhari’s FX Policy Encourages Corruption-thecable by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Feb 08, 2016
grin grin
onatisi:
Emefiele isn't the problem here. The cbn governor cannot unilaterally devalue the currency and buhari has said he will not devalue it .so the cbn gov is just doing all he can do to rectify a situation which he can't help. There is no economic policy or frame work on ground. The president has spent over 2months out of the 8 months he has been in power outside Nigeria touring all over. The finance minister is a rookie ,and even if she has any wonderful ideas ,she possibly is scared of saying or carrying them out in other not to be seen as been disloyal or too forward. Look at all the ministers non of them is performing, amaechi goes to the airport every morning to take pictures as if that is where is office is. There is something terribly wrong with this government and it seems no body wants to ho beyond a particular boundary or line
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:48pm On Feb 08, 2016
mubzay:
@cococandy: can this cookie recipe be made n a microwave oven?
Also kindly hlp tourch light this ques? Can I bake cake n meat pie in a microwave oven?
Pls kindly hlp with microwave oven recipes if u av. ⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ alot
Honestly i don't know cookies.

I do know that microwave tends to make your baking results dry and tough.
So maybe you can do a cupcake in the microwave if you're going to eat it immediately.
But you can't make a full size cake in the microwave. The center won't cook right.

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